Is a certain amount of objectification/dehumanizing of women necessary to do this?

TangoZulu · 2018-03-27T17:53:10+00:00

Get off of Tumblr and stop letting a small percentage of women dictate how you "can" and "can't" interact with 51% of the population.

It's not a matter of having to view women as "under you", it's that you're already viewing them as "above you" instead of just being equal. We're all human with our own individual wants and needs; neither sex is innately above or below the other. Once you truly internalize that, you'll realize that individual rejections are just that, one individual's opinion. Nothing more, nothing less. And certainly nothing to take too personally or seriously.

ThrowawayPUA · 2018-03-27T20:00:26+00:00

This is a common misconception about pickup. We are not objectifying women, we are objectifying their behavior, separating it from the woman. This allows us to study and understand interpersonal behavior in general, without attaching it to a specific woman.

WIA20XX · 2018-03-27T18:54:18+00:00

Calls a chick a 6, but still wonders about objectification.

Newsflash, reducing these unique snowflakes to numbers is dehumanizing.

Come to the dark side.

Lambdal7 · 2018-03-28T06:56:13+00:00

If you mean by objectifying thinking of her in a sexual way and letting her know that, yes.

That's isn't something about above or below though per se, though it does put you in a dominant position, because you are the selector, you pick her.

Women are passive, men are active.

Theozzierake · 2018-03-27T17:38:58+00:00

Nope. Thats a horrible way of thinking. I suspect the "rejections" are because you thinking this way. If you are using "direct" openers. Then you should be GIVING genuine compliments that you honestly believe. You are giving value not taking by talking to people

Title	Is a certain amount of objectification/dehumanizing of women necessary to do this?
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Date	March 27, 2018 5:29 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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