If a girl (who’s still not your girlfriend) is open on going on a trip to a foreign city/state/country with just the two of you, does that automatically mean she’s also open on having sex with you? 🤔

freddymerckx · 2020-05-16T00:02:23+00:00

You are being used dumbass and she is getting a free trip

myheadsonfire69 · 2020-05-16T00:36:50+00:00

That sounds about right

Bn0x · 2020-05-16T01:34:19+00:00

You are basically being used if she brother zoned you, she knows that by barely letting you touch her & stuff that it'll let her get away w things.

Only take her if you actually enjoy her company but by the sounds of it you don't since you just thinking about sex. Sex should not be the endgoal that's why she has you on her fingers.

StephenDawg · 2020-05-16T01:45:16+00:00

Ay, these other posters might be right. But for some flavor:

You don't mention who is paying for this. Is she paying for herself, as this is, so far, a platonic relationship?

If she's paying her way and you want to go on a trip, I say take her up on it. A friend once told me, and I don't know how true it is, that if you go on a trip with someone... some sh** is going to happen...

Cautious optimism.

Insaneflirt_max · 2020-05-16T02:08:37+00:00

That moment when you use the word sexcapades seriously

quinnmcd · 2020-05-16T02:12:28+00:00

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