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The Science of Mating: How to keep a woman interested for life (In depth guide)

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March 14, 2014

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Title	The Science of Mating: How to keep a woman interested for life (In depth guide)
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	0
Comments	13
Date	March 14, 2014 10:08 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/20fr2e/the_science_of_mating_how_to_keep_a_woman/
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[–]RandianHero 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

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[–]RandianHero 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

You know, before a week ago I never knew that this forum, let alone Reddit existed. I decided to make an account after I read some of the threads in the best post of all time section because while I think there has been some great information posted on here, the full explanation of why attraction works the way it does didn't seem to be brought up at all. I think the first three threads I made did just that, they were intended to be completely "grounded in reality". That's the point, to explain mating in a realistic way and not just post some tryhard "pick up artist" garbage like I see so many people on the internet unfortunately do.

I'm doing the same thing here, so not sure how what I've said in this thread could be nonsense, women mate through their emotions, that is factual. Don't have to be a sociopath to use that to your advantage so while I agree that there is no need for manipulation, there is still nothing wrong with some emotional button pressing. If you still aren't sure about then you can test everything I've said here for yourself. Don't take my word for it, just go ahead and see what happens. The results will speak for themselves.

[–]RandianHero 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Seriously, man? You don't see anything wrong with intentionally dumping someone and yo-yo-ing them back just to press their buttons and elicit an emotional response -- something you could do with literally countless other actions? You've opted to do the most drama-riddled, painful, shitty thing possible to a person in the hope that it'll make them desperate enough to crawl back to you. How do you not understand what an absolute bullshit thing that is to do to a person?

It's fucking mind-boggling. You've either gotta be a complete sociopath with no empathy whatsoever, or just so completely dense in regards to basic human decency that you have no clue just how immensely shitty a thing that is to do to someone.

Fuck, man. The results will speak for themselves. And those results will either be a girl telling you to go fuck yourself, or having a fractured, desperate woman on your hands with the volatility of sweaty dynamite. You know the old saying, "don't stick your dick in crazy"? You're creating crazy by pulling this kind of shit. And if you honestly don't grasp that concept, you're clearly not experienced enough to be dispensing advice to anyone.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Wow, you just took what I said and blew it way out of proportion. Using understanding of a woman's emotions to your advantage does not necessarily make you an unempathetic sociopath, that's absurd. I would even go so far as to say its the opposite, by doing this you are giving her the emotional fulfillment she might have never gotten otherwise, I can't think of anything more affectionate.

You break up with her, make her give you a reason why you should take her back, and when you do get back together it makes her even happier than she was before now that she can finally be with you again. Women want to be wanted, by making them prove themselves to you all you are doing is showing that if they want you to be with them they are going to have to work for it. Women crave that kind of emotional pleasure and this is a great way to give that to her.

Could you consider this method fucked up in some ways? Maybe, but the psychology of mating isn't about morality, its about finding a male with the traits of a suitable mate. Whether you disagree with me or not, you can't disagree with biology.

[–]RedPens 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Alright. Let me give it a try.

Question: Why are human beings attracted to each other?

Hypothesis: Since the beginning of our species spanning back to the caveman days, men and women have looked for the traits of a suitable mate to produce the best offspring. Men would look at a womans breast and ass as indicaters that she could safely nurture and carry his young, and women would look for the signs of a dominant leader among her pack, someone she could feel would protect her and her offspring from possible danger. This has been ingrained on a subconscious level in us ever since and still determines today what human beings or specifically women in this case, look for in a potential mate.

While that is just the basis, the real determining factor of female attraction is based on hormones. For women this is the case because of the hormone Estrogen, which produces a massive amount of heightened emotions to the point where they will use emotions over logic in the decision making process. Like stated earlier, women subconsciously look for the traits of a suitable male mate and don't even realize it, they automatically on an instinctual level try to find a male who they think is capable of protecting them and their potential offspring.

Conclusion: With that it can be determined that female attraction is based primarily on an instinctual need to find a male with dominant personality traits that could bare her offspring.

The panel of experts can consist of you and your man "Jack". I couldn't think of anyone more qualified. You can also go ahead and test the experiment portion as well if you wouldn't be so kind, oh but don't worry, since your so sure that I'm wrong nothing should happen anyway.

[–]deviantkrug 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link