GF of 3 months, no sex, but wants to be with me?

fuck-fuck-fuck-fuck- · 2018-08-02T18:45:50+00:00

“Abusive relationships” in the past == she’d suck their dicks daily and do anal, but they wouldn’t commit.

She doesn’t want sex... WITH YOU. You’re the “feel safe” guy. If ever there’s a time she leaves early because of something the next day, she’s leaving to go suck off one of her abusers.

You can’t dread someone who doesn’t want your dick in the first place. Well, she may feel dread about losing her emotional tampon that probably pays for stuff, but that’s about it.

futianze · 2018-08-02T18:44:43+00:00

Why have you been in a relationship for 3 months with no sex? This should be the honeymoon phase where you can fuck her in the ass and then finish down her throat. Genuinely ask yourself this. What about her makes you stay? Or, more importantly, what about yourself is keeping you tied down like this?

chachaChad · 2018-08-02T18:53:27+00:00

Nope. She's broken and will NEVER be comfortable with sex. That sucks and I'm sorry for her but do not sign up for that.

Not everyone that was abused will be like this but it takes someone who can work on themselves to overcome these things. You've given no indication that she is working on this at all.

You need to realize that you and she just are not compatible sexually. You may like her. Heck, you may love her but she's never going to fulfill your sexual needs. If you want to give up sex, continue with her. If you like sex and want it to be part of a relationship, move on.

Stop with the deadlines. She's already shown you how it's going to be. Break up with her and go find someone your compatible with. She's not one in a million. She's one of a million.

FeralRed · 2018-08-02T19:03:30+00:00

You just wasted three months.

Three Months of your life.

Why?

Cut that shit off today. Go find a girl that wants to fuck you. There are thousands of them.

Dread? She has you wrapped around her finger without any output on her part.

You've given her THREE MONTHS of your time and attention. What have you received for that commitment?

She's not going to fuck you. Even if she did, do you think it's going to get any better? Ever?

You need to read Fuck Yes. Why would you keep giving and not getting?

EVERY girl has had "abusive relationships". It's her hamster overwriting reality to fit her narrative. And you fell for it.

She's a lost cause. Even if she fucks you after the party she's a dented can. Leave her on the shelf and pick up a new shiny one.

Chad1738 · 2018-08-02T19:07:15+00:00

You should have ghosted after the third date since she never put out...At this point you are nothing more than an orbiter and an emotional tampon to her (notice how she talks to you about her abusive relationships and problems).

Start gaming other girls at the party and give her nothing more than a friendly wave while you are there.

fuck-fuck-fuck-fuck- · 2018-08-02T19:46:19+00:00

Pussy is only worth the lowest amount it has ever been paid for. If she had ONS in the past or “”abusive”” relationships where she had sex early on, you must feel really special that she lets you wait 4 months without having sex. You are getting Chad’s leftovers who she did all the crazy sexual stuff with but you get to enjoy her company, right? You are the true winner, my friend. Now tell me, when are you getting your cuckold tattoo?

DadOnDabs · 2018-08-02T19:59:10+00:00

The sex will never come. Read Rollo's post on The Rational Male about it. Leave her and skip the party.

IncognitoMaster91 · 2018-08-02T20:53:47+00:00

Next. Why would you wait 3 months for sex? What happens afterwards? You think she will put out like a whore?

Exodus230 · 2018-08-02T19:23:11+00:00

Get out of there now, she has issues she is yet to rectify.

CalvinRichland · 2018-08-02T22:52:42+00:00

Forget the no sex issue that isn't the problem. The problem is she is damaged goods.

Two_kids_in_a_coat · 2018-08-02T23:12:48+00:00

So she’s not a girlfriend. She’s a friend, you’re her orbiter. Dread doesn’t work if she doesn’t desire you.

Bruchibre · 2018-08-03T05:55:03+00:00

What's an abusive relationship? all guys are assholes kind? so now she's vetting you big time? Is she giving you some "I'm not like that anymore"?

[deleted] · 2018-08-03T07:59:48+00:00

How have you been reading trp for 4 months and still let this happen? I’m honestly confused, you’ve ignored everything ever written on here.

Move on, you’ve already wasted 3 months, don’t waste anymore.

Ceroe · 2018-08-03T08:09:18+00:00

If you think this girl has gone 3 months without sex a and made YOU go on 3 months without sex with her and y'all dating, you are the emotional tampon. Dreading her won't work at this point, it will be pity sex to keep you orbiting. She's getting dick on the side from someone who isn't with her bullshit.

Title	GF of 3 months, no sex, but wants to be with me?
Author	GetFitGetHit
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Comments	30
Date	August 2, 2018 6:41 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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