spam approaching is not seduction. staying in a set is seduction. promise me, say it out loud, "i will stay in set" say it 3 times and you will see magic as brilliant realizations enter your mind when you act on it.

you ever seen the guy hit the gym really inconsistently, and he's always 'starting over' and going through the pain? he's making the whole experience 10 times harder for himself. some of those ideas turn into beliefs. and the same goes for people trying to quit smoking or drinking. they stay in the initial phase and think "fuck this is the game? its painful"

and it very much isnt lol

side note: 'staying in set' can open options of having a relationship. having a relationship is the self help your looking for to solve your problems. Seduction is not self help. relationships build connections, seductions draws you away from them. too many guys are looking for confidence where its completely depleted. confidence is found in relationship to something.