I've been putting in serious work at the gym, and I've noticed some women at my fraternity's parties checking me out. I don't know how to escalate on the dancefloor. Is the idea to socialize,make a connection, and then suggest to go dance? Or should I be finding girls on the dancefloor? It seems like they are not receptive/with their friends for the latter. It's a weird environment when half the people are getting nasty while the other girls are in little clumps being exclusive