Leader groups and social dynamics

SourMolar · 2013-10-28T13:11:06+00:00

You're idea sounds great, but so as to keep things open and available for people to learn from and join in on, would it be a bad idea to make a weekly or even daily thread for I guess general talk? Or just use the IRC chat? It sounds great, just seems like there's paths available already

donit · 2013-10-28T14:55:05+00:00

I'm all for bouncing ideas, but I think a lot of people on here are mainly interested in discussing things that are already known, not building upon new (and possibly wrong) ideas. They are very concerned about making a mistake by learning something or saying something that has any chance of being wrong, so they tend to suppress their own ideas and downvote anything new or different to protect against that, which also protects against getting any breakthroughs either.

I imagine when Mystery first began posting his ideas online, he was probably ripped to shreds for having idiotic ideas that didn't make any sense and weren't congruent with things that were common knowledge at the time. That's how new ideas are generally received: you either already know it, or you think it's stupid. People almost never take the curious approach and say "that sounds strange, I would like to dig into this and find out why". They just take a polarizing stand and that's that.

Just like in baseball, the careful batter has fewer strikeouts, but by being careful he shuts out any possibility of getting a home run. So I am always up for hearing any "stupid" ideas you can think of. The wrong ones will always work themselves out through discussion, and the right ones are hidden treasure that I think would be equally stupid to miss out on.

Heizenbrg · 2013-10-28T20:45:52+00:00

Great post Leo, I hope it gets up there. I strongly agree with social dynamics, as most,including me complain a lot about it, perhaps failing to see that seduction should come after self improvement, as well as building a strong social circle. Unless its a one night stand, I find it hard that a woman wouldn't get creeper out by a loner, even though he might be a player.
May I ask what kind of business you do? 21 is awfully young, but then I'm 20 so I don't know jack shit about business, apart from basic knowledge in macro.
Is there a seddit IRL? Should we start one?

182fooz · 2013-10-31T04:19:43+00:00

Okay guys I have messaged the mods, and will be making a new email soon; hopefully get this set up by the end of the week.

Title	Leader groups and social dynamics
Author	182fooz
Upvotes	19
Comments	11
Date	October 28, 2013 6:11 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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