Just some guy needing some advice

Date_Quality_Women · 2018-04-12T05:51:45+00:00

You 90% of the time gotta put the work in son!

How do you make money come to you? (gotta put work in before to even have a chance)

How do you make friends come to you? (gotta show you have value and are someone they would want to know = you putting in the work beforehand)

How do you make fitness come to you? (can't dude... you either gotta go put in the work or just watch your diet and be ok probably being skinny)

Nothing comes from no work dude. If you put in the work to your fashion, fitness, and interactions with people outside of the women you're interested in THEN they might see that and MIGHT come to you. But, either way, you gotta put the work in!

GuyFromDaStore · 2018-04-12T05:47:54+00:00

Interact from afar. Eye contact, smiles, open and approachable body positions. Girls see cues like that and if they see it as a slam dunk that you want her to approach, she will approach. Be warned though, thats a huge move for her, when she does approach you have to do the rest.

Smooth21 · 2018-04-12T14:12:20+00:00

You're the man. You are going to do the initiating.

In the perfect world, you will approach a girl, get her number, and then go on a date.

After that date, assuming it went well, and she's into you, she may start contacting you. By the time you've gone out several times, she should be doing most of the pursuing.

It's our job as men to get the ball rolling. Once that ball is rolling, our job gets a lot easier. All we have to do is not fuck it up or get needy/over invested.

suffering_synt4x · 2018-04-15T09:16:50+00:00

Sorry yo say, but you'll be making most of the first moves, and when you don't, be prepared for a different kind of woman you may not be ready to handle properly.

That's the gender game, simply embrace and accept it.

Instead of always going in blind, look for eye contact. Some women will make repeated eye contact, which is great... Use that. Other women look once, and never look again. That's either them not interested, or it's them playing a game... The game is common and has been going on for ages, it's basically look to show interest, and wait for the man to approach. Be wary of these women, as they are more prone to playing games. When starting out, the much smoother ride is the girl who keeps looking. Be aware that different social behaviour like this allows you to pigeon hole what type of girl you're dealing with before you even approach, so you can tune your behaviour or at least be prepared for a certain type of girl before even talking.

Title	Just some guy needing some advice
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Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	April 12, 2018 3:56 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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