Hi all,

I'm curious how you handle this.

Basically, the women I've dated recently all have been taking things really slowly with me, and made it clear that they are looking for something serious.

I'm 33, and not quite ready to settle down, but mostly because I haven't dated all that much in the past and really would like to sleep with more women so I don't have any regrets.

The problem, I'm in this predicament where I don't want to mislead women, but I also know that my odds of getting laid are around 0% if I disclose this information.

How do you approach this?

I generally just try to tell women that I'm just going with the flow and don't want to overthink it, and want to see where it naturally leads. However, for some (well, most) of these women, I know that's a complete lie and there's a 0% chance I'd ever last long term with them.

Some might say to just find women that only want something casual, but in my experience that's rather difficult to do, and now that I'm in my 30's it's even worse.

Thoughts?