I'd been planning on sitting next to/talking to a girl in one of my classes today. Before, I felt myself getting anxious and tried to calm myself down because it isn't that big of a deal. I entered the room and saw her alone, left the room to motivate myself because I was nervous, came right back in and two of her friends had sat down and she was talking to them, so I sat somewhere else. Do you have any tips or tools to make yourself "just do something"? I can picture me doing these things but when the moment comes I fail. I'm tired of failure and not being able to take the leap and I want to try these things that I know I should do.