First off, I've made some fantastic transformations in the last 9 months thanks to r/seduction and the community. Before I was barely able to talk to a girl. Now, I find that I can get girls to come to bed with me when I hardly try. However, all this great knowledge has come with a price.. From day 1 my goal with r/seduction has always been to improve myself socially and to find a great girlfriend but whenever I ask girls on dates or commit to something long term I can never accomplish this.

My opinion as to why this isn't working is because I portray myself as a player and this dissuades girls from dating me. My question to you, r/seduction, is how would a known player go about making his intentions clear to someone that he wants to settle down and start a relationship with her?