Any tips on seduction over Christmas break?

Curls4TheGirls · 2012-12-06T18:23:32+00:00

I'm long past my days of having a holiday break, but this seems like an excellent opportunity to reframe yourself. If you play it right, you have a huge advantage with every girl in the room. Because they remember you as a pretty decent guy (even if not a sexual object), you'll have a whole huge reserve of "good guy" capital to work with. You won't have to put anyone at ease because they already "know you."

BUT, it's been a while since you've seen them, so there's room to project yourself as someone new on top of their existing memory. Emphasize and be confident about the things that are different since last you saw them. If you've invested in personal style, look especially goddamn spiffy and put together. If you're in better shape, don't be afraid to wear something a little more flattering of your physique. If you're more confident and outgoing, go up and initiate conversations with everyone there, even the people you didn't like. Make amends and build new bridges and be genuine --- be your best self.

The reaction you want is, "Holy shit, was that jeffsal? I forgot how cool he is."

Knowing the girls can be a liability, too, since they will assume you're not interested (you never made a move before, right?) So be extra forward. Kino early and kino often, especially if you've never touched her before. You're allowed to do that now - enough time has passed that it won't be weird because you're in a new frame. If you ask for a girl's digits, make your romantic intentions as obvious as possible. You do not just want to "hang out," and you sure as shit do not want to "catch up on old times." Talk about the future, talk about the girl, but do not--DO NOT--start to reminisce. It will break your new frame.

In short, build off of their existing memories of you, but don't let them see you as the same person - because you're not the same person.

IANAPUA_Yet · 2012-12-06T17:57:43+00:00

How does one capitalize on all this in only a few short days?

By acting on it. Standard game applies, just accelerate some of your time tables.

leodoestheopposite · 2012-12-06T20:26:06+00:00

A thoughtful present and presentation will get you far

captshady · 2012-12-06T19:33:38+00:00

The approach should be seriously easy.

Title	Any tips on seduction over Christmas break?
Author	jeffsal
Upvotes	3
Comments	4
Date	December 6, 2012 5:44 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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