Was hit on by a colleague [f/20s], but I [m/20s] didnt do anything. Since then shes been cold/not hit on me. How do I turn this around?

totheseatothesea · 2017-12-02T14:16:07+00:00

Always remember, don't shit where you eat, unless you are ok with the consequences.

symptomunknown · 2017-12-02T16:47:15+00:00

finger her in the break room

2017-12-02T14:13:38+00:00

Go hit on her

2017-12-02T16:11:10+00:00

You remind me of Andy from the office

Ruze_ · 2017-12-02T16:23:40+00:00

Sometimes people aren't in a great mood. Maybe it has nothing to do about you.

Try starting a conversation, if she isn't responding too well, don't give up just yet. Maybe you can try 3 questions and if she still doesn't open up you can just walk away.

admittingsecrets · 2017-12-02T18:43:33+00:00

Maybe she took it as a 'I'm not interested' and thus is not willing to waste her time on the chase. You need to a. Make up your mind about what you want your relationship to be. And then b. Ask her if she would be free after work for drinks sometime with the purpose of explaining yourself/changing her viewpoint of 'not interested' to 'interested'.

Title	Was hit on by a colleague [f/20s], but I [m/20s] didnt do anything. Since then shes been cold/not hit on me. How do I turn this around?
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Upvotes	7
Comments	8
Date	December 2, 2017 2:02 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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