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SavorThePill/r/askTRP24/08/20 03:36 PM
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I don't agree with everything you said, or even the purpose behind all of it--but the thesis here is spot on: The most stable relationship between a man and a woman is when the man only WANTS the woman, whilst the woman has ACTUAL NEED for him. And you hit another brilliant point after: a woman's physical attraction to you is not enough to keep her around. I feel like a lot of guys who go through TRP are losing sight of these things. If you're trying to have a woman for longer than a few odd nig…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/23 03:31 AM
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This presents a false dichotomy: stagnation (doing nothing is the implied meaning...?) or moving goal-to-goal. You can also work towards a greater mission that, while involving small goals as milestones, is never really finished per se. Working out is like that; the mission is never done. Well, until you can't physically do it anymore. Small goals are a natural part of life that keep us grounded and focused. But people conflate bigger goals (getting with a 10) with smaller goals (talking to 10 w…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/23 05:49 AM
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I don't think you should focus on getting laid. All it seems to do is make dudes think that they feel better. You know what else makes people think that they feel better? Opiates. Whatever you're looking for out of a women, you should start by just talking to women. A lot of guys want to study and analyze, but the best teacher is always going to be experience. When you talk to women, don't fixate on the outcome. Just enjoy and focus on getting better at talking to women. Most guys suck at the ta…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/23 05:27 AM
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Moving from goal to goal is a purgatory in itself.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/23 05:21 AM
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Are you talking to women at all?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/23 05:20 AM
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The point of this issue is that redpillism as a reaction to feminism conned men into seeking meaningless sex the same as women. I've been a member of this community for several years, and I can easily say that the RP framework tacitly pushes sex as a cure for men's problems. Sure, we can be technical about it and paraphrase the foundational ethos of RP in that it really seeks to help men improve their ability to have sex by providing knowledge that leads men to increase their sexual options. But…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/23 05:19 AM
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Generally speaking, top 80% of women going after the top 20% of men. Men in the top 20% having multiple women while the bottom 80% of men are lucky to have just one girl. Generally. Wanna know more, read this sub's sidebar. It has all the wisdom behind this sub and its philosophy.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/23 03:00 AM
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The door's right over there, bud. It was nice having you or whatever. Sorry the meanie incels hurt your feelings.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/23 08:04 AM
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Dude made a post that's pretty much standard commentary about the world. Really, this sort of stuff is about as apparent as talking about the weather that you and your neighbor(s) experience. Dude brought statistics too. And yet here you are, feeling some type of way about it lol You're in a sub oriented toward male sexual strategy, and the information as well as musings that come with it, and you're going to complain about slut-shaming in religious areas (I would love to know where this actuall…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/23 08:02 AM
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The real silver lining is actually what you've portrayed as ridiculous--AI OF bots. The means to create and manage these bots will get ever-more sophisticated as well as accessible. What does this mean? More realistic looking bots in both photos (because AI text-to-image stuff can still kinda be recognized) and videos (because AI text-to-video still looks scary). And of course, as LLMs like ChatGPT and Claude also improve, the conversational capabilities will be wilder than they already are. As …
/r/TheRedPill28/09/23 07:45 AM
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Not from what I've seen. And it doesn't appear to be easy for many men regardless of race. Our brothers be starving out here.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/23 07:29 AM
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Indonesian FBI on to him after that comment lol
/r/TheRedPill28/09/23 07:28 AM
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OP, you don't need me to tell you this post is pretty ridiculous. I'm sure you've gotten that impression from other members here. What I will tell you is that it's not as crazy or ridiculous as the Janet Yellen mushroom story. And unlike that story, yours does sound real.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/23 02:12 AM
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Substances are a huge cause of mental illness in general for people. Studies have found that weed is involved in 50% of psychosis, schizophrenia, and schizophreniform psychosis cases. That alone should make people think twice (but it won't). And when people are going psychotic, they rarely know it.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/23 02:07 AM
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Read the sidebar. It sounds like you've only paid attention to the lift part--and little else. From what I've seen over the years, I would honestly say that game is more important than lifting. I've seen little guys with little arms pull. Fat dudes pulling too. Being big and strong is really more about peacocking. Halo effect is definitely a thing. You can also find perspectives on your same situation through using the sidebar here. You would've found more on AskTRP, but I think it got the ban h…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/23 07:51 AM
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Turns out she had an n-count of 2 (!) You mean she claimed that she had an n-count of 2. It might be true, it might not. Who the hell knows. But whatever you do, don't take the word of a woman you've known for less than 24 hrs as wholly truthful. People can say a lot of things. And they do. Often times with no consequences. Just because she talks, flirts, or screws like she's inexperienced doesn't mean that she actually is. She could be lying, be a social tard when it comes to flirting, and coul…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/23 07:42 AM
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Probably backed off, changed pace, and re-engaged later. Some guys tend to freak out or feel defeated when they encounter this stuff, but playing it cool and keeping the vibe positive (while maintaining the sexual premise on subtle level) goes a long ways when resistance comes up.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/23 07:39 AM
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Women love puppies. Especially if they're lost puppies. Because they get to help the lost puppy--and maybe make that puppy their own. Men and women have their own ways of dominating. For women, it's naturally being a nurturer (although sexual strategy is has been the usual one these days). Women get a lot of control through nurturing. They make many decisions, and hold the well-being of the one they're nurturing in their hands. Women are thoroughly aware of the dimensions behind and beyond their…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/23 06:45 AM
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I think you did too much at once for too long and burnt out.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/23 05:54 AM
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This is an old school style TRP post. It was so nostalgic as I was reading it to the point that I actually thought it might be copy-pasted from the sub circa 2014-2017. TRP use to just tell men like it is. It wouldn't hold back or pull punches. TRP was never about tact or nuance. Don't believe me, read the sidebar. And when it comes to this stuff, there really are no better answers if you're taking the RP route. If you had a problem, TRP would just tell you to do something about it.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/23 09:11 AM
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do whatever you want to do. Crowleyanism smh That's how we got into this mess in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/23 02:06 AM
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to add to u/ArkNemesis00's TL:DR-- OP is having cognitive dissonance about it and is hamstering it away by writing a novel of a post.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/23 02:04 AM
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u/TimDillonsBeard69 is reading between the lines. OP wants you to be cool with him fucking your/our girlfriend/girlfriends--in an indirect way because he's still sleeping around with other women while being in a relationship. Tim's reading comprehension is actually quite advanced by being able to interpret this meta-messaging.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/23 02:03 AM
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this sub is already quarantined. we're all in a damn no-no zone the way it is.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/23 08:23 AM
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Excellent post, OP. I actually find it inspiring, and believe most people here can in some capacity. This is because obsessionals aren't just people who have never truly taken the plunge; obsessionals can also be people who took control but then regressed. I don't think it's uncommon to regress, either. To essentially fall into a state of not doing anything. And when you're a redpiller who regresses, you'll still think radically and talk radically, but you won't act accordingly. Essentially beco…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/23 09:56 PM
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Your first paragraph holds an excellent point that doesn't get any attention, no matter the space/discourse community we're talking about. While some or a lot may disagree with you on guarding entrance, I do. Gatekeeping is a big part of helping to manage and guide rhetoric in any group. And that's just for starters. Gatekeeping long-term is key to shaping results and perceptions. Gatekeeping is unpopular with people, but it's strategic. And while strategy can sometimes be bloated, it's nonethel…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/23 09:32 PM
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It's harder for them to escape. Just as it's harder for men, no matter their T level, who've been indoctrinated to escape. However, men with higher T are generally less susceptible to the sort of BP programming that's associated with left wing ideology (I don't have any references on-hand, but research does bear this out). Escape, however, is possible for everyone. It's even possible for women. Luckily, the programming is a mental game and therefore requires psychological and spiritual alignment…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/23 09:27 PM
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As someone who is not clearly identified within any of these categories... Are you an alien? A furry? If human, you must fall somewhere on that scale. Unless they didn't include Jewish (which is considered white in those sorts of ethnic choices), Pacific Islander, Inuit, Native American, or any of the Middle Eastern diaspora (which are also considered white in those ethnic choices) in there.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/22 09:50 AM
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Then you're gonna be miserable until you change that mindset. I was like you in that regard. I didn't even know it. But that's how I was. Polite. Accommodating. Passive. It lead me to being used, treated as a doormat. All of which I allowed. Those people who use you? It's never enough for them. They're takers. All they know how to do is take. They consume everything and everyone--and then they become unhappy, which makes you unhappy. But the truth is, you can never keep people who are empty insi…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/22 09:40 AM
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The world needs men who are willing to rush headlong into the unknown, into danger. That's why it's been men and will always continue to be men who are doing the most dangerous of work, going to war, and on the cutting edge of tech and arts. It takes balls to do what most people won't.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/22 09:22 AM
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Maybe it's time for this sub to banned too. It's been a good run.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/22 09:17 AM
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That headline alone lmaooo u/redhawkes and u/Protocol_Apollo have put everything perfectly.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/22 04:41 AM
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Not that it will matter. The shift of the Overton Window will continue. The curious case of Caitlyn Jenner taught us everything we need to know about the GOP's ambitions. It won't be long until little discernible distinction, if at all, actually exists between either party.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/21 09:02 AM
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I don't like being the "the end is nigh" guy, but mounting economic inflation could usurp many, if not all, other issues. We're still in the beginning stages of the inflationary trend. It's going to be one hell of a ride. It all won't happen in one year either...it will last at least several years. At the least, the economy is going to pretty shitty and it'll feel like a rerun of the 2008 recession. At worst, mass pandemonium and societal collapse. Who knows. Either way, we're all going to be ta…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/21 08:58 AM
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It's Jews (I'm part Jewish myself, relax). And it's honestly ridiculous that people think anything else. Go look at who owns the banks, the investment groups, the movie studios, the record labels, the investment groups, and pretty much the whole porn industry. Definitely a red pill.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/21 01:59 AM
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Good bot
/r/seduction11/11/21 01:15 AM
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It's not easy, I know. With experience it does get easier though, as with anything. Idk if you watch AMS or LFA on Youtube, but I recommend it. Not so much approach advice, but strong game and inner-game advice particularly from AMS. LFA provides more general wisdom, but I honestly like his content more. Anyway, both of the aforementioned guys preach the importance of being "on your purpose." Among the other areas in which your purpose is fulfilling, as you progress in this purpose your confiden…
/r/seduction11/11/21 01:10 AM
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I'll be honest with you, asking for the time is not a great opener. If you're suave, then it can work...but I don't think even Rico himself would use it in light of better options. Compliments generally make for good openers, especially if you genuinely mean it. You don't have to be genuine, but it helps because it's organic and truly positive. You mentioned you were outside. What are you doing and what is the woman doing? Women who are walking at a normal or faster pace are tougher; your looks …
/r/seduction09/11/21 08:04 AM
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Bruh, I can't believe you posted this in seddit lmao. You about to get banned from this sub too you keep saying stuff like this. This question was definitely asked in askTRP before the mods moved it off of reddit. First, stop watching porn. That's a given. Second, start treating people equally, or close. I'm friendly to strangers and friends alike. I treat women like dudes and dudes like women (unless I'm attracted to the woman). But how to view them as people? It's not hard. Realize that they e…
/r/seduction09/11/21 07:21 AM
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"I say the same things that people say to me because my emotional development halted at the age of 4" Sounds like you. You wear being a foolish cunt well.
/r/seduction08/11/21 07:48 PM
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It isn't necessarily "the one tell," but it's statistically significant nonetheless (and I'm not going to link those studies because people need to do their own damn work). Ridiculous of you to assume that anyone who grasps the importance of sexual history to interpret it so narrowly, but that's more of a perceptual issue on your end that you should probably look into. Really, a shoddy strawman. Read a fucking book.
/r/seduction08/11/21 05:33 PM
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She was single and had a couple of ”ho phases” that helped her to grow and be the wonderful person I love. I've read some cringey stuff, but Jiminy Chryslers this is bad
/r/seduction05/11/21 11:46 PM
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I agree with not asking, but I disagree with the premise. Sexual past matters. Studies have proven that people with a higher partner count have less favorable outcomes with pair bonding. So if you're trying to get into or maintain an LTR with someone, it's extremely likely you'll struggle if your partner has a high body count. You're also ignoring any other potential implications, such as spiritual bond that's created through intimacy. So yeah, it's probable that most people lie about their body…
/r/seduction05/11/21 11:43 PM
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The best we can do, and it’s been said on TRP for years, is to “enjoy the collapse.” It will only get worse. Male compliance in this radioactive environment will only lead to stranger, more perverse outcomes. This is why TRP still exists—whether we’re in a golden age or a dark age, the principles contained largely in the sidebar are good and the best things for a man to do. (I now maintain faith is another important facet of life for a man too...long story short, life is better for it)
/r/TheRedPill21/10/21 04:50 PM
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you ever notice that men are urged not to call women females but women call men males and nobody says anything? is being obsequious to women cool these days? should we all pick up pegging? where's the knife...?
/r/seduction13/10/21 09:47 PM
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Weak putting-on-condom game
/r/askTRP19/04/21 08:46 PM
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Because I don't agree with people pushing mindfulness as a substitute for actual meditation. They are two different things and, if you're to do only one, then I believe a static meditation is the best one to do. Of course, I think both are good to do. But the whole reason I put my first reply down was to describe the significance of the one and to highlight that they really differ. Like if you're doing active meditation, you're still technically not in king mode (being)--you're in warrior mode (…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/21 12:07 AM
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Depends on how rich you are. If you have so much money that you couldn't get rid of it even if you tried spending it like you're going to die tomorrow, then do whatever. At that level (fantasy), you'd have so much that you'd be really be tricking her into an LTR...it'd be reasonable to presume that you'd build a harem out of habit. But generally, real rich people aren't stupid with their money. It's like lost knowledge in an era of contrapreneurs and fake gurus, but most actual rich people save …
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:56 AM
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In a sense. TRP has been cult-like since I was exposed to it, but that's partly a good thing because you need enough people to uphold the principles and discipline or it becomes too diluted for there to be a coherent framework. There was still some diversity of ideas though, for sure. And it the variety was nice--different masculine and practical perspectives. Now it seems like the most common answer to nearly any question is to next. And I see some bluepill views get praised occasionally.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/21 06:49 PM
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TRP is getting more spergs and wannabes than anything. TRP has lost its sense of humor since I joined up. It takes itself too seriously
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 06:45 AM
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Yea, the friends in the area comment was irrelevant. I don't see it as a dealbreaker, but I don't see how mentioning it was necessary.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 04:53 PM
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It's a take it or leave it attitude-- a "if you don't like it, go fuck yourself" mentality. If you actually go through with it and ignore her if she doesn't take the deal, then it really is from abundance. It is a pretty normal flake. Experienced those and seen them like that on askTRP here too. Nothing really jumped out. She showed interest, you both made plans, she used family as an excuse--one of the more common excuses in the book at that.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 04:49 PM
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Exactly
/r/askTRP15/03/21 05:37 AM
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Well, they're not yours. You don't own them. For better or worse, people will do what they want. And we must accept that.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 03:20 AM
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This is such a good answer to such an age-old TRP question
/r/askTRP15/03/21 03:19 AM
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I thought this was just in general because it was definitely when I was a kid lol
/r/askTRP15/03/21 03:17 AM
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If you have more options, I'd recommend replying "today or it ain't happening." Bust that shit-test while throwing one back. And, because you'd have other options, she can kick rocks if it don't work out. Lots of women are narcissistic. That's that. You're overthinking this one. Every time a woman flakes on a dude under similar conditions as yours, it could be the same reasons you've listed and then some. Who knows. Hit her up a day or so later and set something up. If she flakes on that one, it…
/r/askTRP15/03/21 03:14 AM
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I understand what you're asking: I arrived at this exact mental juncture a while ago. To answer your first question-- yes, you will have to cede attention and ultimately "show interest" initially. It's just how it works in the beginning. Unless she approaches you first. Now if you're really good looking and you give a female attention, she's going to be flattered and you'll quickly see that she's really the one showing interest in that first interaction. Sure you approached her, but that'll quic…
/r/askTRP15/03/21 03:04 AM
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We knew it was jokes lol. I appreciate the laugh though, one of the funnier comments I seen in a bit
/r/TheRedPill15/03/21 02:46 AM
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Listen to this guy, OP. He's right. I've found myself with the cursed PIED when it was go-time. Pray it doesn't happen to you, because there's not too many more emasculating things I can think of than your dick not working when a girl (this one was hot too, :( ) wants to fuck.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:10 AM
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Respect a bitch for being a bitch through and through? Dafuq?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/21 12:57 AM
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It's delusional to consider cocaine use in the West as en masse. Do you even know how lowkey you gotta be with powders still in this day and age? lol
/r/TheRedPill15/03/21 12:55 AM
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I've been asking what's happening to TRP for a while now. This post isn't that bad though, but I haven't read the entire thing either.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/21 12:50 AM
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Bruh, I miss comments like these on TRP 😂😂
/r/TheRedPill15/03/21 12:46 AM
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I am Asian. OK. Good to know. Anyway... We live in a fake world in which people have rationalized and internalized imaginary, and misunderstood, ideas of what they believe things to be. For instance, I've seen people misuse the term gaslighting pretty often now, in which they're really referring to instances of lying, denial, or both. You put this question in the correct place, because you're right that women use it more commonly...and their targets for using such divisive language are almost al…
/r/askTRP15/03/21 12:41 AM
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I use to think like this. A friend of mine would tell me how great meditation was and then ask me about it, to which I’d say that focusing my creative efforts [on music] was my meditation. Then I actually tried that oft-maligned “ohm” chant-style posture. And I found out it’s the real deal. There’s nothing like sitting down for at least 10 minutes and letting your mind rest, finding that gap between your mind’s stimulus and response system; becoming aware of your own thoughts. It’s a whole diffe…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/21 09:32 AM
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To anyone who's been RP'd or on their purpose for a while, most of this can be considered common knowledge. However, the format that you've consolidated the information in is well done; organized and cogent.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/21 07:19 PM
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I suggest either raising your bid or looking for cheaper altogether. Back in the day, they were almost always new and all sales were final. Now, they're all used or returned and you gotta replace 'em all the time. They don't make 'em like they use to...
/r/askTRP21/02/21 12:25 AM
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I don't think your problem is wholly committing. Yes, your level of attractiveness will usually go down in her eyes when you commit, but I believe it's because you handed over your commitment too easily, out of what she might have perceived as fear no less, since you mentioned the possibility of catching STDs from hookups. Still, the act of becoming exclusive alone can end up ruining the thing. This happened to me when I was younger. I was seeing this chick for about 4 months before she kept bot…
/r/askTRP21/02/21 12:10 AM
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Dating apps are the clearance racks for humans
/r/askTRP20/02/21 11:50 PM
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Pussy is a commodity. Next
/r/askTRP20/02/21 11:49 PM
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No, that's you irrationally filling in blanks based on shoddy logic. The point is that it won't help your actualization of masculinity, but rather damage it. If you're a legend, people won't talk shit about you crying (well in reality, lots of people will). Thing is that if you cry all the time, it definitely makes you less masculine. Look, I ain't going to the Frankfurt School with you. To quote everyone's favorite person these days: "Come on, man!"
/r/askTRP20/02/21 08:52 PM
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She’s into witchcraft and astrology and hates Christianity Why did you ignore this red flag? It's such a bad one to neglect. She had a decent amount of red flags but was someone to talk to You did what a good friend of mine did--you chose miserable company. That relationship also ended badly. For an LTR, you already know that you should've vetted better. a majority my friends are liberals who are too scared to leave their house and spent a lot of time rubbing the election in my face. Sounds like…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 11:25 PM
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You just should've told her to come over
/r/askTRP19/02/21 11:06 PM
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Ikr 😂😂 Funny ass post though
/r/askTRP19/02/21 11:06 PM
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You can't be serious. Please read the sidebar. This is one of the worst posts I've seen on askTRP. To answer your question, which perhaps shouldn't be answered for the sheer fact that this is just so damn silly, don't comment. If for some reason that your desire makes your boner break through your chastity belt and you just have to comment, then you should only comment if: A. You're already fucking her. Or B. You've got serious social media clout--more followers and engagement than her-- and don…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 11:02 PM
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A complete misinterpretation of what I said. Do you feel like you're doing the right thing when you lie?
/r/askTRP19/02/21 10:13 PM
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First things first: read the sidebar. Next, financial literacy is the gateway to financial freedom. Start educating yourself. I recommend Dave Ramsey and Minority Mindset on Youtube. I don't really agree with Ramsey on everything, like how he doesn't believe in investing in metals like gold (not unless you have the cash to be diversifying like that of course), but he's got straightforward insight. If you want to go deeper down the financial freedom rabbit hole, look into the FI/RE (Financial Ind…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 09:08 AM
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This idea that being more in touch with your emotions, especially as a man, is still relatively new. A very progressive idea to be sure. What's funny is that society hasn't had much of a chance to test the merit of such a notion, yet people become strong proponents of it as if it's now the truth. What's funnier is that crying doesn't mean that you're actually solving anything on an emotional level; it's simply an outward show of emotion. I don't think it makes a person weak to show emotion, but …
/r/askTRP19/02/21 08:49 AM
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Alexander was a badass--he could get away with crying and people wouldn't think any less of him. Powerful people can do and say all sorts of stuff and not take a hit from it. It's how Biden, for example, can say such strange shit that would kill most people's careers and still keep his job. If you're not a badass or powerful, crying will most likely not help. You can express emotion in other ways than being a blubbering baby. I personally have discussions with others where I explore the issues t…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 08:45 AM
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Dreams do come true...
/r/askTRP19/02/21 08:30 AM
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Radio silence and do other plates/things for a while. Re-initiate in a week or two.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 10:12 PM
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It do be like that sometimes
/r/TheRedPill01/09/20 03:14 AM
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A similar issues exists in the dichotomy between scholars and practitioners. Essentially, the thought is that scholars only study while practitioners go out and do. But most practitioners of pretty much any craft must know the fundamentals, and while some figure out the fundamentals on their own, many source it from documented knowledge. TRP functions in the same fashion of documented knowledge just as any collated repository of information would (like a section on a given subject in a library).…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 07:40 AM
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Thank you, Uncle V 🙏
/r/askTRP24/08/20 11:23 PM
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No self-respecting sophist stops the con when it works!
/r/TheRedPill24/08/20 11:16 PM
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If people would pop over to TrueRateMe and see the rating guide, they'd see that most factors of attractiveness in face are the same across the board for every race. You could then extrapolate the same idea that generally what's attractive in one man would be found attractive in any other, i.e., being ripped.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/20 11:12 PM
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I wouldn't have settled for exchanging Insta's...numbers would've been ideal, Snapchat at the least. Just DM both the girls. If the HB9 is attracted, it won't seem weird. Why get some sort of contact info from a hot chick and not hit her up (unless you have lots of plates/options)? But if for whatever reason you're avoiding directly hitting up the HB9, which isn't a good look imo, throw out your opener to the HB7 and tell her, "bring your friend that I met with you or whoever else!" I would say …
/r/askTRP24/08/20 06:40 PM
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He's a good friend that I've known for a while. As I move forward, I'm trying to learn from this. Nonetheless, I needed to hear this.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 05:27 PM
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Watch out for red flags: daddy issues, obsessions, depression and/or suicidal tendencies, talking shit about previous men, being a feminist, supporting progressive politics (recent study shows, to no one's surprise: progressives are most likely to be mentally ill), etc. I'm sure you can think up a few of your own. Depending on severity, one or two flags can be excusable (although I personally don't excuse the suicidal one), but you should still pay attention.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 05:15 PM
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OP is either dealing with crazy or is doing something to make women obsessed with him, as this isn't something that we see a lot of
/r/askTRP24/08/20 05:06 PM
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How could we forget Shaggy's advice? "Say it wasn't you."
/r/askTRP24/08/20 05:02 PM
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I've been wondering about approach now during the era of the mask, and I'm beginning to think that if you be cool and playful about it, that it's just as opportune a time as any. For one, it covers your face, so if you're not the best in that department then it probably won't be as much of a factor (at least during the approach). She's also got her mask, so if you happen to open a girl that's insecure about her looks, it's possible she may not be as shy. Other than that, I don't see how one can'…
/r/askTRP24/08/20 04:41 PM
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I'm slowly coming to terms with the reality that I'm not getting much out of this anymore.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 04:32 PM
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Lol I realize that's how it may look; most of my other friends have either moved across state or out-of-state, so he's one of the last good ones (or so I thought) I have left in my town. You've got great points on all accounts here.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 04:29 PM
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I believe we should our lives to the fullest, but within reason. The notion of "to the fullest" is a gray area because it gives ambiguity to where discipline lies. TRP is interesting because two prevalent philosophies are pretty prominent here, yet directly contrast each other: epicureanism and stoicism. The idea of "sin" isn't a wholly bullshit idea. While sin is held as a social construct via divine wisdom, sin is really more of a component of ethics--moral philosophy, what's good and bad. We …
/r/askTRP18/08/20 12:11 AM
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I agree that a guilt complex can be developed if one begins to reference their actions against the admonitions with scripture. But religion is still the way; it's inspired and subsequently manifested so much of the advances that we continue to enjoy today...great things have been created and done by religious men. Religion gives people guidance and structure; it imparts wisdom and knowledge. Think and lack faith as you wish, yet it's almost reprehensible to steer someone else away from faith.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 06:13 PM
3

So your homie has a girl, and you can get with the friend of the homie's girl? How is this not a win for everyone?
/r/askTRP17/08/20 05:57 PM
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Most**--**I mean **MOST--**people are a waste of time. Trust me, I've known many people in my life and I look back with some regret on the time thrown away with people over mindless bullshit. If you're trying to get "friends," you're doing it all wrong. Don't do it like I did back in the day. Start asking, "what can I get out of this person?" Pick a target asset/resource, or multiple ones, that you want to attain...money, connections (like people who actually have some influence), sex, etc., and…
/r/askTRP17/08/20 05:51 PM
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It sounds like you're fixated on looks more than anything, and that isn't completely fallible: after all, looks are thought to be the most important aspect of SMV by many. I'm in the status camp, personally. Some of the rockstars from back in the day weren't really good looking at all but were drowning in pussy unlike anybody you or I know. The truth is that most men are never going to be in the top tier of looks, yet plenty of dudes can pull well. We can infer that a good amount of guys, who ar…
/r/askTRP12/08/20 03:32 AM
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Yea, for the full moon thing. But what does any of that have to do with personality archetypes?
/r/askTRP12/08/20 02:53 AM
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Two approaches is alright (most guys in this world don't do any at all), but I think you'd actually feel comfortable doing more. Some guys who do cold approaches don't get into the the groove until they've done at least a handful of approaches. Your two biggest things to avoid getting the IHAB rejection is to increase SMV and up your game. Smile more during the interaction and try to speak in a deeper voice if you can (in fact, keep practicing at your voice intonation). Have fun with it and don'…
/r/askTRP04/08/20 04:41 AM
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I'm pretty sure he's advising against the witty responses and advocating for a change in convo
/r/askTRP04/08/20 04:30 AM
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Well back in the day before all of this decriminalization/legalization stuff going on in different states, weed use to be more taboo. When I was in my senior year of high school through my sophomore year in college, weed facilitated a bad boy image, since a lot of people still considered it an illegal drug. If you sold weed, your bad boy DGAF rep was increased compared to just some other smoker. Women were quite attracted to me when I was about that life. It was always the good girls too--the re…
/r/askTRP04/08/20 04:25 AM
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Buddy reaching the same conclusions that Elliott Hulse has already covered but takes the opportunity to bash him in the same post. Deffo some real masculinity with that sort of cheek, partner.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 03:49 AM
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I started lurking here in 2017 and joined up in 2018. The attitude and outlook of RP proponents has shifted gradually, but it started really becoming apparent to me last Fall. Too many posts now boohooing about how the OP's life is down the shitter, or asking a question that has been answered extensively if one would use the search bar (although it is interesting to see new takes and perspectives on old questions). But yes, the RPs here are getting soft--it's becoming too infused with pat-each-o…
/r/askTRP30/07/20 04:37 PM
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Ban
/r/askTRP29/07/20 09:13 PM
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How fast do you recommend to move after you've initiated contact and the interaction has gone well? Try to f-close when you meet her? If not, how soon should you move when making first contact via text...next day, a few days? I've heard advice that suggests taking things slower once you've gotten contact info and/or after you've already had a date with her and it working. I've heard experiences from guys saying slower pacing has worked as well.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/20 02:07 AM
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That's a mentality that will keep a person down. That's lower thinking. That's what betas do. Alpha behavior doesn't give a shit.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 03:26 AM
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No shit man. I've checked out the TrueRateMe sub several times (which bases ratings solely off of looks), and it's a pretty big deal for someone to be a 7. I've never seen any higher there.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 07:32 PM
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I've lived outside of my nearest city for years. I feel that transportation time and expense is a price worth paying for a nice country life. I think it really comes down to preference. American cities are quickly turning into shit holes (well, some have been for a while), so if I had to leave closer to the city, I'd be in a suburb at the most. You don't need a lot of free time--it's an hour. Unless you're working 80-100 hour work weeks (shout out Elon Musk), you have some free time in your life…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 07:29 PM
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No offense, but a sheer lack of emotional expression can be a sign of either Autism Spectrum Disorder or sociopathy.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 07:24 PM
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You could always go to them in the city or have them come out to you
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:27 AM
1

Yeah this is one of the more autistic posts I've seen in a while.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:26 AM
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Who knows....why do you care? I'll put it this way: with many things in life, you get what you bargain for.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:22 AM
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I've been trying to tell people this: true 9s or 10s are actually difficult to find. If people tried to be more objective with their rating system, they would take into account the vast sexual marketplace. They would then set criteria for what constitutes positives or negatives that contribute to overall SMV. A 9 or 10 in real life would have to be one of the most attractive women someone has ever seen in their life--although judgment of looks is quite subjective. I find ethnic women attractive …
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:21 AM
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Cash these hoes out, whatever the price for the pussy
/r/TheRedPill21/07/20 05:01 AM
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I think you were trying to move too fast. Were you talking to her during the anime or just watching it? If you set the tone for just watching, then you cast yourself into game purgatory. You were at a good spot when you were playing with her chest; you could've chilled there for a while and warmed her up. Unfortunately, you deployed a tactic of increasing escalation repeatedly to render the same result. Switch things up if you encounter resistance like this in the future. If girl rejects second …
/r/askTRP21/07/20 02:08 AM
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Maybe I'll love you one day, Maybe we'll someday grow
/r/askTRP21/07/20 01:52 AM
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Perhaps you've done it too much and just find it more of a chore than anything. Unless you try new things with sex, it's mostly the same over and over. For some people, it never gets old, but for some, and maybe you fall into this category, you grow out of it. Maybe you feel that it's interfering with or defiling your sense of spirituality. Perhaps you've become internally disenchanted by the notion that, despite how fun it is for a lot of people, the pernicious effects of widespread hypergamy a…
/r/askTRP21/07/20 01:48 AM
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This really depends upon current set-up regarding options and how attracted you are to her. Do you have any plates? If no, then proceed. Don't text her for a few days or perhaps until the day of your proposed meet-up. If you have leads but no plates, proceed. If you have plates and leads but you find her too good to pass up (say better in some way than any of your current options)...you know the answer. Not sure if her insistence upon ice cream in is a shit-test or not--it doesn't read quite cle…
/r/askTRP21/07/20 01:35 AM
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too good looking or too strange-looking Exactly. A spectacle for either the right or wrong reasons.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 09:55 PM
2

I want OP to win as well. He's certainly got cojones which will be invaluable to him in every endeavor.
/r/seduction16/07/20 07:51 PM
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Serendipity serves those who can see success in their mind's eye. In this case, serendipity brought me to this post and it is quite timely indeed. Thank you u/Zavss!
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 06:03 PM
1

I like to think of it in terms of beta waves and alpha waves. Beta waves are short, squiggly waves that, over a timeline, have short recoil. Alpha waves on the other hand are big waves that have slow rates of recoil--big peaks and big troughs. You could transpose this analogy to not only women on their periods (beta waves), but also to alpha and beta men (the betas erratic and emotional behavior of the beta being represented by the erratic waves), and to push-pull dynamics. Of course, this analo…
/r/askTRP15/07/20 06:16 PM
1

The American military has been a joke since the Korean War.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 05:21 PM
1

Godpill is definitely the final and ultimate. It always was...the beginning and the end. Elliott Hulse and Roosh V are stalwart in their commitment to disseminating Godpill perspectives and it's glorious to see.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 05:17 PM
1

There's definitely interference from outside forces and there has been for years. The espionage game is always running and, in modern/postmodern society, is centered around messaging.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 05:15 PM
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I think you actually had an opportunity to speak with her more. Hell, even if it was a critical comment, she did technically open you. If that sort of thing happens again, respond with a question and see where the dialogue goes. Sometimes, people are just shit at extending the invitation.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 04:57 PM
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I withheld my mission by telling the girl I was talking to yesterday that she would probably steal my idea. At another point when it came up, I said it's better to manifest it than speak about it. There's no ideal answer to the mission topic; regardless, a man is best off not revealing his true mission...Law of Power 3: Conceal Your Intentions.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 06:50 PM
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I really didn't want to upvote this, but I appreciate you sharing that harrowing experience.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 09:04 PM
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I'm in my mid-20s and I don't even know. I'm taking it literally and finding it hilarious
/r/askTRP10/07/20 09:03 PM
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For context, I'm mid-20's. I'm not too picky...small ass, round ass, big tits, small tits (okay, I'm not really into flat-chested)--most of that shit doesn't matter to me. What does matter is if it's real. I'm tired of women who want to be plastic fucking Barbie dolls with huge collagen-filled lips, drawn on eyebrows and enough make-up to make a Kabuki troupe blush. The outward projection is very telling of the inner state: fake. And look, I get that lots of women are fake regardless of the arti…
/r/askTRP10/07/20 09:02 PM
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That's good to hear. I had also swallowed the pill a little too hard back when I was first introduced, so I can understand. The integration with your character/personality is key, and I think a lot of people miss that because they attempt to apply the techniques, theory, and concepts in their life in a textbook manner.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 08:03 PM
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Necro commenting, but seriously hats off to OP for being a real champ when it comes to acknowledging everyone's perspective here. Have things gotten better for you since, OP?
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:50 PM
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OP should just walk in wanking the next visit and say "your advice has really changed my life"
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:22 PM
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8, 9, and 10 are debatable. #8...lots of dirty women out there who don't give a fuck--especially if they're already drunk. Yeah, dudes should be clean enough (or at least appear to be so), but the crib doesn't have to be clean. Regardless, I can't see how this one is a hard rule. #9...You underestimate women who don't give a fuck. #10...Is this for real? Drunk ONS's, in which both parties are drunk, happen all the time. 6, 10 and 12 make this sort of woman actually sound responsible, which is an…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:20 PM
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First month I felt like a god - women were crawling out of the woodwork to come at me... NoFap can really make a beast out of a man. It was actually after my first month that I felt like a machine--unstoppable. I suppose abstaining from cumming could influence a sort of rewiring and change your body's sexual response. I've never heard of it before, but I can understand that it could have an impact.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 04:48 PM
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Yes, many things are... ...better than the sex a random bitchy tinder chick can give me. This man is about his priorities right here; this man gets it.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 04:33 PM
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This is an awesome response! Nice to hear your story, hopefully OP finds it inspiring. Yes, mission is imperative. The mission should drive you. Mission, whether people identify theirs or not, is what keeps many people going in this world.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 12:13 AM
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I'm perplexed as to how you're attributing NoFap to your loss of libido and confidence...unless you did the whole 2 years without busting any nuts, from real or virtual women? Anyway, my 2 cents is that you should choose the sweetest woman out of your options to hit the p sleeve with. If you're really that nervous, perhaps you could explain that you've had a dry spell for a while? Feel out the vibe with her before throwing that out there of course. With any luck, her understanding of the context…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 12:07 AM
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Yes, u/jackandjill22 is right to be cautious. Of course, I don't trust anyone so being cautious of people is natural to me. It will be very constructive to connect with your father. Perhaps he's actually a decent person and you two will get along. That would be a step in the direction of shedding any resentment or animosity towards him, which is an overall move towards growth. I can understand if you don't want to speak to him, but I believe it will be beneficial for you overall to establish con…
/r/askTRP06/07/20 11:56 PM
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You're outta your element on that argument. It's been said on askTRP, it's been said on TRP main sub, and thousands of successful people have said it as well: stay off of social media. People with much more wisdom and knowledge than either of us say it--the idea of "adaptation" in this case is moot.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 11:39 PM
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I always tell them straight up that I don't care about their exes. If they don't get the message the first time, I just say I'm not really listening or don't answer at all to any ex content. The bad kisser thing was a shit-test, no different if she made some other negative comment about you (like if she said you have a big nose or small feet or whatever). You could've turned it around or ignored it. You know that, but going through it will help the lesson stick. Half the time, I don't have shit …
/r/askTRP01/07/20 03:16 PM
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Does this sort of thing happen often after you sex women? After jacking off to porn? If so, it sounds as though you suffer from post-nut syndrome. Something certainly didn't sit right with you after this one...do you have an idea of what it is? Rather than figuring out how it could've ended better (the answer is simple: you should've stayed around longer and gave some pillow talk), your efforts would be best spent getting to the bottom of why you had to leave. Sure, the initial reason may be sim…
/r/askTRP01/07/20 03:00 PM
1

One can carry quite a charismatic presence through being lowkey or soft-spoken. I learned a few years ago that less said is often better, and that taking action rather than saying anything is better yet. When you say less, you create scarcity to your communication and thus let your words be perceived as more valuable provided you say things worth saying. If you choose the path opposite the bullshitter, it behooves you to speak the truth. Steps you can take to be lowkey? Focus on your mission/pur…
/r/askTRP01/07/20 02:50 PM
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Hit her up tomorrow as if nothing happened. You can give her shit about it when you see her.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 02:26 PM
1

Extremism and totalitarianism are at home near both ends of the spectrum.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 12:43 AM
1

I think acting in a focused self-interested is important to do with relationships in general. I've been betrayed by many "friends" in the past and as I look back, the issues were really caused by my own lack of self-interest. That, and frame...frame shouldn't be limited to simply women; proper frame should be established with everyone.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 12:42 AM
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Yeah, I've popped my head into that smelly cunt of the internet here and there. It's pretty vitriolic and most of it bears no apparent motive to actually be practical or helpful to the women (or men) who read it. Full of platitudes ("you're better than him/you deserve everything") and male-bashing.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 12:38 AM
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It is like playing with a handicap tho
/r/askTRP29/06/20 12:30 AM
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How was this not sidebar material??
/r/askTRP29/06/20 12:25 AM
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Move on. Often times, the past is best left in the past. It's hard. Of course it is--life is hard, you know that. You might change her perception of you over time, but she'll never forget what you did. You can spend up to years building credibility and dash it all in an instant. But you know you who you are and hopefully where you want to go from here. Focus on that instead of somehow redeeming yourself or getting revenge. I promise you that the journey for yourself will be much more worthwhile …
/r/askTRP26/06/20 06:46 AM
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8 hookups a night? Are you Dan Bilzerian?
/r/askTRP26/06/20 06:38 AM
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Nah, I wouldn't know. I've had friends get into it, but I never got into psychs. What I do know is that I used to be quite in tune with the intuitive approach to life...but now I seek revelation; to find the closest path to my divine purpose. I think one could argue that there's no way of knowing whether or not one way is imparted via the supernatural while the other is natural itself, as one could either lack the discernment required or that our minds could trick us (for a lack of better terms)…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 06:33 AM
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Exactly. TRP is a theoretical framework employed to interpret (or rationalize as you've said) reality. Any philosophy is generally designed or used in the same manner, and no philosophy, without a trace of doubt, completely encapsulates or portrays reality in itself...but they do seem to come close at times.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 06:27 AM
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nice
/r/askTRP26/06/20 06:23 AM
1

Joe "Have you ever tried DMT?" Rogan
/r/askTRP26/06/20 06:21 AM
1

He's also dealing with the side effects of having done PEDs wrong.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 06:21 AM
1

you askin for a case, son
/r/askTRP26/06/20 05:30 AM
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It seems more and more people are going fucking crazy. 2020 is breaking people, or driving them to become erratic and irrational (which is a marvel in itself, considering many people were already quite irrational). In finance, we'd call this period of collective deterioration and/or dysfunction of many people's psyches as a squeeze.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 05:29 AM
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I'm seeing that her experiences with other men are before you, so that's nice. But to be real with you...good luck finding a woman who doesn't give herself away in this day and age. If you looked to a new one, you might be wondering, "who else has she been with?" You'll torture yourself thinking like that. It's 2020: clean women aren't a thing in Western nations, and I reckon it's becoming less of a thing in other countries (if it hasn't already diminished). It's something we have to accept and …
/r/askTRP24/06/20 06:07 AM
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Well, I think you already know the relationship isn't in a good state. She's actively speaking to exes and you're confined to LDR status? Two big no-no's in my book. Try to get with someone in your area--many many women out in the world. If you do end up cutting it off with her, it sounds like she'll stay in touch because she enjoys talking to her exes.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 05:55 AM
2

People have different styles of delivery: some careen into over-the-top crescendos to hit their punchline for dramatic effect, while others somehow elicit laughter through a deadpan monotone. I capitalize upon the unexpected, the unforeseeable, turning an otherwise innocuous interaction into one that might involve references to getting thrown out of a window or eating a protected species. I also do some physical, slapstick-ish humor too, or mix it with whatever goofiness I conceive at the time. …
/r/askTRP24/06/20 05:32 AM
2

You ever try the three's company thing?
/r/askTRP24/06/20 05:06 AM
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A fair amount of women--the more attractive ones--don't attempt to project much of a personality to begin with because they expect commitment and supplication by virtue of their attractiveness. And droves of men are eager tell or give them anything they want. Men often make reference to a woman's personality when she's less attractive. I've heard it a lot from dudes talking about women, illustrated by the sort of exchange that amounts to one man saying to his friend, "she's not that hot bro," to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 04:47 PM
2

I'm pretty sure he used the term red pill in reference to refutations against the mainstream media narrative regarding covid. He was already quite vocal on the whole matter in his recent appearance on the Joe Rogan podcast.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:39 PM
2

I don't think TRP itself is big now--rather, some nomenclature and concepts have been co-opted by internet personalities, and average Joe's--most of whom likely have no idea the source. Some of the online figures, such as AMS and LFA, are faithfully contributing to the philosophy and discussion surrounding TRP (although without explicitly name-dropping TRP). Nevertheless, both of those guys seem quite experienced and have internalized much of the insights from TRP simply through their own journe…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:34 PM
3

And even after assessment of what should and shouldn't be invested in, committing to a plan and doing the work is crucial.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:16 PM
4

Ah yes, the anal wench archetype lol
/r/askTRP12/06/20 05:48 AM
2

It sounds like what you're doing is working. TRP is a lot more useful when you leverage the perspectives and info here as a tools, not as a barometer for what should or shouldn't happen. Even if/when you apply techniques or ideas from TRP, I believe it's much better to naturally integrate them into your style and personality rather than following all instructions to the letter like a robot. That said, TRP is great for reference or discussion, but it's not the end-all-be-all. It sounds like you a…
/r/askTRP12/06/20 05:47 AM
3

Rational Male is a little too austere when it comes to waiting. The Iron Rules of Tomassi provide nice guidelines, but shouldn't be treated as unquestionable decrees either.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 05:31 AM
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Don't believe the n-count they give you. This has been said on TRP more than once. You've no reason to disbelieve it, but you have no proof of it either.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 05:28 AM
2

"You know I’m automatically attracted to beautiful — I just start kissing them. It’s like a magnet. I just kiss. I don’t even wait. And when you’re a star, they let you do it. You can do anything... Grab them by the pussy. You can do anything."
/r/askTRP12/06/20 05:11 AM
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Eh, the worst I get these days with jokes are generally about amputations, either voluntarily or involuntarily. I presume those jokes would be offensive to amputees, but you also have to understand that a fair amount of humor is predicated upon profane, ghastly, grotesque, or otherwise melancholic themes (among others) that are delivered in such a way that somehow generates humor. You see, I have a friends across the political spectrum with their own aversions and triggers, so I don't really thr…
/r/askTRP12/06/20 05:06 AM
3

Actually, having a first date removed from your place or hers is something that is probably best to do. You're trialing her. At the removed location is where you can get to get to know her and identify any red flags.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 08:24 PM
1

You've good style my man--top for that Marty McFly Casio!
/r/askTRP11/06/20 08:20 PM
1

Humility is good, but don't confuse it with diminishing your character. In most situations, if you apologize, and if you do it often, people will perceive you as a fuck-up. You are the one that establishes the frame, the social reality. When you apologize, you either indicate or reinforce an error--unless the error is self-evident. If you consistently apologize, you will view yourself as one who's consistently in error. Your plate/LTR will too. Hell, she'll jump on that train before you do and t…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 08:18 PM
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You're policing the speech of others but asking about "how to speak your mind?" How upside-down the world is becoming lmao. So what you're really asking is, "How do I confidently censor others via social shaming without being opposed or hated?" I wouldn't concern myself with such a petty mission. What I do know is that you sound like a Karen. People like you are the ones that quarantined the TRP main sub. People like you are ones that would rather have all of the material on this sub deemed anti…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 08:08 PM
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Get a nice pair of sunglasses (my favorite are Carrera, but Gargoyles, Versace, and Cazal are dope too), a nice watch (you can never go wrong with a classic diver), and a nice jacket (careful with leather--not everyone can pull it off). Right there, you'll have a your standard stylish gear set that you can wear on most occasions. For shirts and pants... Polo shirts (not the brand) are kind of out of fashion these days, but if you're decently buff you could probably make it look good. For your pr…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 07:50 PM
5

No Ragrets
/r/TheRedPill10/06/20 06:35 PM
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Men don't need closure, but men are also straight up. Yes to controlling your emotions, but reaching out to indicate severance isn't in itself an emotional gesture. Same with blocking--it controls the stimuli in your life and puts up a barrier; blocking can be done out of rationality, but I will concede that it can also be done emotionally. It all really depends on intent. Your method of dissolving the relationship is your style. There's not really a de facto "manly" way of doing it (although th…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 05:13 PM
1

How would I know? I live in my Gulfstream G650ER these days when I'm not sashaying around the Hamptons with my labradoodle.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 04:34 AM
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For information on the decline as it pertains to the world of relationships, here's a comprehensive piece on the subject from the sidebar of the main TRP subreddit: https://www.singularity2050.com/2010/01/the-misandry-bubble.html The sidebar of the main TRP sub has much more in-depth theory and meta concerning the decline of Western society, especially involving relationships, compared to this sub. If you're looking for general information on the decline, take a look around lol. Nah, but serious…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 04:20 AM
2

I'm a little confused because at first you spoke of these guys merely staring at you, and now we've progressed to the possibility of physical altercations. In addition to your SMV thing, this sounds like it's something that has to do with where you live. If it's that bad, honor the 2nd amendment as the founding fathers intended and carry a freedom machine [gun]. If it gets really bad, flash the peace and the boys will likely scatter. They might not even come around you again. It was either Machi…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 04:06 AM
2

The other thing I could see happening is during protest and riots people would be having all out orgies in the middle of the street maybe as diversion tactic. Lol what? You're on a bit of a different level here. What we're seeing within Western society cannot continue long-term--it will become too tiresome and too dangerous to maintain. Covid, at worst, will run its course. We actually have an auspicious opportunity to effectively gauge just how contagious covid really is within a couple weeks b…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 03:54 AM
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These dudes are jealous, testing you, or sizing you up. I'm going to go with the latter because of what you mentioned regarding the SMV increase. This is a common response from animals when assessing targets or threats. But then again, I wouldn't read too much into it either. When people are trying to fuck with you, in any form be it physically, verbally, etc., they're trying to get a reaction from you. Even if you aren't reacting to them in that moment, you're still reacting internally. In a se…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 03:33 AM
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You've interpreted quite well. My thought was that they were collecting you guys like trophies: living, breathing manifestations of their validation. Or they were nonchalantly inviting you to a party, using their womanly charms in the process and not really considering the [sexual] impression they gave. You might've enjoyed the shindig, but I can understand if that's not your thing. I use to hit up any spot for some rowdy fun back in the day, yet I would never walk in looking for poon either.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 03:22 AM
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Many people here have given you solid answers. I've nothing really unique to contribute except to say that it's much easier than you think. There's actually no secret. The answer you seek is simple: stop watching porn. With that in mind, you can take the methods from the comments here and implement them into your strategy to keep you away from such a perverse and shameful activity. The methods of staying busy and changing your mindset are crucial to the endeavor of exerting further discipline ov…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 05:18 PM
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Haha I did say that
/r/askTRP08/06/20 05:08 PM
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Ah yes, you've brought up a very interesting concept here: the Coolidge Effect. We humans do enjoy novelty. I believe facets of that phenomena could be extrapolated to other phenomena of our world, such as social media usage. If most humans didn't have such a keen fixation on what's novel, people wouldn't keep scrolling through their newsfeed. The same goes for consumer culture. People want that new phone, new pair of shoes, new car, etc. One could become bored with their previous phone, but the…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 05:02 PM
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Been there done that. When people proclaim to have the incontrovertible truth as those in the blackpill community do, you should absolutely be skeptical. Is there some truth to it? Yeah, as far as looks are a part of the SMV calculus, although BPs are obsessed with face and height. Nobody here to my knowledge would discount those features, but we aren't going to sit here and say those things mean everything to every woman in the world either. Perspective and respect for reality are underapprecia…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 04:51 PM
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TRP use to provide these sorts of answers in sardonic narrative format more often back in the day. Iirc, u/GayLubeOil was, and probably still is, a pro at them. That said, you'll find more detailed posts like these on the main sub. In fact, I found a post very similar to this reply that was my impetus for getting into TRP called "Text Game: Be The Man Who Doesn't Reply" on the main sub.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 07:17 PM
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A lot about being funny is delivery. I'm pretty good at making people laugh when I want and can tell you that it's probably 70 to 80% delivery in social settings. I don't even really watch stand ups or much comedic material these, as those are completely different contexts from social settings. Still, you can get some good material from watching comedy pieces and sketches. It helps to have a style or at least be able to weave through styles. Mine can be dark or surreal, but I think improv is the…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 07:05 PM
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Absolutely. This point has been made on TRP for a long time that men should be pursuing women regardless of where they're at (unless you're looking like you're at the bottom of the barrel...but a lot of those dudes know where they stand anyway). I think one of the negative constructs that TRP can develop for some involves the notion that they must be at some level, whether physique or game, before trying. Yet I've seen dudes who aren't jacked at all get women (and let's be real, your face figure…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 06:51 PM
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Next thing you know, askTRP is going to want dick pics. Don't start us down this path; people will stumble into here and wonder how it ever use to be oriented toward sexual strategy with women.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 06:41 PM
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Many wise people that weren't included in my comment. Nietzsche is a little too pessimistic for my tastes, but nevertheless posited some fascinating concepts!
/r/askTRP05/06/20 06:33 PM
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In the context of philosophers, it is more constructive to base your assessment on the value and merit of their ideas and insights and not on aspects of their personal lives, unless of course you're listening to a person with an egregious set of habits or biases. In the case of Peterson, his unfortunate struggle with drug addiction doesn't bar any of works from being valid--it doesn't make his ideas, especially before his trouble, any less potent or valuable. Of course, it apparently has diminis…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 06:30 PM
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Stay off the phone. If she's on her phone, that's on her. Exert the self-control to not check it. It's tough if you're always checking it, but I guarantee you it's worth it. I enjoy my time with people so much more now. Yeah, don't put something on that either of you are really interested in watching. Something mindless is your best bet.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 06:37 AM
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A recent phenomena in the manosphere consists of some figures going Godpill. Roosh V, Elliott Hulse, LFA (well, not really LFA, but he's been encouraging his viewers to keep the notch count low). These guys were dedicated to the redpill and had no qualms about gaining that carnal knowledge with legions of women. Roosh was probably the biggest proponent of living the playboy lifestyle. For one reason or another, these guys have eschewed the notion of abundance with women. To interpret why broadly…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 06:09 AM
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Just because you won't take the time to properly discern the meaning doesn't mean it's bullshit. You could call anything bullshit with that sort of rationale (most people do).
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:18 AM
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You have to start doing the deep dive. Start getting philosophical. Some people go the way of stoicism, more serious than the TRP take on it, progressing to the teachings of Seneca or Marcus Aurelius (the most prominent stoics). Or you could go old school with Plato or Socrates. You could check out the enlightenment authors such as Rouseau, Voltaire, and Locke to name a few. Brilliant thinkers whose works influenced our democratic ways of life. Or the more modern minds such as Adam Smith (my per…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:17 AM
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This guy gets it
/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:57 AM
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She's looking for you to pedastalize her, to make her your top priority. She can talk all the shit she wants, but you're the one doing the work--you gotta drive your wang forwards and backwards through poundtown and she mostly has to switch positions if need be. At any rate, she sounds too taxing. I dealt with a nympho before, and it was nice ngl, but what can feel like constant input eventually becomes a chore. I'd imagine you're either currently feeling, or beginning to feel that way. I'd simp…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 06:43 AM
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The best way keep disclosure at a minimum, or at least in the "attractive mysterious guy" sweet spot is to elude particular topics. When they ask about your job and if it happens to be not-so-glamorous, say you shake your ass for dollars or something. To make things easier, pick certain aspects about yourself that you won't reveal, such as age, job, family situation, etc. The more intimate you become with the woman, the more you can choose to reveal (I recommend looking into Social Penetration T…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 09:15 PM
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Absolutely, you"re right. No need to be bitter--it appears pretty butthurt. Besides, if she's cool or the pussy is great or some other factor as I previously mentioned, she can be worth keeping in contact with. The conditions for remaining in contact are pretty context dependent here.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 08:45 PM
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I haven't really done the app thing for a while, but I'll give a rundown of how my process use to go. First, I'd reach out and find some random convo to be had. I'd keep the mood light and most importantly, enjoyable. You don't have to be goofy, or funny, or really act in a specific way to get results, but you must keep the atmosphere engaging enough to warrant her continued involvement. This initial back and forth shouldn't go for more than an hour or two (I know, probably sounds ridiculous to …
/r/askTRP28/05/20 08:32 AM
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I agree with your first couple sentences for sure--expanding social circle is usually a good idea (depending on where you're at in life, of course). It can also be fun to meet up with people and bullshit. Don't exactly understand what you're on about with the rest of what you said though. She is an old plate after all...not too far off from an ex. It's not really incel at all to move on--it's some grown man shit actually, but I can understand how that sort of behavior can appear off-putting in f…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 08:05 AM
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I think you're on to something good with your channel or I wouldn't have given you feedback. I could always give you a full rundown of my thoughts on where you're at if you'd like to PM. Take care
/r/askTRP28/05/20 07:53 AM
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Pretty good amount of guides out there on Tinder already, on this sub or regular TRP sub. Obviously, most women are going to go for the best looking guys they can find. Having a clever or creative bio isn't going to help a whole lot because let's face it, women aren't looking for wordsmiths. Basically, just don't have shit pictures and don't be below average in looks, and then you might manage to get some matches. It's pretty basic stuff that I personally wouldn't spend a half hour watching a vi…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 05:39 PM
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Bring a girl with you. That'll be fun. Otherwise, that's an easy no-go: alcohol, best friend with her, and boyfriend? That's three strikes and you're out, bud.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 05:26 PM
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U wot m8?
/r/askTRP25/04/20 09:38 PM
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Our effectiveness as men is impinged upon when we let negative thoughts weasel their way into our minds. We let negativity in through all sorts of shit: news media, a heap of music/movies/videos/books, forms of humor, and our own thought patterns. We often destroy ourselves willingly. One time I heard that 90% of pain is self-inflicted--I tend to agree. The negative feelings will go away--but only if you let them go. When we let go of things in this life, we increase our capability to receive. I…
/r/askTRP31/03/20 05:08 AM
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People rarely recover from certain traumas. Your friend now probably feels responsible for her death. I have a friend who lost his child to a woman who either aborted the child, or put the child up for adoption (I had never been clear on the details and didn't seek to needle the wound). His woman had her reasons at the time, long story, but it ended up putting him in a state of perpetual anguish that I don't believe he has ever truly recuperated from. It's not like he's been locked in his room i…
/r/askTRP29/03/20 01:15 AM
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Emotionally, humans are complex creatures. I know it may not often seem that way, but when one can observe the irrational and sometimes erratic behaviors exhibited by people, you can see why. Even appreciation for art or entertainment is not strictly logical, so no, I'm not outright criticizing irrationality. Anyway, a lot of people out there operate under the assumption that people only do things out of fear or love (the film Donnie Darko actually has a competent, albeit limited, commentary on …
/r/askTRP06/03/20 05:12 PM
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That's the club game for ya. I'm sure it's worse if you're in a town full of lefty spergs. I don't want to be the "be careful now" guy, but shit like the 5 knights thing can get out of hand. It's not the knights you need to worry about, but on-edge bouncers who jump to conclusions and assume you're causing trouble. The bouncers in my town wreck shit. 2 or 3 guys were literally killed by the bouncers at one of the bars here. If not death though, they just seriously beat the shit out of people aro…
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:59 AM
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I hope you're seeing other women as well. I've identified more than one red flag here, as a matter of fact. Serial monogamist "Serious" relationships since she was 14 (don't gimme that "mature for her age shit") Focuses on exes (it would be one thing if it was off-handed mentions infrequently, but it must be a significant issue since you mention it here) Continuing dialogue with most recent ex Work out a casual relationship or move on. She's use to toxic and taxing relationships, but if you have…
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:47 AM
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Serial monogamy is her hamster saying she's not a slut because she stays exclusive...for however long that is lol
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:41 AM
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Are the latter items things that you seek in life? You're chasing fantasies if that's the case. Many of us of have some lofty goals, but it is our sense of entitlement for the things we want that robs us of not only our happiness but our freedom. Chasing the dream isn't the problem--the expectation of attaining a meticulous semblance of the dream is. Your life sounds better than a lot of people's out there. I'm not going to tell you to be happy with what you have, but a reminder that a little gr…
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:40 AM
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Yup, OP is not in the process of fulfillment. He's got the job, friends, women, and amenities of a decent life. But he feels something is missing...because it is.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:32 AM
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Stop being arrogant, distance yourself from your emotions, and don't put considerable weight into the words of those who aren't wise.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 05:14 PM
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If you're located in a small area where options are limited, do your homework first. You don't want to ruin what little chances you may have. If you've got enough options to go around, then do both. Read some theory and apply what actionable bits you get out of it. Go back and forth with both activities. If you choose to read theory before approaching for a while, be careful not to get stuck in the valley of knowledge. Don't overwhelm yourself with all of the information out there. Experience is…
/r/askTRP01/03/20 05:09 PM
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I agree with your general sentiment as well. AWALT indeed, just based varying degrees of slutiness. Yet, I would never defend such behavior and I also wouldn't attempt to change it. While I do believe that behavioral change happens, such efforts for profound behavioral change are often not successful through encouragement and relational influence. Historically, changing people and how they act is most successful through coercion and force--not that I condone either. From the established viewpoin…
/r/askTRP01/03/20 04:59 PM
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FUCK. I've had the wrong hair color this whole time.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 06:00 AM
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If you won't include a TL;DR, at least be more diligent in breaking up your paragraphs to improve navigation for skimming. However, I grazed your monologue. ​ ...in the middle of sex she literally says “everytime you’re inside me, I want to tell you I love you” I paused her and told her don’t be saying that shit if you don’t mean it... ...the connection I do have with her is stronger than anything else I have with these other girls. She’s technically the only girl I’ve said I love you to. You ge…
/r/askTRP27/02/20 05:58 AM
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Definitely agree. I've heard of that move, although I think being considered gay was unintentional on this dude's part. I'm from a semi-rural area and HS was definitely some years ago for me, so his metrosexual style, modeling goals, and the culture of our time ended up in him being classified as gay. I've considered the gay move a few times in the past lol
/r/askTRP27/02/20 05:29 AM
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Depends on SMV. If you're high enough, you could tell them nearly anything or they could hear nearly anything and still want it. A kind-of old friend of mine from high school is a male model and actor. Most people who knew this dude straight up thought he was gay and the women still wanted to smash da homie.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 04:52 AM
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Lmao that's gold
/r/askTRP26/02/20 04:44 AM
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Yeesh. This question has been asked before, which you can find using the search bar. I'll admit, I contemplated the same with a woman not long ago. She was hot, I was horny. Dodged a bullet there!
/r/askTRP26/02/20 04:38 AM
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Perfect response
/r/askTRP26/02/20 04:28 AM
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Oh yes, I think a lot of us thought we found that fucking unicorn at one time or another. I sure did back in my Blue Pill days. I listened quite attentively to all of her problems, stories, etc. She still dumped me in the end. So just remember that she'll still leave your ass no matter all the social background you two have built. Best way to react? You've a few options. But before we get there, it helps to frame it like this: if you've known her for only a few months or so, whatever sort of bag…
/r/askTRP26/02/20 04:23 AM
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It seems the 10's here obsess over frat lords, the well connected college socialites. Don't worry about other people--it'll slow you down. Maintaining frame is also about staying in your own as well.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 08:58 AM
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Do you actually have a question? Your post went from "how do I get through senior year" to "I do lots of stuff and people like me" fairly quickly. Good to hear that you're doing well?
/r/askTRP25/02/20 08:51 AM
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...she tells this kind of traumatic story when she was younger and she almost started crying. The story made her even more beautiful to me for how strong she was and I couldnt help but tell her how strong she is and then how beautiful she is. I can barely tolerate those traumatic stories from people anymore. Everyone's got one of those--we've all been through some shit. Women do those the most, and I would categorize such a monologue from her as a shit test. Are you good for sexy time? We'll get…
/r/askTRP25/02/20 08:25 AM
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SHOTS FIRED
/r/askTRP25/02/20 08:02 AM
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The shortcomings of TRP is something I grappled with a couple months ago. I was also exposed to TRP over 2 years ago (August 2017) and for the longest time I didn't question it. Well, things happened and my perception was thrown for a loop at the end of 2019. I couldn't see myself or the world the same way, and my internal vulnerability at the time left me feeling as though I'd been deceived by many factors of my life, including TRP. After my personal turmoil blew over and the dust settled, I co…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/20 08:33 PM
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You're treading a fine line between defending profligates and exposing a shade of contradiction in TRP. I don't think you do the latter very well because you're not outright acknowledging that a promiscuous woman presents a questionable partner at best. In what world is being a slut okay? If you want to subscribe to the leftist upside-down clown world agenda and be fine with whores, have fun attending this year's SlutWalk. You're on a slippery slope bro. ​ But if you don't recognize their abilit…
/r/askTRP24/02/20 08:32 AM
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We have the privilege to be loners in our advanced society. Take advantage and make your life into something. I've had many friends and I'll tell you that they can end up holding you back. But seriously, if you want friends just try talking to people. Give it a real effort rather than expecting shit to just happen. If it doesn't seem like people want to deal with your ass, figure out who you are and a niche or gimmick that you bring to the table. Be funny, be smart, be badass/DGAF, be creative, …
/r/askTRP23/02/20 08:30 AM
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Well, no one's perfect, and that goes for you too. No paragons of humanity exist. Being that everyone is flawed, you must learn to accept them as flawed That being said, you'll need to trust people to a certain degree in order to bring about the best result. Do you want friends some day? Plates? Colleagues? Then you'll need to at least trust them somewhat to spend time with them and allow for some level of self-disclosure. But, you needn't reveal everything either. In fact, I believe people ofte…
/r/askTRP23/02/20 08:20 AM
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Have you read the sidebar? Do you pay any sort of attention to the news or developments in Western society at all? Have you observed female behavior? Have you heard of any woes or issues that your friends have had with women? If you answered yes to any of these and you're still simping for women, you need to really start paying attention. You gotta get tough man. A wise man once said, "If you want to change, then you've got to change." You need to put the effort forward. For starters, you should…
/r/askTRP23/02/20 06:40 AM
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Self-awareness is key. I can't say for certain what your intentions are, and I don't profess to know. But I see that you're digging--that you're going down the path of introspection, and that's great. Every so often, all of us need that reminder to do the deep dive so that we can recognize what we're really doing and why. I catch myself every now and then and wonder where the hell the more inquisitive side of me has been. I do appreciate how you broke your comment down into "if what you say is t…
/r/askTRP23/02/20 06:06 AM
2

The dick that a woman gets just by virtue of being at least somewhat attractive is an issue that most men in the game are collectively contributing to. The large-scale shift from monogamy in Western society, precipitated by Feminism and the Sexual Revolution, has influenced the dynamic to the point of where we're at today. So, yes Feminism helped get us here, but by us continually trying to get with women we're not doing anything to solve the problem either. Then again, a coordinated effort to p…
/r/askTRP23/02/20 05:31 AM
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Good sleep is key to being as efficient and effective as possible. A British study done a few years ago revealed higher cases of heart disease, cancer, etc. in people who slept less than what's considered enough (around 7-8 hours). However, everybody's different. If you look up "sleep routines of successful people," you'll find that Elon Musk only gets 6 hours, or that Fiat's CEO only gets 4 hours. But then again, these are guys who grind their asses off. Thus if you have to sacrifice your sleep…
/r/askTRP22/02/20 07:10 AM
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Because in the big game scheme of things, we don't need that shit. Men don't need to be "addressed as" or some other such. We do the shit whether people praise us or not. We don't ask that the world acknowledge our struggle. No one sings praises of most men in this world (unless they're rich/famous). And yet, we keep moving on. We don't need the validation like the women do, who step over each other for as much attention and validation as they can get. They stay glued to their phones like junkie…
/r/askTRP22/02/20 06:55 AM
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Right, abundance is one thing but some people are genuinely addicts.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 06:40 AM
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For real though
/r/askTRP22/02/20 06:37 AM
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Never forget that she always has more options than you.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 06:36 AM
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Episode 12, Season 7. Title: "The High School Reunion." They took Sunny off of Netflix, but you can find it on Hulu
/r/askTRP22/02/20 02:47 AM
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I read that one too somewhere, but I haven't seen the truth of it yet.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 02:41 AM
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+1 for that reference, favorite line in the movie (except for Thurman's material lmao)
/r/askTRP22/02/20 02:38 AM
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Since some amazing answers that I won't attempt to match have already been given, I've got a response out of left-field: They want people to build the pyramids all over again. Shackle the mind, and you may do with the body as you wish...they'll bend to your will of their own accord once you've programmed the little robots well enough. The Pharaohs saw to it that each slave who worked on the pyramids was given a gallon of beer a day (true story). Keep people content just enough, even while you su…
/r/askTRP22/02/20 02:36 AM
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Have you ever seen that episode of It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia where the gang goes to their high school reunion? Yeah, you don't want that. Reading your post, especially the middle in which you lay out your fantasy "showing everyone up" moment, I'm not even sure the current life situation you opened with exists as you've described it. In a way, it sound like you're still in high school and are dreaming about such a day in the future; now you've come to TRP in hopes of seeking confirmation …
/r/askTRP22/02/20 02:19 AM
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Todd V and Chase Amante (of the GirlsChase website) are solid sources of game.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 01:51 AM
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Your friend isn't as ugly as you think, or you aren't as good looking as you think. Or both. Or the more remote possibility she's trying to make you jealous...but I can't detect any shred of investment from either of you in this case except for passing glances, so it would be unlikely.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 01:36 AM
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From now on, I would simply invite her over for fuck/suck, and then get her to leave because you're busy (working on your application to the OGs...NASA, bitch!). Application of one or all of the items below could benefit you: Reduce length of time spent with her Reduce number of convos had Keep your new plates out of sight (unless you choose monogamy; some invariably do) Consider breaking up in the future and potentially avoid LTRs, especially if they give you mental anguish.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 05:54 AM
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I'm sorry to hear that. I apologize for the hostility. Abstaining from drinking will really help. It doesn't have to be forever, but it should give you some clarity and maybe breathe a bit more perspective into your life. I'm going sober myself again. Last time was for a couple months-- nearly 8 years since I'd been sober for that long. If you go sober, I'm with you on that journey. Make it your goal to approach more in public, open girls and guys. Lots of assholes out there, but great interacti…
/r/askTRP09/02/20 05:32 AM
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Don't think of the other guys doing stuff to her--that's virtual cuckoldry and some sus shit to do over the long-term. It helps in the anger phase as a method of framing, but it's not good for you in the long run. So there's your first step to mastering your mind and thoughts: don't think about that shit. Tough, I know, I've been there (not with that, but certainly other toxic patterns of thinking). Simply think of women as not reciprocating your consideration, and don't hold it against them. Th…
/r/askTRP08/02/20 09:09 PM
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Right! If anything, he should've taken her disgust as a compliment! She felt betrayed by him because she expected better.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 08:49 PM
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$15k of disposable cash--GONE! And $100k in the bank. Wow, your life sounds hard. Hang in there bro. These humble brags will get you through the hard times!
/r/askTRP08/02/20 08:41 PM
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Exactly, what's this shit about "fuck the arts, only do sports because it's Alpha bro." It's cringe as hell. Most of the shit we say and spew has been influenced by those in the arts (real ones, not the clowns these days). Do your shit, fuck everybody else.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 08:38 PM
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You need to get your mission. That's the number one thing you need above all else. Anyone without some semblance of a mission is fucking lost, whether they want to admit it or not (of course if you're older/retired, this is a different matter). Two things changed my life when I first started my journey: an influential figure and TRP. These two things greatly augmented my mission, as I already had one that I wasn't carrying out very well. Some here are vehemently opposed to gurus, but TRP princip…
/r/askTRP08/02/20 08:30 PM
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I'll be honest with you: you're not good at arguing. You don't directly address what's been said, and your arguments are unreasonable because you don't articulate any of your points clearly enough. You take a strong arm approach to give edgy, half-assed insults that do nothing to expand the case of your own side. Then again, most people are pretty damn bad at arguing so it's not like you're at much of a loss.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 06:55 PM
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Lmaoooo
/r/askTRP01/02/20 06:41 PM
0

What an edgelord lol
/r/askTRP01/02/20 06:40 PM
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Waiting for the downvotes, but looksmax. Everybody knocks it, but even some RPs here know it's tried and true. Lose weight if you need to, get a haircut, dress a little better (get things that fit a little tighter if you're accustomed to wearing baggy clothes...the better fit will create the perception of you being bigger). That's pretty much the best you can do. However, if you don't look good, then you don't look good and women are trying to cull from the best of ranks these days. If the latte…
/r/askTRP01/02/20 06:38 PM
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I think that applies to 90% of posts here. Fuck, 90% of reddit for that matter. Nobody really has anything important to say at all, but it's the paradox of a sea of meaningless that somehow makes these things meaningful.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 06:32 PM
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Let's take a stab at semantics through some scenarios, shall we? Let's clear up the definition first. Plausible deniability is loosely defined (because you'll find ranging definitions via internet search) as: "the ability of people to deny knowledge of or responsibility for damnable actions either committed by yourself or others," or in other words: "being able to cast enough doubt over your culpability that it cannot be ascertained." If girl is implying that she's drinking via her snap story [t…
/r/askTRP01/02/20 07:12 AM
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Benefits? What sort of benefits? I can tell you with almost certainty that there WILL be strings attached if you're talking benefits in terms of items or money. Otherwise, I could understand the social proof of having a girlfriend in high school, but that invokes the story of Larry Craig... Ol' Larry was a senator from Idaho. One day, Larry hopped into the bathroom of MSP airport and attempted to solicit sex from the guy in the stall next to him. The guy next to Larry was an undercover waiting t…
/r/askTRP01/02/20 06:55 AM
1

Good. That's a pretty big red flag, so I'd personally ignore her for a while (although it might look like being butthurt about the whole thing), but how you proceed is up to you
/r/askTRP01/02/20 06:46 AM
0

Plausible deniability is a hell of a lot better than plausible culpability
/r/askTRP01/02/20 06:44 AM
1

Well, as an actor on the platform you are feeding into the greater female validation framework being facilitated by the greedy gammas over at big tech. Buuuuut everyone likes to have fun too, so if Tinder works for you, why not right? Of course, I refer back to the whole female validation framework and all that...if you care about those implications and despise contributing to that, but still want to use Tinder, then it's sort of like drugs and alcohol: drugs and alcohol are fun (which everyone …
/r/askTRP01/02/20 06:37 AM
2

How overt was she about pregaming?
/r/askTRP01/02/20 06:29 AM
1

Bah, these subs are beginning to eat themselves anyway. I regret to see it happening throughout the rest of the manosphere. Not sure about you guys, but I'm seeing some odd and downright shameful behavior being tolerated in the community. This isn't bad because I look favorably upon acts of intolerance, but because the sort of intolerance from TRP was wielded as a means to teach; as a means to set things straight. I didn't even mention the petty arguments and bickering over ridiculous nonsense t…
/r/askTRP01/02/20 06:03 AM
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Easy there, turbo. No need to be name-calling. This isn't Xbox Live pre 2010s and you aren't 12 years old. Shape up
/r/askTRP31/01/20 02:33 AM
0

Besides, a man of OP's stature (and probably age) should know what to do. Silly humble brag fabricated into a question.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 07:40 PM
1

"I'm selling my Gucci loafers, they weren't the most expensive pair I could find. I've been offered a pair of Louis V's that are worth 3x as much, but they aren't as comfortable." That's what this problem reads like--point being, wrong sub. And take it easy bro, just fucking around. You're getting all worked up like a sperg.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 07:34 PM
2

A woman in the military? Butch women are gross bro.. Just playin (not about the butch part though). Isn't this nearly tantamount to shitting where you eat? I don't think it's a good call. People talk, you know how it is.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 04:40 AM
6

Aerobics instructor was a poor choice. Any woman in an area that you frequent is a poor choice for that matter because an awkward impression/dynamic is introduced when things don't go well. Getting with women in such cases should only be pursued if your SMV is at a certain level, or if she's showing crazy interest.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 04:34 AM
2

The pics with chicks have a vibe as though you're with an older girlfriend but you don't give a shit so you're using them anyway. I suppose if you're trying to display preselection, then using such pics is a viable tactic. However, you'll likely be getting some questions on them. Profile looks fine otherwise.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 04:27 AM
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Cool story
/r/askTRP30/01/20 04:18 AM
6

You might even reach a point where you are kind of bored of women. It isn't until you have reached that point that you are finally able to focus on higher purposes, things that truly give you meaning. I know TRP is about sexual strategy and all, but you'll be better off if you focus on the higher purposes right away and simply treat women as a perk on the side. You'll be farther in life this way.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/20 04:13 AM
1

True. She'll take it all the cock for bits of power, and then act like it was all coercion so she can get even more fame out of it after she's hit wall and those producers have moved onto younger pussy.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 05:31 PM
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There's no sidebar material that will be a fundamental impetus for action. No such material exists in the world, regardless of subject. No piece of information will physically spur you to action, no information will physically force you to lift a finger. YOU are the only one that can solve your problem. YOU are the only one who can make it happen. The power is in YOU. The more experience you have with pushing the boundaries of your comfort zone, the easier it will get to do the same sort of thin…
/r/askTRP27/01/20 05:10 PM
1

She's sad she ain't getting that good D
/r/askTRP27/01/20 02:10 AM
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Don't compliment her. She's got at least a dozen simps who do that shit for her, don't be another one. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 02:08 AM
1

Tryna Buy Pu$$y
/r/askTRP27/01/20 01:58 AM
1

Yes, I've had a similar barrier. Sometimes I'll still have trouble with it in all honesty. Breaking into the next plane can be challenging for many people. I do a lot of writing in my personal endeavors. Even though I've written many things, I still get nervous when I start up the next project (this sort of apprehension is all too common in the field of writing). Best way to overcome the challenge is just do it anyway. Start out with an achievable goal: "In this interaction, I'll shoulder touch …
/r/askTRP27/01/20 01:44 AM
2

Are you asking for advice, or for verification of your preference? Some people think going for older women is abnormal, some have no issue with it. I wouldn't say it's a sign of weakness. If anything, I think many men are intimidated by older women due to concerns of their performance being evaluated based on the woman's more extensive scope of experience when compared to younger women. Just don't get upset by funny looks from others when you're out on the town with your cougar.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 09:26 PM
0

Nexting is ideal, although you could A&A in response for lolz (avoid sounding butthurt if you can).
/r/askTRP26/01/20 09:19 PM
1

The guys before me have given some great advice, especially u/RayneXero. You just need to be comfortable with the idea that some interactions won't go well. Because you don't go stag (solo) often, your night will really be more of a learning experience then an awesome night. And that's just fine. Not everything is great. Sometimes, it's the fucking trenches. I've had some bar interactions that have been pretty uncivil...chalk it up to the game, liquor, or both. What can help is to insert yoursel…
/r/askTRP26/01/20 06:43 AM
4

Your issue seems to be more in accordance with a proclivity towards pedestalizing women. "I make it a point get to know who ever I find attractive Why exactly would you do this? Is your goal to get in their pants, to create a connection...or is it perhaps you flatter yourself with the notion that simply knowing the girls make you feel more validated because you put a special value in them? In other words, because you put the attractive women on a pedestal, you get to know them with a subconsciou…
/r/askTRP26/01/20 06:22 AM
6

Could you ever picture rolling up on a couple ladies and a guy with them like some Rico Suavé type bro and it going well for you? If you can, then do it in the way you envision that doesn't end badly. Otherwise, you don't. This world contains millions of other women whom would present a more suitable opportunity for approach. But if you like the idea of AMOG pickup, then by all means...
/r/askTRP26/01/20 06:12 AM
5

I got some for you: nobody cares about your problems.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 05:59 AM
1

"Say the same stuff" Right, it's about finding a strategy that works and scaling it. If you find that's efficient and effective, then you can easily ramp it up. Of course, OP should always be ready to adapt when necessary.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 10:25 PM
7

Dude, I use to game women on Facebook back in the day, no joke haha. Strange to some, worked for me (although I think it's a different story these days). I talked about anything man. I asked what they were up to, why they were doing what they were doing, if they liked it, tell them what I'm doing...then I pop the "we could do [insert activity that we relate to] together" proposition. Some people do well enough simply getting numbers first, but I think without creating some sort of impression tha…
/r/askTRP24/01/20 10:21 PM
1

She wasn't being "aggressive." I don't even know what I read lol
/r/askTRP24/01/20 10:11 PM
1

Become more in touch with your body. Meditate, do deep body breathing. I also suggest to try out intermittent fasting as a way to exert discipline over your body. There's many different ways that men have found to combat this issue, although the solution for you may vary.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 07:46 PM
1

You're at a perfect age to become more enterprising! I wish that I had started looking more into financial literacy when I was your age...had I known more about stocks, ROIs, budgeting, etc., I think I'd be much farther in life. An appreciation for financial independence will develop leagues of discipline in you. On this front, I'd recommend reading or listening to Gary Vaynerchuk--I don't agree with everything he says (I'm actually vehemently opposed to some of his thinking), but I think he's a…
/r/askTRP23/01/20 07:04 PM
2

"Lift some weights, eat some steaks" - Xzibit
/r/askTRP23/01/20 06:23 AM
2

Leased chains and cars, but yes
/r/askTRP23/01/20 04:45 AM
1

People flexing on the internet again. Everybody lies.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 04:43 AM
1

It might look like you're trying to flex to some, but if it doesn't bother you and you're not getting arrested, then carry on my good man! However, in settings and contexts that call for more nuance, being DGAF all the time can be pretty counterproductive and make you look like a social retard. I've blown some pretty good opportunities by not giving a shit, so contrary to popular belief, it can be good to hold back at times. When it comes to certain social settings, strategy is key.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 04:23 AM
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I wouldn't say the Red Pill is depressing--in fact, after I moved past the anger phase, I found it quite empowering. However, the black pill is very depressing and it jumps to some wild, baseless conclusions. If you take a look around, and abstain from looking through the lens of the red pill, you will see that our world i beset by a femininity out of control. Women expose themselves and display their bodies for validation and hungry orbiters. Women feign strength and independence, yet play vict…
/r/askTRP23/01/20 04:18 AM
1

Finding a passion is more difficult than people think. I imagine some people never truly find a passion, and that's perfectly fine. Yet, passion establishes and therefore provides purpose. And purpose in this day and age is critical; some feel lost without it. Way back in the day, survival was the purpose. Then it was service to community and observance of faith. Now, in a cushy, advanced society that's increasingly secular, we must define our purpose. On that note, I'm not sure if you're religi…
/r/askTRP23/01/20 04:00 AM
2

Not sure I can identify with all of the vitriol there, but the stratospheric egos part is facts. Shit's getting ridiculous, but I'm sure you'd think you're the shit too if chicks slid into your DMs left and right all because you shoot videos of yourself twerking in yoga pants
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 07:22 AM
2

Channel your energy into actualizing your potential--it's the best thing anyone can do for themselves, but most of us slip up on pursuing our purpose, some more than others. Think of the people who'd be farther if they hadn't partied, fucked bitches, done drugs, binged video games, etc. I've felt inferior due to certain aspects of myself as well, and still do sometimes. Depending on what it is, there's no way to change it (for height you could do limb lengthening, but I hear it's expensive, pain…
/r/askTRP22/01/20 07:00 AM
1

It's a crutch, yet I can attest to the confidence boost when you can handle your shit on it. I use to the biggest social butterfly when I was getting blazed as hell. I hit up parties and bullshitted with as many people as I could and did some approaches here and there. Good times...
/r/askTRP22/01/20 05:30 AM
2

Tell her that "crime never sleeps," hop out the window, and proceed to web swing from building to building.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 05:13 AM
1

beat me to the punch
/r/askTRP22/01/20 05:10 AM
2

I haven't personally noticed this, or at least not in a long time. For the most part, the people who are assholes are always assholes and the good peoples are always good peoples. I think your perception of the situation and context can play a large part. We can interpret how people interact with us based upon our own internal dialogue that we have in during any particular day. A manager telling you to get something done one day can be the kick in the britches you need to get some, while on anot…
/r/askTRP22/01/20 04:54 AM
1

I see what you're saying, and I agree for the most part. I'm just saying that we can't deny how much mileage one can get out of looks...the whole be attractive, don't be unattractive thing. Of course, attractiveness is based on varying scales for different people. All that would be great, but I just wish I had more time to do what I love haha. But hey, I'm duty based...are we more duty based at TRP? I digress. Thanks for your thoughtful reply.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 04:37 AM
1

I was going to give a long-winded and contentious response, but I really don't want to argue. For future reference, when you start with "not an insult," anyone will read it as insult regardless. Metalanguage
/r/askTRP22/01/20 04:33 AM
2

u/liberules has a point. An approach is validating for women in itself. OP definitely has to up the numbers game, as the amount of women that don't answer, flake, or ghost can be astonishing for some/a lot of men. Still, I certainly give kudos to OP for getting out there and taking a swing. Here's to his consistency!
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 04:21 AM
1

Respect for this answer. When I first found and lurked TRP back in 2017, this would definitely have been more in line with the discipline of that community. Sometimes I feel as though I barely recognize this community anymore. Women play the manipulation game in so many ways (as does anyone in my experience).
/r/askTRP21/01/20 01:36 AM
1

Ah yes, she's put her flag on you. That watch is a reminder that she owns a piece of you. She'll hold it over your head if (or when) shit goes south; it's all leverage, my friend. If you keep it, I feel as though you're making a deal with the devil.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 01:25 AM
2

I took the red pill over two years ago. I've immersed myself in the tenets and ethos faithfully. It changed my life for the better in many ways as I've stayed on the road of focused self-development ever since. However, I exposed myself to the black pill a couple months ago and I still can't fully shake it. Just like how you can see the truth in the red pill, one can see truth in the black pill as well. Yes, just as the red pill typically elicits an anger phase, so does the black pill. The latte…
/r/askTRP21/01/20 01:13 AM
1

Yeah, I knew one that said sorry all the time. I got so annoyed by it, I told her to stop it, and whenever she did it again, I'd give her shit about it. I don't care who it is, I don't really view apologies as meaningful. Either take full responsibility [and I'll respect that enough], or don't make mistakes.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 08:09 AM
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tell men that when they say mean things, their weenies will shrink. that'll learn 'em
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 08:01 AM
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OP, do you think the women text to advance to a more intimate situation, or simply augment their social matrix? I realize that this may differ across a spectrum of women, and the answer might be both in some cases. I suppose your experiences in what happens after the initial text session will help give clarity to the matter.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 07:16 PM
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