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WIA20XX/r/seduction10/05/19 01:47 PM
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Emotion Intelligence - Daniel Goleman
/r/RedPillBooks06/03/23 03:28 PM
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I'm sure you can find all of those courses for free via torrents or other ways. PUA material is some of the stuff that gets pirated the most. Before you put your hard earned money down, most of Julien's and Tyler's RSD era stuff is about inner game. (Todd is technique, Old Tyler (pre RSD) is all old school technique, Madison is lifestyle/structure, Luke is social circle, Derek is "money", Max?..., Jeffy is personality/humor, and I'm not sure about Alex, Hyde, Brad, and the Europe guy). Pimp is t…
/r/RedPillBooks11/02/23 09:27 PM
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Would love to see some reviews.
/r/RedPillBooks08/11/22 01:51 PM
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Probably a lot of cliches and recycling stuff from the Manosphere.
/r/RedPillBooks21/06/22 04:16 PM
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Young Obama is a good example of what the come up looks like, and Obama is the preeminent example of a high value black man. David L. Steward - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David\_Steward Robert Smith - https://www.vistaequitypartners.com/about/team/robert-f-smith/ Troy Taylor - https://www.blackenterprise.com/troy-taylor-black-business-coca-cola/ Useful to the group - The Democrats call in Honolulu Slim when it comes to fund raise or to push some of their political agenda. At a lower level, wi…
/r/RedPillBooks10/05/22 04:37 PM
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>But i'm often left having to rely on various outergame The outer game - the psychological tactics - will beat out the looks/money/status - in the right environment. You can have 1% level verbal game and still struggle with getting attention if your wingman looks like Brad Pitt, if you're at an EDM festival. >Do you think him being so big and tall is a factor in his apparent success? For 2 reasons Tall guys can have the opposite of Napoleon complex - rather than making up for shortcomings, the f…
/r/RedPillBooks04/12/21 10:41 PM
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I feel very powerless in the majority of interactions when the girls just don't seem sexually interested despite my best efforts, Probably an issue during the attraction phase. (attraction, trust, arousal = attraction, comfort, seduction) ​ Whereas i'm not yet convinced it actually 'works at all (although you do say 'assuming it works' so maybe you're not necessarily sold on it either?) JMULV I'm the shit see girl say I'm a dj some words After party deal with objections tight logistics bang He s…
/r/RedPillBooks03/12/21 06:40 PM
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>Can I ask what you think of jmulv? I don't like his material, his outlook, or his infields. Those first few YT vids he was putting out, drunk on Scotch - told me all I needed to know about him. I kept checking for him, but he never changed. He keeps trying to clean up his image, but he's an obvious dark triad type. His written material could easily be swapped in for how to sell a Time Share. And if you know his backstory - (google him), what he was convicted for is directly in line with what he…
/r/RedPillBooks03/12/21 03:08 PM
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That's a big question - but most of the "action" has moved to Online Dating and Social Media. So most of the advancement in pick up/seduction has been in that area. Mild stuff like - Photos, Profile building, platform messaging, text message optimization. Based Zeus and Playing With Fire talk about this stuff. The current model for bagging chicks is basically to be Dan Bilzerian Lite. Wild stuff like - switching IMEIs on your phone, geo-spoofing, bait and switch for the algorithm (model pic for …
/r/RedPillBooks02/12/21 02:12 PM
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Nobody writes books anymore. Everything changed when pickup/rp moved to social media and youtube. And with social media, tinder, dudes not doing a lot of approaches, and girls not knowing how to be approached by a stranger - you gotta read all the old stuff with a grain of salt. From the same era of the Book of Pook 16 Commandments of Poon https://heartiste.org/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ As far as I know, Rossi (aka Chateau Heartiste) never wrote a full book. The Iron Rules Rollo Tommasi …
/r/RedPillBooks01/12/21 04:50 PM
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Obviously you need to prep yourself, screen the girl, and lead the relationship - but her staying with you is UP TO HER. And no amount dread game, competition anxiety, bed room skills, dollar bills, or babies is going to MAKE her stay with you happily. She just chooses to stay with you. If Will Smith and Brad Pitt can't keep chicks in check, why do you think you can? Jada and Angelina, and countless others will just leave (or step out) if their constantly changing emotional needs are not met. No…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 05:39 PM
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>Finally, having kids only complicates things with these women. If she has the 'right' looks and personality, she would never become the boring housewife. The issue here is one of emotional escalation. With no kids to care for, she's only going to look out for #1. And if you're not climbing the social and economic ladder - AND she's attractive and popular - she should leave. Why should she waste her time and her good baby making years on a guy that's not going anywhere? Love? lol. Harsh lessons.…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:07 PM
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Later, I decided to wife her up, as a way to get this girl out of her crazy & oppressive family. Mistakes 1 and 2 and 3. Wife, help her, removing the social constraint. If you're in some foreign land, and you're pulling chicks off with your SMV or your game - do not leave with her. Girls are like water, they take the shape of the vessel. Take a conservative chick out of her world, she'll keep going for more freedom. She wanted to become an IG model, so we studied together how she could achieve a…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:58 AM
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Confessions of an Advertising Man - David O'Gilvy. Anyone that doesn't think women can be controlled, manipulated, or seduced - doesn't participate in the global economy. American women - Make 40% of the income to hear them tell it, but drive 70-80% of the purchasing decisions. https://www.inc.com/amy-nelson/women-drive-majority-of-consumer-purchasing-its-time-to-meet-their-needs.html More than half! Women are telling men what to do with HIS MONEY. Advertisers, marketers, preachers, and politici…
/r/RedPillBooks18/06/21 02:35 AM
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Are you approaching chicks with any type of structure? Any kind of plan? It doesn't sound like it. And by not being consistent, you aren't figuring out what's wrong with your rap.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:08 AM
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If you follow the idea that "alpha is a frame of mind", then pretty much any biography of a successful man will do. In general, the more trials and tribulations, the better lesson it is. If you follow the idea that "alpha is an actual person that leads men" - you need to do something other than read books. Coach little league, work your way up to assistant manager at Mcdonald's, whatever - but managing people, having them look to you for guidance, having to correct them, fire them - is very diff…
/r/askTRP08/06/21 04:07 AM
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>little to no emotional baggage/ptsd from past relationships You must not deal with a lot of women. College freshman are still dealing with "trauma" from their high school years. Too many on these guys are look for hidden gems, when the reality is that no matter how pure and virginal you find the chick - you're still going to have to TURN HER INTO A GOOD PARTNER.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 07:17 PM
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If you don't think you can find a girl as good as she is to you, you have no reason to be in a relationship, cause you're going into it scared. Otherwise, just call it an LTR and move on with your life.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 01:15 PM
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There are a lot of things, but if you're working with a bunch of grey beards, none of them are going to open up a space for you - because they have their own fiefdoms to run. You often have to go outside of the organization - either bring in new business or have an offer from a rival - to get more money and more credit. The younger organizations are much better than the older ones, but the typical corporate set up is full of cliques in a very rigid hierarchy. The fastest path to the C-suite, is …
/r/askTRP24/05/21 03:25 PM
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Sharing your Passion is a good way to screen out girls that are not good for you LONG TERM. But it's dumb as hell SHORT TERM. This whole passion thing was popular with Mark Manson and Max from RSD, but it was never good pick up.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 12:22 AM
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How do you get over the need to tell her that she hurt you, when she is acting oblivious and gaslighting you? You don't need to "get over the need" You tell her, "hey that was messed up and that hurt me" The real question is why have you not done that? The RP doesn't teach you to be passive aggressive. That's feminine. The RP teaches men that women are not loyal to you, they're only loyal to themselves. And sometimes what you want is not what she wants. And that's okay. You're not a spoiled chil…
/r/askTRP19/05/21 06:03 PM
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This is basically where the Red Pill in it's current version as well as PUA gets the concept of value wrong, as if it were some objective measurable thing. I honestly don't think you can get out of this mental quick sand because you've committed so much of your ego and identity to this concept. But I urge you to watch Casino. Sharon Stone is the woman with high sexual market place value. Deniro has high status, high resources, but he's basically put Sharon on a Pedestal Pesci is the hard chargin…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:40 AM
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Real Rap - 1) It's women bitching about Chads/Tyrones/Vijay's/ETC, not the nice guys that would have treated them well and did all the things they're asking. If you have the stomach, you'll basically learn what a chick will do, what she will endure, to be with a guy that she wants to bang/respects. HE KNOWS WHAT HE'S DOING HE DOESN'T CARE 2) They Gaslight each other. Let's tell the absolute worst possible dating stories, and all of them just get angrier and angrier. ​ "My gynecologist told me th…
/r/askTRP16/05/21 06:35 AM
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The baseline is hypergamy. The baseline is feminism. The baseline is the "I don't need no man narrative". Those things have been happening since The Pill. When a woman can bang who she wants and has enough money to live on - her primitive biology rules. And if society not only gets rid of the gates, but encourages her? That's the "Sex and The City" girl from the 90's and early 00's. Those chicks were already being openly hypergamous. But they were only competing for local men. The recent shift s…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 05:14 PM
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Guys that are "cold" are really 1) Still in their anger phase 2) Consuming "red meat" content to stay angry 3) Producing "red meat" content for profit. For a lot of dudes, once they get introduced to this space, they leave their blue pill prison for a red pill prison.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:37 PM
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It sounds like you're in the analysis/paralysis stage of understanding. Phase 1 - the 100 approaches The first phase of understanding, direct game, indirect old school pua, and long game/aka what Greene is talking about - starts with guys doing the 100 approach mission, which should take 2 weekends if you live in a big city. Spoiler Alert - Newbs being direct about sexual interest to random girls rarely works at the beginning, When you go straight up at a girl with direct sexual interest, the va…
/r/askTRP08/05/21 06:05 PM
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Self Validation is one part, but she's trying to convince you that YOU should date her. "I'm a hot commodity, and you should submit to me, chase me, etc" There's probably some more stuff going on, but I read it as a "cry for help" more than anything else.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 05:30 PM
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Salute for keeping it real.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 05:28 PM
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Needs more context. Is this someone in your social circle, or a just a random dude coming up to you while you're out a Chick Fil A?
/r/askTRP05/05/21 05:28 PM
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This is that new Red Pill talking. Use dread! Always improve yourself! Screen for religious girls.. Basically a lot of new dudes in this community and a lot of gurus on YT these days are expecting to pick a 1) good chick and 2) that she will remain that way until he dies. It's like they've never been in a relationship as a red pill man, they just think about relationships from their old blue pill perspective. They're entirely unrealistic. Everyone wants to lead, and no one wants to manage. Every…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 06:59 PM
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With chicks that you haven't met in real life and meet online, Say nothing. Don't say a god damned word. Zero. Don't match/unmatch. ZERO. Her words went into the ether, no effect, as if she never said them. Add her to your optimized social media The Social Media thing is 24/7 advertising. But that means 1) you need good social media habits, 2) you also need to have a life worth capturing. If you have value, she will see it. She will sell herself on it. That's how advertising works. Some people s…
/r/askTRP29/04/21 02:49 PM
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You'll look thirsty
/r/askTRP23/04/21 02:57 PM
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Let her know you're going out to something cool and she can meet you there. She'll come out if she wants to bang, but it won't be a "dick appointment". You really need more plates though
/r/askTRP22/04/21 02:54 PM
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Option B. Never show that you're pressed for her attention. Your game at this point of good enough to start a "jealousy plotline". Social circle situations like this are ripe for a girl's imagination to wonder about you, especially when she witnesses social proof and pre-selection. I hate long game scenarios like this, but rememberthe relationship with your guy friend is way more important than the one with this random broad. But you don't need to go full force with the tech, just be an attracti…
/r/askTRP22/04/21 02:51 PM
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Spring Time is here and everyone is looking for the next partner. Happens every year. Pandemic/Lock Down has been eased back as well.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 05:26 PM
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Offline Chambers of Commerce Established Political Organizations - Blue or Red, whoever is running it is usually rich, because poor blues and reds don't have time. Trade Shows and Industry Conventions - Especially the after hours events after the main event. Exotic Car Meets, Art Auctions, Golf Tournies. etc - aka rich people hobbies. But you have to be a peer or a superior in those circles to really meet people. The riff raff shows up, but they can't really make connects. Charity Events - Real …
/r/askTRP15/04/21 02:46 PM
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You're supposed to be running game. She should be following your lead, not the other way around. You need to give her a frame that's better than she has for her to walk into, not meet her where she is. Instead, with your display above, you're accepting her frame. The whole idea of game is that you're taking over her emotional world, not letting her current mood dictate your actions. She's playing "dumb" as a defense, and it worked, because she never took your lead.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 08:10 PM
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She expected you to agree with her, not disagree. (And it was very much a douchebag thing to say dumping on her home area). So the way you bring that back is to state "We are so different, we'd never get along.. how do you feel about pineapple on pizza? What's your favorite color...". So you're setting up a few things here. The "we" Looking for commonalities. A frame where she answers to you, not just answers your question. A little game, where you keep coming up with questions. And then as she …
/r/askTRP14/04/21 07:19 PM
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If you're in an urban context where girls are free to date who they choose, the Red Pill applies, 100%. Any type of dance class is a socially acceptable display of sexuality. So if chicks show up to that, on a deep level, they're hypergamous. When a chick has to live with her parents, can't move about freely, can't talk to guys, can't drive, can't attend college, can't divorce, - when she has zero social freedom - the red pill applies less, maybe 80%. Even when men manage to lock women down, the…
/r/askTRP12/04/21 02:39 PM
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I'm in my late 4Os I'm totally relying on online RN There is your answer
/r/askTRP12/04/21 12:15 PM
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You did the right thing. Had a homie that said, "The first time I lick a chick's pussy is after the SECOND TIME she sucked my dick." She's got to be enthusiastic about serving the king FROM JUMP. You gotta build that "jump his bones" energy into a broad WELL BEFORE you get to the bedroom though. Anytime something blows up in your face, it's because you didn't do the groundwork in the previous step. In the moment, you had a few other options 1) Simp, bang her out, and continue with the status quo…
/r/askTRP12/04/21 12:01 AM
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You're basically trying to micro manage her behavior to soothe your own insecurity. That's the big problem. In terms of tech, I'm wrongfully assuming you have some verbal game. Next time you're stuffing your face at Chili's, tell the waitress she has good energy. Let that innocent compliment mess with your girl's head
/r/askTRP02/04/21 06:32 PM
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She will move heaven and earth...but if you take the passive route and wait for chicks to do this, you're going to be SORELY disappointed. Players make things happen, and don't expect a female to finally figure out that she wants to be with him.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 02:45 AM
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No, it's not true.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:38 PM
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> If she knows a guy is rich, wouldn't she change to "beta snatch mode"? Again this shows that you guys aren't really absorbing the prerequisite material. Of course she's gonna flip the script. If a chick sees the guy has dollars - she will take that external information and change her behavior. Wanting access to his riches, she will play in the guy's lust by promising her body, but only doling out samplings at best. She needs more and more resources for more and more access. Do you think all ri…
/r/askTRP29/03/21 01:09 PM
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It may seem that way, but when PUA started what you consider top 20% used to be the norm. A dude in decent shape with a decent job, his own apartment, his own car, normal social skills, okay self image with offline friends, and not thoroughly addicted to porn/weed/social media/video games was baseline. Something happened in American culture, where believing in the basics became the red pill. There is no reason for a Jordan Peterson to be a "celebrity". Joe Rogan isn't edgy. Patrice O'neal was gi…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 12:33 PM
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The biggest alphas in history had harems of women that knew each other and vied for the alpha's attention. You playing defense is blue pill to the max.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 01:37 AM
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Cheat on her.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 05:07 PM
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Rollo and Donovan are in my age bracket, so I basically resonate with them. I do like to see Fresh and Fit, Aba and Preach?, and all the young guns coming up and learning the lessons. And the young guys are teaching the old dogs new tricks as well. But all this publicity comes with consequences. Aba and Preach, 1M followers, may have gotten demonetized for a few red pill lite comments. And the work out dude in Fresh and Fit lost his job over his Youtube show. That's something that we learned in …
/r/askTRP16/03/21 02:46 PM
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The originator - Rollo - https://youtube.com/c/RolloTomassi
/r/askTRP08/03/21 12:02 PM
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but when a woman is getting her back blown out to the point where she’s shaking after, and the dude has frame like a mofo, why would she want to leave? Most women are motivated by more than sex, unlike most men. Guys that think good dick, status, power, fame, a good rap, and money will keep a chick around - don't understand that the red pill - because they're pursuing those things in order TO KEEP CHICKS AROUND. If you're doing all of this work to keep random chicks around that you know cannot b…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 02:03 AM
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You didn't offer the past three chicks any repeat value. That's all. What those three chicks wanted is specific to those three chicks. Maybe one wanted to hook up with an old man, maybe one wanted to see a certain level of affluence (jets and ferraris), maybe the other one had her herpes flare up the next day. Who knows? But why do you care? What's troubling to me is that if you've got this ironclad system, and there are endless twenty somethings out there - why do you care? This system has work…
/r/askTRP01/03/21 02:10 AM
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For instance, saying hey let’s get drinks together sometime versus hey I like you I wanna take you out for drinks because I think you’re cute allows the girl to not make a decision right on the spot. That's not indirect. It might be ambiguous, it might be mysterious, but it's not indirect game. A lot of people get this mixed up, but indirect game is you interacting with her/her friends, and she really gets into the interaction and is indirectly attracted to you. You're the magnet, she's drawn in…
/r/askTRP25/02/21 12:10 AM
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If you're screening for instant submission, you did the right thing. But a big part of becoming better with women is getting the unwilling/apathetic/hostile to cooperate with you, and trust your leadership. A lot of these red pill gurus don't believe in conversion, but 2 years ago they didn't believe in the Red Pill. They get converted but don't believe in conversion. Clowns. If it's the first date/first meet up, she has zero reason to trust you, or make things easy for you. You can't really est…
/r/askTRP22/02/21 04:31 PM
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Can not agree because what you're describing isn't indirect.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 07:27 AM
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Banking, no question. Hollywood runs Los Angeles. Oil runs Houston. Tech runs San Francisco. Lawyers run DC. Banking runs NYC, and arguably the world. If you can get in with one of the best banks, you have a lot more options. You'll get a bonus on Wall Street. You have the possibility of making FU money on Wall Street. You'll make monied connections on Wall Street. Most guys hate it, and most leave - but they leave with a big chunk of money if they play their cards right. Engineering, especially…
/r/askTRP17/02/21 08:21 PM
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If you want a traditional wife, you need to be a traditional husband. Can't do things halfway.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 06:56 PM
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Break up with her and deal with your guilt/grief as well as her sadness. That's it. Trying to put this on the girl, the standard red pill response, is a coping mechanism. In business, you're going to have to fire good employees. In war, you'll send good men to die. With friends and family, you'll have to cut out the toxic people. This is what it means to be an adult, to be a man. You're going to have to hurt some people. Death and loss are necessary parts of life. Grow up
/r/askTRP15/02/21 11:02 AM
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I'm very focused but I constantly feel like until I don't solve this situation of overcoming my shyness and becoming the social person I need/want to become, and actually gain experience and regularly fuck girls, I won't be able to get to my full potential. Now's the time to up your social skills. Brain is still malleable, AND young people are allowed to make social mistakes. You need to build a solid base of talking to people, which includes girls, but also everyone else. That will also skyrock…
/r/askTRP14/02/21 08:47 PM
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Does this mean all the books are a bunch of nonsense that don't acutely provide anything useful? Yes.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 08:09 PM
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So now wondering how I shouldve handled the original situation You initially did the right thing per red pill, assert your frame and tell the chick to chill. But you didn't hold it like you meant it. (Although I don't think it would have mattered in this case based on how you talk about the situation.) You did the wrong thing if you require "peace" in your relationship. If you wanted to actually use some Game - you'd figure out what emotion she wasn't getting and supply some of it, and then with…
/r/askTRP05/02/21 10:14 PM
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They really stop caring by their early 30s. They still buy makeup, but they most don't exercise and diet properly.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 06:34 PM
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India is a perfect example of all women are like that. If India had any faith in a woman's character and decision making skills, the culture would allow for "love" marriages centuries ago.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 05:06 PM
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You're a fuck boy. You are the "alpha". You are the chad. They see no future with you, just want your genes. GOOD. You really need to ask yourself, Why do I need the validation (and burden) of a relationship? Is it because I can't get sex on the regular? Is it because I have no mission? Is it because I can't be alone? Is it because I'm still trapped in a blue pill frame of mind? Is it because I need more than just sex? It doesn't seem like you've done in a serious work on yourself, despite your …
/r/askTRP01/02/21 12:21 AM
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Reading the room, reading the person, and asking the right question.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 08:01 PM
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I've read on here and AMS says that you shouldn't bother/approach a girl who's wearing earphones, as it means they don't want to be bothered. But lately I've noticed girls giving me strong IOI's who are wearing them, haven't approached, and now feel I've missed out. At a basic level, you should always approach girls that you are interested in, but learn the practical techniques for doing so, keeping in mind the social dynamics. Girls with ear buds got solved years ago Make eye contact, talk to h…
/r/askTRP26/01/21 05:49 PM
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The answer is in your question. your social circle becomes incredibly small In your framing, the Social Circle is the actor. The Social Circle has the agency, the power. With the Red Pill, you understand that you are the center of your universe. You have agency. You have power. Thus you have to make your social circle bigger. Like lifting, like making money, that requires WORK on your part. Finding new friends, and keeping those ties. If folks tie the Red Pill into being alpha (which happens, bu…
/r/askTRP25/01/21 08:11 PM
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Do you even sidebar bro? Shut the fuck up about your stupid beta big bucks job and get the girl to want to fuck you off of your game. She's much more likely to spread the taco, if you're just a lovable loser. The second you look like a marriage prospect, the pussy dries up.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 12:18 AM
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I changed my life to cut down on flakes. I stopped doing dates, and tell chicks to meet me at a place I want to be. Since then, I've been stood up a handful of times, and it's always been when I break my code. If you still want to put the kielbasa in her buns, you gotta pretend it didn't happen. And get her out again. She has all the power until the bang. And then the balance shifts. Stop crying about the rules and learn how to play the game
/r/askTRP18/01/21 05:19 AM
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If you don't want a legacy, just become MGTOW and pay hookers. If you want sons to carry on your name, your bloodline, stop crying about the obvious and learn some game.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 02:08 AM
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Aware? 100% Actually understand what the nature is, can predict how she will act, how all of them act, with accuracy? Maybe 1% Can actually use that knowledge to their own advantage? 0.01%?
/r/askTRP15/01/21 04:09 PM
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Sounds like she wanted to deescalate the sexual nature of the relationship and get more "boyfriend" out of you, rather than just dick. That's fairly normal and should be expected. If you're in scarcity, you played it wrong. The play would be to agree to it, meet up, throw some emotion/affection her way, and then cement it with sex, making her think there is some possible future with you....and then go back to just hitting her up for sex until she realized she's been played. But that's a situatio…
/r/askTRP13/01/21 03:51 PM
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He's an OG in the space. When Roosh created his community, he was one of the major contributors. You guys think the RP starts on YouTube and Reddit, that's part of the problem.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 02:23 PM
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In my situation, Short hair attracts one type, long hair attracts another type. As long as it's cared for, it's a good sign.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 02:30 AM
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Lots of Red Pill guys have become digital nomads. Roosh did it. Mark Manson did it. (RP lite imo, but former RVF member). Bald and Bankrupt is still doing it.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 02:28 AM
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When you keep engaging her, she's getting the emotional charge she wants. The fact that you HAVE to engage her, means your pipeline is weak. Trying to "one up" the girl is how she gets you entangled. That's her game, That's The Game in general. Don't engage, get on other chicks. Woman has to be feminine, cooperative, restorative, etc. If you're trying to "beat" a girl at a game that she created - you're hustling backwards
/r/askTRP10/01/21 05:13 PM
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The thing is I would never tolerate it. You're basically telling us that she controls your actions via her actions. If Leonardo's main chick takes some side dick - is he going to deprive himself of her pussy over his ego? No. But He's not going to reward her either. Does continuing the relationship benefit him? Because hoes will always be hoes. Now if you have ego, if you believe in what traditional society has taught us - then you'll have problems with The Red Pill. The Red Pill is not traditio…
/r/askTRP10/01/21 04:53 PM
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Being your own mental point of origin is an idea posited by Rollo Tomassi whereby an individual considers the impact of something on them first. When a man puts himself first, he isn't concerned with other people degrading themselves. Chicks take side dick for all types of reasons, but sometimes it's because their main dude is so together mentally that she can't really get his attention. It's why girls universally hate sports, video games, porn, a guy's buddies, and any of his female friends.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 09:16 PM
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When your game is on point, she cheats on her boyfriend with you, and you might not even know the dude exists. I have a boyfriend means that you are not connecting with the chick. Have you made yourself into a guy that women will be hypergamous for? Have you done the work? Do you have the look? The looks aspect is the most straightforward. Do you have the behavior? Do you have the mindset? The Red Pill is not defensive. That's MGTOW. The Red Pill is offensive. If you're opening chicks wearing ma…
/r/askTRP07/01/21 04:18 AM
1

It's not
/r/askTRP06/01/21 08:42 PM
1

I personally think Game Solved is the best thing out there that I haven't written. I'd say the Book of YaReally is #2. Again, most of the learning is in the field, in writing field reports, in getting feedback from girls, and from guys that go out. A lot of stuff is cringe when you read it, but it's not cringe when you go out and do it. Cause women don't think like men. That's something guys don't want to think about. And a guy doesn't understand how weird they are - until he has his own first h…
/r/askTRP06/01/21 03:30 AM
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The regulars hear me say this 100 times a week. No books about game / PUA, that is true. But thats because I dont like the way they deal with it. The Red Pill comes from PUA, from stone cold seducers. It's through success with women, being the guy that she cheats with not the guy she cheats on - that these observations were noted. It seems all they do is teach you how to push the 'correct' buttons to get inside a panty. I just want to stay and have my own frame Yes, you want to reinvent the whee…
/r/askTRP05/01/21 01:16 AM
3

> read both sidebars, TRM, NMMNG, Pook, 48 Laws, Meditations What did you read about approaching, specifically?
/r/askTRP05/01/21 12:55 AM
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If your conversations are like this question - the first problem is that you're way too general. Tell us about the last failed conversation you had, and we can fix it. But if you want general advice, read the fucking sidebar
/r/askTRP05/01/21 12:54 AM
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Lol, chicks love smart guys. When I talk to a chick, she can't stop talking to me because she's never sure what's going to happen next, where my mind is gonna go, and how that makes her feel. I'll talk about HER interests in ways that she likes and enjoys. Females love that. That same broad has no interest in me discounting cash flows, debugging a program, or pontificating on the China and the middle income trap. Are you intelligent enough to see the difference?
/r/askTRP03/01/21 05:35 AM
1

They're reminding me to stop slumming
/r/askTRP30/12/20 05:56 PM
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Pops sounds more red pill than you.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 03:18 PM
0

She didn't want to fuck the scrub version of you, and that hurt your ego. Now you can dismiss her as gold digger/social climber and hurt her ego. You might even pretend to forget, and then smash and dash. Maybe keep her as a plate until one of you gets bored. Get all the revenge you want. Then what? God forbid you fall in love. Maybe she was going through something real, but you just can't let it go. The only move to preserve your precious ego is to not deal with her. But you already knew that
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:41 PM
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This is a messy situation because - you're in actual scarcity because you have not figured out how to bring more girls into your world. This is the practical problem. People are still meeting each other and hooking up regardless of the plague. All you can hope for is the guy to fuck up, the girl to miss you, some clever text/social media move, or something that's at best a roll of the dice. But you have a conceptual problem. You're this big bad alpha. Of course she wants to lock you down. Thinki…
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:35 PM
5

Quite simply, I don't need a leader.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 03:23 AM
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I’m not sure if that’s a result of decades worth of brainwashing by the porn industry It's this exactly. Mrs Robinson has been a thing before, etc, but porn took it to a whole new level. I'd say the same thing with BBW and tattoo chicks. All that was niche, now it's mainstream. The mainstream have been selling older women on suitably aged men for millennia, but it's porn that made 21 year olds happy to fuck 45 year old chicks. In recent years, a lot of baby face dudes have become porn stars as w…
/r/askTRP26/12/20 04:45 PM
7

Break up with her, problem solved
/r/askTRP26/12/20 04:29 PM
1

The last book calls the first book "clown game" and rejects all the parts of the game that made it useful.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 11:01 PM
1

Right now, I'd pay good money for a tool that scraped the AliExpress Dropshipping center for products (python/beautiful soup), and then cross referenced that with google trends over time/walmart and amazon offerings and what people are advertising on Facebook/instagram. The next level tool would do the same for AliBaba. Emphasis on finding products that most people aren't selling.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 07:34 PM
1

Bang/Day Bang >> Game by Roosh V
/r/askTRP25/12/20 05:08 PM
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Compared to Bang, it's not very good. And Bang is really simplified Mystery Method.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 07:17 AM
3

Demote, but don't stick mess with her until you've hooked up with someone else.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 08:48 PM
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Big Bertha at my last gig was an Insta-Thot. All of her photos were "secret internet fatty" angles, but it's not obvious. When I saw her IG, I was like "Yo, this is not the same broad I work with"....
/r/askTRP24/12/20 01:11 AM
2

Not just move out, but move to a big city. I know college isn't big on this sub, but it's a place to reinvent yourself and learn social skills by talking to people your own age that are way more forgiving. If college isn't in the cards, trade school or travel to a new place and work. Learning social skills in a tight space is like macking on hoes at the gym you go to. Every one knows each other. And sometimes you can make a mistake and just get "stuck". Like high school, folks will hold you into…
/r/askTRP24/12/20 01:08 AM
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> I also live in a small town Move. Anyone that's get good at socialization in a hurry has a lot of random strangers to talk to, fail with, and never see again. A lot of the greats MOVED in order to become great.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 11:04 PM
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Choosing Signal is a pimp term, and when a lady chooses a Pimp, she GIVES HIM MONEY. AMS should know that. A chick giving you eye contact, getting in your line of sight, getting into your proximity isn't a "choosing signal". It's just her showing INTEREST. And usually the interest is "you're cute, come talk to me, and i'll see if I like you" So it's an invitation to play, not her saying she's on your team. And this matters, cause a choosing signal puts you in the driver's seat. Whereas mere inte…
/r/askTRP23/12/20 09:46 PM
1

basis of TRP says to be an “asshole” with low investment. It's not. That's where newbs get it wrong. And it's funny because, newbs looking for the asshole/hot girlfriend pattern never seem to notice the billions of couples in the world that don't fit that paradigm. It's like they purposefully don't pay attention to the world around them just so they can believe a few comments on the internet.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 02:10 PM
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A man needs understanding of female psychology and social dynamics. In a fishbowl like the gym, you don't cold approach a chick on the elliptical. The gym is already full of people watchers, everyone being super insecure, extra self conscious. And it's a breeding ground for white knights and vultures. You make your move on this girl, and more often than not some bro at the leg machine is either gonna put a stop to it, or try and fly in after the chick looks receptive. Chicks might complain to ma…
/r/askTRP23/12/20 02:05 PM
2

> I'm seeing some repeat customers that might be worth a risk. It's literally the exact opposite. But just approach. Learn the hard way
/r/askTRP22/12/20 10:24 PM
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A Pick Up Qualifier - The qualifier is meant for the girl to think that you aren't talking to her just because she's attractive. So you ask a question, make a provocative statement, and you want to make it seem like you're judging her, and she's passing the test. A Pick Up Qualifier starts like "Are you spontaneous? Are you adventurous" What's the last spontaneous thing you did What's the most adventurous thing you've done. Give her some time to shine. Then validate her 90% and take away back 10…
/r/askTRP22/12/20 12:23 AM
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Gotcha. You're winging it - Okay, you're basically going into the interaction, winging it, getting some good but temporary feelings, and grabbing a number. You don't realize what the goal is, so you don't develop a plan to that goal, so you get stuck in your default ways. You're not hooking the girl for real - At the highest level, the point of the interaction with the girl is for her to not forget you, for her to want to see you, for her wishing that she could go with you right now. Not in a se…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 06:51 PM
4

Is this happening in real life? Or online?
/r/askTRP19/12/20 01:24 PM
1

I mean, I tell her that I love her with a straight face. It's only fair.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 11:42 PM
1

Context matters, skill level matters, end goal matters. If it's just some chick you're fucking, and you're a rookie - say something. If you're just fucking her, and you're a vet - fuck with someone else If you're trying to see if she's relationship material, YOU have to get used to being in a leadership role. And if you can't do it without getting self conscious - do the chick a solid and let the girl find someone stronger than you.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:34 PM
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AMS, like many folks, have blindspots. There are plenty of masculine men that are not boring. He's advocating this "warrior" disposition because he believes in it. And every society has respect for "the no nonsense" type of dudes. All Business, No Pleasure, No Comedy type guys built this society. And this appeals to a lot of guys with zero personality. But being Emotionless Robots doesn't make them ATTRACTIVE. Merely being a soldier does not make a man attractive. Not to women, and not even to s…
/r/askTRP14/12/20 04:55 PM
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This is a big discussion, but the short answer is context. In his latest video, " White Women Ain't No Better" he talks about white women that give him respect when they come to him for personal training for the first 2 sessions. But if he is nice and jokes with them, they stop following his orders by session 3. They want to negotiate and bargain with him. As soon as he gets back into his masculine frame, dominant, barking orders - the hoes get back in line. But consider that context. These wome…
/r/askTRP14/12/20 03:17 PM
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Adding "banter" is a MASSIVE project if you aren't silver tongued. You gotta used to being in front of people. (field experience) You have to talk in a way that they can hear you. (projected voice). You have to say things in a simple manner, so people get it (understanding the audience) You have to be comfortable with being in the spotlight (inner game) You have to know how to tell a story. (Narration and delivery) You have to know how to tell a joke. (Creation) You have to have general familiar…
/r/askTRP13/12/20 05:12 PM
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In the last 3 years, best I've read is "Game Solved" - by a guy calling himself Game Solved. Shout out to Saul Tee and Technical Game Bible and Gabriel Grey and The Surgical Method. GS's book is better than those because it's got a lot more specific scenarios, and much more into the mindset. ST and GG are only slightly more interesting than Todd Valentine. If you like Todd's style, Surgical Method and Technical Game is probably your best bet. This is more of an intermediate/advanced PUA book, an…
/r/RedPillBooks13/12/20 04:56 PM
1

If you're trying to bang, you have to act as if all of her bad behavior never happened, and whatever transpired you are emotionally unaffected. If you want to be like some of these ego protecting dudes and take the high road, "I'll never allow myself to be DISRESPECTED" --- You can only bang the small sliver of hot girls that meet lofty expectations. Lay down the rules and expectations post bang, when she's given you everything that she thinks is most valuable to you. What a lot of guys don't re…
/r/askTRP12/12/20 04:28 PM
2

To hook up that night, Should have got her on the phone. But other than that, text was fine. It's not gonna win points or lose points.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 08:00 AM
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Experience
/r/askTRP10/12/20 02:28 PM
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When I couldn't close on a 1st date, I could get the 2nd date (3rd date, 6 weeks of not banging) and I still wouldn't close. When I got good at closing on a 1st date, closing on a second date was better. Most of the time is on the same page, and the date is going through the motions. As time has gone on, I realized a lot of these hoes aren't worth even fucking. I think most vets start to see how pointless a lot of women are.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 11:44 PM
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What are some good resources for learning about the pua type material: social dynamics, establishing emotional connections, etc? Step by step simple - Bang/Day Bang - Roosh Step by step complicated - Mystery Method - Mystery (where Roosh learned); Old School Tricks/Club Dynamics - Tyler's Digest - RSD Tyler Red Pill Thought Process applied to PUA/Seduction Generally - Roissy/Chateau Heartiste; YaReally's Digest; Alpha Male Strategies. Red Pill guying doing Day Game specifically - Krauser Interme…
/r/askTRP09/12/20 01:53 PM
2

This is solely because she will place you in the alpha fux category and will only see you as a short term prospect. If you don't fuck her the first night, she will definitely place you in the beta category. Moreover, it's not your job to get you into a relationship. It's hers.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 01:28 PM
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I see a lot of stats, but not a lot of game. The past two months I've only encountered five or six girls who were passably attractive enough that I could ask out. And they all turned me down by either ghosting or saying they're scared of covid and don't want to go out. I don't buy it. If you think that all this self improvement means that the girls will just lay down and suck dick, I don't blame you. That's what this sub and all the youtubers are selling to fat virgins on their couches refreshin…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 07:36 PM
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1.Posts must be requests for advice OR clarification It's called askTRP, not tellTRP. Not pollTRP, or discussPhilosophicalIssuesWithTRP, or haveAConversationWithTRP. Violations of this rule will result in an immediate and permanent ban. Anyone RESPONDING to violating posts is subject to a 3-day ban as a reminder of our mutual duty to keep AskTRP on point.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 06:36 PM
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> This feels a bit like giving-to-get, or a covert contract. I don't necessarily agree with Patrice, but what he's going for is not tit for tat. He's going for dread. In Black Phillip Universe - Girls want guys to be creatures of habit, so that they are predictable, so that she can have a predictable life and control him. But girls also interpret "tone". They always want to know what things "mean". They are always looking for signs, and changes so that they can focus on what a guy does, and not …
/r/askTRP07/12/20 01:26 PM
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And yet, this is the heart of my question. Why can I just not be of relationship value? The Red Pill is not about the Relationship Market Value, it's about Sexual Market Value. As far as LTR's go, this sub (and I think Red Pill Reddit) focuses on the downside of LTR's and has a generally defensive posture. They can't contemplate offense in this situation, that's why there's little written about it, other than wife screening and dread. If you truly understand the red pill, essentially these hoes …
/r/askTRP06/12/20 06:49 PM
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> But why don't they even try to lock me down? No Relationship value. These girls don't see a future with you, that's it.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 02:31 PM
1

I want to take things very slowly with her Is the sidebar a joke to you?
/r/askTRP06/12/20 03:42 AM
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Unless you're willing to do something outside of the parameters of the relationship of the job or the tone he's set, you cannot win. You can't win on reaction. You can't win when your boss sets the agenda. Game 101
/r/askTRP05/12/20 01:27 PM
3

In a sausage fest, most guys don't approach. When they do approach 1) Drunk 2) From the Back, on the dance floor, with some weird dick to ass gyration, hoping that they can grind their way into an interaction. 3) Vulture/Dirty Macking/Bottom Feeder - will approach the girl that you just approached, and try to make fun of you as a way to get in with the girl. So 1) Don't be drunk 2) If you do a dance floor approach, best way is to be a better dance and come in from the side. 3) Use discretion whe…
/r/askTRP03/12/20 05:00 PM
2

Make it one of your IG stories and the ride wave of infamy
/r/askTRP03/12/20 04:50 PM
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WARNING: IF YOU THINK I AM A PUSSY FOR NOT WANTING TO FUCK ANOTHER MAN GF, FUCK OFF. I HAVE SOME STANDARDS AND I DONT LIKE PROBLEMS UNRELATED TO ME IN MY LIFE. Okay, we hear you loud and clear. Nice to see that some cats have a code. ​ But she is a great fuck, and all things considered, I would keep fucking her provided this would not create problems TO ME Wait, WTF? There's no cool red pill answer here. You fuck her when you want to fuck her and deal with the consequences. She will continue to …
/r/askTRP02/12/20 11:35 PM
1

HR
/r/askTRP01/12/20 05:08 PM
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My basic definition of the frame is "Frame is the amount of influence an individual has over the other". Your definition is wrong. 99% of the folks on this sub don't understand frame, pua, or game. In your example Girl asks, "Are you a player?" Your answer DOES NOT MATTER. She set the frame was WHEN SHE ASKED THE QUESTION. If you take her question at face value, she has the power over you. Lemme give you an easy example that you can identify. "Does your mother know that you jerk off to Zac Efron…
/r/askTRP01/12/20 04:39 PM
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If you want to be a pimp, this is the wrong sub. The only way she's gonna respect you, is if you get money out of her first. She has to pay you in order to fuck you. Otherwise, you'll always be a john.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 10:50 PM
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Do any of you have hope in the scene we’re in? Hope is for women and children. The Red Pill only tells you that women can cheat. If you didn't know that before hand, women would still cheat. Now you know what she is capable of, you drop her when she fucks up, and get a younger hotter chick. That's it. That's the fucking red pill. Now if you can't leave your cubicle and go charm some random chick wearing a mask at happy hour - you have no fucking business being in a relationship. Capiche?
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:50 PM
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It's literally putting the ring on a different finger and talking to girls. You can't run this experiment without us holding your hand? Without getting a cosign? What are you afraid of? I think you don't understand the red pill.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 06:00 PM
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If you went to school for college, it's normal. If you stayed in your little village, you'll stay friends with the same dudes you played little league with. All my HS friends that didn't do shit - all still hang out. My college friends are all in different cities, living different lives.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 06:30 PM
2

Technical analysis of the failure to close - Poor pacing and escalation. Failed to close. Likely she thinks that you just want her for sex and there isn't enough value for her to come back and get mauled (Anti-Slut Defense - but in this case actually warranted). Thus dropping your priority. Just another dick to suck and fuck in her extensive contact list. You keeping tabs on her social media, saying she's the prettiest one, sounds like one-itis to me. PUA recovery? - It's out of your hands. Ping…
/r/askTRP25/11/20 06:18 PM
2

Not to be cliche, but those things are external. Achieving them won't necessarily fill this gap. Why would they? You have the body, lay count and money. The pursuit of a family or more power in your job will just be something to keep your mind occupied. Another accomplishment. You gotta dig deeper.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 05:37 PM
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> Am I mistaken, do I I continue this path? Sounds like you don't know what you want from life and thus have no direction. If I wave a magic wand and you have 10 new best friends - what then?
/r/askTRP25/11/20 04:32 PM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP25/11/20 11:35 AM
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I feel like we're getting brigaded.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 11:35 AM
3

Who this? New phone
/r/askTRP25/11/20 11:24 AM
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Technical Problem - You're not reaching the social hook point, so the interaction is at first stalling and then ultimately failing. The emotional comments at the end bring it back, on occasion, but more often than not look butt hurt. The basics here are to say X If she responds to X - you can respond logically/linearly (what normal guys do blindly what PUAs do for a specific purpose) If she responds to X - you can respond nonlinearly/respond to her demeanor/behavior - "You would say that" If she…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 06:47 PM
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Fair enough. I have been out there for a long time, and I find that women continue to disappoint me. My final battle is ridding myself of expectations.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 07:05 PM
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But, after learning about how they truly are, even an exclusive relationship is off the table for me. Is this learning from what you read, or from personal experience?
/r/askTRP21/11/20 06:16 PM
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> can't imagine a scenario without it being creepy/awkward/autistic. > How do I do this without it being weird? Some questions How old are you? Are you in the US How much experience do you have? Have you ever danced with a girl? If you've never done the above, or you were raised super religious, it sounds weird. All of this sounds weird outside of context.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 09:43 PM
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It's not true. But you misunderstand the Wall. 600 lb ugly women can still catch a dick. Some guy somewhere is more than willing to let a fatty suck his dick. So a decent looking 28 year old can always get her bell rung. But how many of the guys she can fuck are the type of high quality men (her definition) that would she would be happy to marry? Where are the alphas she used to spend a weekend with? She's getting to the point where she has to consider beta bucks. And guys that she dismissed as …
/r/askTRP19/11/20 05:47 AM
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1) She likes no hassle dick. Or she's secretly waiting for you to move forward. (or not so secretly, you might just be dense in her eyes) 2) If you try to turn into a relationship, it will ruin the plate dynamic, and turn it into a relationship dynamic. But if you turn it into a relationship dynamic, it's a slow march to babies/the altar. If you can't go out this Friday and pull a cute college educated chick out of a bar where everyone's wearing masks and fuck her same night - you're not ready f…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 05:06 PM
2

Put it into practice DAY OF is the best method for me.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 06:10 PM
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The foundation of a long term relationship is her deep sexual attraction to you. Period. But your problem is considering chicks you have not fucked as being worthy of a relationship. She has done nothing yet. She might be a great person/pretty/integrity/chaste, but is she a great partner TO YOU? Stop thinking blue pill.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 04:21 PM
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Use the one guys use for bitchy females, Don't give him any attention and then ask the women, "Is he always like this?". And let them tool him for you. Cause he's looking to showboat, cause he wants to look alpha or fuck/impress the chicks. Give them a chance to be cruel. Chicks LOVE to be unimpressed. You can always tool him, but it hurts him more (socially and personally) if they do it.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 01:07 AM
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Overall - If you're just showing up to a random spot with females, alcohol, and music - it's running stronger attraction stuff, figuring out her logistics, and building the minimal amount of trust/comfort/rapport, and banging her out. House parties have more trust, and Bars she gets to hear more of your rap. That's why they're easier. Hot chicks are never alone - So you have to learn how to deal with a group of people (usually all girls, but sometimes mixed). This is why day game guys usually fa…
/r/askTRP16/11/20 05:35 PM
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Some joker posts this stupid scenario at least once a week. Okay "Master of the Universe" - remake the world in your own image. You can be a Koch Brother, Trump, Obama, or Elon Musk or anything else. You'll probably choose to be Rihanna Just stop complaining here about your made up bs.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:49 AM
2

Instead of learning, you could just be satisfied with your results. In any case, you need to admit to yourself that you want validation/approval from these girls that don't want to fuck you on the first date. Most tangible results from the Red Pill, from Pick Up, from anything really - comes from understanding these truths about yourself. Because it's only your ego/your feelings about yourself/about the world that stop you from doing what you want to do.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 03:37 PM
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> I just next all girls who don’t fuck on the first date. To me, they are basically saying “you’re not high value enough to fuck. Only the alpha gets to fuck me on the first date, AND YOURE NOT HIM. So you can wait like a little fucking dog” Your Ego >> Their Pussy. But now you're having second thoughts, trying to understand why they won't put out. You lack game, and you're only fucking chicks off of SMV. If pussy is your goal, which clearly it is, you have to humble yourself and learn how to fu…
/r/askTRP15/11/20 02:57 PM
2

ne thing though, I don't see any conflict (rather novelty) in the premise of women being loyals to themselves and what does that implies, like is the most repeated consign in social media, voiced by the same women. Men truly believe that if they do X,Y, and Z for a woman, she will be loyal to him, love him forever like his mother. If this seems "novel" to you, it's because you have not really talked to men, and see what they do, how they act and react to women. Most of the guys here in this very…
/r/askTRP14/11/20 06:16 PM
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The Blue Pill tells you how society works. Society, for the most part, is orderly and predictable. The Red Pill tells you how society actually works. (or to be more clear, that society DOES NOT WORK AT ALL. Everything around us is put together with duct tape, bubble gum, and folks believing that it should work) Because The Red Pill is initially for guys not getting any pussy, The Red Pill is at first primarily about understanding the true nature of women. Chris Brown, who continues to attract mi…
/r/askTRP14/11/20 05:27 PM
10

Fuck your childhood. Fuck your past accomplishments. Stop living in the fucking past. Cut out distractions, figure out your goals, take steps towards the goal, work like hell. You'll fall, you'll lose focus, you'll get distracted. Realize that you are distracted, and get back on the horse. Nobody goes undistracted. Winners recognize it, and get back on task. That's it. There's no magic pill, it's just hard fucking work.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 04:15 PM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 08:12 PM
3

This is a perfect time for you to develop IG game protocol instead of complaining that someone hasn't done it for you
/r/askTRP12/11/20 06:02 PM
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> Is this something I just have to get used to? No. The second you see signs of it, check her. And if she resists your guidance and leadership - DROP HER.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 05:55 PM
3

What am I missing? You're expecting real life behavior in an online context. Having the wrong expectations is why you are confused. Offline is nothing like online, much like pulling a girl during the daytime is very unlike night game. Offline is in person sales, online is marketing and advertising. Online dating is actually a numbers game, and a smart man approaches it like an internet sales funnel. It's not just taking good photos, but testing photos, messing with the algorithm, breadcrumbs to …
/r/askTRP12/11/20 04:22 PM
1

I know
/r/askTRP12/11/20 04:06 PM
5

Not really. His videos are better and more indepth.
/r/RedPillBooks10/11/20 07:16 PM
1

If you don't do anything, you won't get the bang, for sure. Women rarely pursue. If you do try to set something up, you might get the bang. This isn't a red pill question. The way to handle this is to offer up some low effort date - bar closest to your place/netflix and chill/drink at your place/smoke at your place, etc. Or meet up at some place you're already going. The problem guys have with low effort dating is that no matter how low effort, they still put far too much focus and effort. And w…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 10:08 PM
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"I love fucking girls that are high, I can do so much more to them. You got lube right?" Say this with some enthusiasm, and make her feel that you assume that she's gonna wanna fuck when she invites you over. Escalate past her shit test/frame battle. She'll go on defensive, and just press your advantage.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 02:48 PM
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She's signaling that she's available to bang, but wants you to do all the chasing, planning, and scheduling. This not a Red Pill question. It's not even PUA. It's dating 101.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 02:37 PM
2

She showed up at WORK? Hard next. That's stalker behavior.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 01:19 PM
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Before you get into an LTR (assuming you've built a solid pickup skill set), test the woman by telling her something deep/vulnerable. A great woman will support you and not bring it up to hurt you. BUT MOST WOMEN, are not great, they are typical, and any sign of weakness, they will punish you for it. They will change their behavior and stop looking to you as a source of strength. The only reason she asks you to open up, is so that she can unload all of her emotional BS on you, AND have a sympath…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 09:13 PM
2

Don't beat yourself up. This is a long term thing you're building. Every mistake you make now is a lesson on what not to do.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 01:08 AM
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You close the first night (maybe the 2nd), and then don't contact her unless she contacts you first. Let her wonder if you just used her for sex. Let her be insecure. Let her hamster race. If you treat her like a GF, she'll view you as a potential BF. Even if you play fuckboy 100%, but don't manage to fuck her - you're in the BF zone in her mind. So stop having dates. Stop trying to impress. Focus on keeping her emotions high, and fucking her. That's it. We don't make the game. We don't create t…
/r/askTRP05/11/20 10:49 PM
2

That's entirely normal. It's like when you first start meditating. Your mind wandering off in the first 5-20 seconds is normal. The strength comes in realizing that your mind did wander off and getting back to the focus. That's the "rep", forcing yourself to sit there and do it again. If it was easy, everyone would have already done it.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:51 PM
2

Are you keeping track, DAY BY DAY? Are you setting goals? Do you have goals? Self Improvement requires something more rigorous than you're willing to give. One of the reasons that we don't take ourselves seriously is that we want to avoid failure, and feeling bad. At the same time, not doing anything substantive is failing. It's just not the acute pain of seeing how poorly you're doing. That's part of the human condition. The Red Pill is just one path out of that inactivity.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 07:55 PM
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> I'm not really happy with the amount of knowledge that I'm absorbing, i find it hard to Focus on anything for more than 20 minutes. This isn't a Red Pill issue. This is a study habits issue. As for whether S/D is working for you, are you charting your progress? If you're not keeping track, then you'll never know if it's working.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 03:12 PM
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Pops out some kids and gets fat.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:28 AM
2

Ask this question, Why would she want to fuck you again? (You really should be asking yourself why you want to this girl again, but asktrp is red pill lite these days). There are only a few reasons why. 1) Great sex according to HER. And great sex means well after the bang, she wants to fuck you again. Like remembering a favorite meal. This is ideal. 2) She sees long term value in you, so Possible long term relationship, where she will try to convert you into a boyfriend using sex as currency. W…
/r/askTRP03/11/20 02:09 PM
1

I've read a lot Stop reading and get in the game. You won't truly understand the red pill until you actually start dealing with attractive women.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 11:59 AM
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Before you isolated her, 1) Did you flirt with her? 2) Was she receptive? 3) Did she flirt with you? 4) Did you break the touch barrier? 5) Was she receptive? 6) Did she initiate touch with you? As a rookie, If you didn't get those things, you should not have isolated her. Veterans can see body language. Rookies can't. If you did get those things, but then she started getting weird when she got to your place, she's freaking out and uncomfortable being alone with you/with guys. Either she doesn't…
/r/askTRP28/10/20 08:57 PM
1

Study. Work. Work out. Invest in myself. Reap the rewards. 30's were better than my 20's, but my 20's weren't bad. They were the result of the foundation I built in the high school.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 10:34 PM
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I used my 20's to make my life better. So I enjoyed my 30s. And am using my time now to make my future life better than it is presently.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 08:21 PM
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You handled it perfectly. With Amogs/Haters. Roll with a squad (funny how a lot of these so-called alphas on this sub don't have any followers.) Personally Look intimidating Neutralize the threat when it happens - ideally you do what you did, play the hater socially, and get the audience to laugh at them. The next level is to help them save face and bring them back into the fold - and use the dude as a pawn. But you don't need to do that stuff. Escape with your chick. It's not always possible to…
/r/askTRP26/10/20 04:57 PM
1

Be her employer
/r/askTRP25/10/20 04:53 PM
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If you're still trying to fuck, here's what you do Scenario - You make plans with the girl, and she cancels day before, day of, right before (and gives no alternative) - SAY NOTHING. Not "k", not "okay", not "no worries" NOTHING, RADIO FUCKING SILENCE. Do not give her ANY FEEDBACK. Even if she double texts. Let her wonder. And remember, She may not wonder at all. She is probably even more narcissistic than you. The world is her oyster and she does whatever the fuck she wants, to whoever she want…
/r/askTRP24/10/20 04:42 PM
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She'll never be pretty enough. She won't be hot forever. Be a man, wife her up and fuck chicks on the side. It's what alpha men in every age, culture, and society do. Let go of your puritanical values and live in reality, for once.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 04:30 PM
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You say this I’ve done a lot of sidebar reading, tbh there is SO much, and I find it all very interesting and true but it’s ALOT. But then you say this I had sex with this girl over a year ago It's obvious that you haven't done any sidebar reading if you still want to fuck old pussy.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 12:35 PM
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"Not so chubby, more like a mouse". "I dunno, lemme see your tail" "I'm not sure, put some nuts in your mouth" "You wish you could be that cute"
/r/askTRP24/10/20 12:34 PM
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The more hoes you bang, the less of the "butterflies" you feel. Which means you can assess these broads more clearly, but the "magic" is gone. Do you want to be a boy still? Or become a man?
/r/askTRP22/10/20 07:10 PM
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Folks been preaching the Gospel for 2,000 years. There's still an audience for it, and still money in it.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 02:48 PM
4

I don't now how much clubbing this group does. Seems all you guys ever do is approach chicks at the gym. That said, there are about dozen characters at any given bar/club. Owner, Bar Manager, Bartender, Barback, Janitor, Bartendress for Eye Candy, Waitress, Shot Girl, Promo Girl, Coat Check, Door Person taking the cover charge, Bouncer, Promoter, DJ. The one person that has the most face time and interaction with the girls is the Bartender. He handles more females than the promoter. (The promote…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 02:51 PM
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Imagine you're at some pandemic cantina. You see a cutie with two other friends. You down your white claw and mosey on over there. As she looks up to see what "non social distancing loser" is about to talk to her now, you make eye contact with her, hold it for a second, but then start talking to the entire group. WTF? You've showed intent with the eye contact, but you've become "mysterious" because you didn't just say how cute she was and that you wanted to come say Hi. In fact, she's not even s…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:22 AM
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Fuck through a girl's friend group? Yeah. There's a whole framework around it, but there's basically 2 flavors. 1) You're in a scene, and one girls gives a good dick report to her friends. And you just hook up with her friends because you all go to the same things (The scene). For me it was the club scene. For a lot of guys it's the fraternity scene. For some guys that like to play with fire, it's fucking all of the girls at work. There's nothing mystical about it. 2) The girls are playing a gam…
/r/askTRP20/10/20 06:31 PM
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Girls move on with their lives all the time. The fact that she needed to tell you is the part that's off script.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 06:27 PM
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She sounds salty. But the level 1 player move is keeping the door open, so you can smash again. The level 2 move is to friend her, and then fuck your way through her social circle. From an RP perspective, if the chick is only worth a a few fucks, she was a distraction. And her trying to get your attention again is more of the same.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 05:48 PM
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They (well some) have bigger social networks because that's a choice they consciously make, and it's something she's been trained to do. You could always go head to head with her and just friend everyone you meet or contact. Then it's just a matter of consistency. But then you'll be like her. Huge following/network that isn't useful for anything, because she hasn't actually made a real connection with the people she's "connected" to. Moreover, there's a difference between "fame" and "power". Gir…
/r/askTRP20/10/20 04:32 PM
1

You seem to misunderstand the red pill. That's why you're catching so-called inconsistencies. The Red Pill is not about fucking/dating women. That might be why you're here, that might be why 99% of the people are here. but it's not the purpose of the red pill Hypergamy teaches this one thing. No girl is worth commitment. Thus. The Red Pill says a man should COMMIT TO HIMSELF. In dealing with women, the virgin has the same capacity to cheat as the whore, same capacity to trade up as social climbe…
/r/askTRP20/10/20 03:08 PM
1

Their only weapon is making you wait.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 02:14 PM
1

Rethink your business so that you can hire employees. Get out of doing the work. Get out of front line supervision. Get out of doing all the selling yourself. I would have rather sold fertilizer than spent my last decade playing with excel spreadsheets. I would not go back to school to become someone else's employee. But if you're dead set on it, STEM, law, medicine, finance. All of these fields are grinds. Oddly enough, the people who make the most money are the business men, never the smartest…
/r/askTRP17/10/20 09:49 AM
2

I regretted it. I don't recommend it.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 09:42 AM
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New School Red Pill says you have to be a robot when it comes to your LTR. These guys don't have abundance and are afraid of losing chicks that they don't really have, and can't go out and replace. They shouldn't be in relationships in the first place. Old School Red Pill says - do whatever the fuck you want, because you're the one that's important. If the chick tries to use your frustrations against you in the future, you drop her like a bad habit. Most guys can't do it the old school way, beca…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 12:57 PM
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You have to leave your family, physically. Do something important. Change your character to the core. Drop all of your old behaviors. When you return, you have to make them react to you, not be in constant reaction to them. Period. This is the same thing with Ex Girlfriends and "ones that got away". Generally, after you transform - you stop caring about these stupid status games in your head. You'll no longer seek their approval like you seek it now.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 12:48 PM
3

Is there a question here?
/r/askTRP14/10/20 11:43 AM
1

> she wants to date And you let her meet and hang out with your friends. I'm not trying to hate on you DJ, but take this female/and the red pill SERIOUSLY. You muddying the water by doing Boyfriend stuff with a Plate/FWB/FB/Jump Off.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 07:48 PM
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>Went out with a plate for a night out and met up with some friends. This is was the mistake right here. This not how you interact with a plate.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 04:50 PM
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> So, she starts LMR like she's not a slut and needs more time before sex, basically trying to make a beta out of you. How do you get past that? If you get LMR, the problem started way before you get back to your place. Last Minute Resistance starts in the first minute. Solid game from the very beginning of the date is how you stop LMR at the end of the date. So provoking early, leading early, getting buy in, verbal and physical escalation, immediate future projection. You don't want a frame bat…
/r/askTRP12/10/20 08:04 PM
1

RIP old Roosh
/r/askTRP11/10/20 12:25 AM
1

Every book you ever wanted - https://b-ok.cc/
/r/RedPillBooks10/10/20 05:40 PM
2

It's not true in theory or practice.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 03:59 PM
1

If you have your shit together, 30+ is more viable to date seriously, but less physically attractive. Her experiences up to that point will fill out if she has any other non-physical attractive qualities. That said, you need to be in your late 30's or above to even think about dating a chick in her early 30's. If you're 30, you should be looking at 22-26.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 02:13 PM
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She's nervous and insecure aka female. Do you want to keep her in tension or not? And if you keep her in tension, are you prepared for what that might do to her? Turn her off or make her more thirsty? If you relieve her tension, are you sure she's going to have the same heat for you? Are you going to open yourself up to be the guy that regulates her emotions? (Taking you off your mission?). There are no right answers, it is about what you want, and what you will risk to get it.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 05:43 PM
5

My Secret Garden - Nancy Friday
/r/RedPillBooks09/10/20 01:37 PM
3

All of her relationships are toxic until she dies. Females always latch on to the most trendy thing that says they are not at fault. I'm fat because of the environment. I don't work it because. I'm broke because... This major isn't the right fit for me.. My last relationship ended because .. I'm going to live my truth. Chicks just defer responsibility for any and everything that makes them look bad. Remember, plenty of regular guys were sniffing at her box before she decided to deal with Mr Toxi…
/r/askTRP09/10/20 11:06 AM
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You're not going to convince chicks. Pulling is not an exercise in logic. But since you got her there keep spitting your rap and practice. Don't be like these lames. Never let an opportunity go to waste.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 10:59 AM
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Q. How I could have that same influence/power/fame? A. Get a pretty big role in popular TV show. That's all you have to do.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 06:31 PM
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> I can't imagine This basically the problem here, inability to envision something that's out of your own personal experience. Can't learn from the experiences of others. Can't bare witness to life happening around him. Can't learn without being told things explicitly. Guys been banging chicks that lived across town well before cellphones and uber. I know I was and continue to. What happens is that you meet a chick at the club, hook her pretty hard, lay the bait, build in the plausible deniabili…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 05:55 PM
1

She's not a GF, she's a plate. Read The Sidebar.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 05:05 PM
2

medical field, engineers, or lawyers. I’ve yet to meet a woman whose successful in their respectful fields. You've never met a successful female doctor or lawyer?
/r/askTRP07/10/20 05:03 PM
1

Still blue pill. Still think sex is wrong. Still think giving a girl orgasms is taking something from her. The fast and easy way to fuck em and forget em, is to have a lot of em plus your own shit going on. The slow and hard way is to genuinely value yourself. Most guys on this sub are still looking for LTR material, thus haven't absorbed the pill
/r/askTRP06/10/20 04:13 PM
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Send her packing. Consider this your red pill awakening
/r/askTRP04/10/20 01:43 PM
2

The juice is not worth the squeeze in most cases. At a very basic level this is a frame battle, but most guys have zero frame. They would rather leave than fight. And the purple pill pretenders will yammer on about ending stuff. But to handle these chicks a man needs a lot of practice in STARTING conflict. If you're not putting this chick in constant emotional reaction, she'll have you making posts like these. The very thing you want, for her to shut the fuck up, or at least be agreeable, is the…
/r/askTRP03/10/20 05:19 PM
1

Pretty people get more dates and more jobs. https://blogs.psychcentral.com/life-goals/2018/09/attractive-people-hiring/ That's been the general wisdom for quite some time. It's rare that the "best person" ever gets the job, because "best" is a goal post that people move around in order to bring in who they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:43 PM
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Seems like women aren't attracted to men who are their equals, we still have to be bigger/richer/older etc There is plenty of celebrity and anecdotal evidence to suggest that "attraction" isn't so fixed. Both in short term pairings and long term pairings, both sides seem to get a fair amount of variety. What both sides say they want "ideally" often does not match up with their reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:40 PM
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In terms of style, you can't think of shoes by themselves. Shoes are one element of an overall look. Decide on a look first, then the shoe choice is easy. If I'm trying to figure out a new style, I usually go to Tumblr. This is one blog, but there are thousands. Usually they reblog each other, so you can find other blogs. Here is a basic street style for the fall. https://men-street-style.tumblr.com/post/177847045721/yourlookbookmen-mens-look-most-popular-fashion#notes
/r/askTRP02/10/20 12:43 PM
1

Don’t want to ruin a good friendship. Also haven’t been out with a girl before and don’t find her that attractive. Okay. Would be fine to test game her You don't know what you want. And you don't know what you're doing.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 05:46 AM
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TRP doesn't understand Black Dragon's Next system. If you don't fuck her, you can't next. Not fucking is her NEXTING YOU. So there's no "next situation". Moreover, The Red Pill is not a replacement for solid Pick Up Skills. It's the "second chapter of the book". As for whether or not he should try and get at her again, if he doesn't contact her - there's ZERO chance that she'll trying to contact him. She has power here, and she will continue to have it, as long as he wants to fuck her. Lotta guy…
/r/askTRP30/09/20 06:01 PM
1

If you can a pull a 22 year old off her friends having a "girl's night out" in your hometown, Vegas is easy. If you can't do it in your hometown, Vegas is hard.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 04:47 PM
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Problems on the date itself Practical Problem During the 2nd date - Thirsty. Asking her out for a 3rd date during the 2nd date makes you look eager/thirsty. Minor infraction all things considered. All Hype No Bang - She got worked up about fucking, and you didn't seal the deal. She's now gonna blame you for the problem she created. It's very normal for these chicks to do this. Didn't Bang because of her period - Be a fucking man and lay a towel down if necessary. Period is no excuse for not bang…
/r/askTRP30/09/20 03:03 PM
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> I’ve never had trouble talking to women and got laid plenty of times in college but I can’t seem to get a girl to want to date me. So they're blind until you fuck em? Dick game weak. Personality game worse.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 05:37 PM
1

If your body is good, start offering personal training. You'll find her soon enough. The act of commanding her, moving her body around, massaging muscles as necessary - MBA cat ladies often can't help themselves. And these days, you can come straight to her crib, provided you bring the equipment.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 10:36 PM
1

Once guys here "sales" they start to smash in sales techniques like handling objections before they come up and stuff like that. They want to Wolf of Wall Street females, which is not best practices, in my experience. The Red Pill is all frame. Pick Up is 50% buyer's frame, 50% seller's frame - but in my opinion - running proper game is about getting past those very basic frames. The girl should never feel "convinced". She should be in tension the entire time. It starts out with, who is this ran…
/r/askTRP28/09/20 10:33 PM
2

Not the biggest fan of sales or war analogies when it comes to hooking up with chicks, but Buyer. I think every guy has to start out as a seller, just to understand the process. I said this before, for a woman to choose he a man, he usually must be More attractive than she thinks she deserves, or that her friends can get Taller Stronger More in shape Dresses better More dominant with her, more dominant with others More popular Richer Funnier More interesting More emotionally engaging Better at t…
/r/askTRP28/09/20 06:24 PM
1

Financial Largesse kicks in Beta Provider Mode.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 01:11 AM
2

I appreciate the response, so how do I translate that “social success” per say to a more sexual one? There are a few ways, Proper Pick Up, Reddit Red Pill Style which is about Frame/Dominance, Proper Game. But you should Stay on Track with Your Chosen Guru - You're using a lot of pick up lingo "making assumptions, teasing, and making her laugh " So your best bet is to basically follow the guru that got you this far. I'm betting that the difference between hey you're funny and hey you're cute is …
/r/askTRP25/09/20 10:04 PM
1

So I’ve been making more statements (instead of asking questions), making assumptions, teasing, and making her laugh. I usually get positive reactions though when I try to “proceed forward” I just end up FriendZoned. On a tactical level, this is more of a pick up problem than a Red Pill problem. But at a higher level, this is about expectations. By making more statements, being more confident, making assumptions about her, teasing, and unfortunately making her laugh - WHAT DO YOU THINK SHOULD HA…
/r/askTRP25/09/20 06:00 PM
1

Sounds like you're afraid of losing them.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 05:54 PM
0

How much submission are you getting from her prior to the sex? Rookies always leave out the lead up to their situations because they don't realize the chick is reacting to something you did/or failed to notice 15 minutes earlier
/r/askTRP25/09/20 03:06 PM
4

In men, adequate levels of testosterone are necessary to maintain a healthy fat distribution. However, research has shown that the presence of visceral fat can interfere with testosterone production, further exacerbating the storage of fat in the belly. Excess abdominal fat not only reduces testosterone production, but is also associated with a rise in the female hormone estradiol in men. Red Pill 101. Drop the fat, get in the gym. Read the Side Bar
/r/askTRP25/09/20 02:59 PM
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Soy, Carbs, Estrogen being generated by your diet and lifestyle, Video Games, Weed, Netflix binges, getting to page 87 on PornHub The fact that you named yourself Ladylabrynth. Take your pick
/r/askTRP25/09/20 12:59 PM
2

This comes up a lot. Chicks don't stay for dicks and giggles. Especially since the Tinder Era began. At the macro level, The man has to have some sort of emotional impact or relevance on her life. So if you're the typical Vijay fucking blonde college girls that you meet at alcohol filled parties - she's not gonna introduce you to her sorority sisters. You don't get to be boyfriend, you get to be Kama Sutra guy. (And why you would want to be boyfriend is holdover blue pill stuff) At the micro lev…
/r/askTRP24/09/20 05:48 PM
2

They should, but they don't. She lives in her emotions and your "value" is to her in the moment, not some matrix of financial net worth, bench press max, and Instagram followers.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 05:46 PM
1

You call her an 8. Your subjective rating of her tells me about your mentality.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 05:57 PM
1

You can't stop her from investing too much. Once that train starts, it won't stop. If you bitch up and go Beta, she'll love you for it, until she comes to her senses and sees you as a bitch. If you play it hard, she'll chase you harder, and do more and more shit to trap you. Since she already fucked you, she's trying to cash in her pussy coupon, because that's all she thinks she has to offer. (The fact that you call some chick an 8/10 probably means you're over valuing her looks too) Girls tryin…
/r/askTRP23/09/20 05:14 PM
2

Her Job/Career/Status can bring me value, but also take away value. So for LTR purposes, it's really important.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 07:11 PM
3

What kind of scarcity are you in where you don't meet girls that are " awesome, she's submissive, she'll do anything for you, she offers to buy you clothes, she bakes you cookies, she dresses up for you, she'll do anything for you in bed " If you think this shit is rare, she's not the problem.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 02:07 PM
1

Just take into mind that these women also have an abundance of options when it comes to men. I found it to be the exact opposite. Women are thirsty as fuck in NYC. They are economically insecure and surrounded by a lot of attractive women. If a guy has a decent thing going, hell even if he has nothing but a mindset, it's way easier than most other places in the country.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 07:50 PM
2

I'm very biased - day game is for high school kids and people that just started in college. That said, a whole lot of older guys do numbers just running day game. I'm not the resource for it. Coach Kyle on youtube and maybe Todd Valentine.... If I meet chicks during the day, it's because I'm meeting girls that intersect with my life. On the train, at the grocery store, work in the same building, go to the same lunch spots. And my approach there is make eye contact and start talking about somethi…
/r/askTRP17/09/20 07:41 PM
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Take everything with a grain of salt, these are all generalizations. You can do whatever you want to do. For the most part, in most of Manhattan there's probably a good mix in these areas of tourists, college girls, work transplants, and townies. That's not really the case for the rest of the city. Hell, past 96th street it's a different world. Tourists can be more open to adventure, so money is not the issue. Day Game or night game, it's about momentum and making it happen. The College Girl, is…
/r/askTRP17/09/20 02:32 AM
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What part of nyc are you talking about? What kind of girls? A chick you meet in a Washington Heights is different than Flushing or Williamsburg. If you're doing the typical newb bs at Washington Square Park those chicks are younger and care a lot more about cool than money. Plus a lot of them NYU chicks have rich parents. If she has been doing summers in the Hamptons since she was a kid, you can't lead with your wallet. Even the chicks at a Baruch might have some uncles that own buildings in Har…
/r/askTRP17/09/20 12:33 AM
5

It is as if I’m afraid of being a horny male Yes, blue pill programming. 1) Mr. Smooth - the Blue Pill/PUA way is slow escalation. Light innuendo, touching by "accident", to more intense innuendo, purposeful touching, and finally to out right "I'ma fuck that pussy into smithereens" as you slap her on the ass. This is what most guys do, even most red pill guys. They basically approach every female like a cat that can get scared away. 2) Mr. Sex - The other way is to entirely embrace your full mas…
/r/askTRP16/09/20 06:17 PM
1

What does your social media look like?
/r/askTRP14/09/20 12:11 AM
1

Game = Where is the rest of it? Red Pill = Don't try to control me.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 07:18 PM
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As their value plummets, their standards go up (because of getting fucked and fucked over). That said, after spending time with you, you don't meet their standards. That means you have enough SMV to get the date, but not your interpersonal skills are not good enough to have a second date. They walked into the restaurant and didn't like the decor and menu. So you need to work on those skills if you want to bang/retain.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 12:49 PM
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Sigma is Krauser's term - put some respect on his name, and it's basically because he doesn't think of himself as a Beta, but he knows he's not an "Alpha". All the Alpha/Beta/Sigma/Gamma/Omega stuff coupled with "Picking Up Girls" basically muddies the water for The Red Pill, imo. A skinny guy with a guitar will pick up chicks. So will a Chad Bro Quarterback. That's why the ability to pull females is personally valuable, but hoe slaying isn't what makes a man respectable. If sliding into slit is…
/r/askTRP08/09/20 07:29 PM
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Whatever a man's preference is, the second he tries to make a move, it become harder. The woman naturally uses what she has to extract what she wants from him. Even if you settled on ugly chicks with pickle jar shaped bodies, the wildebeest will be tougher than she should be precisely because you want her. I had a homie will two stacks in his hands at a strip club. "Archie, these hoes wouldn't even make eye contact". Never expect any group of chicks to be easy, for things to be textbook.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 02:53 PM
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You already know what you should do, Put your god damned foot down. But you're not gonna do it. I know it. The sharp dudes here know it. I'm dating this girl and first date went pretty cool. She insisted on splitting the bill. I like her looks and she seems pretty smart and educated. Anyhow, she keeps bringing her ex-boyfriends into discussion You wrote her good qualities first, not what annoys you first. That's telling. You already value this chick more than your own concerns ON THE FIRST DATE.…
/r/askTRP07/09/20 12:30 PM
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Approaching girls isn't game, it's pick up. And if you're only talking to 2 girls during the day, it will take forever to learn. And that's assuming that you aren't needy and desperate and already know how to approach and talk to strangers.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 12:52 AM
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The RP is easy to understand and hard to implement. Lemme just add this piece. Demonstrating to her that you will walk, that you will enforce boundaries, that you won't cave to her bs - is one thing. But demonstrating it to YOURSELF, is another. Cause now you're dealing with the ambiguity. Did I do the right thing? What if she leaves? What if can't replace her? What if I'm a horrible person? What if that was my one last chance for love? What if this ideology has ruined my life? This is the growt…
/r/askTRP05/09/20 06:55 PM
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You don't need to explain yourself to me. Can you live with yourself? I'll do all that goofy stuff with a female. But eventually the bill comes do, and I have to set her straight or set her loose. I'm not worried about either, because I can go get another chick. If you're concerned with how she treats you, appearances, or "going against red pill doctrine" - rethink what the RP is about. It should set you free, not keep you in prison
/r/askTRP05/09/20 06:48 PM
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You're just telling her that you're not going to protect her. That's what it means on the subtext level. And she should be pissed off. She gave you some pussy, and you can't even put on a coat and walk her out the door. She should be steaming at the ears. She should be complaining about you to all of her friends. I bet she's telling some guy in her friend zone about what kind of a jerk you are. GOOD. When you stop giving a fuck about whether she's pissed, whether she stays with you or not, wheth…
/r/askTRP05/09/20 05:56 PM
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You can engage in as much needy, sappy, effeminate and beta male behavior as you want. Just know the consequences. If you know the red pill, you know what will happen. If that's fine by you, then do what you want.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 03:43 PM
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Nothing. The best thing you can do when a chick is giving you grief is to hit her with radio silence. Let her think about what she said to shut you down. Give her the gift of worrying about, missing you. And explain nothing. And the reality of this situation is that you don't have enough going in your life because this type of game playing bs is weighing on your brain. Guys with Game, don't play games.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 01:15 AM
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Do a search on "splenda daddies" and "salt daddies" and you'll see how chicks get scammed all the time. The basics are a "try before you buy" mindset, or "see if we even have chemistry"...and just run your game. Frame-Breaking is another term to google along with "Seeking Arrangement". If you're just trying to "muscle" your way into some pussy, you need to work on your game, cause those particular set of hot money grubbing hoes usually have good dick on the rolodex.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 01:12 AM
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I just wanna navigate past this, shit test This language already sounds troubling, cause the chick is putting you in a position to appease her. She's making you react, instead of the natural order where you make her react. Ask yourself, How did you get here in the first place? Cause this shift in power, her being able to cause you an issue like this, is a problem. 1) Is her new behavior your fault? Were you being a FB or a BF? by muddying the waters and shit? Texting her about her day, letting h…
/r/askTRP01/09/20 04:25 PM
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There is no best reply until you know what you want from the girl. But this is a "What are we?" "Define the Relationship" conversation which means you've gone from dick provider to boyfriend candidate. Keep in mind, she might think of you as BF material, or she might be thinking ooh gross he's doing boyfriend stuff and Hell No, you can't be my boyfriend. And if you think you want her to be your GF, think again rookie. If you can't handle her NOW, you don't have the skills to handle her in a rela…
/r/askTRP01/09/20 03:49 PM
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I'll make this short and sweet, don't feel like writing a essay. Then proceeds to write essay
/r/askTRP31/08/20 09:14 PM
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> Has it ever been the case that she would settle for you if you're not the highest obtainable SMV for her? Happens in small towns like Denver, all the time. Some chicks are too lazy to maximize their sweater puppies and move to LA/NYC.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 07:59 PM
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Is that the basic and most important thing in the red pill? Just not to be too emotionally invested in the girls (or shall we say, you should ALWAYS be less invested than her)? TL DR - The man must be emotionally invested in himself, everyone comes after. The Red Pill is not about slanging dick. Running up in these hoes is a side benefit, but not the main benefit. The Red Pill is recognizing Most men have pussy on the brain. Most men are lazy These Hoes Ain't Loyal. Her cervix hurts today, but t…
/r/askTRP30/08/20 07:53 PM
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That's old school PUA tech. Best you can do in terms of pre-selection is showing up at a venue with models regularly. Girls that are younger, look better, and are more famous than your target market. so if you want some random club thot, you can definitely pull her if you show up with Taylor Swift one night, Kylie Jenner the next night, and Ariana Grande after that. Then she'll be glad to listen to whatever bs opener you had planned. Rolling with Hot Female Celebs - 10 out of 10. You getting a s…
/r/askTRP23/08/20 02:23 AM
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Her - "I Love You" Me - "I know"
/r/askTRP22/08/20 10:13 PM
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With girls, if he's not the leader/calling the shots/setting the tone, he's just a follower.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 06:48 PM
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Inexperience
/r/askTRP21/08/20 08:05 AM
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> I approach women in person. When I get the numbers This is why you guys should be doing PUA before Red Pill like the originators of the red pill. You don't understand women. Understanding women can only come from trying hook up with them in a systematic manner. Right now you're just bluepilling your approaches thinking that because you have all of these "external" qualities, a chick is just gonna drop to her knees.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 12:38 PM
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The question is: Will this distance jeopardize my social life? It will make it harder for sure. How likely is it that new friends will be coming to my place? Do you have a pool? What's gonna bring them out there? What about pulling girls from downtown clubs if you have to drive for 20 minutes to get back to your place? That's a matter of your game. If you can't keep the chick interested for 20 minutes, you won't be able to pull her in the first place. The problem with living way out is that you …
/r/askTRP19/08/20 01:21 PM
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Women are pretty shitty when it comes to communication of their feelings in relationships. This is despite what they tell you. They want you to open up, only to use that stuff against you. This is some basic Red Pill shit that you should know. This is the corollary to that shit. When she's not opening up to you, when she's putting up walls, your behavior can allow that, or reject her frame. In terms of application of the red pill, She's at a low point in her life. Normal behavior is for her to w…
/r/askTRP16/08/20 01:55 PM
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Folks should get temp bans for dumb questions, imo. But that would eliminate like 70% of the posts. That said, a weekly discussion thread would be great.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 02:10 PM
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I get frustrated too, but one has to remember that the Millennials and Zoomers were raised differently than Gen X and older. Even my generation, (Gen X) which got a C+ for teaching boys how to be men, it was not great at teaching the rules of engagement when it came to women. These younger generations have been infantilized by parents, disabled by technology, and had their development arrested by a culture that sees "women as the future". No one has been teaching young men how to navigate the wo…
/r/askTRP14/08/20 02:08 PM
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The sub usually answers this question with 90% alpha, 10% you might care, and get her to keep trying to "bring that side out of you". We know full well, if you go 100% mangina, the pussy will dry up and she's gonna look for the next guy that can basically handle her emotions. You already know this, you're just looking for this particular set of magic words. Since the adults in this forum seem to have left, recognize that She's causing you to REACT. Running around, scrambling for answers, looking…
/r/askTRP07/08/20 11:01 AM
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> My brother is 31, good looking and then > girl in question was maybe 21/22, maybe a 7 In terms of the Red Pill Relatively low value girl and allegedly high value man. Monkey branch/move up the social hierarchy/beta bucks possible? Alpha fucks maybe? Not much to explain. In terms of PUA 1) Socially Proofed/Pre-Selection Because she was introduced by some other female. That makes her open to liking this dude. She probably looked through his profile a bit. 2) Selling herself on an image/projectin…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 10:23 PM
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Not in Thailand or Vietnam or China or Japan. White Girl Expats have a devil of a time trying to compete with thin and feminine Asian women.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 02:33 AM
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They're trying to control the playing field and reduce your advantage. Lack of interest would be a swipe left. It would be one thing if they wanted Friday night versus Saturday night, or dinner versus drinks. But midday lunch is expensive, keeps her stifled, and purposely limits the sex option unless you blow her away. So the interest level is mitigated by girl logic, and she wants you to invest. The thing the you have going for for you, is that her relative interest must be high If she's agreei…
/r/askTRP31/07/20 12:40 PM
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If you want kids, it's picking the right chick, and then keeping the chick in the right emotional state(s) to ensure that your children are raised properly. If you don't want children, women, like money, like things, like achievement, are just distractions until you die. If you want to go back to the blue pill, a loyal partner that's going to love you forever and take care of you gladly when you are old and of no use to her.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 07:34 PM
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Like, how can a guy tolerate his GF posting her ass on social media? Or being a bitch and constantly wasting money? Or smoking and eating shit foods and doing drugs? Or even worse, having pity sex like once a month, etc. Mostly because that shit's not that serious. She puts up with him smoking weed and playing Call of Duty all night. She doesn't care about his semi-soft dick and his Pornhub habits. Neither of them are making any serious money. By virtue of her being female, she has 100x opportun…
/r/askTRP26/07/20 04:44 PM
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Look at all these white knights showing their true colors. Looking like Seddit right about now. Act like the shit didn't matter and hit her up again. FRAME, have one.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 01:03 PM
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37, it's called the secretary problem. https://www.quora.com/Why-is-37-the-solution-to-the-classic-secretary-problem https://www.geeksforgeeks.org/secretary-problem-optimal-stopping-problem/ Even mainstream people talk about it https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2016/02/16/when-to-stop-dating-and-settle-down-according-to-math/ 7 chicks is what most men fuck. Soon as you hit 8, you're in the tail end of the distribution. 37 is blows that out of the water. Anything past that, you're basic…
/r/askTRP24/07/20 03:41 AM
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Pick Her up. Literally pick her up off the ground. Bear Hug and Laugh the whole fucking time. You will destroy her frame, and hit her in a direction she does not expect. Plus it's primal. Plus it breaks the touch barrier. Plus it's funny. Plus it's dominance. I don't know why this sub thinks you need to play a battle of wits with chicks that sniff foundation like cocaine. Christ.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 03:35 AM
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I'm betting that he's a stealth pickup artist. I don't know if his videos on Trump are still up, but Charlie definitely leans Amoral/Intellectual Red Pill, rather than the fire-breathing, all women are evil but is this girl a unicorn type. The OG Red Pill was to agree with whatever the crowd was saying, but make your own moves in private. Now every RP guy is "out and proud". *pause*
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 07:41 PM
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Game
/r/askTRP19/07/20 11:15 AM
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Social Circle, can't do cold approach.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 11:02 AM
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If a man is scared of competition, that's a personal issue. That said, a man just needs to learn how to AMOG. Most good looking guys don't know how to deal with it.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 12:51 PM
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She's still in the bottom 20% after maxing out? She's got lost the fat, got silicone in her chest and backside, good makeup, goes out to be seen, knows how to dance, is social, is nice, is caring, and still no one wants to fuck her? Keep in mind, a lot of wildebeest looking chicks have children. So if she has maxed out and still can't find a guy.. Nothing. She literally has nothing to offer. She should dedicate her life to God or some other cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:49 PM
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Good. Finally someone talking sense on this sub. Now that you know she's always looking for the next big swinging dick, you won't be afraid to man the fuck up at all times. When you start dealing with a chick, and you know her "love" is a bunch of brain chemicals and she'll fall out of line the second she gets bored, doesn't get her way, OR gets her way - you won't be limited in your own behavior. You'll stop pussyfooting around the pussy. She's disposable. And the fact that you treat her like s…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 09:34 AM
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Per The Red Pill - she's always looking for the next dick, thus no woman has any relationship market value. A relationship is a 2 way street, but she's only looking out for herself. So Called Red Pill Guys who are looking for unicorns reject the basic tenet of hypergamy, and really should rethink their entire lives. If one rejects the red pill, and entertains the idea of "that women have agency and aren't slaves to their feelings/primal instincts", then these personality/long term behavior would…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 03:53 AM
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The Red Pill ethos/philosophy has changed substantially since the beginning. I'd say this era of the Red Pill is basically, "Do the Work". Work out. Make money. Be resilient. 10 years ago, nobody had to say such obvious shit. The focus was on how to deal with the issue of escalating effort when it came to women for a diminishing return when it comes to the value of the sex and companionship. The more chicks a man bangs, the more he sees what they are truly like. Aka Hypergamy aka These Hoes Ain'…
/r/askTRP10/07/20 06:55 PM
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Easy one, I'd take over and expand. In fact I might take extra courses now in college, to see what I could possibly use to make the business better. Mgmt, Finance, Accounting, Inventory, Supply Chain Management, R&D, whatever soft skills, etc. Leave a legacy for future generations.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 04:28 PM
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You handled it properly, so congratulate yourself. You see her behavior, recognize it as manipulative. She is not being nice, she is trying to ruin your happiness. She doesn't truly want to be with you, but she also doesn't want you to be happy. To feed her own ego, and to justify her actions, she needs to feel that you are miserable. So when she doesn't see that your life is in shambles, she tries to push that button. And when you block her, she uses the people around you to push that button. T…
/r/askTRP08/07/20 11:05 AM
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If the average man was 6'2", muscular like Arnold, and 8 inch dick, then the average women would want an above average man that is 6'5", muscular like Ronnie Coleman, and foot long dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 10:48 PM
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It was a different time. I keep trying to bring that perspective, but old red pill is not popular with the new red pill. But the old pill solved a lot of their problems. Shrugs at this point
/r/askTRP07/07/20 10:02 PM
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It kicks off with Roissy getting doxxed, about 2009. He was always a bit of an edgelord, even before then. But getting doxxed basically changed the game for him. Went from smirking mystery method guy ("hand'), to what would become The Red Pill. Roosh (who put Roissy on, Roissy was just a commenter on his OG blog DC Bachelor) was just fucking randoms around the globe and selling his books. He fucked up with one of his "Don't Bang" books about Denmark or something. He gets fucked over by the media…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:14 PM
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You did the right thing. The bitch had never been checked before. That said, the calls might have been her 1) Try to curse you out, shame you, blame you 2) Get you back Posts like these make me glad I keep checking her from time to time.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:22 AM
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Colored hair = Uggs. = Fit Tea = Duck Face. It used to be a statement made by the few, now it's a fad. They're sheep.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 05:21 AM
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They're tracking your IMEI, that's why making a new account will get you banned again.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 01:52 AM
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It's a 10 year old rule, and society has basically shifted. It used to be only Suicide Girls would go for the extreme, but all of that stuff has been mainstreamed. Colored hair Shaved heads Piercings Tattoos Unicorn hunters are now combing social media profiles and seeing what she posts, how often she posts just herself, who her followers are, and what she does for the 'Gram. Standard male insecurity, when he should stop trying to be secure and just fuck bitches. IMO, Guys still talking about ha…
/r/askTRP06/07/20 01:50 AM
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This is real common. Most guys that get to this point are still struggling with their intention and their core. Ruthless enough to become attractive to these hypergamous hoes (which is just redundant for all women), but not Ruthless enough to use these chicks like they need to be used. They crawl back to the blue pill thinking of wanting an equal. How the fuck is she going to be an equal, when the man is better than her in every way? More social Taller Strong Richer Cooler Better Traveled More L…
/r/askTRP04/07/20 08:33 PM
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Medium matters more than the message. Given this is some online shit, it's just a fucking video game. She's just fucking with you/testing you to see how you react. It's entertainment for her. If you wanted to pull her, whatever message/series of messages you send to this chick would have to hit her in places that she's not aware of. Just one thing though, The Red Pill isn't PUA. The Red Pill is what a man comes to understand after fucking annoying chicks like this and asks himself, if this shit …
/r/askTRP02/07/20 02:42 AM
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What the fuck? She won't let you be nice? And you don't know how to deal with it? If you buy your boobie scoobie, your lovey dovey some roses and chocolate and she says she hates roses and she prefers tacos to chocolate - kick that bitch to the curb. If you confide in her about one of your fears and she tries to use that shit against you later on, kick that bitch to the curb. If you been together for a while and she brings up a past argument even though you already apologized and made amends - k…
/r/askTRP28/06/20 09:04 PM
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>I was in contact with an old female friend of mine So you fucked or nah? >and she had complimented me on my looks IRL. We had a work related video conference So you're shitting where you eat? Or just thinking about it? >yesterday and I looked like shit in it because of bad lighting and a shitty web cam. She literally has stopped talking with me after watching the replay again. Said things like "tf is wrong with you" and "your presentation was so bad". So your self image depends on what she thin…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 11:08 AM
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There are 3.5 billion plus women on the planet. Fucking up with one woman, fucking up with 10,000 women doesn't mean anything. Meeting your soulmate is bullshit, because there are literally millions of girls like her. You want a lithe Ukrainian 20 year old, there are tons out there. You want an hour glass Dominican, there are tons out there. You want a cute little Japanese girl, millions. American College Co Ed - pick your state, there are lots of college campuses You want a stripper? - Start go…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 11:05 AM
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Both are perfect for small bands of hunter gatherers, just not a modern society
/r/askTRP25/06/20 05:17 PM
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>Dick can't be that good if you're still texting me. Then block.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 08:19 PM
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She's looking to you for strength and guidance. That's a good thing. Reinforce that role in her mind, and reward her with your attention. Tell her to cut him off. If she tells you that dude is persisting, you may have to intervene. This is the male lion protecting the savanna from a pack of jackals. (This can be taken too far. And a woman can manipulate your righteous protective instincts to destroy another man. So just like anything you have to think) That said, the downside is she may use this…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 08:41 PM
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Just tell her to come over, bring some beer or nachos. Fuck her roughly. And then tell her to bounce. There's not much more to it. It's not gonna be like a Hollywood movie where the camera follows the girl and you get to witness her post bang breakdown as she cries and wishes that things could have been better. And then looks back at her past actions as faults in her character and behavior. The thing is, in her mind, she's NEVER done anything wrong. So even if you bang her out, hoping that she's…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 08:24 PM
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Science is okay I guess, but a chick not owning to to things is probably more experience than genetics. Looking at the criminal justice system, for crimes that women commit, less likely to get charged, prosecuted, convicted, less jail time, etc. Society doesn't hold women accountable, and women use that to their advantage. Any group with power acts that way, and any group without power gets the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 05:32 PM
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Get the ring back.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 05:25 PM
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How I would handle it depends on what I want. If I think I can unlock Girl A's freaky side, I'd tell her all about Girl B. If Girl A is in competition, I'd say Girl B does this better. If I really wanted to get with Girl A in a long term relationships, I'd go to church because I've been lying to myself about being Red Pill all this time.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 12:11 AM
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> I got into pickup after reading several of Rollo's books - the RM series. Rollo's not a pick up artist. He never was a pick up artist. He's been married with children since he started his red pill business/blog. He doesn't know anything about pick up and wouldn't know where to start.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 04:29 PM
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The two main ways that this sub recommends A mission that's greater than pussy Fuck more chicks The Problem with the Mission Plenty of STEM/Law/Finance guys have missions. And they study through college, and work through young adulthood. Hit the parties? No. gotta study. Happy hour? Naw, I'm trying to get ahead in my career. At some point they've amassed a few dollars and gotten some toys, but they have no hoes, and don't know how to get them. 29 and only had one gf and a handful of dates. Sitti…
/r/askTRP18/06/20 07:06 PM
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For American Men >Ages 20 to 39: 176.1 centimeters, or roughly 5 feet, 9 inches American women are using online dating apps, some of which allow height filters, which screens out guys that are normal height. More from Healthline >As of 2016, the average height for American women 20 years old and up is just under 5 foot 4 inches (about 63.7 inches) tall. The average weight is 170.6 pounds. Body size and shape have changed over the years. Back in the 1960s the average woman between 20 to 74 years …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 10:01 PM
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What are you going to do the next time she does? Are you going to soft next or leave?
/r/askTRP17/06/20 07:09 PM
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> Why approach a girl if there are no choosing signals? Because you are a MAN, not a fucking teenage girl that's afraid of rejection.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 05:41 PM
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Are you forcing these strategies when you don’t even have the opportunity? Or are you using these strategies and tools when you have the chance and opportunity? Many times these strategies and tools over took my personality or ‘righteous self’ and made me act like a socially retarded robot. This shit is long, but the TL DR is that pickup is the basis of the red pill, and to really understand the red pill and apply it, you have to already be good with women. Getting good with females by using a s…
/r/askTRP17/06/20 03:08 AM
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This one is easy. It's a question of how you want to play it. 380 base, 180 bonus. (walkaway) Too much to answer anyone asking that question. (walkaway) What are you? A fed? (walkaway) My girl brings in 12k on her onlyfans every month. Trying to get her cousin to start doing it to (stand there and wait) I did 18 mill in revenue last year, but 2020 is fucking my money up with this recession shit. I'm a janitor/I live with my Moms. If she's asking about money, she's poorly showing her hand. Her in…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 07:53 PM
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White/black v neck + dark wash jeans+ brown leather shoes. Then modify as the seasons change.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 12:54 PM
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TL DR is pick one style, don't mix them all up. I'm curious as to what culture this is, as traditionally spanish speaking cultures are a lot more macho. But finding a contradiction in between Mode One and PUA isn't really a red pill question. Without writing a book on the issue, you're trying to mix and match three seduction strategies, none of which have been designed for the medium in question. I don't even want to consider your youth and lack of experience, her age and wealth of experience, a…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 12:38 PM
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There are plenty of reasons, but girls get off on retelling their trauma. Read XX chromosome or FDS. Listen to women talk in real life. If one chick says she got a cold, the rest start remembering/immediately having pneumonia. Online, A lot of the posts are "I have pain, please give me attention". And their culture not only tolerates that type of behavior, they encourage it. That said, a lot of lost boys post like that here, and trust me, the reception isn't always as kind.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 12:27 PM
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Tell the chick what she's doing wrong. Make sure she knows what you mean. In this case, "Stop bringing that up, feeling sorry for yourself" Stop pussyfooting around the pussy.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 09:18 PM
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Keep in mind, the Red Pill is simple, but practicing it is not an easy thing to do. It's much easier to take her guilt and put it on your plate, than it is to cut her off. Ultimately, you have to do what you have to do. As your skills grow, you'll just avoid girls like this. Not because of so-called moral issues, but because of practical ones. Good luck.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 06:25 PM
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Lemme repeat the sidebar again If she doesn't something you don't like, check her. If she does it again, soft next. If she does it a 3rd time, hard next. The red pill is not complicated. Have you checked her? Have you given her the gift of your absence. And most veterans of the game, don't even give her 2 strikes. She does something twice, she's off the roster - more time for his plates that do comply or better yet, working on his mission.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 06:19 PM
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In all my years of doing this, when I have tried to light the fire via text and phone calls. It has ALWAYS BACKFIRED on me. I can't think of one time it's ever worked. I've read other guys having success with it, i've just never had success with it. Either the chick chickens out, she breaks her own sexual tension, or she ghosts. I had a chick go Born Again Christian on me as a result of this. I shit you not. Nowadays, I might throw a flirt in here and there to keep the chat spicy, but these dude…
/r/askTRP13/06/20 06:05 AM
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Seems like everybody is already doing this kind of stuff though. And you want to learn how to code? smh
/r/askTRP13/06/20 04:00 AM
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There are plenty of other ways to make money other than punching out code. Investing - Paper trade for 6 months to understand the fundamentals, but then you can look into day trading and options if you feel like you know where the market is going. Arbitrage - buy something low, and sell it for more than you paid. Ebay, Craig's List, Amazon. Your only real work is finding things that are undervalued. They make scanner apps for your phone, so you can go to used book stores and find stuff that's be…
/r/askTRP12/06/20 09:56 PM
1

The "leave em better than you found em" paradigm died with the advent of the Red Pill. If you must adhere to it, send them away being able to give better BJs. Her eventual husband will thank you.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 09:41 PM
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1) Sounds like you only "small talk" with girls, not with people in general. 2) Also sounds like you think you need to small talk to a chick that you're trying to bang. Figure out either one of these things, and you're good.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 07:21 PM
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So you're afraid of telling them you just want to fuck and not have a relationship? Or are you afraid of not saying anything, fucking them, and then dealing with your guilt induced by their crying? These chicks are controlling your actions with their purity. You don't see that? And if you really pull back focus on the camera, it's not like there are 3.5 billion plus women on the planet. Scarcity mindset. This Red Pill thing might not be for you.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 01:59 PM
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This isn't a technical problem. It's not a value problem either. There is no special line to check a girl's behavior. If you can't tell the chick that she's fucking up, that means you're afraid she's going to react poorly and leave you. Another instance of your game not being tight. A girl can't get so close to you that you're afraid of what she is going to do. You're trying to finesse her, when you need to do some deeper work on yourself. Checking a chick should become second nature to you, bec…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 03:11 PM
1

You're just mad cause you got caught slipping. Tighten your game up
/r/askTRP11/06/20 03:03 PM
8

Your Father - "I knew she was the one for me when I laid eyes her" Your Mother - "I hated him when I first met him. But he kept coming around"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:19 PM
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No. And she can still find marriage with her version of a high quality man even with a high body count. It's been hard for a woman to lose value via action. Pamela Anderson (that Baywatch chick) has hep C, and still managed to finesse a guy to marry her and pay off her bills. The market is heavily skewed towards attractive women for sex and relationships. She needs to get fat, get old, or otherwise look haggard. There's the story of the porn star who got on meth and they interviewed her now that…
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:32 PM
2

"My guy friend is perfect for you" and then talk you up. Your girlfriend would think it something to say in woman-ese. As for it making you beta, the act itself is meaningless if you aren't "beta" when you interact. But if you are in fact weak and servile, not confident and assertive, then she'll just interpret it as beta. Reminder, Mick Jagger, David Bowie Prince are not manly men. They also aren't beta.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:19 PM
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because i realized i could asked my friend(girl) to approach the guy Groups are usually group game. Majority male groups or all male but the target require that you use group game. Address them as a group. Offer value. Ignore the target. Figure out the relationships. Let the female target choose you because you are the brightest shiniest object. The all male group is hard to approach and deal with because of the violence/orbiter factor. But a girl can choose you easier than the "best friends" se…
/r/askTRP06/06/20 10:33 AM
1

Savor this moment, the comeuppance is a rare thing indeed
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/20 10:06 PM
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She's being vulnerable to you. You should reward it, instead of punishing it.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 08:39 PM
2

Again, you're coming from the frame where you are asking the girl to come with you, and she's on the fence. That's not game run well. In your mind, and in her mind, the reason to go to your place is just a triviality. Becaus she wants to bang. Plausible deniability is not an excuse to get her to your place to run more game. That's how most newbs use it, how most gurus teach it. You'll find a lot of guys that don't know game, but make their money teaching it, will answer this question with "I nee…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 08:37 PM
2

She wasn't looking necessarily looking to get fucked, but sex was an option with smooth escalation. You just fucked up the escalation by going too fast and being too thirsty. As for looking for an LTR, hoes like having a hoe-tation just like dudes. Hypergamy 101. If you are extra alpha or a great provider, maybe she might "fall in love" - but these chicks fall in love K-Pop stars and horses. Her love is worth the paper it's written on.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 10:43 PM
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What do you guys think? Part of the game or not going about it properly? Texting like this has worked in the past but seems high flake and lots of lost interest. That's the nature of the beast. There are a lot of tweaks that will get slightly better results for a lot more time/effort/money, but the real hack with online dating is to lower your expectations. Tinder is just Candy Crush for chicks. If she's sufficiently attractive, she gets more interest than she knows what to deal with. She's para…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 06:26 PM
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That's a book by itself. The basics Be trustworthy, generally. Confident walk up Keep eye contact Strong voice, clear, good pacing, good tone. Instead of giving evasive answers, in an attempt to be "mysterious", you give unpredictable answers. Evasive answers make her think you're being shady. Having shit to say really helps people think you're not weird (although having something to say, something your passionate about and being very good at expressing yourself - is actually uncommon - and shou…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 05:12 AM
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What keeps you coming back to AskTRP, Reddit, watching your favorite TV show, listening to your favorite music? It's fun while you do it. A lot of shit is. But I haven't rewatched any of the Marvel Movies. Most people don't rewatch blockbusters. There has to be something for the mind to grab on to, to anticipate. With most internet stuff, it's novelty. With music and other drugs, it's a reliable hit of brain chemistry. All sorts of stuff can bring you back. So when you have good game, the chick …
/r/askTRP02/06/20 03:36 AM
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No to either. And in no fucking way does option 1 make sense. Whoever told you to do that, block them. Seduction is more art than a science. But there is definitely a logic to this. The standard procedure Meet a girl offline/meet a girl online and have a good date Establish attraction. Build TRUST. (not comfort, not connection, not deep rapport, TRUST) Start Arousal Change Venues Increase Arousal Close the Deal Debrief. I don't care what system you follow, this is how the shit works. Everything …
/r/askTRP02/06/20 03:23 AM
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Your conclusions are right. Should have had one drink at the bar, then more drinks at your place - aka the Tuthmoses Formula. (And you can double save by putting handle vodka in Grey Goose bottles, lol. ) Just give her a plausible deniable excuse. You know that she's not there to see your stamp collection, and so does she. But she needs something other than, come over and fuck, so as to feel like the sex just happened/one thing lead to another. The main thing you need to understand is that until…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 12:48 AM
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For example, there is a hard job to do and he says "Ok, let's asign this job to TxnyMontana". You're afraid of confrontation. That's all. You'd rather keep your job and pay your bills than do something to this guy physically or verbally. And all the "cool" people around you won't stick up for you. So basically everyone in your office is a bunch of cowards, but that's okay, cause everyone needs to pay rent. Welcome to corporate America. All you can do in this case is shut the fuck up and suffer. …
/r/askTRP01/06/20 11:33 PM
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How do you guys know? Usually outsiders know that a guy is emotionally invested because he wants to do something illogical. Most of the time, you can tell from the post title. The body of most posts just confirm. Occasionally somebody has something else to say. How do you know if you're emotionally invested in a girl? A guy might not know at first. Often times, he realizes too late. Maybe he's doing some bullshit for his girl. Maybe he's letting her get away with things. Maybe he's off his missi…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 01:13 PM
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> how can they get these women to stay around, when in fact based on TRP principles, it shouldn’t be possible Do you notice how nobody is really answering your question?
/r/askTRP31/05/20 07:56 PM
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> he basically let it slip that he dumped a girl because they did everything on the first date and he felt that there was no use in pursuing her anymore. He admitted it. This doesn't sound very high value (under the FDS version of high value). Sounds like he only values the sex/pursuit of sex. What about the woman's other qualities? Did having sex with her early on, erase all of her accomplishments, achievements, values, personality? Sounds like he's not a good person to begin with. People that …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 04:20 PM
1

Are you texting for logistics only?
/r/askTRP31/05/20 03:32 PM
3

You can do anything you want. You can slap your wife's ass in front of her father. You can hang out outside of a high school and check IDs for 18 year olds. You can join a Narcotics Anonymous and hit on druggie girls there. You can post an ad on Craigslist looking for models and invite chicks to your place for auditions. You just gotta deal with the consequences. You try to get at your favorite barista, and fuck that up. She will probably avoid you next time you go, and possibly get you banned f…
/r/askTRP31/05/20 02:55 PM
2

It's just a case of not understanding the need for game, and then not having any. No biggie
/r/askTRP31/05/20 02:35 PM
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TL DR - For you dum dums - There's hope for ugly guys, as long as they are social. If you engage in high brow activities, sports, and drinking, you will look more attractive (or as they say less unattractive) >Regarding unattractiveness as a dependent variable, all forms of capital (but especially institutionalised and objectified cultural capital) significantly decrease unattractiveness. The cultural practices of highbrow cultural participation (reading, theater, opera), physical activities, an…
/r/BlackPillScience30/05/20 09:33 PM
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Not only is it perfectly normal to keep journal/notes on your interactions, excel spreadsheet for potentials online meets, and post bang analysis - it's been the recommended practice to learn pick up for the past 20 years. There are at least 2 problems to consider 1) What Gets Measured Gets Managed Journals and Spreadsheets leads a lot of newbs to stuff like Meet to Number Ratio Meet to Conversion Ratio Cost per bang etc. And then they ask dumb questions on forums like "How many girls do I need …
/r/askTRP30/05/20 09:25 PM
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but is it right? Should i let her go and trust her? Lol. If you are thinking this, You don't trust her now. That horse left the barn a long time ago.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 02:15 PM
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You won't know if she is LTR material until you get bored with the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 03:41 AM
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Should I be moving faster and think in more short term vs long term on when trying to decide if they are worth my time or not? No. But the fact that you're doubting yourself on this point, suggests either your mission isn't high enough, or you're not getting your sexual fill. ​ Side question, I tend to think of them as assets and investments, which is why I take my time. Should I stop thinking of them in such a logical way? Yes. You're not going to meet a woman who pays dividends or the market u…
/r/askTRP29/05/20 10:00 PM
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I would leave if I wasn't enjoying myself. But this is the reality of not being the top dog
/r/askTRP28/05/20 01:53 PM
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From what you've written about the situation, she's putting in far more than you are. So ask yourself if you're reciprocating. To me, it doesn't look like you are. To me, you're getting everything you want out of it. And that's fine, but a chick saying that she's feeling neglected is part of price for putting yourself first. (and if you put her first, she'll eventually take it for granted...) But only you know the answer. But to take it to the next level, maybe you're gonna schedule more date ni…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 08:59 PM
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Intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 08:44 PM
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He is already living with her. Already broke the rules. He's pretending not to be in a committed long term relationship. He's pretending to be in the RP mindset. His actions are aligning with a blue pill state of mind.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 08:30 PM
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That's cool, but she's looking for commitment. You can't not see that.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 08:29 PM
1

If the girl is already chasing you, flaking on purpose can build further attraction. But if the fire is burning, what's the point of throwing more gasoline on it? There's a difference between having game and playing games.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 07:31 PM
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3 years? Stop being dense. If she ain't the one, cut her loose.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 07:23 PM
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If she's dumb, pretax
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/20 04:33 AM
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They're called personal trainers, thank you very much.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 11:30 PM
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I've gotten good at cold approaching to a point where I can get make outs, instant dates etc. This doesn't match this. lot of homless guys and girls, a few rapists and pedophiles etc. So when I'm daygaming wherever the girl automatically assumes I'm one of those
/r/askTRP26/05/20 11:26 PM
2

The Red Pill was invented by PUA practitioners. Do your homework.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:54 PM
0

Ban for not reading the sidebar
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:53 PM
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Yet somehow I managed to account for that in the 2nd line of my post Looking at a generous interpretation of her desires, and not taking into account dependent/independent correlations.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/20 06:52 PM
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Let's do a little math. Fun with percentages. Looking at a generous interpretation of her desires, and not taking into account dependent/independent correlations. Household income 100k or over = 31% Percentage of men 6' or over (height being a proxy for attractiveness) = 14% Percentage of people not currently married @ 45 = 40% These are modest goals imo. I think most upper middle/professional class prefer a 70/30 ratio of his income to her income (so if the typical doctor makes 160, he needs to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/20 05:13 PM
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Is there a question here?
/r/askTRP25/05/20 06:19 PM
1

If you have to ask, there isn't much going on in your life. Your life should dictate who you give attention to.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 02:04 PM
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Yes. Law 6, court attention at all times. Plenty of things happen when guys ignore social dynamics
/r/askTRP25/05/20 02:02 PM
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The thing is there are bigger sexlessness trends in quite a bit of other countrys most notably Japan which is the most notorious country for the sexlessness trend I really wonder what's up with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 05:29 PM
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but every stage of the game I think the requirements rise for guys.. I'm not surprised that you think that. You're basically regurgitating the Blue Pill's plan for men. This red pill shit is not for everyone. I keep saying it, but it's not because I want a club for just the cool guys. Bitches have all sorts of expectations. All sorts of "hard lines" that they won't cross. Making it easy for them to break their own rules is what game is about. Because she's gonna do some shit that she's dead set …
/r/askTRP24/05/20 05:26 PM
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Do you want a live a life where you are always reacting to chicks? Afraid of what a bitch might say or do? Oh, no I might lose a girl? Then I'll tell you what to do - Only text for logistics - Avoid conflict - Never check a chick, just ghost for a few days or hard next - Monitor her friends, social media, - Read Models - Just lift Bro. If you want game, you have to confront your demons. The shit that is hard, the things that make you afraid - conquering that is what makes you alpha. And I don't …
/r/askTRP24/05/20 05:23 PM
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You fucked up with her previous to the ask, or on the ask itself. Look into that. Most of these hard case chicks aren't hard case, you just failed to convey your value properly. But She's not interested enough for you to jump through those hoops. BUT, if you have an awesome Instagram, which might only be 1 in a 1,000 of you guys reading this (I certainly don't, but some of you college guys could have mastered the medium), get her to add you, and you add her. Then keep it moving. The constant dri…
/r/askTRP24/05/20 04:23 PM
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He's dealing with cowardice. His issue isn't the girl, it is with himself. As for showing mate guarding tendencies, the goal is to not have them, as opposed up concealing them. By going at the chick with his fears, ideally he'll deal with his real shit. He won't of course. And 90% of the advice here will be blue pill advice in dressed up to look like the red pill
/r/askTRP24/05/20 04:11 PM
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> I’m just confused as to why I’m having a hard time as opposed to college. The simple answer is density. College is being surrounded by age appropriate chicks that will fuck a dude for a chicken fried steak and a beer. The complex answer? > I definitely feel and look more masculine but for some reason women aren’t chasing me like before. You aren't attractive enough to the broader range of women, so you must actually learn some game instead of leaning on your SMV and a good location.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 10:06 PM
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First, recognize your feeling that you are being disrespected as insecurity on your part. Second, recognize that insecurity is normal. Who's not gonna feel some kinda way when she describes a blow job better than she's even given you? "This fucking whore is holding out on me" Third, Most guys are not players. Most guys are not alphas. Most guys, even the feminists/especially the feminists, see women as property, and women should be faithful, or at least not talk about taking dick in the ass from…
/r/askTRP23/05/20 06:26 PM
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logistics is a bigger part of the game than many want to admit If guys have no game, no understanding of female psychology, then bad logistics will fuck them every time. But plenty of 15 year old boys are fucking 15 year old girls without having to steal Mom's credit card for an AirBNB. I would have to drive buying temperature way up and then try to be spontaneous Exactly. A properly motivated chick will FIND a place to fuck. The bang is easier when he has a place, but not having a place is a te…
/r/askTRP23/05/20 05:53 PM
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>>the core issues that men have with women. >Which issues? The core issues that men will always have with women How does a man attract a woman? How does a man retain a woman? > So you're saying its not about self improvement or dating well, its about... women are evil and you can do nothing to change their reign of terror? Of course women aren't evil. Men are not evil either. Both sides are self interested and rarely have overlapping goals. The Red Pill, is currently promulgated - it's been diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 12:14 AM
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I'm terrified of being hurt You said it, not me. The whole thing is cowardly. Sounds like you haven't moved on the chick. You've You're stalking her facebook page. You're afraid she's branch swinging. You ghost her instead of talking to her about it. And you say you've caught feelings. All this behavior is unbecoming. Do what you want, but take a day off, and then read your shit out loud, and you'll see how weak it is.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 11:22 PM
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No amount of self improvement in men changes the core issues that men have with women. These tactics, techniques, behaviors, philosophies, etc are all reactions to women. The guiding question of the blue pill and the red pill is,"What do women want?". The blue pill says either be yourself, be the best, or now the be the best version of yourself. By contrast, the red pill says that A woman doesn't care if a man is being his personal best, she wants the best, period. And if guys truly understood t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 07:26 PM
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Ancient Arab proverb. What do women want? Fried ice. Hear me now, you'll only believe me later on
/r/askTRP22/05/20 07:01 PM
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>Then she was like “I didn’t know you were a fuckboy blabla” and started crying. She's manufacturing drama. This won't be the end of it. It will be something else after this blows over. You can play her game and give her comfort, or give her the silent treatment/soft next - whatever floats your boat - but she's deeply insecure and this won't go well even after you get past this point. Also, you're 22. Are you in India or something? Why are you thinking about maintaining an LTR with a clearly imm…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 06:35 PM
2

I see that you are a man of culture. Use Good grammar and spelling on the gangbang RSVPS. It will dissuade the rabble, ruffians, and other riff raff.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 05:40 PM
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Coward
/r/askTRP22/05/20 05:36 PM
2

If you wanted a long term monogamous relationship, you would have come to that conclusion on your own terms, not because she forced you to make the decision
/r/askTRP21/05/20 06:05 PM
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Now I've come across this or something similar with past and recent plates or acquaintances I want as plates, Past and recent - You had enough value to the chick to fuck for a while, but not enough sexual value to stay in a strictly sexual relationship, and not enough relationship value for her to wait around. Acquaintances you haven't fucked - there is no sexual attraction. I find it interesting that they'd rather text than just tell me in person. Why would she want to deal with the confrontati…
/r/askTRP21/05/20 05:23 PM
2

No.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 05:55 PM
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My LTR lives in student dorm LTR...lives in student dorm. So basically you're both young as fuck, but you're trying to lock this chick down and mate guard her. You're surrounded by high grade pussy, you read the red pill, and you're worried about some random chick moving out of the dorms? Is the sidebar a joke to you?
/r/askTRP20/05/20 04:36 AM
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I refuse to play that game smh. The Red Pill used to something you learned after you got good at game. Why are these chicks so scandalous? Why do they not give a fuck about honesty and fidelity? Now dudes without game want to be alpha bro chads without having a lot of experience with fucking women. They take the red pill never having seen what women are actually like. Recap for you pick up newbs. If you walk up and can't get a word out before she says "I have a boyfriend" - you fucked up on the …
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:09 PM
1

Do you guys ever feel that when you use indirect daygame openers on the street it's obvious that you're hitting on the girl and you just end up coming across fake for trying to hide that fact? That's not what indirect game is.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:45 AM
2

But now, with my newfound confidence, clarity, and emotional stamina She didn't have confidence, didn't know what she was doing, and in her mind she was way more emotional before. If you read between the lines - either the difficult behavior was attractive to her (which is why she kept sucking their dicks and paying for playstation games) or the difficult behavior wasn't enough to detract her. She likes the "controller". She likes the "nothing is ever right" guy. She likes the "king of the world…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:07 PM
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If she fucks you for 6 months, it doesn't mean anything. She'll jump off your dick and hop on another one, after telling you that she loves you and wants your children. Stop looking for meaning, stop reacting. Start acting and moving the interaction forward.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:00 PM
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What you say in any given situation, depends on what you want out of the situation. What you said was okay. It looks to me like you're afraid of the elephant in the room. Usually what I say to one of those "Are you a player?" type questions "Are you falling in love with me?" That puts her on the defense, and she's gonna go down some emotional rabbit hole. From there I just run my regular game.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 09:59 PM
2

Am I a joke to you? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hassan_Rouhani
/r/askTRP17/05/20 09:18 PM
1

Leave her better than you found her was the old attitude in PUA. That attitude is against Evo psych. Evolutionary psychology does not care about morality, or keeping the peace. Nothing I've says suggests that Evo Psych is true in and of itself. But the OGs even though they cited books didn't really follow the logic of Evo Psych. So the original PUAs kept their socially approved way of dealing with women. Whereas the offshoot movement (the red pill) took Evo psych seriously. People use the Bible …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 03:19 PM
1

Is anyone suggesting that they are real science?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:10 AM
1

I'm not sure what you're arguing for here. I'm certainly not arguing with you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:05 AM
1

You seem to think that science means anything to this area
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 08:55 AM
2

Old school PUA (the mystery and style brand which was the basis of pre-self development RSD - and they define pickup for people not into pickup) gave lip service to The Selfish Gene and The Red Queen. All that five attraction triggers stuff. Their whole reductive understanding of female attraction was flawed from the very beginning. "The Red Pill" as we currently know it, took the idea of the dueling female sexual strategy is an extrapolated that over the entire western woman population, in part…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 08:46 AM
1

Red Pill developed as a result of a few pickup artists realizing that the evolutionary psychology that they skip the chapters on was in fact very important. Girls are not in fact fragile flowers, and are actually quite deceitful
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 08:34 AM
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Daddy Issues are poorly defined on this sub. But if she can't love, honor, obey, and respect her father - the man who gave her life, fed her, protected her - then she won't be able to give that to you. And loving, honoring, obeying, and respecting her husband is the cornerstone of the relationship.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 11:40 PM
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> I turned and asked her in our language. She answers with the nastiest thing I've ever fucking heard in my entire life. Something dirty and very very inappropriate. Luckily my friends didn't understand it cuz it was in our language. This sounds like a deeply personal issue. She was trying to get a rise out of you, and she got it. You getting emotional in front of your friends, when you're trying to "be cool" seems to be the source of your irritation. Sounds like 1) You don't know her well 2) Ma…
/r/askTRP16/05/20 11:37 PM
6

Learning how to search for previously covered topics. My body count skyrocketed.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 02:15 PM
10

If a chick has an email for business inquiries in her Instagram, she's accepting large amounts of cash for trips to the Emirates for modeling. Lot of these thots are too good for stripping, cam girls, or porn. She got a taste of high dollar escorting via Seeking Arrangement, and now wants to cash in. Unless her last name is Kardashian or Rothschild, none of these hoes can afford the lifestyle they're living
/r/askTRP16/05/20 06:35 AM
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As a general learning tip - whatever book you pick up, you're learning that guy's personal style. That's especially if they tell you that this is "game" like they were talking about calculus. There are billions of guys, billions of girls, and there is in infinite number of ways to put the chorizo in the taco. Now if you like Roosh and you want to run game like Roosh, then use his most recent book. Keep in mind, his switch from Bang and Day Bang (both as good as Game) roughly coincides with chang…
/r/askTRP15/05/20 09:21 PM
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According to www.hypergamystats.com Increase in Facetime dates IUD Removal rate increase Instagram Stock Share going up Private plane trips to Dubai are up.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 06:45 PM
1

Exterminator, provided you have good chemical protection. Amazon will be back breaking. Killing rats and roaches, though disgusting, is a good way to learn a small business that you could probably start and hire other people. Definitely some downside. Security job has very little opportunity for growth, but if you're in school and it's a desk job - they're paying you to improve yourself. That said, if you're in college and engineering - you should be doing internships or working a field related …
/r/askTRP15/05/20 06:44 PM
2

fairly popular in my graduate program You're dating the wrong pool of girls.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 02:32 AM
1

Google eggs in hell.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 12:37 AM
3

If she says he's an asshole, just ask for some of his assholish tendencies. Once she tells you what she "hates" - you have a blueprint to what she actually loves and responds to, but can't admit it.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 05:16 AM
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This wasnt an healthy relationship at all and I know I shouldnt have started it in the first place. She
/r/askTRP12/05/20 10:01 PM
1

If you don't care to do the dance, just step your iron game up and lift, dress right, and go direct at night clubs. You'll get what you want and deserve
/r/askTRP12/05/20 04:41 PM
1

Son, we live in a world that has walls, and those walls have to be guarded by men with guns. Who's gonna do it? You? You, Lt. Weinburg? I have a greater responsibility than you could possibly fathom. You weep for Santiago, and you curse the marines. You have that luxury. You have the luxury of not knowing what I know. That Santiago's death, while tragic, probably saved lives. And my existence, while grotesque and incomprehensible to you, saves lives. You don't want the truth because deep down in…
/r/askTRP11/05/20 02:23 AM
3

according to Mark Manson I don't know who this guy is, but you should just read Models Bro
/r/seduction10/05/20 09:11 PM
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This is an interesting problem because she's bringing up your relationship and her personal stuff when she should be thinking about dollars. This is a wake up call to you in terms of your choice in LTR. This chick doesn't have any sort of control over her emotions, and she will do some shit in the future that will fuck the both of you up. This is grounds for a HARD NEXT, no matter if you calm her down and get her to think rationally. This chick is not dependable in a crisis. (The fact that she's…
/r/askTRP10/05/20 05:15 PM
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To me, wanting to control a girl's guy friends, girl friends, social media, and phone habits is a sign of major insecurity and lack of game. The broad can follow every single rule you can think of, and STILL meet some random dude at church and get fucked under the crucifix. Hoes gon be hoes. 1st law of this shit. If dudes making up this shit were actually fucking, they would have already ran through gf's and wives of "manly" and accomplished men. All that mate guarding is energy dudes are wastin…
/r/askTRP10/05/20 03:10 AM
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Next time you're at the supermarket, leaf through the WOMEN'S magazines for pictures of men. That's what women like to see in terms of body poses, backgrounds, etc. Additionally, next chick you hook up with, go with her through her tinder matches. You'll see that 70% of guys look horrible, and 30% of guys look outstanding. (and she still only wants the top 1-10% anyway) Men's fashion magazines are decent, but male images that sell things to females are what you're going after.
/r/seduction10/05/20 03:03 AM
2

Sounds like a decent book. I'll check it out if I get a chance
/r/seduction10/05/20 03:00 AM
3

If the chemistry is there, both people want to hang out with each other as much as possible. Text games cease, because she wants to be around you 24/7. If the chemistry isn't there or isn't there yet, then you should be dating other chicks and pursuing your mission (whatever that is). Give the girl the gift of missing you. If there's some deeper value, she'll either reach out, or be receptive to you reaching out.
/r/seduction09/05/20 04:56 AM
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In the long run, you have to embrace the struggle, the pain, the boredom. Something in you has to switch. Lotta dudes on this very sub, I guarantee, they HATED going to the gym for 3 months, for 6 months. And then something happened, and now every 5th post on this sub, is "Bro, I can't wait for the gym to open up again" Lotta former fat asses miss the squat bar. Recognize that embracing the suck might take a while. People hate playing the piano for years, but when they can knock out some Mozart …
/r/askTRP09/05/20 02:08 AM
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Regular guys that don't know anything about this shit don't feel the same way after their first love. Just like their first beer, first time they got high, first time they rode a bike, drove a car, graduated, got the best test score, won a fight, made a bunch of money, got the first job, ....etc And because nature is cruel, your first taste of defeat is something so powerful that people would rather avoid pain than seek pleasure. Prefer inertia and stability, to movement. That said, most people …
/r/askTRP09/05/20 01:32 AM
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but given they are on the best behavior that actually makes it harder to push them Why are you pushing them? ​ I would like them to text me tho, yknow bc it's sign of interest/investment. But you just said that they are on their best behavior? ​ this stuff was a sign of insecurity She's right.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 01:59 PM
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Im going mad. I've got game Sure about that? and I can turn women on, but I typically go with the flow. You think she's going to ask you to come over and fuck? Where is your trust building, isolation, escalation?
/r/seduction08/05/20 11:51 AM
2

If it's Thursday night Khaisei - "I'm going to the beach Saturday, come with me." (quasi hangout/date) Chica - "I dunno....some bullshit" (reluctance) Khaisei - "Come to the beach, it's gonna be epic!!!" (sell it!!) Chica (Positive) - "Okay..." Khasiei - "I'm gonna scoop you up at such and such time, bring something to go swimming in, and something to wrap up, sun tan lotion, How do you feel about crabs - no not the seafood...." Chica (Negative) - "I dunno, more bullshit" Khaseik - Aight Cool. W…
/r/seduction08/05/20 12:15 AM
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Compton/East Side/Watts/Brownsville/Southside - Whatever it is, say it with your chest. If you live in the Sticks aka Bumblefuck Ohio or some shit, tell em you're a country boy loud and proud. Start singing "Country Boy can survive" If you live in the Burbs, the attitude is "fuck that, I'm not getting shot". "My neighbors voted for Romney." Chicks fuck bankers and gangsters, cops and robbers, etc. You can a fuck a chick in a car, on a dirty mattress in the living room of a halfway house, in a po…
/r/askTRP08/05/20 12:04 AM
1

Read the Married Red Pill Sub.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 11:51 PM
2

Scheduled Date at a Bar for drinks? It really depends on your age, her age, the climate, the country, etc. If you're 21+ and live in America, these should be fine. For a basic kickback, I'll rock Polo/Button Down Dress Shirt - type of thing you'd see in J.Crew/Gap/Banana. Not too "office-y". Dark Jeans or Dark Slacks (dark pants for night time dates) Brown Belt and Brown Leather Shoes Leather band on the watch. *Nice* Basics work for most temperatures and times. I would rarely wear these on a 1s…
/r/seduction07/05/20 07:15 PM
3

2 words - Fuck It.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 06:48 PM
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Yes. It is pretty crucial to date the other girls and really try to connect, not just half ass it. These other girls have other good qualities, and those qualities put the main girl into real perspective. When it's just you and the chick, you'll let her bullshit slide. When you have other females, you'll be quick to call the main chick on her bs.
/r/seduction07/05/20 05:57 PM
1

She wants you to chase, by sending more and more messages. She's basically seducing you. The more work you do, the more invested you are, the more you think you should get something = the more she controls you. Personally? I'd pass
/r/seduction07/05/20 03:45 PM
1

Three months ago I brutally and swiftly rejected a girl and walked away from our first date: Gone in 60 seconds! I was going through a drought so had hit up all the girls I’d blocked in the past. She said she was at a cafe so I met her: Who does this?
/r/seduction07/05/20 12:04 PM
1

So much of this gaming shit is about “making the right moves It can be. It doesn't have to be. But where does self respect come in? Isn’t half this shit about respecting yourself and loving yourself? That's too complicated a topic for this sub.
/r/seduction07/05/20 02:12 AM
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should I keep texting her during covid or wait till this shit is over to meetup. You should FaceTime or give her a phonecall if you're trying to put your chorizo in her taco. And from there, you meet up. Don't treat this girl like the golden ticket or some shit. This isn't a prize to be won, just a girl that needs some dick
/r/askTRP07/05/20 01:38 AM
1

Most people that read this scenario have some sympathy for the girl, for whatever reason. Maybe they think she's in some sort of a funk. Their sympathy is unearned. The sympathy comes from society's general point of view that women are worth more than men, women's feelings are worth more than man's feelings. As a result she doesn't have any responsibility to him, ever. She can engage in all sorts of horrible behavior towards him, and because he's the man, he is just supposed to take it. So even …
/r/seduction07/05/20 01:34 AM
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Double down.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 08:21 PM
3

GOT BACK WITH HER. Her wanting to get back into a relationship with you was fully predictable. We all make mistakes though.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 04:16 PM
3

Got back with her on the condition Red Pill - Am I a joke to you?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 04:13 PM
3

In America, convicts work in construction or real kitchens (not fast food)
/r/askTRP06/05/20 03:38 PM
23

Who dis? New phone.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 03:27 PM
1

#Believe Women
/r/askTRP06/05/20 12:35 PM
0

But really, I want to know if you guys have any sort of success winning someones heart/ Even if they were not attracted to you right off the bat. Yes. It's fairly typical. It's actually the norm. Many guys in regular relationships, had to persist with a chick. Him - "I knew she was the one, when I saw her" Her - "I hated him at first, but he kept coming around" This is so common that they make Hollywood movies about it. Your friends and family have these stories. They aren't lying to you. It's c…
/r/seduction06/05/20 12:52 AM
10

23 is the Perfect age.
/r/seduction05/05/20 11:01 PM
11

Just read Models Bro
/r/seduction05/05/20 07:54 PM
1

I was with you until you said this how do I make this branch swing possible with the least amount of backfire on me? The fuck you want to be her boyfriend for? What you should have done was gotten some isolation with the chick - maybe go the store for some ice - and then just hooked up. Now you want to take her off her man instead of just fuck her like the unfaithful slut that she is? smh
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:43 PM
4

When did Purple Pill become a personal issue sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:04 PM
1

Why do you keep persisting after all of these red flags?
/r/seduction05/05/20 06:45 PM
1

" I see some older guys saying that they heyday of game was in the mid 2000s to 2010s. And that it's less effective now. No you don't.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:03 PM
1

>should it be ok for the man to revoke committment? It is okay. People breakup and divorce all the time. Women in particular are quick to initiate when their needs aren't met. Part of the reason why people get "stuck" is that they don't have the personal strength to get out of bad situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 03:20 PM
1

They probably need a clear way to organize all that information.
/r/seduction05/05/20 03:18 PM
7

If it was a sacrifice not worth making, they wouldn't pressure men into long term relationships and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 03:16 PM
7

You can definitely lose interest by texting too much. But ultimately, it is up to her. Chicks are inconsistent. Some need a lot of attention, and others don't. But the typical situation is that the guy doesn't have enough going on his life (be it multiple women or a mission more important than pussy), and the female becomes the sole focus of his attention. I guess tunnel vision is okay if you're just trying to date and not trying to pickup. But it's not a good road to go down imo.
/r/seduction05/05/20 03:18 AM
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Anyone can point you to a website and say buy this, this, and this. A J. Crew bankruptcy sale is going to have you looking like every other dork responding to a gmail blitz. Find a celebrity that you look like, or have the same measurements, and just copy their style. Celebs typically can't dress, they're given these clothes by professional stylists, so that they always look good. That doesn't mean you need to buy the same high end fashion stuff, but you just need to pay attention the combinatio…
/r/askTRP04/05/20 05:10 PM
1

as in he doesn't really have the skills in practice to pull this stuff off and has to hire actresses for his infields... But does that mean he is not a good source of knowledge, and that what he teaches doesn't work? Yes.
/r/seduction04/05/20 03:21 PM
2

He hired a paid actress for one of his videos.
/r/seduction04/05/20 02:56 PM
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If a chick that is really into you suddenly goes distant, the relationship is over. You can't plead or punish her for more attention. Because worse than her being distant, is her thinking you are a lame. Cut contact. If she hits you up, cut her off. If she asks why are you being like this... The response is *You know why.". Do not explain yourself to her. She knows that you're pulling back because she went distant. She will mention this, and the response here is, something like "if you needed sp…
/r/seduction04/05/20 01:29 PM
3

I want to see her More but I don't want to lose attraction by being too available. You need more chicks in your life. And even If you don't have a chick, you still need a mission. Because if the choice is between you fucking and pretending to do something, you're losing
/r/seduction03/05/20 09:10 PM
4

Are you on the right sub?
/r/askTRP03/05/20 07:45 PM
39

Hope for the best, expect and prepare for the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 04:23 PM
1

Dumping a hot chick over her bullshit makes your posture better and increases your odds of winning the lottery.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:14 PM
1

r/bodyweightfitness
/r/seduction03/05/20 12:12 PM
2

If you think this makes you mad, these hoes is IRATE. They make whole videos about it. https://youtu.be/0AeIGESJTfc Broads complain all day long about how some fat nerd manages to get some hot chick with an education.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:12 PM
1

Mean Girls, The Notebook, Grease, Titanic, Pretty Woman, When Harry Met Sally, Sweet Home Alabama, Bridget Jones Diary, and all of the Sex and the City series. Learning how to appeal and wield a woman's hypergamistic instincts is a key part of your offensive game. But you can't watch the movies as movies. You have to watch them like someone that wants to create this fantasy in a chick's head.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 02:42 PM
5

Only a foolish person tells their real strategy to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 02:37 PM
3

I can speak the truth to my guy friends without worrying about emotional repercussions. None of my guy friends will listen to a story and then make it about themselves. I have plenty of girl friends. They often want you to "open up". That's for my girlfriend/wife. They don't seem to understand boundaries. They want a companionship with me like they have with other women. Whereas men want companionship with women like they have with men. This is why when you add a female to a team on an all male …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 09:00 PM
5

Both are same age. Zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 04:49 PM
1

You think fashion houses are run by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 07:42 AM
8

Can you talk to random strangers and just shoot the shit? What's the last chat you had with someone you didn't know? If you can't small talk with anyone, trying to pull girls is calculus before counting.
/r/seduction01/05/20 05:40 AM
3

A lot of those fashion models (typical alpha bait) have nude but artful pics. It's all perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:13 AM
4

Sorry to hear. This isn't something where you can just change your in the moment behavior, and everyone else will calm down. You'll have to change crowds - which obviously leads to other problems.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 04:07 PM
1

Cashier - low money, low education, more inclined to that type of guy. - Low SMV Lawyer - high money, high education, but also high expectations but no time, and major reluctance to do any work to keep herself attractive or keep a relationship going. - Low SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 11:44 AM
1

Again, I read what women say. I listen to what they tell themselves. As a staunch feminist, I believe women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 08:49 PM
13

That's what they tell me. Who am I to judge?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:49 PM
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I fuck them semi-regularly. She was "serious" about school in undergrad and "serious" about school in Biz/Law/Medical school. "I don't have time for a serious relationship". She's right. She didn't. Doesn't mean she didn't have needs. More than few boyfriends that she knew from outset weren't going to be husbands. One or 2 that were decent candidates, but he moved on, didn't want to commit, or she got bored. Now she has a big job, most of the baubles she's ever wanted, and NOW she's trying to la…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:17 PM
1

r/actuallesbians
/r/seduction29/04/20 01:13 PM
1

First, you already know that CS is a turn off, stop being a bitch and hoping somebody is gonna wipe your nerd tears away and say it'll be okay. The question is framed incorrectly, and all these dudes replying are buying into a faulty frame. Keep that in mind next time you read any of these fucks. I don't give a fuck what turns her off. You should not be pussyfooting about her stupid job prejudices. You decide what is cool. That is the whole point of this red pill shit, the girl doesn't determine…
/r/askTRP29/04/20 01:05 PM
1

Drug dealer, mostly Adderall to college kids. Some Xanax on occasion
/r/askTRP29/04/20 12:45 PM
1

It's a good beginner's book.
/r/seduction29/04/20 12:24 PM
3

That's the one where he starts out, "I'm a fish, I'm a fish" - It's pretty funny. Aren't there RSD backup torrents?
/r/seduction28/04/20 05:58 PM
8

1) As a Gen X dude, i can say the guys looking for dating advice are certainly more in touch with their feelings and willing to share. It's one of the new interesting realities that I don't think older generations truly understand. 2) Also speaking from decrepitude - the sharp division between online and offline persona is much more blurred with Millennials and Gen Z, as well as concerns about perception. Both camps seem to feel inadequate because they are comparing themselves with people they s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 05:43 PM
7

How do you escalate when you are just a normal guy having a normal conversation? TL DR is that You don't "escalate", she does. And it's intermediate? indirect game. Lemme give you a standard example. So let's say me and you are at horse racing track. Since we're betting on the ponies, I'm gonna ask you what horse you like in the next race. You say you like #7, and I say that I like #9. And then you tell me WHY you like #7. I say why I like #9. But then I say, because "My horse race betting mento…
/r/askTRP28/04/20 01:58 PM
3

Long story ahead. I (25M) Went on a date with a coworker(19F) I stopped reading right here
/r/askTRP28/04/20 12:04 PM
8

Women can be happy while in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:02 PM
3

----First of all when you're Qualifiying and when you are Disqualifiying and viceversa.. I mean when they are Qualifying and Disqualifiying you. My sequence Have a general mental model of how it's supposed to happen See the girl Assess the situation (where you are, social dynamics, what she's doing, who she's with, her mood and demeanor) Get her attention (eye contact, get in her space, verbal) Say your first words as you attempt to open the conversation - Hey, Ayo Transition out of your first w…
/r/seduction27/04/20 10:24 AM
3

That is sad
/r/seduction27/04/20 09:23 AM
7

So like clockwork one of the cutest girls working there approached me and asked if i needed help with anything. I Not a hired gun, just a shop girl. A hired gun is like a gogo dancer or a Hooters waitress. She's hired to flirt with guys to sell more food/alcohol. She's actively using her sexuality to get you to buy. (It's deniable of course). She is expecting you to hit on her, and she plays the role perfectly, to get more money. Very strong sense of the reality between you and her and sex. To p…
/r/seduction27/04/20 02:34 AM
2

If you were alone in thinking that the world is crazy, wouldn't that make you the crazy one?
/r/askTRP26/04/20 07:18 PM
1

In my opinion, dating is built upon the foundation of social skills. And in turn, Seduction is built upon the foundation of dating skills. What OP is proposing would of course help in seduction, the same way knowing how to add and subtract helps in calculus. Moreover the relationships sub and the dating sub will be better equipped to handle these core subjects. This particular question is essentially is essentially What can I learn about myself based on my past relationships? What can I learn ab…
/r/seduction26/04/20 07:14 PM
1

Seems like a dating question, not a seduction question. Maybe try the dating or the relationships sub.
/r/seduction26/04/20 05:38 PM
1

I believe in product with pickup. Never did with sales
/r/seduction26/04/20 04:20 PM
9

Now you're too good for a fat girl titty fuck and bj?
/r/askTRP26/04/20 01:45 PM
17

750 Credit Score.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 11:18 AM
7

>If the man doesn't want to wait, it sounds like he doesn't really care about her. There are plenty of men (about 80%) that would happily watch Gilmore Girls and remember to pick up her preferred brand of tampons. She just doesn't find those men, who do care, who are willing to wait - attractive for doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 11:16 AM
2

This thread is reading very American right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 11:09 AM
5

No, that's a good sign. Means I found a prostitute and can treat her as such.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 11:06 AM
13

I can definitely be surly. But I learned from posts back in the day. Gotta pay it forward. I wish guys would ask better questions or post field reports, instead of How Do I SliDe in the DM'S guYz?
/r/seduction25/04/20 02:00 PM
2

It's not a good sign when the chick changes plans. It's also not great for you to just go along with it and basically let her dictate the date. But it's not fatal either. Agree, go, and and kick her butt workout wise. I would be slightly disappointed if she couldn't keep up.
/r/seduction25/04/20 12:48 PM
2

However, when I expand the conversation with an idea to have unlimited things to discuss You're fucking up here try to be David Attenborough. Keep the chat light. Memes and Pics - anything on Reddit Popular is good enough to start a chat with a chick. Facetime - so you can see her emotions Phone Calls - So you can hear her emotions Food - I totally miss that one place that doesn't deliver. You ever been there? Music - This Westside Gunn is hitting! Movies - Lemme guess, you're favorite movie is.…
/r/askTRP25/04/20 11:30 AM
55

Don't need a wingman/wingwoman to do the 100 approach mission, and you'll probably learn more if you don't. A female wing will either introduce you, be a "base" for you to come back to, show social proof, show pre-selection. If the girl is attractive, there's also the issue of other guys trying to talk to her, when she's trying to be your wing. You may discover "feelings" for your wing when some dude talks to her. Or you may have to step in. Or your wing wants to ditch you and not help. A male w…
/r/seduction25/04/20 11:20 AM
2

trying to accomplish I want to know about the girl. What is this girl really about? Who is she really? Was the time and effort I spent to go to this point worth the conversation that we're going to have? As the date goes on, I'm pretty much on autopilot. Jokes, stories, roleplay, people watch, biography exchange, relationship history download. Necessary flirts and caresses. Chicks rarely break the script in interesting ways. The technique of pickup is the easy part. On a date, a journeyman playe…
/r/seduction25/04/20 01:46 AM
1

You think so? Dad is pulling Junior aside and telling him, "Son, if there is one thing I've learned, it's this - These hoes ain't loyal. Take your mother for example..."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 02:01 PM
6

Boys night out. Other than that, not much you can do. Many are tempted to red pill a guy that is going through a breakup, but that usually backfires.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 12:58 PM
1

You can be a caveman and ask for her number in front of all the customers and her coworkers and her boss. Basically take no regard for her insecurity or the social dynamics of the situation. That is what contemporary pick up says to do.
/r/seduction24/04/20 12:55 PM
2

Is it pointless for men to dream Yes. Females dream of that stuff, but when they land their high value man, the dream ends, and she wakes up to see that she's been sold a bill of goods. Being with Mr Perfect isn't the answer to all of her problems. In fact, now on close inspection, he's not perfect and he's another problem. She will cut through the ocean of low value men, and maybe find a few more HVM's, each time dreaming the best, dealing with reality, and then trying to restart the honeymoon …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 12:50 PM
1

I don't recommend it as the book, it's more like an intro book, short and simple. Technique is the easiest part of pickup.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 12:34 PM
5

Testosterone drops and they can't put up with dumb chicks and their inane behavior. Find someone pretty and sane, until the relationship blows up.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 02:00 AM
2

The real blue pill is usually on the relationships sub. Basically assume the best of the other person, unless they do something egregious. So if one partner wants to hit the clubs one night with their friends, assume that's all it is, not the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 01:58 AM
1

The one and fucking only. RIP RVF. Reddit "Red Pill" isn't Roosh/Roissy/Rollo red pill. But Reddit Red Pill is the face of red pill online.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:39 PM
2

Disagree with a lot of the sub and most of the YouTube guys who rebranded from the Manosphere. Got marketing fucks calling value investing "Red Pill Finance". SMH. There is a shit ton of clowns in it now and mouth breathers who don't know anything other than the memes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:34 PM
0

Way more than the Reddit sub, .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:29 PM
2

Feel like this question comes up all the time on this sub. SMV. people that question AWALT/unicorn hunting. You know she is a slut if... Dread. Agree and amplify as THE response to so-called shit tests. PUA is bullshit, just be alpha bro There's this girl. My LTR/my wife... Did something... How do I Control her? Is this beta? How Frame is misused.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:23 PM
3

The answer is simple. The woman can't be the center of your life, the source of your happiness. The basic player protocol is to build yourself up, have a mission bigger than yourself, establish and maintain a social circle, establish your social skills, establish your dating skills, and be open to a long-term relationship. And if things end, you go back to what you were doing. Sure it might hurt, sure it might be very painful. But you're going to be okay at the end of it. 50% of marriages fail, …
/r/seduction23/04/20 09:10 PM
1

TRP main pillars are Fitness, Game, Money, but I see guys that don't have any of those with (sometimes very hot) women. What about the burnout pot dealers crashing in their girlfriend's houses? It's Game, not pickup. Specifically, girls like how they feel around certain guys. She likes the emotions, not the guy. Even with Chad Thundercock, it's not the baseball bat wedged in her twat, that's actually painful. It's how he makes her feel. She likes riding a big powerful animal. She likes being aro…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 08:50 PM
6

No infield footage. All lecture. Bad for rookies Okay for intermediates. Nothing new for advanced
/r/seduction23/04/20 08:23 PM
3

Roosh, that's my boy and all, but you gotta take what he says with a bucket full of salt. Focusing on the girls that are attracted to you makes sense but do you guys agree that the majority of girls won't be attracted to a given guy? If we mean natural/primal attraction, that is her reptilian brain sees a handsome face and a good body and thinks, "Yes I want to make babies with this guy." - he is right. Women enhance their visual appearance to attack your reptilian brain. You can't not notice a …
/r/askTRP23/04/20 08:06 PM
2

Avoid self deprecation
/r/seduction23/04/20 07:36 PM
2

1) Ask Seddit. 2) It's over bro.
/r/seduction23/04/20 07:26 PM
7

while it’s usually great I’ve never quite understood if it’s me causing the ending or my choice in lady. TL DR is - The only reason she stays is based on how she feels. The long part most aren't going to read. The secret is that she looks at how she feels every moment. And if she isn't feeling the relationship, it's over. It's not up to you. It's up to her. That's all it is. Obviously you can try to keep things new, bring that first date energy, go exclusive, get engaged, get married, start a fa…
/r/seduction23/04/20 10:59 AM
3

From a seduction standpoint, you should always talk to girls that you like, regardless of signs. And go into the interaction assuming the best. AKA confidence
/r/seduction23/04/20 02:18 AM
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Is there any difference on how you treat/flirt/meet a girl you want to know before if you want a LTR to know if she wants the same? No. You obviously screen differently, but you treat them the same. Hot stripper slut wants a strong man. She wants intense emotions. Church girl librarian also wants a strong man and intense emotions. The 5-6 wants that. So does the 9-10. You are funny, interesting, challenging, and assertive with all. Not as an act, but as an extension of your personality.
/r/seduction22/04/20 11:55 PM
8

the most attractive men i know You're basically telling on yourself. It is all good, no judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:06 PM
9

So you only go after taken guys. Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:04 PM
1

Typically I go for that conventional white and brunette/blonde look. So curious why the change. Too much porn
/r/askTRP22/04/20 05:48 PM
5

They want to be around women. The 80% likes them. They probably like them too much, given their lack of experience. But the guy without options tends to treat the few women in his life like a precious treasure. He doesn't know any better than what he's been told. And much to his chagrin, the obedient love bombing often has the opposite effect. Rather than draw the girl closer to him, it pushes her away. She doesn't like it, or respond well to it after awhile. There is no mystery, and the guy is …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:46 PM
9

I am not. Unless you are saying that unattractive males aren't men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 04:48 PM
27

80% of men want a committed relationship. 20% don't because they can get the milk without buying the cow. Women are attracted to the guys that don't want commitment. It's usually not the lack of commitment that attracts them. It's just the general female thirst that forces the guy to not commit. Even hot girls get cheated on. Often with chicks not as attractive. But no girl wants to be with a guy in the bottom 80%.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 04:01 PM
1

Question is too vague to give a real answer.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:38 PM
1

She's low self esteem, and you aren't attractive enough. She'll fuck some loser, trust. If you want to fuck a chick that will drag you down, you have to change your look and behavior. And you know The Red Pill is all about becoming the dream of female trash. /s
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:35 PM
3

A lot of average guys get occasional results on dating apps. Please see the handful of guys with success on the various subs. Average guys should do the necessary work to be somewhat viable, but then automate that part of their life, instead of becoming obsessed with it. It is the overall tendency of men to fixate that leads to problems. Multiple streams of income.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:30 PM
1

It isn’t she simply is not attracted to you anymore because you aren’t doing anything to make yourself attractive to her. The things being mentioned are over the top acts of niceness and affection. Most men have tried and failed numerous times to woo women by being the nice, affectionate, caring guy. Smart men, observant men, realize that this doesn't work. Women resent the nice guy treatment, because he's using niceness to get into her panties. In the relationship context, the woman's demands p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:23 PM
2

Does she talk to you a lot? Does she initiate discussions with you? Does she go off topic after a normal question? Is she finding ways to be physically around you? In any event, you'll have to take a leap of faith. If she was 11 out of 10 interested, she would do the work. That happens, but if it's not happening to you all the time, know that it is rare for you.
/r/seduction22/04/20 02:09 PM
2

Fairly normal in the regular dating world. Pickup focuses on speed and efficiency.
/r/seduction22/04/20 04:43 AM
1

She is getting what she wants, you to care. You got to understand, they're vindictive. Sign up for them to win, you have to suffer. Some girls are mad that you even approach them, that you even had the thought that you could even approach. They all want to have this "I'm a bad bitch" vibe to ward off men that they don't like. If she breaks up with you, you better not be with another girl to soon. It's not enough that she put you down, you'd better stay down. If you break up with her, she believe…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 07:33 PM
7

"Who dis? New Phone.".
/r/seduction21/04/20 06:39 PM
8

And girls apparently don't like sex. If sex is merely currency, just say so
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:07 PM
2

Sidebar
/r/seduction21/04/20 05:04 PM
1

This. Close thread
/r/askTRP21/04/20 05:03 PM
8

It's weird that women think that the honeymoon will be forever, over and over again. After the first two guys, she should understand that nobody can keep overachieving. It's basically a one way street. Whereas with sex, it's mutual. If she thinks that she is trading sex for affection is normal....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:01 PM
-4

It's fine
/r/askTRP21/04/20 03:56 PM
0

You're asking this question in a skeptical way. Seems like you have other questions.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 03:14 PM
1

PUA reading Reading and no action?
/r/askTRP21/04/20 02:43 PM
0

Is this a regular occurrence? The ugly friend is playing guard dog to the pretty friend. So the ugly friend sees the pretty friends body language change, from closed to open (neutral to turned on). Guard dog doesn't think you are good enough. Then the guard dog friend comes in to save the day. Talking to a girl then suddenly her lower smv friend comes to join in and takes her friend away? You probably fucked up with your approach in terms of the way the body language looks. In terms of action, v…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 01:53 PM
1

You're just afraid to escalate. If you're not going to take the leap of faith and flirt with her, it's rare that she will.
/r/seduction20/04/20 09:15 PM
1

Be high value when you meet/when she encounters you.
/r/seduction20/04/20 07:32 PM
3

She can't carry a chat with you. She can talk forever to her friends or boyfriend. If you have problems with the chat, it's one of two things. 1) Your expectations are off. My parents will leave me on read. It's not because they don't love me, but it's the nature of the medium. If I wanted instant feedback, I'd give them a phonecall or FaceTime. 2) Whatever lead to you getting her number/snap, your impression on her is not as deep as her impression on you. She's the best thing to happen to you i…
/r/seduction20/04/20 12:38 PM
1

If you can't finish a book, skip it. Just stick to the stuff that is already working for you
/r/seduction20/04/20 12:32 PM
1

Sex is about ego, so yes
/r/askTRP20/04/20 12:31 PM
6

Guys without game and can't dance should not go to 99% of clubs. Maybe if she likes that rolling on Molly electronica stuff. Those chicks have zero rhythm and there isn't much grinding. If you have both dance floor skills and game, go. Chick will regret that she put you back into play.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 12:23 PM
1

Sidebar
/r/seduction20/04/20 03:36 AM
8

Her credit score
/r/seduction19/04/20 11:50 PM
1

It's a pretty common intermediate tactic to bait a girl into testing you. A lot of the upside of peacocking was girls would test you, and then you'd have a really great answer. That would blow her frame out. I don't think this sub is friendly about tactical discussion though.
/r/seduction19/04/20 08:23 PM
1

No
/r/seduction19/04/20 08:21 PM
3

I don't think you truly understand the red pill. A girl wants a guy that is - - taller. - stronger. - more attractive. - more popular. - more assertive, more of a leader. - richer. - more adventurous. Than her. You have to be better than her in every respect in order to pull her. But when she gets that guy, she can't handle it. She wants him to change. She wants him to be less of who he is. His brilliance makes her feel inadequate. And if he gives into her? If he dials back the charm? She thinks…
/r/askTRP19/04/20 05:51 PM
2

Is the immediate happiness of the group more important than your own immediate happiness? If you want to keep them happy, you have to be unhappy for a time. Is that something you can deal with? Only you know the answer
/r/seduction19/04/20 05:33 PM
3

However, I sent her a text trying to open a conversation with her last night in the early evening and she still hasn't responded. I have the day open today Somebody give this guy some Gatorade, because he's way too thirsty
/r/askTRP19/04/20 05:07 PM
1

TheRedPill (and subsequently asktrp) seem to believe that a man’s attitude is king This is the wrong characterization. But of the three choices, red pill is closest to the truth. The other two branches of the tree, successful blue pill guys and pickup artists, should also be considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:58 PM
5

Job issues and citizenship requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:55 PM
2

When you leave the group, you are messing up the social dynamics. Manson started with social dynamics (mystery method). He didn't like having to deal with social dynamics or conflict. So he preaches an anti social method. A lot of guys like this method, and don't understand the weaknesses.
/r/seduction19/04/20 04:54 PM
5

Don't worry, 90% of the stuff here isn't pickup
/r/seduction19/04/20 03:43 AM
2

Be a shining example of how red pill philosophy translates to real world results. And usually when you start to level up, your "friends" stay in the same position and can try to pull you down.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:32 AM
6

She won't be entitled to his pension/retirement/military benefits, or any business he starts and owns.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:14 PM
6

Asset protection
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:52 PM
1

Just a veteran. Kill all your heroes
/r/seduction18/04/20 04:29 PM
58

sheds manly tear They grow up so fast. What should be my next steps in this journey? More plates when the pandemic ends.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 04:19 PM
1

Are you getting the results that you want?
/r/seduction18/04/20 12:34 PM
0

end.How is that any different from a book on conversasional skills? How is any PUA book any different than conversational skills? Considering your audience is a pickup skill. Manson doesn't give a fuck. (His next book is called "the subtle art of not giving a fuck"). Manson hates all this preparation stuff you are talking about. The point of the book is to not do that stuff. You say what you want, when you want. Be polarizing. If she doesn't like it, if she wants to fight or convince you that yo…
/r/seduction18/04/20 03:32 AM
1

There aren't any. Models is anti seduction. For me, the part I lack at is jumping points in conversation, more specificly forming a deeper bond. What you want is antithetical to what Models teaches.
/r/seduction18/04/20 03:12 AM
1

Okay, hit the surgeon
/r/askTRP18/04/20 03:08 AM
6

Did the girlfriend give your sister a good dick report? Did the girlfriend right to both of you? Are you better than your sister?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 11:28 PM
1

The pick up and seduction community is so obsessed with routines and techniques Where do people come up with this stuff? The community moved on in 2007
/r/seduction17/04/20 11:01 PM
5

She can't pair bond after all that dick
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 10:59 PM
1

You aren't saying much about what you are saying to these females and what you're doing with them.
/r/seduction17/04/20 10:58 PM
1

Swoop The World is the best forum for this. Aside from cost, needing to learn the language in some situations, avoiding pros, semi-pros, green card hopefuls, and gringo hunters - the biggest one is post holiday depression. Grass is greener might be true with a Peruvian/Ukrainian, but my tolerance for American women got even lower. Indifference and disdain for hot chicks drives them closer to you, but it means nothing if you no longer value their attention. At a more meta level, travel increases …
/r/seduction17/04/20 10:45 PM
11

You mean 99% of women only care about themselves? I am shocked!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 06:55 PM
2

Hopping on an airplane and going to a new country. A lot of guys get a totally different reception when they go to Southeast Asia, Latin America, Western Europe, Eastern Europe, Africa, etc. Personally, when I was in grad school, the international students really liked me. When I finally Hit up Barcelona, the vibe and the chicks were way friendly. There are a lot of cool things and problems with passport game, but this sub isn't really past the absolute beginner stage. Most of these guys here ar…
/r/seduction17/04/20 05:52 PM
1

Agreed. But I'll become a Tinder expert before I take a girl hiking, lol. If the girl is the outdoors type, I've been there, done that, and not interested! After this, The girls going to crowded clubs are telling you a lot about themselves, for good or bad.
/r/seduction17/04/20 05:10 PM
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Setting - random bar. You're in the middle of a conversation with a chick. Archie - in a serious tone - this might sound a little weird because I usually don't talk politics, but can I ask you a question? Chica - thinking that the chat is going to get serious - Sure... Archie - in a serious tone- This is the most important topic right now. I feel that this issue may result in further division in the country. Make and hold eye contact. Archie - pineapples on pizza, where do you stand? The girl wi…
/r/seduction17/04/20 02:47 PM
8

You can try, but most of the time p/p comes up naturally. If you're going to practice watch situation comedies that involve romance. Friends, How I met Your Mother. Pick one conversation between a man and a woman, and then pick one line that she says and improvise a push pull. You will probably never repeat the particular lines that you use in any given instance, but the sort of exercise gets your mind ready to find these patterns.
/r/seduction17/04/20 02:09 PM
0

First things first, this really isn't a test. It's her just blabbing her mouth and you reacting poorly. In terms of how to respond, Everyone is already giving you the basics. But if you want to get to the next level, you need to think about what you want out of the girl. Your goal determines the response. Usually when guys ask about this particular test (some other hot guy), it's because they're insecure. They care whether the girl likes them or not. They care whether she stays or not. You need …
/r/askTRP17/04/20 02:02 PM
1

I did a 20 day fast and a 14 day fast in 2019 (March and November respectively). I worked up from 18:6, 23:1, OMAD, ADF, and then a horrible 48 hr fast. 100% water at first, but leg cramps made me grab the potassium, and dizziness made my add the salt. Some magnesium rounded it out. I'd look up snake juice instead of trying to do a pure water fast. True hunger disappeared around day 4. But then existential hunger lurked. I have not had a sloppy Joe since grade school. Cool Ranch Doritos either. …
/r/askTRP17/04/20 12:01 PM
1

If you want to use this style of game, and you never qualify yourself. It goes against the idea the qualification stands for. Never qualify yourself to a girl. You are the person in the couple that decides what is good, what it bad, what is cool, what is lame. You don't need to use this style of old school game. Talking yourself up, is mainstream socializing. Plenty of guys that don't do pickup brag about themselves, talk about themselves, try to show off to impress girls. They get laid because …
/r/seduction17/04/20 11:38 AM
2

There are plenty of industry articles about this. I don't know how long you've been doing this, but there were a shit ton more clubs in the early 00's. All over America for sure, and probably holds for most of the developed world. With night clubs - The trend has been towards bottle service type clubs that focus on whales and really rich clients. That clears out a lot of the mid range clubs. Moreover millennials and zoomers are not the club goers that Gen X was. Online dating and social media on…
/r/seduction17/04/20 04:09 AM
2

You can't EVER win this game simply because you have no leverage. You could have fucked the chick already and still have no leverage. She has all the power. The play is to -. 1) Have a mission that is more important than pussy. This is a tall fucking order that people don't really like to talk about, because they're obsessed with getting their dicks wet. 2) Multiple Females. Not one of these bitches is reliable. Even your mother has disappointed you, and she loves you unconditionally. These rand…
/r/askTRP17/04/20 03:55 AM
6

1) Night Game - Lot of bars and clubs and public gathering places won't survive the economic downturn. Night life venues have been on a decline even before the virus. But there will be less places to go, less places to grab dinner, etc. 2) Online - Should be easier to get a girl online to come to straight to your place. Provided that you have great pics on your profile, and good game generally. 3) Day game is going to take a hit. 4) Passport game is going to take a major hit. 5) Social circle is…
/r/seduction17/04/20 03:44 AM
2

If it's a dick measuring contest - No you didn't best him he fucked her first, when she was younger and hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 12:52 AM
7

Are you in the right sub?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 12:50 AM
4

Most red pill guys would not be happy in Saudi or India. They are happy in 3rd world countries where roles are more traditional - because they have Western dollars (beta bucks). But if/when the money runs out.... And his "alpha" cock is consistently challenged by locals that understand the psychology of the women far better than he ever could. They aren't happy in the egalitarian West either. You can see that general trend from the birth rates in the most progressive countries. Feminism that mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 12:49 AM
2

At the learning stages, you have to make sacrifices. Most guys don't want to change. That's goes across the board, from dieting, weightlifting, making money. Etc. They want the results but don't want to make the sacrifice. They want tips, tricks, and ninja hacks. The general advice is you should hyper focus on building the skill set for 10-12 weeks. Go out. Small chunk the game. Field reports. All the necessary tools. For a summer/a season - pickup should be the only thing on your mind. Like stu…
/r/seduction16/04/20 02:15 PM
2

Have boundaries" and punish bad behaviors. But I am conflicting with other mindset, becoming non-reactive and don't give a shit mindset. You will hear different things on this. For me, I'm a pitbull laying on the porch chilling. If somebody walks by I don't pay them any attention. But the second they put a foot on the lawn that's when I stand up and make eye contact. Take another step, please.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 12:11 PM
1

I don't know if you meant to reply to me, but if you think that looks won't eventually fade, then you're in for a rude awakening. If you're forever chasing the fountain of youth, you'll have to keep going after 22 year olds and younger. So just prepare your life accordingly. It worked for Hugh Hefner.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 11:41 AM
1

I don't really care if the relationship continues. There isn't anything to win. So I'll just respond with my immediate honest impression.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 10:09 AM
1

lost feelings for as soon as her appearance started to decline. Just know you will never be in another relationship again. Prepare accordingly
/r/askTRP16/04/20 10:07 AM
2

Should you flat out tell her; ay i like you wanna hookup This is almost always bad. just gradually making clues , play with her, escalate But this is a jumbled up way of going from 0 - 100. Flirt, pull back on the flirting, observe. Touch, pull back, observe. Get some more privacy. Flirt/touch a bit more, pull back, observe. You're trying to do a few things, but mostly seeing where she is with you/checking her comfort level. But you're also slowly building arousal. All the moves are deliberate, …
/r/seduction16/04/20 09:48 AM
1

Context needed
/r/seduction16/04/20 09:34 AM
2

And that is the "problem" with a lot of "technical" subs, once they become even mildly popular they get flooded with - to put it mildly - low-quality content/contributions, and that's what happened to the TRP sub and the manosphere in general 1,000 times yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:50 PM
1

It happens bro. But you need to ask yourself, How did I get here?
/r/askTRP15/04/20 07:54 PM
1

The more you bang, the less likely you are to put up with any given girl's bs. Why pick up your socks from the floor when you can with new girl in a few nights? It's very easy to never compromising never work together
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 07:42 PM
49

Guys asking dumb questions. Is this beta? I have this plate I haven't fucked yet? My life is fucked up, what do I do? Social media anything. Random strangers disrespect me My coworkers disrespect me. My friends disrespect me. My family disrespects me. I have a diet/weightlifting question Is this a unicorn? Is AWALT really true Guyz? Should I dump my girlfriend because of some dumb reason? How go I get her back? Should I do this dumb thing, even though I have done nothing else with my life? Shoul…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:15 PM
1

Successful dating and long term relationships AND comparing notes with fellow travelers brought me to a more pragmatic approach. My pragmatism is contrasted by youthful idealism. Love is all that matters. Communication is key. Etc, you know the drill. Dealing with a live human being is very much different than the fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:29 PM
1

You have enough attraction, but not enough trust and arousal. You're failing to verbally escalate before you put your hands on the girl. Basically going from 0-100.
/r/seduction15/04/20 02:55 PM
1

Can you ride a bike?
/r/seduction15/04/20 01:50 PM
2

People that don't see the connection don't know the history. In 2020, a lot less red pill guys are alt Reich. Largely thanks to the failure of their false Messiah. Rewind to say 2008/2010 and then onto gamer gate - there was much more cross pollination. You'll find a lot of red pill guys who hate PUA, which is like Aristotle hating Socrates.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 01:48 PM
1

If I already hooked up with her, whatever is normal. If not, max is 30 minutes door to door
/r/askTRP15/04/20 01:22 PM
1

Men don't get any points for doing chores, they can only lose by not doing chores. Men should be very careful of getting into long term relationships. Indeed, the upside for both is very difficult to define tangibly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 12:59 PM
2

i remember reading in pua or here that if ur an asian man should never attempt to get at a white girl cuz they have no chance or something like that. Fuck whoever said that bullshit.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 12:41 PM
1

I am an Asian living in an Asian country. This changes my calculus. Do you want more for your life than "bitches and money" (c) Ice Cube? When you bring in non Western cultures into the mix, family is way more important. Plus, divorce laws and local culture aren't as bad as the West
/r/askTRP15/04/20 11:44 AM
3

Before you ask about enforcement of boundaries, ask yourself how you got into this situation in the first place? Were you good at pulling hotties for one night stands? Can you rely on your game to replace a chick? Did you have a wide social circle before you got into this relationship? Have you increased your bank roll and physical appearance since getting in the relationship? Has she helped you on your path and purpose? Or does she distract? Did this girl win the tournament of whores and then d…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 11:17 AM
6

This seems like a generic dating question. It doesn't seem like a pick up or seduction question. Correct me if I'm wrong. Because the real pick up advice isn't nearly as nice as most of these people posting.
/r/seduction15/04/20 10:58 AM
1

By Jove, I think he's got it!
/r/askTRP15/04/20 03:27 AM
10

In Western culture, where women have a lot of opportunity and rights as compared to a lot of places - traditional/primal masculine behavior cuts through a lot of bs. A lot don't actually like it, but they respond to it! in a manner that is favorable. When squares do things that women do "like", they respond poorly. If he is nice, she wants more as opposed to being grateful. And when she tires of being pleased and catered to, or he can't meet her ever increasing demands, she has contempt. You don…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 03:10 AM
1

Offline - https://youtu.be/b1XGPvbWn0A Online - https://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=177824231&page=1 These girls are 6's at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 10:02 PM
1

Social ineptitude makes them think that it is a convenient and effective option.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 09:00 PM
1

If you look good and you can dance, you'll find gringo hunters at the clubs. Buy drinks, food, pay for her taxi, etc. Type of thing you might do for a college girl. I would get some software that lets you change locations on your phone, and see what your Tinder appeal is.
/r/seduction14/04/20 05:45 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 03:13 PM
-1

It's a good platform to practice your text game because you have nothing to lose
/r/askTRP14/04/20 03:09 PM
1

However how do you accomplish this? Concept. The concept is called preselection. If a girl that you're interested in sees good looking girls with you, you are made more socially attractive by their presence. Context. Context is important. This works much better in person, in a night club or social environment. Online, guys get mixed results. Execution. In terms of execution, you stand with them, make them laugh, look like you're having a good conversation and having fun. Then you approach. What …
/r/seduction14/04/20 03:06 PM
2

No set pattern. You have to escalate to find out.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 02:16 PM
3

A non prostitute? How good is your Spanish?
/r/seduction14/04/20 02:15 PM
1

90%
/r/seduction14/04/20 02:14 PM
3

If you want children and want them to turn out well, a long term relationship is better than split parenting, or leaving her to meet some other guy. But that gets to one of the dirty secrets in The Red Pill - is wanting kids to turn out well a beta desire? Not too many guys try to tackle the topic
/r/askTRP14/04/20 02:12 PM
-1

Yes. I used my game.
/r/seduction14/04/20 12:35 PM
-1

Yes, it's a bad time to date. Move out and finalize the divorce. This should have been done yesterday I expect this question to come from a 20 year old, not someone that's 37.
/r/seduction14/04/20 12:29 PM
3

Means your social life/night life is slacking.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 10:45 PM
5

By doing a search and reading the dozens of posts on this subject
/r/seduction13/04/20 06:30 PM
1

At 18, her wanting to get to know you, be comfortable, have a relationship, is reasonable. I would pass on this broad just on her age. But it's very likely that she is going to develop feelings for you before/after you bang.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 06:27 PM
1

Break up with her for being fat. She'll get skinny for the next guy
/r/askTRP13/04/20 05:34 PM
1

Ages matter here
/r/askTRP13/04/20 05:32 PM
3

Thinking with your dick. It's like the red pill is a joke to you. It is not worth starting up an old relationship when there is new pussy out there. You're not asking the simple question to get an actual answer. You just want us to validate what you already want to do. So just call her up, hangout, you'll end up hooking up. You already knew this
/r/askTRP13/04/20 05:26 PM
12

She realized you were beta, now she is leaving. She is too pussy to break up with you without a dick to fall on. There isn't anything here to fix. You should just break up with her. Don't put yourself into this position of weakness again. The weakness isn't the girl looking for new cock - that is her nature. The weakness here is you needing to keep her
/r/askTRP13/04/20 05:23 PM
6

Fuck? All day. Wife up? You have got to be shitting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:17 PM
1

Is there a question here?
/r/askTRP13/04/20 05:15 PM
2

Admittedly less than I’d like. I’ve always been good w words whether it be on or offline (obviously some things work better online but I love being able to use facial expressions and body language to gauge things) So basically you have all the makings of a great player. But then you give me excuses like the following. the fact of the matter is this: I’m a dancer and artist who’s friend group consists of a basketball player, a soccer player, and a guy with immaculate style. I love my guys but it’…
/r/seduction13/04/20 05:09 PM
2

Like women that sexually respond to male abusive behavior, a lot of men are maladapted to positive female behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:00 AM
1

My issues stem from a mother You need therapy not pickup.
/r/seduction13/04/20 04:56 AM
3

It's another unnecessary and paranoid logistical hurdle.
/r/seduction13/04/20 04:47 AM
1

Yet he was one of the founding fathers of the movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:53 PM
1

Two kinds of players. Pleasure of the sex, and thrill of the hunt. Everyone starts out for pleasure. Most stay there. But once the sex becomes routine, no more dopamine hits, then the stakes have to be raised. He needs his ego stroked more than his dick. Much like the guy with 10 million needs to be a billionaire. And like a billionaire needs to play God, see Bill Gates, see the Koch brothers, see Peter Thiel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:43 PM
1

Roissy and Roosh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 11:59 AM
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Naw, the game advice is pretty fucking poor. Tactics such as "only text for logistics" is advice one doesn't see in the mainstream dating world Most of these young dudes are trying to fuck chicks off of IG and Tinder. Expecting some chick to do her hair, shave her legs, full face of make-up, couple of wardrobe changes to do to some low effort coffee date because red pill mouth breather said "So does Thursday work for you? Or is Friday better".. It's the height of stupidity. And you can see it in…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:12 AM
2

I do work out, although I actually dropped direct game. I'm simply not good looking enough for it to be effective like it is for my more handsome friends. That means you need to be more handsome. Or it could be that you need to learn better direct game. Your choice. I do cringe though. I mean, I take it that the paragraph I quoted sounds fine to your ear and certainly isn't cringey? (and is also good game?) It's not about fine or not fine, cringe or not cringe. If you can't fuck with the materia…
/r/seduction12/04/20 09:55 AM
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Tech wise - Sounds like you're fucking up the pull. But this is really an inner game and lack of understanding issue. And the answer to your question is yes. Not having social media makes you look like a loser. I'm not sure why these guys are ducking the question. It's like not having a cell phone. It is low value behavior. Not being in shape is a demonstration of lower value. Going out to clubs solo, is low value. That is just how the world works. Not meeting societal expectations is low value.…
/r/askTRP12/04/20 09:39 AM
9

These dudes don't want things the are effective, the want to keep their alpha self image. Better to be a stoic weight lifter reading Marcus Aurelius on a Friday night, than fucking some thot because she liked a staged picture of you sitting in a Benz at the used car lot.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 09:17 AM
9

I'm afraid to fuck everything up just like I've done via texting before. I never got on a bicycle because I was afraid that I would fall.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 09:06 AM
1

I cringe and I think they must be made up as people just don't talk like that lol If you cringe, seduction isn't for you, especially not old school technical stuff like Girls Chase. Just stick to working out and being direct. Use the raw numbers approach instead. You'll be much happier.
/r/seduction12/04/20 09:05 AM
1

Boston is a notoriously tough city. Up there with DC, San Francisco, Toronto, London, and oddly enough Buenos Aires. You put in a lot of work for little reward. In terms of your game, it can always be better, but your results are constrained by your environment. And if you are doing online game, the performance path for evolution is not clear. No bs, I would definitely consider moving. I had a decent job in the Midwest, and 6 months into it, I realized I needed to leave.
/r/seduction12/04/20 12:37 AM
1

One and only.
/r/seduction12/04/20 12:26 AM
1

Tech - r/YaReally. www.skilledseducer.com, Tyler's Digest. Female psych - everywhere. But you need experience to really understand what is good information and what is not. Social Dynamics - everywhere. In general, pickup isn't for dummies. It's not for the lazy. It is not for guys that need simplicity. It is not for guys that don't want to change. But that's what the community is these days
/r/seduction11/04/20 07:48 PM
1

Never talk about pickup with a girl
/r/seduction11/04/20 01:58 PM
1

From what I realized, book is mostly about self improvement so I think it shouldn't matter that much but does it? You don't need to "emotionally heal" yourself to date a cute girl, or have a relationship. Lord knows the females you deal with got more baggage than a flight out of China. But if you do go through self development, you will be more satisfied with your dating. Overall there are various pillars that a guy needs in order to succeed in pickup. Health and fitness, technical knowledge, un…
/r/seduction11/04/20 01:45 PM
1

Somebody's never heard Chris Brown
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:58 PM
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I thought it’s “losing frame” but it’s also low neuroticism I guess. The current interpretation of frame on this sub is wrong and misguided. When someone tells a joke and you laugh, that is a frame grab. When you sit in a theater, watch two dimensional images on a flat screen, and fall into that world - that's a frame grab. Listening to Johnny Cash and imagining your life as an outlaw - that is a frame grab. Frame grabs are seductive, they lead someone into a mindset or emotional state that you …
/r/askTRP11/04/20 12:55 PM
0

The old "be a beta so she breaks up with me" trick. Nice
/r/askTRP10/04/20 08:12 PM
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Agreed. But none of the real men are going to admit that being emotionally safe and all the squishy stuff is important. If nothing at all, having access to one's own emotions makes a guy a better player. "OMG, this bitch left me on read! How do I get back at her". Instead of, "This girl didn't respond the way I wanted her to, and my emotions are messing with my behavior. Why is that? What's going on with me internally?". Just lift more Bro
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:17 PM
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Those parents think they are doing the right thing. And there are multi trillion dollar economic systems to promote and profit from current culture. Unfortunately, this sub doesn't consider the damage being done to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:53 PM
1

Are we talking about NBA players and other celebs?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:40 PM
19

The real red pill is - These Hoes Ain't Loyal. But the red pill on Reddit has become a cesspool of traditional conservatives and blue pill men in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:39 PM
3

NADALT Dead
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:36 PM
14

throws a drink to your face or laughs at you with her friends. You're watching too many movies.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 03:00 PM
1

If she was hard wired for money (like OP claims) she wouldn't have fucked him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 02:08 PM
1

The girl wants to have fun, she wants to bang, so she's playing along. She hasn't been doing her hair, dieting, makeup, learning address, and learning how to talk to guys for decades if she didn't like sex. She wants to fuck a cool guy. That's the whole point of her life. All pickup does is gets the average guy to express the cool shit about themselves. Every guy can be funny, can be sarcastic, can be witty, can be a leader. In terms of the yes ladder, it isn't a magic spell that turns her into …
/r/seduction10/04/20 07:19 AM
4

Here's an example from my favorite sub. Hi ladies, this is my first time posting - so if this isn’t allowed, please remove! What are some of your strategies on fully letting go of LVM? I recently discovered this sub and I love it, but I am finding it difficult to move on from my past. I briefly dated a guy in December and I felt a very strong connection. We slept together on the second date, during sex he let it slip and said “I love you so much,” and then after that he dropped me stating he was…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:01 AM
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Meanwhile it makes sense for women to be wired biologically to maximize their standard of living to ensure their offspring's survival: They fuck losers though. All the damn time (thank you ladies). Like it was going out of style. They pass on 6 figure programmers to fuck try 30 thousandaires like bartenders and personal trainers. Average girl's body count is the 99% , not the 1%. There is no such thing as being hard wired. Not for men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:49 AM
1

Girls like cool guys, stories, jokes, good conversations, fun, and sex, so pickup isn't manipulative by your definition.
/r/seduction10/04/20 06:39 AM
2

Yes, it is. It's very different from an in person chat or a phonecall. You send your little message, but you don't know what state of mind she is in, or what she is doing. In person/phone, you can hear her emotions and adjust your rap on the fly. Moreover she's going to respond to you right then and there. So you don't have to wait, you don't have to wonder what she's thinking. But don't take my word for it, try and text the way you talk to a girl. Maybe you have naturally good text game
/r/seduction10/04/20 02:00 AM
4

Nope. Sluts are alphas. Take what they want when they want it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 08:51 PM
2

How much offline approaching do you do?
/r/seduction09/04/20 07:29 PM
1

YaReally. r/YaReally
/r/seduction09/04/20 05:42 PM
1

Define manipulative
/r/seduction09/04/20 01:51 PM
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She has low self esteem. They're all skeptical. You probably showed too much conventional value that kicked you out of fuckboy land and into boyfriend territory. I used the word kinesthetic with a chick one time, moved my out of cute club guy into boyfriend territory. You never know what's gonna spoil a chick. But you also don't want to play scared like these hoes that text logistics only. So the play that I use for this situation is to agree with her. "Shit yeah I'm better than you. Do you want…
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:58 AM
1

Therapy. You can do a lot of it via webcam these days. If you don't fix the internals, no pickup material will help
/r/seduction09/04/20 02:14 AM
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You don't get days off. And even if you slack, you feel guilty about it because you've seen the light.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 02:11 AM
1

When do you see your other two plates?
/r/askTRP09/04/20 02:08 AM
1

Standard answer is you need 10-20% beta behavior, to take the chick out of panic mode. Negative reinforcement should be immediate and certain, but you need intermittent positive reinforcement. But the larger issue is that you are trying to corral cats. Pussy will chase the laser on the floor until it gets bored. You gotta dig deep and ask yourself if you're cool with that.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 02:04 AM
3

I don't think this sub, or anything online is a good representation of reality. Boys and girls have been fighting like cats and dogs forever, yet somehow the human race keeps going.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 08:22 PM
1

No. Pickup behavior is cold approach, confidence, humor, telling stories, having boundaries, being willing to walk away, speaking to groups, handling logistics, in a whole host of other things.
/r/seduction08/04/20 08:03 PM
1

Interest fades. Your only play is to keep lines of communication open. Shoot her a meme text every now and then, and add her to your social media (aka your lifestyle advertising). BTW This is more of an ask Seddit type question.
/r/seduction08/04/20 07:55 PM
1

Needs moderation like ask history
/r/askTRP08/04/20 07:48 PM
1

I have before. It didn't seem to be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:18 PM
3

To be honest, there isn't much you can do, other than put yourself in places where the type of guy you like is present. So if you want the athlete, you go the gym and lift. If you want the film nerd, you go festivals. Etc. I do not envy your position. I have female family members that know what they want, and have difficulty even getting close to it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:16 PM
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Average guy will LTR a chick right out of the gate if she's hot enough and he doesn't think he can do better. He'll keep that new relationship energy up for a long time. These are the guys that say, "Once I saw her, I knew was the right one". A guy that fucks a lot isn't so easily impressed by a pretty face, cute body, and agreeable personality. He's had girlfriends before. He knows what that is like. He also knows the single life. Both have pros and cons. His decision to LTR comes from dating f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:39 PM
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Nice username. Random guy at coffee shop strumming his guitar is emoting. Girls are a lot more susceptible to emotions than men. Especially the type of emotion that most musicians work in. A lot of trainwreck naturals fuck bitches because they themselves are so emotional, and chicks want to be swept up in that. That is reality even though Red Pill rookies can't yet understand the subtleties of the doctrine. Famous rock star is a master of emotions, plus fame, plus social proof, plus preselection…
/r/askTRP08/04/20 04:45 PM
1

Global feminism is going to outlaw men, and use in vitro fertilization and sex selection. This is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 11:35 PM
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Men don't tolerate this. The more money she makes, the less likely she will marry. When she does make more money, the marriage is more likely to fall apart. And given that women initiate divorce far more than men....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:30 PM
1

Successive? Like they have a family business?
/r/askTRP07/04/20 04:23 PM
1

It isnt life on easy mode Try being an 18 year old boy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:12 AM
0

You people are obsessed with The Wall. She has more choice of high quality men at 25 than she does at 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:06 AM
7

Go out, do shit, succeed, fail, do it again.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 02:15 AM
2

He sounds like he's losing at life. I am trying to understand where you are coming from. You seem to be saying that he is living in his own reality. Maybe he is happy, and that's something you envy, but his inner peace isn't translating into valuable external results. You can teach people to meditate so that they don't feel pain. But I think most of us would prefer to stop the pain
/r/askTRP07/04/20 12:41 AM
2

It got me thinking, what is truly the easiest way to rise socially? Guy with shitty job gets the girl = risen socially? I don't see why you envy him.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 12:28 AM
11

It's called Monk mode. Do a search
/r/askTRP07/04/20 12:22 AM
1

Lot of blue pill guys have infiltrated the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 10:42 PM
3

Imagine a cute girl standing at the bar by herself. Most guys at the bar aren't going to approach. A street fighter, maybe has some liquid courage, he'll step up, say hello, offer his name, offer his hand, and then offer to buy her a drink. A rookie PUA will come in direct, and say she's cute, and then run out of things to say, and excuse himself before he thinks that she will blow him out. The next level, will do all the above, but have enough to transition out of those first awkward moments an…
/r/seduction06/04/20 09:20 PM
3

The simple answer to your question is to hang around the chick like most guys that don't do pickup. If you are talking to her and she's not trying to talk to you, that is your answer. In Normie world, if the girl likes you, SHE MAKES IT FUCKING EASY. She seeks you out. She responds well. In the pickup world, this sounds like thinly veiled one-itis framed as a general question with a huge risk of fucking up your social circle. In pickup, the way you pull this smoothly is to show value and let her…
/r/seduction06/04/20 07:34 PM
0

Have you banged or not?
/r/seduction05/04/20 05:45 PM
0

Nobody feels consistently confident.
/r/seduction05/04/20 05:31 PM
2

90% of the time, I can answer on the title alone. The sub attracts a lot of lazy guys that don't want to read, and blue pill guys in denial
/r/askTRP05/04/20 04:57 PM
1

You're not accounting for psychological or social demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 04:45 PM
3

These LTR questions should really be in married red pill sub. You're basically trying to control her emotions because you don't like them. But you're too mentally invested to do anything hard. Trying to find some nice way to make her stop her bullshit. You should be asking this on their board of you want Red Pill Lite. The single red pill answer is easy. Check the chick when she fucks up. If she does it again, soft next. 3rd time, hard next. That's it. No special techniques. She shouldn't have g…
/r/askTRP05/04/20 04:44 PM
1

My level two game is breathing, but if I'm really feeling the girl and not trying to overdo it, I just exist. Bitches love a guy that exists.
/r/seduction05/04/20 02:30 AM
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Is it ok to talk about it a bit and then change the subject and escalate? How pressed for pussy are you?
/r/askTRP05/04/20 02:28 AM
3

Penny wise and pussy foolish.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 10:57 PM
21

It's a good idea to use your time wisely. And I'm ride or die for pickup, but your focus is too narrow. I don't blame you, I blame all the copycats in the industry. And most of them are copies of copies. They don't even know why they do the things they do. Try to think outside of the box, like watching Improv classes on YouTube. Stop running out of things to say. You want to text better? Learn how to write flash fiction. Maybe you need to learn how to project your voice. Opera singing lessons. M…
/r/seduction04/04/20 10:55 PM
2

The wall is a drop off of high value male attention, specifically men who want commitment, who want marriage, who want children, who want a family. A chick hits her 30's, and the viable options reduce dramatically. She can always catch a dick. Even fat chicks can get basted like a turkey with man butter. But how many high quality men can she actually get? At 32, she's in the market for a man close to her age, that is both physically attractive and financially stable. And he has to be marriage mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:05 PM
2

I have never done a phone call when it comes to dating. This made me feel old as fuck
/r/seduction04/04/20 03:53 PM
4

Upvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 03:36 PM
6

. I also don't wanna risk making a move This sub isn't for you
/r/seduction04/04/20 03:30 PM
0

Sounds like you're already feeling like you need to entertain the chick to retain her. And you absolutely have to retain her. Is keeping bitches entertained on the side bar someplace?
/r/askTRP03/04/20 10:46 PM
1

Men are not rational. That's why it will never catch on. Much like the FDS protocols are too onerous for most women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 03:08 PM
2

Be rational, ruthless, self righteous? He would level up, fuck as many chicks as possible, but never marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 03:04 PM
0

Caring "if something is understood or not", is the problem. Texting with the mindset of precision when the nature of the medium is imprecise leads guys to get bogged down
/r/seduction03/04/20 02:23 PM
0

A lot of guys think that. I know most guys can be players. Night game is really good at showing how open the field is.
/r/seduction03/04/20 02:05 PM
1

Hell yeah. It will be a true test of your red pill informed social skills. And think of all the gender studies poon you'll be swimming in. Hasn't been shaved much less shagged well in years. Is there anything more satisfying than feminist ATM? Maybe feminist sandwich making?
/r/askTRP03/04/20 08:56 AM
3

Few problems. 1) Scarcity mindset. 2) Your life is boring, so you have too much Idle time to both reply to a chick, and think about why she isn't replying immediately. 3) You are trying to control how another person perceives you. The best you can do is Influence. 4) On the more advanced side, Your texts are dry as fuck (subject matter and delivery) and you don't captivate your audience. Fix any one of these things, and your life will be improved
/r/seduction03/04/20 08:47 AM
1

Anybody else have shitty one night stand game but good at longer term seduction ? This is 99% of guys, and virtually all rookie players. It's been my observation that as pickup moved to day game and then social media/Tinder, your friend's game is seen as luck or sexual market value. His success is not from a set of beliefs and behaviors that can be learned, internalized, and repeated.
/r/seduction03/04/20 08:39 AM
1

I think the standard red pill protocol is to suppress most, if not all, emotion, save for being a caricature of James Bond. I have never found much value in being stoic with a female, much less micro managing what you think other people think of you. In casual scenarios, little is to be gained with a 48 Laws mentallity. With respect to the female, Tiptoeing around a broad puts her in charge. She vomits her verbal diarrhea and you got improvise a snappy comeback. It doesn't stop her behavior. It …
/r/askTRP02/04/20 08:16 PM
2

Grab the cashier's hand when she gives you change. Rest in Peace Uncle Mike.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 08:02 PM
4

Yeah, pretty much
/r/seduction02/04/20 06:29 PM
0

If she's not at ease, she's not that interested. She might be mentally interested, but not emotionally. For us, irrational fear is the same thing as not being interested. Given that she's ruled by fear of the unknown, it's thankless work to bring her out of her shell.
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:13 PM
1

By approaching.
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:08 PM
51

After she's been fucked by a lot of other guys, she gives up on hot guys and goes for the comfortable one
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:05 PM
0

She called me her boyfriend, we were both interested in each other, acting like a couple. Don't pass Go, don't collect $200. Straight to the sidebar
/r/askTRP02/04/20 01:54 AM
1

Cold? Never. You'll find some justification to do it anyway, but I never do it. Now if I throw a party or something, I'll invite the target, but I'll also invite everyone else. Sliding into the DMs is probably the worst pickup trend of the past 10 years
/r/seduction01/04/20 09:56 PM
1

living in Germany Is this normal in Germany? It's normal in the States, but Europeans say that this isn't typical
/r/seduction01/04/20 09:23 PM
1

You didn't get none for yourself? Stop simping and start pimping.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 07:30 PM
8

Like Kylie and Kim getting plastic surgery?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 02:57 PM
10

she ended things because she didn't feel "chemistry". You notice how you only focus on fucking and who pays? You haven't said a damn thing about what you talk about. = No chemistry.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 02:46 PM
1

Ban
/r/askTRP01/04/20 02:43 PM
4

Social Media celebrity game. If guys aren't embracing tinder and Instagram, they are going to have to meet a girl in church. Everything else still works, but it's harder to learn and harder to utilize because there is less social density.
/r/seduction01/04/20 02:43 PM
1

I don't derive any personal value from rats trying to leave a sinking ship trying to scurry onto mine. Just another guru that makes women at the center of his life. He lets women decide is own value. That alone should be enough to be wary of taking advice from him.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 09:05 AM
4

Slave to your dick and can't make obvious decisions.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 12:34 AM
2

Ban
/r/askTRP29/03/20 10:32 PM
1

I don't even like that thinking enough to get the name right
/r/seduction29/03/20 07:54 PM
1

Black Cell thinking. Guys read this stuff and just give up. Why even bother?
/r/seduction29/03/20 07:50 PM
5

Sounds like a head case, but if you're willing to court her for 12 months and get married, the cherry is yours. Seems like a scarcity mentallity on your part, and less of a unicorn issue.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 11:03 AM
1

Seek out conflict, don't merely react
/r/askTRP28/03/20 01:15 PM
2

I think they said that there aren't enough mods. If I was a mod, maybe 20% of the threads would make it through
/r/askTRP28/03/20 01:04 PM
6

I have good game I work with this girl, Another girl at my work One of these statements doesn't belong here.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 01:01 PM
4

Totally normal. You have this part of your life handled. Now you need a new mission. As for the female aspect, it's easy as fuck to find what you want physically - all you need to do is look. Your eyes will do all the work. Now you need to find a chick that you want mentally/emotionally. If she's a chore to be around, "This isn't going to work out". And then you stop fucking her. The thing is, you probably don't have the fire in your belly to go look for a chick like this. A chick that makes you…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 12:12 PM
2

She's not interested bro. If a girl is interested, she makes it easy
/r/seduction28/03/20 11:47 AM
2

I'm not stopping you. But pickup is more art that science because the women are chaotic, but also adapt
/r/seduction28/03/20 11:46 AM
12

Lol at trying to reason with her. It's like guys don't even read the sub much less the sidebar. You probably didn't do the protocol for being in an LTR in the first place. What I do? I look at her like she's crazy, because she is crazy. The fuck she thinking by coming at me sideways? She must want a showdown. I will make it painful for her if it's drama she's after. I don't take her frame and defend myself on X,Y, or Z.. That's what suckers do. They agree with the premise. That premise being is …
/r/askTRP27/03/20 06:21 PM
0

In the immortal words of Bill Hicks: I've learned a lot about women. I think I've learned exactly how the fall of man occured in the Garden of Eden. Adam and Eve were in the Garden of Eden, and Adam said one day, "Wow, Eve, here we are, at one with nature, at one with God, we'll never age, we'll never die, and all our dreams come true the instant that we have them." And Eve said, "Yeah... it's just not enough, is it?"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 02:39 PM
4

This is so reasonable that it will be called misogyny
/r/askTRP27/03/20 01:17 PM
1

All the studies I've seen show not only are married men happier Of course that's the case. Because if the relationship wasn't good, she would leave. And women initiate divorce men far more than the reverse. Survivorship bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 01:14 PM
16

Who keeps letting these autistic dudes in?
/r/askTRP27/03/20 01:02 PM
5

Let's not use logic! Remember your audience
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 01:00 PM
2

If you're not trying to fuck these chicks on your terms, just stick to Tinder and stop wasting our time. Head over to r/dating or 2 chromosomes
/r/seduction27/03/20 12:55 PM
3

She's not doing it in purpose most of the time. These chicks ain't that diabolical. But your reaction turns it into a shit test.
/r/seduction27/03/20 12:53 PM
0

Basketball and volleyball girls have it tough. Freakishly tall women are still a small minority
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 12:48 PM
5

Displays of emotion for leverage over someone are common. There is a sub called something like "I don't work here lady" and it is all about female customers getting irate and using that emotion to force people to do things. These Karens are so used to bitching their way into getting employees to do their bidding that it is second nature. It works on employees because they are paid to keep customers happy. Trying to keep a woman happy, calm, or unemotional is something that a lot of men try to do…
/r/askTRP26/03/20 10:05 PM
3

Son of bitch this is the best thing I've read on here in weeks. Let's remind ourselves, the goal here is the keep the chick in sexual tension. The secondary goal is to stay out of her beta provider service mode. The second that you start catering to her whims you are on the road to serfdom. The difficulty comes in not being able to assert your boundaries, do the blue pill thing, and ultimately do her bidding which puts you out of sexual tension. This is a hard lesson to learn. I slayed chicks fo…
/r/askTRP26/03/20 09:24 PM
2

Millions of women in the workforce suggest otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 09:13 PM
11

Rule number one of inner game - You can not control her, you can only control yourself. In this case, there was no actual date, just a girl trying to vet you over text. So right off the bat, your perspective of skewed and that is making you lose emotional control. But her actions? she is probably getting less and less attracted because of what she is doing. The conscious mind is making her unconscious mind less interested. Her caution or busy schedule is actively fucking you up. What to do? 1) Y…
/r/seduction26/03/20 01:25 PM
1

I don't even think a quantum computer running the best natural language processing algorithm could untangle all of the seeming contradictions. Machine learning is just line fitting. But in the game, one guy can make a line or routine work, but a lot of guys would fail. They fail for many reasons, and one can succeed despite one's poor efforts. So the patterns and relationships that the program would find in the training sample would not hold guy new data. A simple keyword cluster program would n…
/r/seduction26/03/20 01:12 PM
1

Like their HVF counterparts, they are engaging in door mat behaviors for the select group of guys that they want dick from. Pickmeishas aren't getting fucked over by nice normal guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 02:35 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/foyxd3/how_do_you_know_of_a_girl_is_into_you_and_not/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/seduction26/03/20 02:30 AM
5

"If he's so cool, why aren't you fucking him?". She should have introduced you already.
/r/seduction26/03/20 02:27 AM
9

"I really really like you, let's be friends first and take it from there". "I just got out of a relationship". Etc. Type of chick that keeps you as a backup
/r/seduction26/03/20 02:26 AM
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If you're trying to get with the girl, Escalate the situation. So she comes up to you after class, you tell the chick, "You seem mad chill, we should hang one on one". If she does anything but agree, she isn't trying to fuck. Simple as that. If she's not with it, she's dead to you. Can't be friends with a girl you want to fuck. Don't put yourself in the friend zone. And don't deal with a chick that has to "come around".
/r/seduction25/03/20 09:59 PM
2

How much does a man's success depends on looks and not on mentality/behavior? This bullshit again? It's all behavior. Fat boy can be funny and fuck. Troll face can be charismatic and fuck. Short focused Russian guy can be Machiavellian and pull. Smelly Arab can use frame alone, and pull. Weird looking high goth guy can get hot chick because he sings. Tall basketball player can attract eyeballs but get nothing. Bro football player can bench 500 and chill with his brothers at the bar and fall on h…
/r/askTRP25/03/20 08:36 PM
1

Also, maybe there should be a advanced section on the sub that saves all of the best posts, and not just the best updated post, because some of the updated posts are garbage too, I agree, but I find that the top voted posts are usually horrible. Hey Guyz, I finally made my first approach, but I got shot down, but I feel okay. Or stuff like - You need to develop your inner self and work on your hobbies, and the girls will naturally be attracted. I have been on this sub for about 2 years and I don…
/r/seduction25/03/20 08:15 PM
5

The way Reddit works, Newbs don't do a search, and old threads get lost to the sands of time. The whole site sucks in terms of retaining knowledge unless you know exactly what you're searching for
/r/seduction25/03/20 08:04 PM
3

Roosh mentioned this fact as well in his writings. If you were on the forums, he also said that so called provider game worked well in Eastern Europe and Latin America. On a personal, it seems like a lot of red pill guys in this community never read Roissy, Roosh, or Rollo.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 08:01 PM
2

The economic balance has shifted as has the culture accordingly. Much like women were fine with latch key children in the 70's and 80s, they will be fine with avoiding household work and childcare now. Those circles already consider that stuff uncompensated work. Remembering Birthdays is "emotional labor". There is no return.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 04:34 PM
9

The only people who can afford to live a "traditional" family are upper middle class professionals, a few small business owners, and a handful of people in the trades. A lot of those upper class big breadwinner jobs are increasingly granted to women. Banker, lawyer, doctor. Jobs in tech are facing a considerable amount of pressure to integrate women into the entry level and management roles. But traditional household/family roles are not changing, because the underlying dynamic hasn't changed. U…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 04:20 PM
1

I say this everyday it seems. Plenty of dudes are in jail or dead because they felt they got disrespected.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 03:46 PM
2

There is no normal. Guys talk about this all over the web. Decent looking guys have a hard time. Very attractive guys do okay. But average girls are the bombarded by a wall of dicks. Don't take online stuff too seriously in my not so humble opinion
/r/seduction25/03/20 01:00 PM
2

It won't destroy hairy legged feminists. Just lot the corona virus won't push the women studies majors into prostitution. And you aren't paying attention if you think the divide is about sex. It's about validation, in particular the unvalidated want to be validated.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 04:34 AM
3

They shut down the sidebar?
/r/askTRP25/03/20 04:27 AM
1

But that is totally true. Like it or not, it is all up to her now. You'll never get good at this shit if you have to shitty mindset. We're all going to die, might as well not do shit. You're literally failing because you think you know everything. It's a hard lesson to learn. I know that I struggle with it.
/r/seduction25/03/20 04:25 AM
1

So you must have figured out a routine for yourself as far as taking your progress and study. Howd you do this? The old school way was to pick a method, (Gunwitch, Mystery, Grandmaster, etc). Break the method down into pieces. Go out and practice the piece. So at first, I had my book of magic spells, and I would just say that shit to any girl. That didn't work. Then I would start a chat normally, and then inject the magic line. And the spell worked. All the methods are incomplete in a a way. The…
/r/askTRP25/03/20 04:23 AM
1

Pickup. Learn pickup. Otherwise you'll need to travel.
/r/seduction24/03/20 05:15 PM
1

I have not. I just started going out and pushing myself to make approaches. I wrote field reports, but I consumed a shit ton of field reports. I stopped making all the rookie mistakes with other guys make.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 05:13 PM
3

It really sounds like you have this wrong. You are thinking about the interaction from the wrong perspective. I get it. It sounds like you aren't good at normal socializing. Just having a laugh with random strangers, not trying to get something out of them. But it also sounds like you have deeper issues about how you appear to others. Worrying about how you come off as a fucking rookie will be the death of your game. For veteran pick up artist, this is a nexus between social dynamics and inner g…
/r/seduction24/03/20 05:08 PM
1

Wrap it up every time, without fail. If chick comes up pregnant and it's mine, send the checks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 04:55 PM
1

She is either crafting the perfect reply or she can't answer or doesn't know how to answer
/r/seduction24/03/20 04:48 PM
1

Male hubris
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 04:45 PM
1

You are looking for signs, not taking the leap of faith. By avoiding possible loss, you can never get a win.
/r/seduction24/03/20 04:41 PM
3

If he lost a chick by following this dumb protocol, it makes sense to keep following it? That's what you're saying? You want to duck the issue by citing some bullshit about him going sperg with too much talking, when he literally went sperg by too little communication? The community doesn't want to solve a problem that so many of its new members have. And the problem isn't in the texting. You really think dumb as a brick Chad doesn't say some dumb shit over text and still manages to fuck the gir…
/r/askTRP24/03/20 12:55 PM
3

Not a pill guy, but our interests intersect. Most guys get into this whole thing because a "loyal" girl blindsided them. Everything is cool, and then the chick meets someone that she throws her relationship away for. After you get good at the offense game, and you are fucking someone else's girlfriend, you start to see the matrix break. She'll do whatever the fuck she wants. She is only loyal to the moment. No man expects this. It's only bad girl/stripper/gold diggers that regularly engage in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 05:31 AM
10

Sometimes it just be like that, but..... Texting for logistics is and has always been bullshit. I blame Roissy and Roosh for starting this myth, Red Pill mouth breathers who repeat shit, and guys for having zero empathy/human understanding that just follow shit blindly and without thinking. If you only want to text for logistics, it implies that you have a good relationship with a girl already. She isn't waiting by the phone for your text because when you got the contact information she didn't i…
/r/askTRP24/03/20 12:58 AM
10

Why is that? Imo, If you are a zoomer or millennial, that is just how boys and girls were/are raised/socialized. If you're Gen X or older, and you're online looking for love - your standards are higher. It's always been the case that girls are more socially involved and busier than guys. I got into the game before cell phones. Definitely before iPhones. Leaving a message on an answering machine was like sending a text today. She was going to go out to her activities and you needed to account for…
/r/seduction24/03/20 12:35 AM
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It's normal and part of online dating. Most guys don't get a lot of matches. Most of The matches just want to text. The ones that agree to meet up, flake often. And if you actually get her out, the date is usually awkward. Nature of the beast
/r/seduction23/03/20 05:36 PM
3

if it really is a reliable source to learn seduction and implement its tactics and strategies. It's not. Background reading at best
/r/seduction23/03/20 02:50 PM
1

Am I looking at PUA wrong? Yes. If you think being funny, having good stories to tell, enforcing your own standards and boundaries is manipulation, then you don't know what you're doing.
/r/seduction23/03/20 11:23 AM
2

Don't the statistics say that women have an 80% chance of having children, but men only have a 40% chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 11:20 AM
2

Context matters. 1) Who is stopping the hook up? 2) What is the reason to stop nature? There aren't very many hard and fast rules when it comes to hooking up.
/r/seduction21/03/20 08:19 AM
0

Agree with her.
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:55 AM
3

To answer the title, Yes. But in your situation, there was zero game used. I'd say negative game in fact. The other day I was seeing a haircut lady. You fucked up on target selection. This chick flirts with guys for cash, financialized her sexuality. So this a hired gun scenario.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 08:54 AM
1

Move
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:45 AM
4

Escalate.
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:41 AM
1

Day game or night game?
/r/seduction20/03/20 01:25 AM
2

When you drink, both of your inhibitions drop. So you're just doing what is natural. When you don't have liquid courage, the key is making it seem natural. The blue pill close at the end of the night is natural. It's socially expected. Getting physical on a date and then hooking up based on touch is natural. Kissing the chick on a high note is natural. All of these things are external. You are basically making a move with a logical safety net. When you kiss the girl because you want to, because …
/r/askTRP20/03/20 01:16 AM
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There just never seemed to be a good enough moment to escalate that far. Good to see that you realized alcohol was a crutch. As for waiting on the magic moment, in vanilla dating it comes at the close of the date. At the car, at her door, etc. But it ends the date. It releases the sexual tension instead of building it up. ASD usually kicks in here, because the next move will result in sex. 1) The player way is to manufacture a moment. In your case, since you were explicit about the park, I would…
/r/askTRP19/03/20 10:10 PM
1

Answering this question (or any preliminary question) doesn't predict that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 07:05 PM
1

Veterans tend to agree that women are always looking for ways to disqualify a guy. In general, Trying to impress a girl is blue pill thinking. But a seller's style can and often does work. "I love my mom" - no information gained. "I hate my mom" - red flag. "Mama's boy" - red flag. As usual, there are no common green flag answers. And if a girl wants to bang you based on what you say about your mom, that is a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 05:20 PM
3

Everything in life is a trade off. When you use dread, active or passive, the sexual tension stays tight, and she does what she needs to do to please you. But at least a few downsides. She can't do it forever. She can only keep her A game going for a short time. But she wants to spend more time with you. Dating an unhappy chick will grate on you. You will start to see her crack, and maybe you don't want to deal with that. But you don't want to deal with dumping her either. Passive or active drea…
/r/askTRP19/03/20 05:08 PM
2

That's some incel/black pill stuff. People shouldn't have sympathy for lazy men. We have zero sympathy for lazy women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 03:44 PM
1

Mystery method is basically a seduction method where you neg and tease and tell DHV stories This is just too inaccurate to take seriously. But this doesn't seem like a purple pill debate at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 03:42 PM
1

Did you get into this relationship before or after you learned about the red pill?
/r/askTRP19/03/20 03:38 PM
11

It means - You pay too much attention to their words. You do not pay enough attention to their actions. You don't have enough high quality women in your rotation because you feel the need to mentally battle with them. Idle female chatter is more important than your mission. As for what she/they means? The chick is getting sweet on you and wants you to take it to the next level. That's not necessarily your fault, even if you manage expectations well, if you are alpha to these broads they'll want …
/r/askTRP19/03/20 03:34 PM
1

https://www.cnn.com/2014/11/20/world/julien-blanc-uk-visa-ban/index.html
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 12:21 PM
3

TL DR - after The Game was published. Depends on how you define better and game. I think their new direction makes things worse. But there aren't any companies on the same level. Long version. After The Game was published and Tyler was made into the villain, he had to drop canned game. No more routines. When they were doing boot camps back then, they ran into students using the same lines at the same venues. Anybody with a brain wasn't doing "Who Lies More" at that point. But there are a shit to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 07:06 AM
30

Your question is flawed because your understanding is flawed. She never likes you for you. She only "likes" you because of how you make her feel. And when she doesn't feel like that, she nags, withdraws, and then jumps on the next dick. It is what it is. She is love with herself, and a slave to her feelings. She might love her children, but like the wedding, like marriage, her idea of those things are far away from reality. So in your situation, drop the blue pill view of women, tell the girl yo…
/r/askTRP18/03/20 06:15 PM
2

The thing about The Game, it should not work based on everything we've been told about how attraction works. But it does. The only guys that believe are the ones that go out and do it. Good luck on your journey.
/r/seduction18/03/20 05:02 PM
2

What would you do? I would have blocked her after the breakup, and hung up on her if she still managed to call.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 02:36 PM
3

Totally agree, it's mind blowing. Follow a consistent process, and you get consistent results, even if you're 5'7", balding guy, with a big nose. He wrote a practical book called Rules of The Game, and did a 10? DVD set called the annihilation method. That said he wrote a proper follow-up to The Game called The Truth. I won't spoil it for you, but it's a good read after you start getting regular success.
/r/seduction18/03/20 02:29 PM
1

Some folks have to be lead into a conversation. Best to lead with a menu of general topics. I had a quick chat yesterday about people buying the grocery store out like a hurricane was coming. Dude in line with me responded in the affirmative and we had a quick chat. If you're specifically talking about young/attractive women, they're mostly hostile to random guys. You have to basically push through that and make them feel like they're the socially awkward ones. Difficult to explain over text.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 11:27 PM
7

Baseline for me. Double showers. good soap, good shampoo and conditioner. shaving cream and aftershave. If I had a beard, beard conditioner. dentist, brush/floss/mouthwash 3 times a day. antiperspirant. lotion. hair product. Every day without fail. Pro tip, keep that stuff out of casual sight. You don't want to be mysterious per se. But you also never want the girl to know how much thought you put into things. Plus - - every room in the flat smells good. - I also got incense and candles ready to…
/r/seduction17/03/20 11:22 PM
1

you're better off not being in "control" of the convo and just observing, and chilling out. Try to get her group to the next venue with that laissez faire attitude. Whatever style you choose, you'll have to lead these chicks to a place where things can go down
/r/seduction17/03/20 10:29 AM
8

Plenty of dudes in the penitentiary and cemetery over not wanting to get punked. Don't fall for the bullshit
/r/askTRP17/03/20 10:24 AM
1

Puts on SPY.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 12:01 AM
1

Blue pill strategy -. - follow the rules. - make money. - look nice. (Dress well, not fat, hit the gym). - nice car and nice place. - be nice, and accommodate all of her wishes. - pay for everything. - don't date around, focus all of your energy and attention on her. - Always be there for her. - Avoid conflict. - Always talk about things. - Never go to bed mad. - Happy wife, happy life. By being this man that society wants, any girl that you date will greatly appreciate you for what you bring to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 11:54 PM
1

It exists. It's more prevalent than you would think, particularly in the 28+ range. Fat/unattractive girls usually trade meals, sneakers, dollars, and sex for attention and affection. You'll find regular girls just trading sex for attention/affection. Spending money on top of the sex is a sign of deeper issues. Betty Bucks is either sickingly submissive or a ball breaker that thinks money spent means she can treat him like a prostitute. Desire can't be negotiated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 11:47 PM
0

Any thoughts or advice? Use the search function. Depressed fuckers post this "lost boy" bullshit several times a week hoping that the Alpha Godfather will grant them some sort of wish over text.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 11:39 PM
3

Sidebar. Pick one guru, doesn't matter who. Don't ask me for a book, don't spend 6 months trying to find the perfect program, just pick a guy you like. Pick one thing to work on, any given night. Go out 4-5 nights a week, 2-4 hours, for three months. You'll primarily be talking with pairs or groups of all girls or mostly girls. So you will end up meeting 500-1,000+ people. That's more than enough socialising to get good. You'll be flowing in no time. If you don't have a plan, go out a lot, and g…
/r/askTRP16/03/20 11:30 PM
3

It's just a skill like any other. You have to expose yourself to it and practice a lot. Most of the funny isn't even in the words, but in the delivery, body language, and silence. But the bigger issue is that you feel that you need to be funny/witty, especially if you're successful doing other things. How much of your need to be funny is because you've been told that you need to be funny? If you want to take your game to the next level, you have to really dig deep into your assumptions. Why am I…
/r/seduction15/03/20 09:31 PM
2

Great comment. Most guys in our sphere, but also in business, athletics, and art come to realize this as well. The idea of self mastery is simple, but so few of us can stay on the path.
/r/seduction15/03/20 09:21 PM
1

Dissatisfaction with men. Straight guys should read lesbian forums. Informative and entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 09:13 PM
8

It makes my job easier, be it to hookup or to vet for an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 10:00 PM
2

What is value? In the pre Social Media days, value was the mood and vibe that you created with the other person. And you created this thing out of nothing. Value wasn't some static thing like your credit score or body fat percentage like guys think it is today. Salesman can have the whitest teeth and the best prices, but that doesn't sell the minivan.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 09:57 PM
2

I take it the you don't watch the news or travel anywhere. India and The Middle East are great examples of how violent and destructive to society sexless men can be. There is a reason men are seduced by promises of 72 virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 09:40 PM
2

I don't. The few advantages women have in social life and in dating don't compare to the vast majority of advantages that men have had since creation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 09:37 PM
6

They even write books about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 09:34 PM
3

What you are saying isn't interesting to them. And if you are one of those guys with edgy opinions and you're always trying to share them, despite what Society says, nobody wants to hear that bullshit. Incorporate How to Win Friends and Influence People into your chats. That will take the 4Chan libertarian stank off your game and usually create a scenario where people want to share. Because ultimately, they don't give a fuck about what you have to say. They give a fuck about what they have to sa…
/r/askTRP14/03/20 09:31 PM
1

The PUA advice is to break rapport after you establish it. If you are so witty and interesting, she doesn't get a chance to say anything because she's both entertained and unchallenged.
/r/seduction14/03/20 09:18 PM
8

You're at level one right now. You are looking for IOIs because you only want to approach those girls that like you on first glance. You're in reaction. You're being passive. Waiting on choosing signals. That's fine if you just want sex. But it's horrible pickup because it puts you at her mercy. The only IOIs you should focus on are the ones you get when you approach girls that you find attractive, not the fat girls trying to get your attention
/r/askTRP13/03/20 05:59 PM
1

Fuck this incel shit
/r/seduction13/03/20 05:45 PM
8

As long as girl stays visible, she'll get offers to fuck. Thirst is infinite. It's really on her to convert. That's usually where women fail. They can't even get losers to act right, much less "high value men".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 05:43 PM
1

I'm telling you what you need to be told. You need game. And you need to want game to get game. Sometimes medicine doesn't taste good.
/r/seduction13/03/20 04:04 PM
0

You knew she was fugly when you met her. You get what you deserve OP.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 03:53 PM
1

I stopped watching incest porn. Goodbye Xev Bellringer
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 03:51 PM
0

I know you're looking for some kind of medical or self help advice, but it really sounds like you have zero game AND you don't want to have any game at all. Like a big baby that expects a chick to lead you to bed.
/r/seduction13/03/20 03:49 PM
1

Women love gay guys but not bisexual guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 03:45 PM
1

what made the wife cheat? She wanted some side dick. You seem to be getting at some "flaw" in Red Pill ideology that many a mouth breather has put forth before. How can a hypergamous woman cheat on an "alpha" with a "beta"? First, bitches like to fuck, period. They are impulsive and live on emotions. It's why game works. Get her mind, and the body follows. Second, women decide alpha, and any given woman has her own take on Chad. Plenty of bitches wouldn't fuck Bilzerian, despite the wealth, musc…
/r/askTRP13/03/20 03:44 PM
2

It won't affect a thing. Just like legal prostitution/prevalent pornography didn't change the real market in Asia, Europe, and Latin America. Guys that use sex substitutes still want a shot at the real market, not just have sex. A common lament in the pickup community are guys getting their fill of meaningless sex, and then wanting something real. Even porn stars have relationships. But most men aren't willing to admit that. The few that do then have to contend with the relationship problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 03:34 PM
25

That's probably the case. Even fat girls have the luxury of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 03:29 PM
0

1) Horrible YouTube style of approaching. 2) Two numbers isn't really a pattern.
/r/seduction13/03/20 03:27 PM
3

Looking for meaning in sex/with women is the biggest problem that you and the crew aren't addressing.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 03:21 PM
1

Frogs into Princes. But there isn't much written from a pickup/seduction point of view.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 11:04 PM
1

Everyone fails. Every relationship is not going to be great pizza, jokes, and anal. You have to learn from your losses. And even though the mouth breathers run this sub, it's okay to have feelings. You just need to learn from those feelings. That bitch hurt your ego in the worst fucking way when she broke up with you. Moreover, just her hitting you up out of the blue made you feel some type of way. She took the scab off. Another ex could easily mind fuck you. You can't stop the emotional reactio…
/r/askTRP12/03/20 11:00 PM
3

Even if she wasn't getting dicked down by new guy - she was uninterested in your dick, and probably emotionally invested in this new guy "that you shouldn't worry about". Any breakup is a sign of your hold over a chick wavering. Stone cold pimps lose bitches, so don't think it's your game. Now that the new cock honeymoon is way over, she is looking back at her life and remembering the good shit with you, but not the emotions that lead her to get bored. She wants to feel good about herself, despi…
/r/askTRP12/03/20 06:15 PM
2

Didn't read the study. Is this the short term or term market?
/r/BlackPillScience12/03/20 04:59 PM
0

If men's physical appearance truly mattered for society to function, men would do the years of work on their appearance that women put in. But men aren't needed for that. I would also add that if you put one basketball player in a club, the girls gravitate towards him. But put those girls a in a club full of basketball players, and they will still pick a winner. Girls that live in Nigeria and the Netherlands have all sorts of tall guys to choose from. Being 6'3" is not that special. They are alw…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 04:56 PM
-1

Sure, women have short term interests that could be satisfied if they made the first move. Is he handsome, is he tall, is he in shape, is he gainfully employed? Run a background check for serious issues, and she has a good candidate. A smart girl could reasonably just select the proper social circle and just position herself there - and handle most of the paper criteria. She has a few problems - Men can be deceptive. He might be tall, handsome, and fit - nearly everything else can be faked. Long…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 04:45 PM
2

Different goals require different means.
/r/seduction12/03/20 03:19 PM
7

Not initially. It's become that because of the mouth breathers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 01:48 PM
9

She's winning the frame battle if you think that you need to text her on her schedule. As for what to talk about, you need to take an interest in who she is. If she's just a piece of fuckmeat, then the problem is with you, not her. You should have screened better.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 02:52 PM
2

If you make money online, digital marketing, then what is the problem?
/r/askTRP10/03/20 07:38 PM
6

You'll probably get a bunch of pussy ass answers, but not from me. Most guys see the girl, get 30 minutes of her backstory, and immediately want to take her off the market. The girl is putting her best foot forward, because she wants you to stick around. It's a facade. She is on an interview. But so are you. You might want her to be your girlfriend for no good reason other than she has big tits and likes Rick and Morty. She might even agree to be exclusive right off the bat. But that chick doesn…
/r/seduction10/03/20 06:39 PM
1

This seems like we need to be familiar with the Red Pill community posts and the personalities, not a general post that everyone can participate in. Most guys in the Red Pill idolize a Donald Trump type Alpha (I'll do whatever the fuck I want and everyone will just sit there and not do anything), not a Bill Clinton (good hearted used car salesman that can be shamed) or Vladimir Putin (dangerous chess player who will have you executed for even suggesting that he is who he is) type. Not quite the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 06:14 PM
9

What the fuck did you expect? Seriously, what did you think was going to happen? It doesn't matter how beautiful her face is, how good her body is, how great the sex is. You are going to get bored, and so is she. Did you expect an infinite number of fun and interesting experiences until you take your last breath? That is what females think. That the excitement never ends. Even when it does, they hold out hope for another honeymoon. It never comes. There are only a few levels to this game. You fu…
/r/askTRP10/03/20 05:59 PM
5

If he's as blue pill as you say he is, he'll follow orders. So start actually being a leader
/r/askTRP10/03/20 05:33 PM
2

How's your game? Are you fucking super models? Did you practice any of this stuff?
/r/seduction10/03/20 03:30 PM
1

You think the red pill is about sales? Read a book.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 03:28 PM
11

Hey Fuck Buddy
/r/askTRP09/03/20 09:54 PM
2

The damage is already done. She can not be persuaded or intimidated. You can only pray that she has some personal tragedy or windfall. You have no realistic options, unless you are going to do some 48 Laws of power stuff. (which might be appropriate for business school.. ). Document everything, and Seal Team 6 in terms of precise conduct.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 06:05 PM
8

You got four other bitches to fuck, and you're tripping on this one. You are only proving my point. The Red Pill is asking you to forego love, for power. Is that even something you want? You're a grown man, you know the possible consequences. Make a decision and live with it.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 05:56 PM
8

You know it's not. You want us to okay a dumb decision because you really don't want to be red pill, you just want to get laid and have a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 05:45 PM
1

In school, and then career where she can meet high value men. Get serious with a guy in her fast two years of decent employment, married after that. If she misses her first window, she should be okay for the next few years. But she gets to 32, she should be well past the bad boy phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 12:55 AM
6

It's a red flag if you don't know how to get her to bring you that money.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 11:24 PM
2

1) Choice As a man, whatever romantic scenario I get into, is of my choosing. So if I approach to dimepiece and get that dime piece, I win. The dime piece on the other hand? She could only talk to guys that approached her. If she moves first, she loses a lot of her power. Additionally, kind of guy that she likes is the guy that approaches her. If she has to do all the work, she's not that satisfied. 2) Freedom to move about. Unless Ronda Rousey ends the restraining order, I am not in physical da…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 08:11 PM
1

My herpes just started to flare up this morning
/r/askTRP08/03/20 08:03 PM
10

If you really love her, you might wait a bit until she is sure of you? Who let this guy in here?
/r/askTRP08/03/20 06:46 PM
6

my suspicion is that when women do approach, it’s with men that are waaaay out of their league. Pretty much. And usually if a broad steps up, she thinks that you still need to impress her. Naw B. Jump-off status. Now if the sex is good, she has her power back - but more often than not, it isn't. In general, a girl needs to stay in her lane, the same way a dude should do what he needs to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 06:09 PM
5

2 is your only option, unless you want to do the deep character work. So the play for guys who don't want to change is simple. 1) Step up you regular appeal. Diet, sleep, exercise, muscles, hygiene, grooming, style. Make more money. 2) Be more social. Go out more, make more friends, expand your social circle. 3) Wear your heart on your sleeve. Don't run away from your emotions and sharing them. Accept that a lot of girls are going to see you as a pussy, a simp, etc. It's gonna hurt your feelings…
/r/seduction08/03/20 01:18 AM
2

He shouldn't have worn those tight jeans.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 04:40 PM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction07/03/20 04:35 PM
1

The sex might be good. So If he's trying to see her again, it very much matters. Otherwise, he would have to do the hard work of figuring out what about his personality/behavior is driving the girls away
/r/seduction06/03/20 04:06 PM
1

Sleep with her, don't call for a few days. Then hit her up. Her self doubt kicks in
/r/seduction06/03/20 04:41 AM
2

I see. Gotcha. You need to be able to walk before you can run. "How to win friends and influence people" is a good place to start. That is probably your speed. It isn't a pickup book, more like something that basically structures a conversation. "Never eat alone" is another one.
/r/seduction05/03/20 10:51 PM
4

If you have bucks, then you will always beta bucks. She will always think that there is a bigger swinging dick that she will be even more submissive to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:00 PM
7

PREACH
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/20 03:56 PM
1

I need something that teaches me how to hold a decent conversation and seduce the target. I've been doing this since the Usenet days. I've read dozens, if not hundreds of books on seduction, game, persuasion, relationships, evo psych etc. This book that you want, "lemme just say some magic words to make her fuck" does not exist.
/r/seduction05/03/20 03:54 PM
2

Why are you bringing up sidebar stuff?
/r/askTRP04/03/20 08:17 PM
29

Fan fiction.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 08:15 PM
2

Most complained about -. - DC. - SF. - Toronto. - Boston. - Australia as a whole. - Argentina as a whole. - Italy as a whole. - London. Best places -. - NYC. - Vegas. - SMV arbitrage in Eastern Europe, Latin America, and Asia. (Great if you're from the West, stuck up bitches if you live there - grass is greener syndrome). Hot chicks but the city has problems. - Miami - Need Spanish. - Los Angeles - fucked up logistics for everyone. - Atlanta - if you like the sistas, just holding a job puts you …
/r/askTRP04/03/20 06:03 PM
45

That whole sub is a manual on how to be a bit effective fuckboy. I love it. "She fell for that?". "I can make her do that?" "I can get away with that?". Every rule they have, every suggestion, is where they failed. And they are the tip of the iceberg. Most chicks are susceptible to this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/20 12:45 PM
1

No, which is why I can understand places like FDS, who make it a priority for men to pay especially on the first date. Not just pay, but dinner, and it must be planned well. Moreover it must be done with as little of her input as possible. And if you are rich, and dropping a Benjamin or 2 doesn't make you pause, you aren't doing enough. High income/networth is not high value. They're screening for beasts of burden, not just screening out LVMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 12:26 AM
1

When I pay, I can rightly expect payback. Though I usually "take a call" when the bill comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 12:20 AM
1

To learn what? Book of Pook is more entertaining for sure
/r/askTRP04/03/20 12:00 AM
1

No, you are in the driver's seat. So you basically dictate the terms. Most of them learn that a guy doesn't want it to feel transactional, so they give him a girlfriend experience. If she starts talking about an allowance before there is any sort of rapport, that's a red flag to guys that have money.
/r/seduction03/03/20 08:55 PM
1

SMH. He's bad news
/r/seduction03/03/20 08:52 PM
1

There is a Punnet square/Prisoners dilemma here. The older/experienced chicks are the minority. The guys willing to pay are the majority. So you've got a certain number of guys preying on the inexperienced chicks. What they have found is that a lot of these chicks are more than willing to trade pussy for a meal nicer than Olive Garden. She'll gladly fuck to take part in a better lifestyle.
/r/seduction03/03/20 08:50 PM
2

He'll invite girls over from seeking arrangement, drink some wine, and do the deed. They think that once he has sampled the goods they can get an allowance. He says he's "breaking" their frame. There are plenty of seeking arrangement hacks out there. What I find more unbelievable is 6 different girls in one day. That's a new one every two to three hours. He's got to be a one minute man to accomplish that.
/r/seduction03/03/20 08:43 PM
1

There are some diabolical females out there. Make no mistake there. But most of the time, when she does things that induce your competition anxiety, it's about her and you aren't on her mind at all. It's not even passive dread, it's unconscious.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 05:08 PM
3

This is more of a pickup thing than red pill. Knowing she's an alpha widow or that she's trying use you as monkey branch doesn't help you in figuring out what and when to text. In this scenario the Red Pill thought is, "Is trying to bag this chick a good use of my time and energy?". Sometimes it is. Sometimes it's not. If this is the type of chick to put on the rotation, do the work.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 03:34 PM
1

Mods put this together - https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/erjd6f/beginner_material/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share Basic definitions - https://www.pualingo.com/group-theory/ Masf archives - http://www.fastseduction.com/archives-2/ Skilled seducer (the girls chase forum). Girls chase is probably the best technical blog still left. For the most part, if you see a vet use jargon, Google the jargon and you'll find a treasure trove of opinions.
/r/seduction03/03/20 03:14 PM
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One - assume they're all sluts. Assume she has other guys sending her stuff, an ex that she calls to get fucked when she can't find new dick. Make peace with that. Two - You're not important enough for her to stop her lesson plans/her ongoing life. "Just an option not a priority" like the thot's inspirational Instagram would say. All you can do is tighten to your text game. If you met this chick online, that's all you have. If you met her in real life, you fucked up by not making your approach g…
/r/askTRP03/03/20 03:06 PM
2

This schizophrenic ass sub... No to your general question. She can be fucking random dudes or in committed relationships. Which would you prefer? But this broad is probably a typical nutter. Most girls aren't alone and can't be alone. It's how they are socialized. As many of us who have had long term monogamous relationships know, she can't be alone but she has a hard time being with someone as well. She said that a lot of her boyfriends treated her like shit She loves this. And she is attracted…
/r/askTRP03/03/20 11:51 AM
0

You basically fucked up the response to her flake. But you also fucked up the time table. Never agree to a date too far out, because females over schedule and have to juggle things. If you're trying to fuck, your only move is to never acknowledge her treating you like some random and set another date. Not being butt hurt is the key. Anytime you go one on one with a female, she usually has the power. That's all this is. The power won't shift to your favor until after the first bang. As flakes go,…
/r/seduction03/03/20 11:25 AM
3

Lets say I see a girl at a club and I already know her. Build value at the club, be visible in doing so, and suddenly she'll violate your proximity. Club game 101. Do you guys not read the classic material anymore?
/r/seduction03/03/20 11:01 AM
1

I couldn't get a solid interaction in ten minutes. And after class, she is in a rush and so are you. And Because her mind is really some place else, you can't do more than step up, quick intro, make your offer, and grab the number. Some guys could do a solid number pull in 10 minutes. I'm just not the guy for that. I see plenty of YouTube number pulls, but I can't think of a time where I saw the follow up date
/r/seduction03/03/20 05:20 AM
1

Guys the do "Instagram" "approaches". Some guys time their texts so that they know the girl will read them. Because otherwise, he's just part of all the noise in her life. I don't go by this text timing for girls that you haven't hooked up with. If your impression on the girl is weak, sending a text right after lunch, or right before she goes to sleep - it's not going to matter.
/r/seduction03/03/20 05:16 AM
1

thanks man this is very helpful instead of asking do you think its more powerful to phrase it like "tell me what you enjoy most"? I feel like asking a bunch of questions you quickly slip into interview mode No, you want to avoid interview mode. If she offers you something, job/where she is from/her education - then I turn the conversation in that direction. "You're from Florida?" "Really?". And she'll just take the bait. "You don't seem like you from Florida". Or "I see it now, totally from Flor…
/r/seduction03/03/20 05:13 AM
3

Stuff like - for example a woman says she’s a hairdresser; instead of asking her if she likes being a hairdresser, a pickup artist should ask for something bigger like what she enjoys the most about being a hairdresser. At first a woman might resist and offer generic answers, but this is where you should hold strong in your resolve and make it clear that you’re looking for more effort from her. Overall, when she is enjoying the chat, you have to make it easier for her to dig deep emotionally. Ma…
/r/seduction03/03/20 12:04 AM
1

Your face looks like the way diarrhea smells. Stupid troll
/r/seduction02/03/20 10:48 PM
3

They're both kind of right for the limited amount of game they are doing. But the old school way is to get much more investment. Coach Kyle on the same issue - https://youtu.be/IzxMGcfUtoc Most of you guys doing Tinder, DM sliding, and weaker day game have flaky numbers because you don't do enough on the first meet to really make an impression on the female, to her to invest when you first meet. That's why your numbers depend on her being in the right mood, and you sending you texts at the right…
/r/seduction02/03/20 10:45 PM
6

Recently I met this girl turning 30 this year originally from Estonia who has been living in Australia for 3 years. She's a party girl trying to transition out. She's been sucking, fucking, smoking and sniffing for at least 12 years, probably longer. In terms of game, it's basically pushing her back into slut mode but not letting her realize. But there will be fallout. I would avoid for both short term and long term
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:23 PM
1

Neither, If she says you are a fuckboy, lean into it. "So what is it about fuckboys that you like so much?". Say it with a smirk. If she rattles you into silence or leaving, you're submitting.
/r/seduction02/03/20 06:55 AM
2

but what about average to low? In Did I stutter? Fat and ugly single moms get more dick shaked at them online than they know how to deal with. She doesn't need thousands of matches, a few dozen a day is fine. Even if it bottom of the barrel guys, she's gonna pick the best one. It doesn't matter that no one wants her in her real life, there is always some side thirsty enough to save her.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 09:09 PM
1

Go back to the blue pill. This stuff isn't for you.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 08:36 PM
3

But who is to say they aren't alpha/HV men solely because of the boring view society has of these fields. Women. They say it everyday. I would argue that mere looks aren't what make someone HV. It's primarily looks for the vast majority of women. Looks are the resume. You can't even interview for the position without it. Money doesn't do it, otherwise these 22 year olds would be fucking guys in their 50's. Fame and power are so far removed from the average chicks life, that they aren't serious c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 08:35 PM
4

They get rescued by betas. The sexual market place will always be tilted in their favor. There's no down side to being a slut. She will get a money, children, accolades, alpha fucks, and beta bucks. Pamela Anderson, the only hot chick to call out all of Harvey Weinstein's victims has hepatitis. She still was able to finesse some rich Hollywood guy to pay off her debts. And she then promptly divorced him.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 08:22 PM
1

Mate guarding
/r/askTRP01/03/20 08:14 PM
1

Ian Fleming
/r/seduction01/03/20 01:52 PM
4

Honestly, I can't even tell you if learning this stuff is even worth it. You'll learn to read the signs. You will get a handle on your personality and be able to express yourself. You'll get girls. Cute ones, hot ones. Most of the time, you'll get a shot at a relationship. But like girls get disillusioned after the marriage, running through chicks/having a hot girlfriend in a serious relationship - it is not the consistent flood of good feelings. My ex was on fire. I have had a few dime piece gi…
/r/seduction01/03/20 06:28 AM
4

He's right, but so many other things have to fall into place for her desire for your validation to lead to hooking up. It is counter-intuitive though. Society, media, and culture teaches us that in order to attract a woman we must compliment and validate her. But most of us have learned via our own experiences that complimenting and validating the girl doesn't make her like us, want us, want to be in a relationship with us. It usually drives her away. If she's particularly pretty, She's no longe…
/r/seduction01/03/20 01:35 AM
3

Liz Warren campaign events lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 06:27 PM
1

In many ways, frame is how you perceive the world, perceive the actions of others. An insult is just a bigger shit test. Shit tests are signs of attraction and ways to build more attraction when passed. Adopt that frame, and you give yourself more opportunities to bang chicks. As YaReally often said, a chick is not going to shit test a homeless guy. She is going to ignore him.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 01:12 PM
5

The TL DR is Red Pill philosophy is simple and straightforward, but red pill practice is not easy. But the Red Pill answer is clear But you're not really being honest with yourself about this chick. What's your strategy or take on this? This is a way bigger problem than you realize. To do what is necessary, what the pill requires, you have to cut off a part of yourself. The contemporary Red Pill obsession with keeping plates leads to this issue. (It doesn't help that nobody has actually read Bla…
/r/askTRP29/02/20 01:05 PM
6

Dude brought sand to the beach. Fuck it, brought sand to the Sahara desert.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 12:19 PM
1

Billions. India, Asia, the Middle East... Lots of traditional cultures want sex initially then Mommy/cook/nurses. It's the basic norm of the world. It's not shameful in those places. Though little by little The West is changing those cultures. (And effectively reducing their populations and diluting their culture) In the West, Feminism has now made that common and natural desire unpopular. What "real man" is going to admit wanting a sex mommy when individuals choose each other instead of familie…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 11:34 AM
4

New to game Plus. I wasn’t into her Plus. I kinda did a few push pulls and got bored Plus. so I went to go chill with my other friend. Plus. She got a little drunk and then when were all hanging in a group Equals -. you’re so rude. The whole night you have been rude to me. This ain't rocket science.
/r/seduction29/02/20 11:01 AM
1

You can go test both, but most guys do neither. On the positive - When she says who she is or asks your name, it is a free indication of interest. On the negative - The more formal you get with a girl, the more she does her auto response. That's why hey is usually better than hello and hi.
/r/seduction28/02/20 11:44 PM
20

"you look like someone" is a pretty common girl opener. And it's a pretty bad one because where does the opener go if you deny that you are the person she's looking for? Girls suck at approaching. Don't take her bait logically. Don't follow her frame of thought. You don't need to be linear and rational. You just need to talk, and then run your stuff.
/r/seduction28/02/20 05:06 PM
1

Is the sex hotter when you act like a bitch?
/r/askTRP28/02/20 04:53 PM
1

Sidebar
/r/askTRP28/02/20 04:50 PM
2

It least it isn't copy pasta this time, and you're trolling us with a new account
/r/seduction28/02/20 04:49 PM
4

When you run game on the broad, get to know what she likes. She likes Indian food? You look Indian food? Well there is the dosas place you want to peep. How is your schedule? How is her schedule? Let's tentatively plan to meet up on Thursday at 8. Cool. Lemme get your number and I'll text you the details.
/r/seduction28/02/20 04:45 PM
-1

You are not thinking like a red pill man. Most women will continue to have more sexual suitors than men at every age. That's what online dating tells us. A woman is getting swamped by an ocean of dicks. But how many of those men actually want relationships? Few. And how many of those men does she find sexually attractive? How many of those sexy men want relationships with the girl in particular? She knows there are few because of how poor her success has been Finding a guy that looks the way she…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 04:39 PM
8

I'm an American, so slightly above average is what an engineer makes or what a junior level investment banker makes? I honestly can't see the prototypical gold digger going after some guy that works at Intel. She is angling for a Toyota Camry?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 12:33 PM
1

Night game.
/r/seduction28/02/20 12:26 PM
2

It was for alliteration but what if PUA pointers You can't stop yourself can you? SMH. This sort of juvenile behavior isn't going to help you. When someone is seeking rapport, you need to recognize it. That will help your game immensely. Self amusement is not something rookies should indulge in. its naturally going to be a conscious effort for a while? If you want to play word games, every effort in pickup is conscious. We aren't talking about your lungs oxygenating your blood. Cerebrum not cere…
/r/seduction28/02/20 12:22 PM
1

That's not fractionation. https://www.girlschase.com/content/fractionation-simply-explained
/r/seduction28/02/20 03:03 AM
6

TL DR is if you're learning how to pick up women, stay in the set an extra 30 seconds past your comfort zone. And keep putting more time on the clock. You'll learn more about what works for you and what doesn't. so I should focus on improving that/get jacked. But in the meantime I'm not sure. The hotter the girl is, the less she's gonna be impressed. A lot of the guys that talk to her are jacked, tall, and handsome. She's a swipe a way from Surf Chad or MMA Chad. You are talking about plowing. I…
/r/askTRP28/02/20 12:59 AM
1

No longer friends.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 10:51 PM
1

Patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 10:48 PM
2

Your frame
/r/askTRP27/02/20 10:44 PM
4

you’ve successfully beguiled Even if you're trying to score alliteration points here, it suggests that you think the seduction is a bunch of tricks to get a girl into bed, an you're playing some sort of character. When you change your view of seduction to what PUAs actually practice, there is not a question of dropping the illusion or maintaining it. There is no illusion. You are who you are.
/r/seduction27/02/20 07:32 PM
1

He's painted himself into a corner. He should use seeking arrangement
/r/askTRP27/02/20 05:46 PM
1

You can ease into the night life by picking the right scene. Maybe a hip hop or EDM club is too much. So start with rock venues. Hang out in the bar area. Club soda and lime. Talk to staff. Talk to drinkers. If you aren't used to talking to strangers, do that all day. I just wished it was different like in those videos You'll notice that they usually don't shoot dancefloor footage. It's by the bar, outside in the smoking area. It's mostly for the mic, but it's also not as intense
/r/seduction27/02/20 04:26 PM
2

Am I the weird guy who can’t enjoy drinking and going clubbing. Speaking from experience, the night life is something that you have to learn how to appreciate. Newbs and introverts usually have a hard time.
/r/seduction27/02/20 04:18 PM
1

All the girls I know with advanced degrees have told me that they have never slept with a fuckboy. And if you can't believe what a woman says....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 04:12 PM
8

If it's a club pull, it depends on how much heat there is between me and the chick. Usually there isn't much beating around the bush. If it's a date pull, shoes off at the door, grand tour of the flat, couch, TV, and drink/snack/smoke.. Conversation is light, eye contact, makeout.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 03:53 PM
23

I joined a gym, although I refused to be upsold on a personal trainer. (As a walking midlife crisis, I was the embodiment of the personal trainer demographic.) Translation - I'm not going to make any real attempts to increase my fallen SMV
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/20 02:42 PM
3

The unofficial Red pill position is that she must resist temptation more than average girl, but still be hot enough to continue pursuit. I'd say Normies (aka Blue Pill) and a lot of PUAs behind closed doors agree. The official PUA position is no judgment. I'm apparently a LibFem because I don't discriminate against sluts, I mean the sexually empowered.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 11:35 PM
4

You'll notice that the vast majority of these types of articles are written by women. They have figured out how to control the narrative
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/20 11:24 PM
1

It's the reverse. Bars and clubs, you can pull by standing out. Girls are being stimulated by everything, but the brightest object at the end of the night usually wins. If you just come at a girl being chill, she's liable to bolt when her song comes on. Day time/every day normal situations, you generally need to tone it down compared to night game. Maybe a little more energy than the girl, but not over the top.
/r/seduction26/02/20 11:13 PM
2

Pool and darts are good for "natural" kino at bars. Dancing is best. If you can find an adult arcade, that's a good look. If you are just gonna sit next to the girl, measure hands, thumb war, palm read (jokingly or seriously).
/r/askTRP26/02/20 11:02 PM
1

When do women not have it good when it comes to sex? Men in their 30's can get sex but also long term relationships with women in their 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 08:53 PM
2

Did Todd explain how all the pieces fit together? I find that most instructors don't.
/r/seduction26/02/20 08:49 PM
1

What's your roadmap for the date? Knowing where I want to go dictates the conversation
/r/seduction26/02/20 08:06 PM
3

No. End it.
/r/seduction26/02/20 06:30 PM
2

Were things always this awesome? Did I just miss out on all of this when I was in my 20s or did we as a society just get better? Running game in the 90's/early 00's, you really had to warm the chick up and build trust. Now? I can't call it. Sex isn't as taboo, but she's also more picky about relationships. Your case is a prime illustration. 15 years ago, if you fucked her well, she would be more open to a relationship. But nowadays, she has infinite choice. And maybe the next guy is cooler and f…
/r/seduction26/02/20 06:28 PM
1

Case in point I met this really really beautiful freak and slept with her. So you're sprung because she is hot. Standard. She expected to kinda hit it and dip and maybe occasionally hit her up for this. I kinda stuck around after the fact and tried to get to her. She was flattered but pushed me into the friend zone, but it made it clear it was a friend zone with sex. According to you, She doesn't want you.
/r/seduction26/02/20 06:19 PM
2

Anytime. This FWB versus FB (fuckbuddy) stuff is hard to navigate. I would add that girls find it easier to compartmentalize this than guys do, even if that's counterintuitive.
/r/seduction26/02/20 05:31 PM
7

In your scenario, she doesn't want to be friends. Guys that actually try to be "friends that fuck" usually find out that the girl is actually their girlfriend. She wants more or he wants more. Or they don't fuck other people, because sex with each other is more convenient. And the overall rule of not fucking more than once every 10-14 days gets thrown out the window. It's very unstable without diligence.
/r/seduction26/02/20 05:27 PM
2

Women run the market. Outside of disease and being shamed by other females, there is no downside to being a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 04:52 PM
1

Are you talking about your own bullshit or trying to fuck a chick that you were a pussy with? The former - don't make the same mistake again. The latter - you have a scarcity mindset if you want to keep chasing a chick that said no.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 04:46 PM
2

No. If he wants to marry, He should marry in his late 20's/early 30's to a woman that is within his bracket. After that, he and the market for him, become less viable. He isn't as interested in putting up with relationship bullshit and the women are less interested in him because he's old and used up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 04:43 PM
2

Esteemed brother, you are much farther down the path than most. I personally see this as more advanced game, and guys here are looking for how to slide into the DM's. Please tell us, in practical terms, how you went from mechanical to holistic.
/r/seduction26/02/20 04:34 PM
9

No dates. No food. Don't flirt. Don't talk about your life. Just fuck the shit out of her and send her on her way. Most guys want this at first, but having a girlfriend or bagging random females ends up being more sustainable.
/r/seduction26/02/20 04:30 PM
1

Lol. Those girls are the easiest to fuck. You can decide after the date if you put her on the breadcrumbs track, one and done, or path to girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 04:26 PM
1

A shit test isn't always a shit test. Most of the ones I read online aren't her trying to throw the guy off of his game.
/r/seduction26/02/20 04:23 PM
2

Sleep with her.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 04:21 PM
1

Stop masturbating, lift, stop eating soy.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 04:21 PM
1

https://youtu.be/hsojt7iEcTQ
/r/seduction26/02/20 04:18 PM
91

It’s like, ‘If this doesn’t go well, there are 20 other guys who look like you in my inbox.’ And I’m sure they feel the same way—that there are 20 other girls who are willing to hang out, or whatever,” she said. Average guy, no. Tyrone? Maybe
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/20 04:16 PM
1

No, https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chemical_castration
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 10:15 PM
2

The MGTOW logic has always been compelling even though the community is not. That said, the response is that a man should be okay with loss. It is better to have loved and lost than it is to have never loved at all. Lot of guys that are MGTOW or red pill can't stand the fact that they might take an L.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 08:03 PM
6

More reason to never commit to someone who can't be satisfied. It's pointless. What a lot of the red pill community needs to do is realize this. But they're mostly closeted blue pill guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:45 PM
6

This is a basic red pill truth that even blue pill/normal guys understand intuitively. But so few men are willing to develop themselves and change their minds that they stick with girls that turn sour/get bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:01 PM
3

Painted yourself into a corner by deciding to go to school in a small town. And if you keep fucking a chick that you barely like, you're setting yourself up for drama later on. Move, cast a wider net, become more "Tinder attractive", or endure.
/r/seduction25/02/20 04:55 PM
2

Google AMOG or check the subreddit roast me
/r/askTRP25/02/20 04:21 PM
1

And that's what they preach. A man should be a man, and a woman should be a woman.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:54 PM
1

Your girl found out that you think she should be feminine and that you should be masculine... And that scares you? Are you sure that you're in the right place?
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:48 PM
7

In Russia it was seen as a norm Iceland too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 03:44 PM
6

I just want them behind bars Little by little women are saying publicly what they think privately
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 03:22 PM
6

Plenty of your sisters agree. It's only a matter of time. You'll get your wish
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 03:17 PM
18

Taxes on the working people (primarily/increasingly professional women) will increase. I would not be surprised if there were calls for chemical castration or male hormonal implants. In developing nations, more violence and stalled economic improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 03:16 PM
4

Coffee at my place? Damn millennials are bold. Bravo to you guys. Gen X guys say drinks, weed, dinner, Mario Kart. Something a chick might like
/r/seduction25/02/20 02:13 PM
5

Can you fight? Whatever verbal thing you come up with relies on strength. Personally, I tool guys like that.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 02:05 PM
0

These women are convinced that dieting, exercise, and getting dressed for the date are an investment for the particular man they go out with. They often believe they have invested
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 01:55 PM
2

FDS seem to believe that it shows his commitment. Exactly. And they also warn against guys spending money if they're rich. The rich man has to break himself to show commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 01:52 PM
1

This isn't a purple pill post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 11:03 PM
4

I have a few friends that have done it for their wives. All that baby talk and lack of adult contact makes them batty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 07:27 PM
3

Keep your thoughts to yourself when you try to pull. If they ask you, you say something like, "it's weird but I don't try to. It's just who I click with". Never say "it's who I'm attracted to". Always make it about the "connection".
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:21 PM
7

This is a first date issue. And you should really design dates to avoid this type of thing. Drinks after 9, concert, etc. A daytime/weekend meet for coffee is one of the hardest dates to do well if you're new to this stuff. If she wants to pencil you in for brunch/lunch, she is just giving you a chance to impress her but on a fucked up timetable. If she truly is busy, she doesn't have time for a relationship. But generally, if she puts a time limit on a date, I'll say "That sounds more important…
/r/seduction24/02/20 06:06 PM
1

You can pay or not pay, split it, make her pay, dine and dash. What is important is that you own it. You own all of your decisions. Now if you're feeling weird because paying for chicks is culturally mandated, and you're not really making the decision THEN STOP PAYING FOR THESE HOES. Real rap, they should be paying you for your time. That's the dynamic you aspire to. But we'll keep pimping out of The Red Pill for now. In any event, you are shrinking away from making decisions based on your own f…
/r/askTRP24/02/20 05:14 PM
2

I think that is very easy to bed a woman as long as you can accept that she may be fat, older or no so good looking. You think, but I know it's not. You lack field experience. My subjective view of how attractive a chick is, is unrelated to how she thinks about herself. Some hot chicks that think they are ugly. And there are tons of ugly chicks that act like they're supermodels. That's why when the 2 am scramble at the club pops off, and every dude is trying to bury a bone, the fat girl that no …
/r/seduction24/02/20 05:09 PM
-1

Yes
/r/seduction24/02/20 04:57 PM
3

I find that trying to fuck an ugmo/retiree is more trouble than it's worth. Who doesn't want a denture free gum job? But the idea that if you show her attention she is going to drop to her knees to "thank you" is a myth. It's going to be the same amount of building up the sexual tension, building trust and rapport, dealing with cold feet, and then dealing with a chick that gets attached afterwards. And a lot of the time, these old chicks that should be well versed in fucking will starfish or try…
/r/seduction24/02/20 04:53 PM
7

Often fat girls have big tits and like to give BJ's. There is a huge market for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 04:41 PM
2

I feel like it’s not that rewarding pulling a girl once the hookup is over Not screening up front for a chick that you actually like. and after it’s over I don’t feel any different. Expecting too much from sex, which is very common with Newbs that don't understand themselves.
/r/seduction24/02/20 04:36 PM
2

Hey so I've got no issue getting numbers, but setting up the date later is the issue. The problem starts here. You should have went for the bang right then and there. But let's say you have other things to do so you can't take her home from the venue. Then you need to make such an emotional impact on the girl that she's thinking about you for the rest of the day. Especially these girls in the prime market 18-21, and the secondary market 22-25. These broads are getting a shit ton of new and old a…
/r/askTRP24/02/20 04:29 PM
5

Am I a lost cause? Sounds like all your self development was just bullshit.
/r/seduction24/02/20 04:11 PM
2

Google PUA openers.
/r/seduction24/02/20 04:09 PM
9

Plan was to meet at this chocolate factory in San Francisco I got there first and realized it was really packed. Poor planning and timing. - 10 pts. She arrived 5 minutes after and we hugged. Good, break the touch barrier. + 5 pts (-5). What kind of hug did you give her? Something that suggests attraction on your part? I then complained that it was kinda packed Bad move. -5 (-10). Don't complain. Keep the emotional tone of the date, light and fun. Even if there is a problem, you're the man and y…
/r/seduction24/02/20 12:44 AM
9

Lol at the Epicetus quote.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/20 08:12 PM
10

Are you actually trying to seduce or are you trying to date? Cause if you're just trying to date, find someone that you're naturally compatible with, then you need to accept that some girls aren't going to like you. If you're trying to seduce, there is nothing here for us to dissect and analyze.
/r/seduction23/02/20 08:08 PM
1

How much do you have in your account?
/r/seduction23/02/20 08:04 PM
7

Women by a country mile
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 06:01 PM
6

Getting your boys together you go trawl your Wal-Mart is pretty low value behavior. Seeing a cute girl at Target and shooting your shot is normal.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 05:49 PM
6

Hypergamy is being a parasite. Laziness and lack of personal ambition is a perfect fit for crotch hopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 05:46 PM
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