So this girl I have been going out with 2 nights in a row now (tonight and last night), each time she mentions that she has a man and that she is in love with him but obviously they are not together (officially a couple). Anyways both nights she keeps mentioning him and says that she won't be going home with me.

So how should I approach this? We only went out tonight as well because she texted me in the morning and I just thought why not just do another dinner since I had fun last night and we got along well.

What do you guys think? This guys she has been seeing they only meet a month ago when she went back home and he is in the military and isn't allowed to travel abroad.