If one is a rich man, should he actively avoid showing too much of his wealth to women?

richasalannister · 2021-03-29T05:17:15+00:00

You should actively avoid showing your wealth to “everyone” don’t tell people more than they need to know.

Unless you enjoy:

gold diggers
lawsuits
robberies and break ins
fake friends

Rimefang · 2021-03-29T06:02:36+00:00

I read this story on reddit a few years ago about something like this. I'll try to simplify it as best I can, but it's been awhile.

He said he was content with her, his life, how things were going, and how he saw her in his future. He was basically a bum in her eyes with a shabby home, a '97 car, and wore the same clothes again and again while she was a nurse. Basically she wanted to stay his friend, but he noped her out of there and ignored her.

When she relayed the story to one of his friends, he laughed at her because the guy was actually balling in oil money inherited from his grandfather. He made more in a quarter than she made in a year. She basically tried to win him back, but he noped her hard. Last I checked on that story, she was trying to sabatoge his relationships on the side so she can win him back, calling back to her "true love".

Short answer no. Long answer yes with a but.

strawsoaker775 · 2021-03-29T00:02:45+00:00

Don't spend money to impress other women. Spend it only for your own pleasure and life quality that you want.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2021-03-29T04:30:12+00:00

"If you go fishing with gold, you will catch gold diggers."

-From, The Sayings of Chairman Zaitzev

MrNeverDryDick · 2021-03-28T23:48:21+00:00

Don’t overthink it. Just spend your money however the fuck you want. Let her make of it what she will. If she wants to be prude about it you know you have options. She can play those games with someone else.

Remember it’s your world. She’s just allowed in it as long as her behavior is good. And she’s competing against others. Frame over everything.

KirthWGersen · 2021-03-29T08:21:41+00:00

It all depends on how you project yourself.

If you give the impression that you are looking for an LTR and expect such a woman to be more prudish and make you wait for sex, she will do exactly that, especially if she has a lot to gain from such a relationship. A lot of men think that is the right way to go about things and shoot themselves in the foot.

If you give the impression that any kind of relationship always starts with sex and fun, if she is attracted to you (for whatever reason, including money) she will be more likely to have sex with you sooner.

Some women will bizarrely start withholding sex after a short while to get you into a relationship. That is easily dealt with. You simply stop seeing them/giving them attention. They learn very quickly that if they are not having sex with you, you will look elsewhere. I have found that if, after the first night they turn down sex, you simply don't contact them for a day or two afterwards, they never turn down sex without a very good reason again.

At the end of the day, it is you who decide whether or not to allow a relationship to develop. You can't get "tricked" into an LTR, it is something you choose.

Women love having sex with men they are attracted to. After the first time you have had sex, having sex with someone you are attracted to every time you meet up is the norm. If she doesn't do that, she is simply not attracted to you, or is playing silly games because she wants to dominate you. Just don't play her game. Stick with women who are enthusiastic; let those who are not go their own way.

serpentcharmer22 · 2021-03-29T02:45:37+00:00

Never reveal details of your wealth to a woman. Keep her guessing.

If she knows she will want her half.

I've seen countless friends open up to their girlfriends about this thinking it's the "mature thing to do" because they read on a feminst blog that healthy couples talk about finances.

Next thing they know their girlfriend is planning trips for them and expecting him to pay. When he says that wasn't in his budget she says. "I know you have it."

xxx69harambe69xxx · 2021-03-28T23:42:40+00:00

no shit

Prize-Thought-4205 · 2021-03-29T05:08:29+00:00

Never let her seduce you into buying her anything big. Treat her like a peasant. And since you're the actual king you will reap rewards.

clausternn · 2021-03-29T09:06:18+00:00

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ArcTrooper_5555 · 2021-03-29T04:04:54+00:00

You want them to think of you as BB?

gbizzle2 · 2021-03-29T00:09:01+00:00

He shouldnt do anything he doesnt want to do.

319Skew · 2021-03-29T04:03:35+00:00

See that hot IG looking model in line at Starbucks? Yep. She's going to go ass to mouth on a Chad drummer. Later, she'll go on a date with a guy who paid for her meal, her cell phone bill and if he's loaded maybe a flight. If he's "lucky" that guy would get a kiss. She may give him a half hearted HJ so that he can pay off her student loan. Do you really want to showcase that you're that beta?

SavorThePill · 2021-03-29T04:56:25+00:00

Depends on how rich you are. If you have so much money that you couldn't get rid of it even if you tried spending it like you're going to die tomorrow, then do whatever. At that level (fantasy), you'd have so much that you'd be really be tricking her into an LTR...it'd be reasonable to presume that you'd build a harem out of habit.

But generally, real rich people aren't stupid with their money. It's like lost knowledge in an era of contrapreneurs and fake gurus, but most actual rich people save their money and use what they save to invest wisely--and we aren't talking about day-trading or forex or some ish. Like actual, old-school investing that your grandaddy did or at least talked about.

Metrack · 2021-03-29T00:27:49+00:00

I'm not really rich yet but when I'm become one I will hide it as fuck (or promote it if I choose instagram posting route) I think the best way is to keep it as a bait and don't really spend a dime on those hoes even when you are really rich and want to be cool redpill guy

BurnYourFlag · 2021-03-29T09:52:26+00:00

Just keep it on the downlow, poor & middle class people talk about money and care about status symbols. I was hanging with my ltr and my family and casually mentioned my car was in the shop. My relative just reached into his wallet and gave me 4 grand, and i said this is too much and he just casually dismissed it. He said don't worry about it, I missed a few birthdays and your graduation. We aren't even close. Be like my relative pay for stuff, because you want to help out or you feel like it not to show off. He wasn't acting either he just felt like helping out.

ArtemisFowlThrowAway · 2021-03-29T11:51:41+00:00

I fundamentally don't agree with alpha/beta all or nothing concept.

Their definitely a zone where you can be the alpha provider, if you choose to be, but you have to make it clear to the women, that you got standards LTR checklist, and being a prude with you ain't one of them. Because at the end of day, if your rich, it's because you understand value. And you need someone submissive, you need someone to follow and help you with your mini empire. If she is being a prude, she ain't showing she is being submissive, so she doesn't fit your criteria.

Ethman2k9 · 2021-03-29T02:01:21+00:00

I’ve always said if I was rich I’d rent a 1 bedroom apartment and buy a used beater car and pretend to live there / drive it soooooooo. If she’s a ltr. You want a women who loves you for you, not your money.

WIA20XX · 2021-03-29T13:09:33+00:00

> If she knows a guy is rich, wouldn't she change to "beta snatch mode"?

Again this shows that you guys aren't really absorbing the prerequisite material.

Of course she's gonna flip the script.

If a chick sees the guy has dollars - she will take that external information and change her behavior. Wanting access to his riches, she will play in the guy's lust by promising her body, but only doling out samplings at best. She needs more and more resources for more and more access.

Do you think all rich guys don't understand women's nature?

Sure there are some 100 millionaires and billionaires that play sugar daddy to young chippies, buying them expensive gifts, in order to win their favor (and then cry about it when the 28 year old moves on) - but the man of real means? The man who's been figuring out the psychology of MEN in order to make that type of money?

He baits her with that money.

He makes her debase herself for that Birkin bag.

She gets a taste for one night of what it means to be with a very rich man, and he CUTS HER OFF.

He can't be found.
He's too busy.
He lets her find evidence that she's not the only one.
He charms her friends.
She starts to think about him all the time.
Even after the sex, he doesn't seem truly satisfied.
He plays with her head.

She thought she was gonna get this big payday, and instead she's wasting her youth and emotions on some shipping magnate or some oil-rich Arab Sheikh.

He's dropping a deuce on her in Dubai, and all she has to show for it are some red bottomed high heels. Her mentality, her greed for designer, is really just falling into some other man's trap. Most of these fashion houses are owned by men, and they dictate how women feel about each other, how they feel about themselves.

These chicks line up to be degraded, giving their all trying to bring in a whale.

As the great Slick Rick once said, "Treat her like a prostitute".

You dudes just breaking into making 80K can't imagine that YET. You're still making that type of money taking direction from other men. You still work for someone and don't see yourself as getting out from under their control.

But when you start calling the shots and seeing what people that are seeking your approval will do for you - you can translate that mentality to the game. Our entire economy is built by employees that are seeking the approval of their direct managers and maybe a level above.

Once you start seeing that type of real GAME, gold diggers are simple.

But y'all still worried about double texting and losing frame.

GetChillGetThrills · 2021-03-29T00:29:30+00:00

Depends if you want sex or a relo.

If you're getting the ONS it can help

TeddyMGTOW · 2021-03-29T11:51:53+00:00

They can smell money...maybe its a sixth sense for women....

StunningCharisma · 2021-03-29T16:19:31+00:00

Yes, just like Vasily said, don't show your wealth to anyone not even guys.
Don't overthink it

Noodlesoupe2 · 2021-03-30T06:00:16+00:00

Depends. Im not rich at all but if I was I wouldn't care as long as girls were putting out and I wasn't paying for them.

SuperSpicySpice · 2021-03-29T01:54:09+00:00

Men who must flex their wealth tend not to be. Those that do won’t attract the quality women they want to.

Drewsef916 · 2021-03-29T10:28:43+00:00

If I were rich I would have a beat up honda civic and when first meeting chicks I'd use the beat up civic exclusively and only reveal my wealth/ allow her to ride in the lambo if she proved herself over time to be quality and worth keeping around

vandaalen · 2021-03-29T11:24:12+00:00

Did you ever see Dan Bilzerian hide his wealth? Do you think he is coming of as a beta cuck to bitches?

Title	If one is a rich man, should he actively avoid showing too much of his wealth to women?
Author	Drowssap145145
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Date	March 28, 2021 11:41 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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