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What do you mean by that? I understand zero sum game as a concept, but not sure how it applies here. Are you saying that in these apps, when a man wins, another man loses? Or when the woman wins the man loses?
/r/MensRights08/08/24 09:11 PM
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So did this master plan of yours work? lol
/r/askTRP16/01/22 12:32 PM
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You still in Toronto? Did dating get easier for you? I'll be visiting Russia in May.
/r/askTRP16/01/22 12:25 PM
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Did you end up moving to Russia? How did it go? How was dating there? I'll be visiting for a while in May.
/r/askTRP16/01/22 12:19 PM
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When you coming to Brazil my man? I'm in Porto Alegre right now. I can give you some pointers when you come.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/21 11:27 PM
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Like plate spinning. It's idiotic to me, a 100% guarantee to die alone. I actually agree with this. I spin plates, because that is the way I'm wired, but I 100% agree it makes you likely to die alone. And I'm ready to accept that. I wonder what veteran TRP men think about this. I suppose it's theoretically possible to spin plates until you're 50, then shift gears and marry a younger woman. But there are a host of problems with that.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 11:47 PM
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I mean, picking the "wrong target" is a natural part of game, but you'll likely do better in Brazil than in most other places.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/21 03:36 PM
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What do you mean? Wrong target how?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 04:14 PM
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Probably the same as americans, I'd say. As long as you're from a developed european country, you're good to go.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/21 12:31 AM
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How did you start in this world in brazil? Your tips are greatly appreciated! Regards! If you're rich you have your work cut out for you. Just lift, read and reread the sidebar, get experience with tinder, day game, and lots of cold approaches. No meu caso foi uma longa jornada. Há 10 anos atrás quando eu tava na faculdade nos estados unidos meu roommate me apresentou o livro The Game do Neil Strauss. Alguns anos depois eu descobri o Reddit, e então não demorou muito pra descobrir esse subreddit…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 12:30 AM
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TI deve ser o melhor caminho pra trabalhar online. Eu trapaciei porque eu sou cidadão americano, então é fácil pra mim dar aula de inglês online.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 12:26 AM
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If the guy is paying for shit then yeah he's a beta provider. Alphas don't need to pay for shit. That said, if the guy is looking for a wife, he would be more likely to find a good one by doing this than by spinning plates. That doesn't necessarily mean it's a good idea though.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 10:16 PM
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Makes sense, she's probably with chad rn cause chad doesn't poop.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 10:15 PM
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The time to argue your nonsensical points was 2 days ago. By the way, if your whole text relies on a footnote, you don't know how to write.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/21 09:46 PM
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She thought I needed some time alone, so that's why she didn't bother me, but if she saw me, she would have gotten in the mood and would have wanted me to cum in her mouth. Sounds like she's into you, so just try again in the future. Escalate as usual. Some women don't like giving blowjobs. It's not a big deal unless you make it a big deal. No, jerking off is not dread. Dread is showing her that you can game other women if you feel like it.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 09:14 PM
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I hate when people's titles have nothing to do with their posts. Like, what even is your fucking question?
/r/askTRP31/05/21 05:05 PM
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Cheating is actually different for women and men. Most women lose their shit if their man has an emotional connection with another woman; Men are the opposite of that, where they wouldn't care that much if their woman starts talking to another dude as long as she doesn't actually fuck him This is true. We've evolved that way for very specific reasons. Of course, it's a general rule, not an universal truth.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/21 09:53 PM
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Blah blah blah blah blah. Look buddy, you wanna fuck multiple women at once? Spin plates or get into an open LTR. Wanna get into an exclusive LTR and yet still fuck other chicks behind her back? You're being a dick. But you know. TRP is amoral, so whatever. Do what you want. Just don't come into TRP and write a massive diatribe with a bunch of nonsensical arguments to try to convince yourself that it's somehow not cheating if "men of value" do it. Men of value stick to their word. Did you give y…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/21 02:51 PM
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Yeah in these situations it's best to shoot your shot and not waste any more time beyond that. I wouldn't invite her straight to your place, much easier for her to say yes if it's somewhere else. But you can do it that way if you want.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 07:36 PM
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Entendi, faz sentido mesmo. Nunca fui no leste europeu, mas no sudeste da Ásia realmente é bem bom.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/21 07:34 PM
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Search "approach anxiety" in this sub and on the main one. It's a numbers game. First get rid of your fear. Then start approaching dozens and dozens of girl before you finally reap the rewards.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 02:55 PM
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South America is great, girls are hot and easy if you have game. Have fun!
/r/askTRP27/05/21 02:16 PM
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(re)Read the sidebar and hit the gym like your life depends on it. You sound young so you're on the right path. The sooner you put in the hard work, the sooner you'll reap the rewards. And... reading your username... it's fine to play videogames in moderation, but make sure you don't overdo it.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 01:51 PM
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That was a very stupid thing to say. You can think those things, and you can act on them, but you don't fucking say it - and to a girl no less. If you have game and were trying to bang one of them you could have maybe said it playfully, like "I don't keep girls as friends" wink But you absolutely don't start a rational argument with them. Specially since your argument is retarded and autistic anyway.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 01:46 PM
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Yeah you need to kill that feeling inside you. As long as you didn't define an expectation of exclusivity, there's nothing for you to feel guilty about.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 01:31 PM
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So then treat her as if she was a male companion i.e focus on the travel and companionship aspect and if I get laid great Yeah this sounds good. She's not a male companion though. You'll see. The other user is right, at some point you should travel abroad alone to a place you haven't been to for the experience. Doesn't have to be now though. Also, traveling abroad is well-known for making it easier to get laid, specially if you're alpha or got game, so if you'd prefer banging locals/other travel…
/r/askTRP27/05/21 01:29 PM
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She just wants attention. Say something like "come to (bar near my house) on X day at X time" and stop wasting your time when she inevitably says no.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 01:23 PM
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You're right, but that has absolutely nothing to do with what he's talking about.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 01:17 PM
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Nothing wrong with having two dates in one night. Just plan your strategy beforehand and stick to it. Are you gonna cut things short with date 1 no matter what? Are you gonna flake on date 2 if date 1 is going well?
/r/askTRP27/05/21 01:15 PM
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I travel an absolute shit ton so hear me out. Traveling with good company > traveling solo > traveling with bad company. So to answer your question, yeah, I think it's fine. Don't worry about "giving her LTR treatment," just obviously don't be a retard and get into a long-distance relationship. Are you two gonna share all the expenses? If so then it's fine. Is this traveling abroad or a weekend by the lake or what? You don't travel just to get laid. That's beta as fuck. You travel because travel…
/r/askTRP27/05/21 01:08 PM
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I'm a porn addict too. I've been "clean" for 4 years, 0 masturbation since April 12th, 2017, and yet it still rears its ugly head in the bedroom sometimes. Quit now. Quit cold turkey. Masturbate if you have to, but masturbate using only your imagination, and imagining normal sex not fucked up porn. You're still young, 4 years younger than I was when I quit. Do it now before it fucks up your life like it fucked up mine.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/21 12:49 PM
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so if you wanna bank on your race just go north, gorgeous black/brown girls with insane bodies that will be easy for you Thread já tá bem antiga então ninguém mais vai ler. Uma vez que o tinder passport tava grátis eu mudei pro norte/nordeste pra ver como era. Mesmo eu sendo loiro e alto de olhos azuis eu achei bem ruim. Poucas gurias bonitas dando match, e mostrando pouco interesse depois do match. Outros países da américa latina foram bem melhores. Vai ver só o tinder que é ruim mesmo e na vid…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/21 12:05 PM
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Why was Colombia awful for you? I’ve heard nothing but good things from everyone I’ve spoken to who has spent time there. Lots of dates but most of the cuties wouldn't want a second date, or the sex wouldn't happen before the fourth date, and even kissing on the first date seems to be a no-no over there. Meanwhile in other latin countries I'd be getting blowjobs from cuties on the first date.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/21 11:59 AM
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I feel like this will affect a lot of my future relationships with women if I don’t put a stop to it. Yeah it will. If you're in the US or anywhere else with a significant black population, decent chance your girl has been with a black guy. Is that really any worse than her having been with 30 white guys? Might as well forget about LTRs and start spinning plates. Either that or start actively going after racist chicks. By the way, just because you're not white and experienced racism doesn't mean…
/r/askTRP26/05/21 07:42 PM
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You must be alpha/rich as fuck or something, idk. Medellín and Colombia in general were awful for me. Other latin countries like Mexico, Dominican, and Brazil were much better.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/21 03:27 PM
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Anyway I tried to escalate but at some point she made me understand that I had to stop and don't go further So it's no different than any other girl. I'm not privy (here's a new word for ya) to the context of your date, but it sounds like you should soft next and game other girls. Don't chase her. Don't get oneitis.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 10:31 PM
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In your opinion should I continue online dating or just delete it? I mean, I don't know. The number one thing you should do is lift. The number two thing you should is make money or learn a new skill or study hard at college. The number three thing you should do is work on your game by rereading the sidebar, among other things. IF you still have time after doing all that, it's better your approach girls in person, but you can give online dating a try when you're in the toilet, etc. As long as, l…
/r/askTRP25/05/21 10:27 PM
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Practice makes perfect. Hit the gym then you can sound like a caveman and it won't matter.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 10:11 PM
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Those people are idiots. No two ways about it.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/21 10:10 PM
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Cacete mano nunca foi pra goiânia mas quem sabe vou ter que ir mesmo. Eu tava em brasília agora semana passada e era uma merda, mas quem sabe goiânia é diferente.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/21 10:09 PM
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Online dating in theory is a wonderful tool that would save everyone a lot of time. In practice, women don't know how to use it, so here we are. In the real world, pretty much anyone here can tell you you can pull hotter girls approaching in person. Online dating is fine as a supplement, but you have to get used to ghosting and shit.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:10 PM
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Welcome to online dating. Why do they do it? They're looking for attention, or for validation, or for someone with better text game than you showed. This is basic stuff. (re)Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:07 PM
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"Sorry for my grammar, I don't speak english fluently" *proceeds to write better than most natives* Anyway, to answer your question: who knows. If you wanna fuck her, escalate and find out.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:00 PM
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Too convoluted. But it doesn't really matter, just carry on gaming other women.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 04:41 PM
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If you're hot this is a good thing. Laugh about it and escalate as normal. Accuse her of fantasizing about them or something.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 04:39 PM
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Colombia is pretty bad for dating/plating, but their girls are gorgeous. You only like Korea better because you have yellow fever haha. Yeah there are more fatties, but not that many, and the girls who are skinny... dear lord. Brazil is still #1 though.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:20 PM
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You’ll be seen as a beta buxx if you’re a foreigner since they’re just interested in your green card 😂 As someone who's lived in both, this is actually sort of a myth. If you're alpha, hit the gym, etc. you'll slay in Brazil. Not so much in Colombia.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:18 PM
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Bro even Colombia and Brazil are getting fatties Of course, the whole world is. now I have friends from Colombia and Brazil they say it’s turning like America with the obesity rates. It's nowhere near that bad. All the pretty girls left lol. False. Though I do agree Korea/Japan is better if you have yellow fever or if you're like my friend who hates latinas for some reason.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:57 PM
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Go to Brazil, Colombia, or Korea
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:15 AM
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No it's not, it's OLD et al making men and women alike exclusively shoot for above 25% their SMV even though they have mismatched goals (men want sex women want relationship)
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:15 AM
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Of course, this is basic level TRP stuff. If cheating bothers you that much, end the relationship right now. That being said, an hour away isn't that bad. What are you planning to do, see her 3 times a week? If she sees you as such an alpha as you claim she does, that should be enough to make her probably not cheat on you.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:13 AM
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It's not a good idea per se. Only he can pull himself out of that rut. You can help, but when you decide to live with him for months you're sacrificing your own well-being for something that isn't particularly likely to succeed. What will happen 3 months from now when you decide to leave? That being said, it's the honorable thing to do. Only you can judge your well-being vs your family's well-being. If it feels like the right thing, do it, or you may regret it later. If you do decide to do this,…
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:08 AM
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Não sabia que o rubinho barrichello era TRP
/r/TheRedPill25/05/21 01:01 AM
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Yes, you can maintain the relationship. No, you cannot know whether or not she fucked some other guy. Chances are she will have by the time the summer is over. Personally I don't like exclusive LTRs, but you do you. You'd be better off using the summer to increase SMV, spin plates, etc.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:00 AM
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Lurk more, you might learn something
/r/askTRP24/05/21 06:30 PM
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Is this common elsewhere, and whats your red pill advice on this? 1) Increase your SMV / Up your game 2) Move abroad if you can / if you want Its either her demands come before or after sex. This part here makes no sense. It's common TRP knowledge that sex causes a power shift from the woman to the alpha male. If she wants to make demands after she already put out it's like, haha, bye bitch.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 12:14 PM
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Not really sure what you mean. Just sit down and do a good job. Document everything. Get things in writing. Don't be arrogant but do demonstrate your value. Don't engage in office politics unless you know exactly what you're doing. Don't flirt with coworkers. Don't try to be alpha. Leave being alpha for when you're outside the office with people who aren't your coworkers.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:31 AM
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I've been to PH. Why do you say that?
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:27 AM
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You didn't tell the whole story because you know it's anathema to TRP. Don't stick your dick in crazy? Ringing any bells? She should see a professional and you should rethink the type of women you're going after. Whatever you do, you DEFINITELY don't bring crazy to your place on a first date.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:24 AM
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Do you even sidebar? Do you even know how the law/public opinion works? Ironic that you're pulling the sidebar card when you're the one spilling random drivel. You know Louis CK's career was ruined for doing basically what the guy you're defending advocated OP should do, right? All for what? Some alpha widow?
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:21 AM
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Is it worth a try because she doesn’t just want to fuck, she’s looking for a relationship Depends. You wanna be a "good guy" and be honest? Forget about fucking her. You wanna lead her on and have some great sex for a while? Should be easy to do so.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:13 AM
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TRP doesn't really work in the corporate world. They reward beta behavior. If you want to work in a TRP environment, either go into sales or start your own business.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:09 AM
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Normally I'd choose time, but in this case, 100% money. 200k vs 8k is far too big a difference. Go be a doctor or whatever it is you'll do. Trust me, I'm a dual citizen, Brazilian and American. I've seen both sides.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 11:37 PM
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The Rational Male
/r/askTRP21/05/21 11:29 PM
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So you never eat any girls out? Or you just accept Chad's semen? I'm confused as to what you're even implying here.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 11:25 PM
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Okay wow wtf. First of all, you apparently don't seem to know jack shit about STDs, so I suggest you fix that pronto. Second of all, the only STD that was ever a death sentence in recent times was HIV, and it's no longer the case. Regardless, you have a 1-in-500 chance of getting it if you have unprotected vaginal sex with a girl who's HIV-positive. That chance basically goes down to 0% if you wear a condom, because they don't "tear or come off easily." And either way, there aren't a lot of girl…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 08:17 PM
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Dating definitely varies geographically, some countries are easier than others, and the US just kind of sucks.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 08:08 PM
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It is true, there are gorgeous women here, but also lots of single mothers and your Brazilian dream girl is likely one of them. What is this mgtow shit, this is so far from the truth. No woman is worth going across the world for, but Brazil is absolutely the #1 country in the world for alpha males. It's definitely the Disneyland for that lol.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 08:00 PM
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I'm literally the exact same lol. That's what I mean.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 07:57 PM
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Y'all just have no idea what Brazilian girls look like.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 07:57 PM
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Yeah, but the idiots here don't realize it.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 07:56 PM
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RIP geoTRP. You got any questions let me know.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 07:55 PM
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I hated Bali, too touristic for me. But it's definitely a surfing hub. I don't surf, but Santa Catarina state (or its capital, Florianópolis) is absolutely the place for you. If I'm not mistaken the best surfer in the world is from there, Gabriel Medina.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 07:18 PM
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I think it's the same as anywhere else, but if not, I'd love to see those numbers. Just wear a condom and stop worrying about it beyond that. Don't go down on a girl you don't trust.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 07:15 PM
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Sorry I'm stupid. Yeah similar value to Rio. Great tacos for 1 USD.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 07:13 PM
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Being foreign seems to work just as well in Korea as in any other country Did you live there? What was your experience
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 07:12 PM
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It's not peso lol but yes, Brazil is very cheap for someone who earns a USD wage, specially outside Rio. Just yesterday my lunch was an enormous plate of good, healthy food for U$2.50.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 12:05 PM
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You're an idiot. You don't "come to a 3rd world country to get laid." You travel because traveling is life, and you choose where you want to travel however the fuck you want.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 12:03 PM
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Aren't you american? Just get vaccinated and then quit worrying about it.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 12:01 PM
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How are the escorts in Brazil? Not my thing, but they're cheap and probably hotter than most other places. You can find them in the streets in broad daylight if you know where to go.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 12:01 PM
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I’m 6’6 You're gonna wipe the floor. Tell them you're a nba player lolol
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 12:00 PM
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From what I was told, as long as you stay out of the favelas you should be fine. And try to make some local friends in the area, they will know where is ok and not ok to go. It's not that simple, but yes, some people here are way overreacting.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 11:59 AM
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As a monolingual gringo from small town USA, I can feel comfortable in the touristy areas of Brazil, but gringos aren't welcome outside of that. They're absolutely very welcome. Gringos wind up in back alleys with cut throats and empty pockets. You're living in fantasy land lol. Yes, in more dangerous areas you would run a higher risk of getting shot. But some places are perfectly safe. Yeah, the women are a sight to behold, but don't think for a minute that your average white dude from Wisconsi…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 11:57 AM
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Job prospects aren't great. Ideally you'd find a job online first. All that learning a language is is time. You ready to put in 600 hours of study time? Great, you'll become proficient in Portuguese, no matter how you do it. No? You won't become proficient, no matter what you try. Start with duolingo, use an app for vocab, after a while find a sub for Portuguese and ask for more ideas. I can't think of anything particularly noteworthy about laws. Statutory "rape" laws are more relaxed, laws arou…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 02:34 AM
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Mexico City is my favorite city I've ever been to in the whole world. I don't like Cancun either though.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 02:27 AM
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As I've said multiple times, some places like Rio are more dangerous than most other countries, but even then it's unlikely for you to get robbed, and extreeeemely unlikely for you to die. Other parts of Brazil are pretty safe, safer than many US cities.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 02:25 AM
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Even if she only knows your first name and phone number, that's nothing to go off of. If she knows your full name or an ID number it starts to get sketchy, but even then I'd put my money on nothing happening. Then again, we don't have to worry about it, easier to just not get anyone pregnant in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 02:23 AM
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Oh my bad. You don't want to get any girl pregnant of course, I agree, but island girls would the "safest" choice lol. I just mean, zero chance that they could ever get you into legal trouble.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 01:06 AM
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For a community that prides itself with self-improvement and things like that, I'm surprised at how many people are just clueless about life.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 01:05 AM
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If you're snipped ??? What does it matter if you're circumcised or not lol
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 11:30 PM
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That's more than I was expecting, but it's mostly middle aged guys who hang out at bars watching soccer. You see fat girls occasionally, but the US is next level.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 10:23 PM
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I've come to a research one of these days pointing out that the bigger the city, the more people are inclined to alpha types. So if you look like The Rock and you go to a big city... Ding ding ding Really? That's interesting. Never heard about this. So you mean girls in smaller cities/towns are looking for an LTR with a betabux?
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 10:00 PM
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Ok, 69%. https://www(dot)healthline(dot)com/health/obesity-facts#1.-More-than-one-third-of-adults-in-the-United-States-are-obese.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 09:58 PM
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It's not about the women, you're right traveling over women, much less "risking your death over it," but the thing is you're not "risking your death." Y'all talk like you're gonna step out the airport and be greeted by said 10yo with an AK, when the reality is it's ridiculously rare to get killed in Brazil. It's already ridiculously rare for clueless tourists who go to Rio, so it's even more ridiculously rare for someone who's smart, muscular, and does their research. It's just less ridiculously…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 09:27 PM
5

Years ago when I was still trying to kill my beta self, I came to Brazil and I'd use a pic of my passport (taking out sensitive info) as my tinder profile pic lmao. And sometimes I'd talk to girls in spanish like "yo soy americano." So funny. Got me a lot of matches on tinder but not many dates. A lot of 6s but 8s and 9s didn't give a shit about my dual citizenship lol.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 09:22 PM
7

More like BetaBux Disneyland. It's both. People are gonna be successful if they do that, and people are gonna be successful if they're alpha. Going the beta route is very expensive though, you're gonna rack up a bill of thousands of dollars just for pussy. No thanks. And the violence problem is really serious. Be careful. Not everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 09:18 PM
3

I was in the Army as a combat engineer, I'm a volunteer firefighter, full time EMT, and an avid hiker. That's great bro, good for you, but it doesn't change the fact that you're taking some random shit you see in TV and random posts you see on reddit and painting a broad brush. Which is just... useless. I'm not saying anyone should travel "just to have sex." But not traveling, or only traveling to first world countries, sounds like a miserable experience. I'd strongly encourage anyone who's maki…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 09:15 PM
4

Risking death over Jesus christ you people are a piece of work
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 09:09 PM
0

Like I said though, why voluntarily put yourself in dangerous situations? thats a sign you arent very smart, you goofball. Well for one, it would expand your horizons. For another, it would make you stop saying stupid shit like this.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 08:38 PM
-5

Guess you don't walk the walk
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 07:59 PM
4

You don't get to 70% fat rate for nothing lol. Yeah girls are hot in NYC, LA, Miami, etc. but leave those and it gets sour quick.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 07:58 PM
7

The more south in Brazil you go the more conservative the girls get, if you go to Rio Grande do Sul (where I was born) it depends on what city you go. Porto Alegre is an smaller São Paulo but with a higher chance of getting stabbed That's interesting, I never heard of RS having that reputation. So you think girls in Porto Alegre are conservative? What towns do you think are more liberal?
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 07:56 PM
5

It seems that you're right. I remember Vitória had a murder rate of 75 many years ago. Good for them that they got it down, only around 30 now. Also noteworthy that Florianópolis somehow grew to 30, Rio de Janeiro gets a nasty rep but is only at 35, and São Paulo is doing great as it always does, though it also gets a bad rep. Brasília came down a lot too, 45 to 20, and Fortaleza is just awful, almost at 100. Belo Horizonte is doing really well, 40 to 26.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 07:54 PM
19

It's bad for Brazilians, it's good for people who earn dollars or euros and spend reais.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 07:50 PM
3

unless you go around with you passport around your neck. I've done all sorts of shit regarding this lol. But yeah, maybe you're right, who knows.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 07:49 PM
3

You do know condoms exist, right?
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 07:48 PM
5

Vitória, Espírito Santo. Never been, but I hear it's super dangerous. Why do you think that? I'm just 100% more myself when I'm with a Brazilian girl lol. That's fair. The casual sex culture is great for having fun but terrible for LTRs. Plus they're just as feminized and self-reliant as american girls, or in other words, less submissive.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 07:11 PM
9

Regarding the fact that girls fuck more in Brazil, I have to disagree. In school, I only knew a couple girls who had actually fucked, and when I arrived in the US, there were way more girls that had sex. I've had much more success with girls fucking on the first date here in America rather than in Brazil Other commenters here had the opposite experience, so I wonder if you were from a more conservative part of Brazil or something. although the girls in Brazil are WAY hotter and I would never see…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 07:00 PM
-28

Shit americans say
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 06:57 PM
9

I lost count of how many time I fucked hb 6~8s at parties after 20 minutes of meeting the girl, and 15 minutes of that was kissing, basically preliminares Do you even take them home or do you just fuck them right then and there? Lol My cousin told me one time he was fucking a girl at Planeta Atlântida or getting a blowjob, I don't remember, then the security guard came and sent them away.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 06:57 PM
11

Korean girls are hot but dating isn't too easy. The language barrier is rough, and since they're (sort of) a first-world country, being foreign doesn't matter as much as it may in poorer nations. If you're serious about it, I recommend buying Tinder Passport or getting it for free and swiping in several different Korean cities, as well as Japan, to see for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 06:55 PM
5

expecting a gringo saviour. Is expecting a gringo savior more of a thing in small towns than in big cities? My american dual-nationality didn't seem to matter too much, certainly not as much as you and other people made it seem. Not as much as lifting or having game, in my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 06:53 PM
10

Who in their right mind is not instantly repelled by fake tits and lips? Where are you finding your brazilian girls, TV? Lol
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 06:33 PM
1

Is that true about the low N-count? Never heard thatˋ
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 06:32 PM
2

Yeah that's pretty stupid, not gonna lie. In the post I explain that there are parts of Brazil that are far safer than places like Chicago and New Orleans, and I'm sure you don't say "I'm never going to Nola/Chitown cause I don't wanna get murdered." I really really wanna go to Venezuela as soon as covid blows over.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 06:31 PM
22

How are you doing these days, still living it up banging 8s left and right? Curious which part you disagree with.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 06:07 PM
11

Well, beauty is objective just as much as it is subjective. If you like Asian girls, go to Korea or something. If you're a 10/10 male model, NYC or LA might be your best bet. But as a country in general, the US doesn't like a candle next to Brazil unless you have a fetish for landwhales. Western Europe? I have a hard time imagining someone would prefer pale ass white girls with flat bodies. Maybe in a specific city like Barcelona someone might do well.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 06:05 PM
10

Heard Brazil is getting increasingly feminized from multiple well traveled sources. For sure, but it's not just Brazil, it's the whole world. Down here every other profile writes #elenao, which is basically the chick saying she's against Bolsonaro, the Brazilian Trump.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 06:03 PM
34

But, you aren't a guy from the tourist banche, are you? Playing the long con, spending years in TRP to culminate in one massive ad.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 05:53 PM
2

Yes she definitely has ulterior motives. Personally, I'm friends with virtually all my exes, so I'd gladly take a trip with any of them and fuck her. That said, what do you want? Do you want to fuck local/other women? Don't bring your ex along.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 04:16 PM
2

Very carefully. And whatever you do, be prepared that it may not work. Actually, the best way is to lead by example. Send him a pic of the 8 you banged this week and the other 8 you banged last week, and wait for him to ask questions.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 02:59 PM
1

and I live in a pretty dead town which adds to this Sounds like a problem. Can't you move? I'd loathe to live in a small city, and it sounds like it's not doing great for your mind either.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 07:36 PM
1

no matter how long you wanna go , you should still go to the barbershop every 2 weeks That true for guys with short hair too? I go every 2 months lol.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 07:34 PM
2

That it's better to blow $400 on a hooker than to game girls, and that lifting is pointless.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 02:10 PM
3

The right celebrity under the right circumstances? Sure. Any celebrity just for the sake of dating/marrying one? Nah.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 01:46 PM
3

. Here, you dropped this.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 01:45 PM
3

1) Username does not check out. 2) Then what the fuck is your life about? Whatever it is, follow it, and stop wasting time on this nonsense. That said, if you want to get chicks instead of letting them fuck with your head, go back to my previous comment.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 12:31 PM
1

This. A woman just needs to be within your boundaries, and here's a secret: you decide what your boundaries are, not TRP. If you're just looking for a plate, your boundaries could be as simple as "gives good head" or "almost never rejects sex." Nothing else needed.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 12:29 PM
18

AskTRP is getting really bad. I shit you not, just yesterday there was some guy saying it's better to blow $400 on a hooker than to game a girl, and that lifting doesn't matter. Thankfully the idiot deleted that comment.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 12:25 PM
1

I know know, I was just wondering if tinder gold had that feature.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 12:23 PM
7

Distance yourself from them. If they're coworkers, look for a new job. If they're friends, get a new friend group. Move abroad.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 12:23 PM
4

(yeah, I know it's oneitis but I am in scarcity anyway) What the fuck man? Shut the fuck up, go lift like your life depends on it, reread the sidebar, and come back in 3 months.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 12:20 PM
1

Sorry I'm dumb. I meant swipe, not text. You know how the text 1 out of the 10 top picks or so that show up? Would be a nice feature to be able to text all 10.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 12:18 PM
1

Superlikes are crappy, but does it let you text several top picks or whatever they're called? That feature would be pretty nice.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 11:23 AM
0

10 days is nothing, so just do that.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 11:21 AM
3

You can get refunds for those? I haven't bought tinder gold in 4 years. Assumed once you bought it it was too late.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 11:59 PM
-4

I didn't know there were guys who craved attention. I thought that was strictly a girl thing. So weird to me.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 11:54 PM
1

She still texts me, loves me, and shows affection. So I fail to see the problem? You shouldn't "do" anything. If you jerk off more than once a day, you need to tone it down. And if you watch porn, you need to tone that way down, or eliminate it entirely.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 01:23 PM
7

You should be banned from TRP
/r/askTRP18/05/21 01:02 PM
1

Latin America and Asia are much better than the US. Not all of the US is the same though. From what I hear, NYC and Boston are easier for men. D.C., Chicago, and LA are godawful.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 11:17 PM
5

Alright relax. Read the sidebar and then read it again. Hit the gym like your life depends on it. And then start small if you have to. Game 4s. Then game 5s. Then game 6s. Etc. You can ask out your cute cashier, or you can wait until you have more experience. Doesn't matter. She doesn't matter. All that matters is you. It's your life. Take it slow. Just don't fuck it up.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 12:25 AM
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I mean, a grocery store that you regularly visit where you buy food to take home and eat, and what if you ask out the cute cashier there and she says no, does that mean one has to find a new grocery store to go to?because now she knows you like her and it would be awkward to go back to that same store while she is working there again. No it doesn't, what the fuck man? You just laugh about it and hold your head high. Ask the other cashier in front of the cute cashier. Bring your plate to that gro…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 12:19 AM
7

It's not even that they're masochists, it's just that they're fucking stupid. Like, mind-blowingly stupid. Men get fucked in the dating world, then they go back to the drawing board, then they find TRP, then they build themselves from the ground up until they're much, much better than they were before. They think about everything rationally, and they react rationally. Women have no clue what the fuck they're doing. They just let their emotions guide them. They say they want something, but they d…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 12:16 AM
12

Am I not supposed to feel salty about it? Of course not, man. You're trying to have your cake and eat it too. If you want loyalty, get an LTR. If you want to fuck other girls, accepts that she'll look for other guys, and probably leave you for one someday. Plates break, that's why you spin multiple. Occasionally you can get a plate/fwb that is loyal to you while you're fucking other chicks. But that's far from the norm.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 02:57 AM
3

About what, exactly? Your friend is probably one of those men that don't take care of themselves, don't improve themselves, don't lift, etc. What happened in the marriage is a clear consequence of that. I'd bet dollars to donuts your friend didn't even vet his fiancée properly before the marriage. He just "fell in love" with "the one" or whatever it is that blue pilled men do. Whatever the marriedTRP subreddit is called, it has advice on the marriage life. It's a marathon, but your friend treate…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:20 PM
3

Take every "next" advice on trp with a truckload of salt. Unless literally everyone is saying it and they're massively upvoted.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:13 PM
3

Was just strange cause there were so many iois but nothing physically. Yeah but did you even try? Lol. It's your responsibility as a man to make it happen, don't wait for it to happen "organically" or whatever. By the way, shoot for a kiss in the or slightly before the middle of the second date, when it feels like the right time. Don't wait until the end unless you have to.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:08 PM
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Just don't be butthurt about it, don't rationalize, etc. Just ignore and/or laugh about it. And if you find a girl you're interested in locally, escalate as normal and pass any shit tests that have to do with you being a player.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:05 PM
3

This is why I'm probably never getting married. Your friend is a beta pushover. There are a million things he could have done differently, but if he did, it wouldn't be your friend, it would be someone who's not a blue pill idiot.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:01 PM
1

you should have probably moved on years ago. No point moving on from a plate if the sex is good and she isn't a pain in the ass.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 11:14 AM
0

You should just choose the one you're most interested in. Other than that, engineering seems like the best option you gave. Medicine has status and money to be made, but it requires copious amounts of study time, which is a dealbreaker to me. Engineering isn't particularly "well-respected in society," but it's usually a pretty good career.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 11:11 AM
1

Glad I'm not the only one who doesn't give a fuck about movies and music and TV shows people recommend me.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:13 PM
-1

No way in hell that that's true
/r/askTRP10/05/21 11:09 PM
1

Absolutely the fuck not. I've been with 3 Venezuelan women. One of them was by far the most vile girl I've ever had the displeasure of being with. Another one was pretty fucking bad. Third one was pretty great though, too bad she was a single mom. In theory, you would think the awful situation in Venezuelan would make girls submissive and kind and appreciative of what you have to offer. In practice that doesn't happen, and it instead makes them see you as a walking ATM, and they have no idea how…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 09:04 PM
1

You want to be in a long-ass LTR with a girl but never get married? Tough ask. The countries with the best girls also have a culture where they'll nag your ass about getting married. I'm gonna go ahead and guess Colombia, but I'm not sure. You're asking for a lot.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 01:13 AM
1

Which is more important to you, having fun, or getting married? Don't say "both."
/r/askTRP03/05/21 09:52 PM
2

Your experience in Medellin sounds a lot like my experience in Ecuador with the locals there tbh. Super conservative country where most girls are looking for a relationship so having sex before becoming exclusive is kinda difficult. Interesting. I haven't been to Ecuador, but I'll keep that in mind if I ever go. Not really worth the hassle if I’m honest. Agreed. Idk, maybe it helps that I’m fluent in Spanish. I'm fluent too, though oddly enough the Colombian girls I did well with were fluent in …
/r/askTRP02/05/21 04:05 PM
1

That’s interesting. Could you elaborate more your experience in Europe? How old do they wanna marry there? 36 years old for women, according to that UK report. Countries like Germany, Switzerland, etc., should probably be similar. Countries with different cultures like Spain and France may or may not be different, not sure. Here's a similar report for Scandinavia, showing an average age of 35 for women. Also, which countries would you recommend? I told you that already. If you're just looking fo…
/r/askTRP02/05/21 04:01 PM
2

There's no such thing as a panty dropping cologne. I have YSL L'Homme and Creed Aventus, but YSL usually wins out when I ask a girl what she prefers. Whatever you use, make sure you learn how to use it properly.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 04:45 AM
-1

Why? It's "healthy" but eating key vegetables is also "healthy" and there's a select minority of people going out of their way to do that. Either way, cardio won't help you with any of the main goals guys have when lifting. You seem to have a strange definition of the word "necessary."
/r/askTRP02/05/21 04:42 AM
6

How many dates are "a few"? Who knows, there might be a difference between Colombian girls in Colombia and Colombian girls in wherever you are. I spent 3 months in Colombia. Not just Medellín, but all over. Sex on first date is pretty much impossible. If you can get sex on the first date with a normal, attractive, Colombian girl, congrats, you're alpha as fuck. Sex by the third date is by no means a certainty. And even kissing by the first date isn't really "expected," though I won't go as far a…
/r/askTRP02/05/21 04:39 AM
1

Not much. Varies a lot depending which country you have in mind. Europe is generally very westernized, so they wouldn't be much better than the US, though not as bad. What I hear is that people tend to get married older over there, whereas a TRP man would want to snag a girl when she's relatively young.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 04:22 AM
10

I've travelled to 27 countries and fucked girls from 9 nationalities, so I think I have some credibility when I say this. Dating is very geographic, so don't believe feel-good TRP "truisms." Here's a solid tip that you'll do well to follow. Whatever country you decide, you should learn their language, and learn it well. As for actual countries: Colombia is miserable for dating but they probably make good wives. Can't go wrong with Southeast Asia, but learning their language will be harder. Any M…
/r/askTRP02/05/21 02:56 AM
3

Right? Blows my mind someone would ask this question. Porn sure did a number on this generation.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 02:47 AM
2

Weight-lifting routines are just like learning a new language. The best one is the one you stick to. If SL 3x/week is something you can stick to while PPL 6x/week burns you out, by all means do SL. As far as I know it's a beginner routine though, so try it for 3 months then move on to a more complex one.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 02:46 AM
4

I don't even understand what the issue is. I found out a few weeks ago that she conveniently didn’t mention a guy she made out with in high school before we started dating. Do you think I actively list all the girls I made out with when I start a relationship? Do you think I ask my girl to do the same? there was a whole lot of potential red flags. Like what? She was a virgin when we started dating How much do you value this? Because I value it very highly. Which is why I would "give her another …
/r/askTRP02/05/21 01:51 AM
3

Is there any specific workout routines that would better realize my goals? Google "Reddit PPL." I like that one.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 01:41 AM
4

Cardio is unnecessary, but just go do it. Forget the results. Stop theorycrafting. Go do it. Not for 3 months, try 12 months, 18, 24. Go see for yourself what results you'll get. Learn from my mistake.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 01:40 AM
6

My best friend married a fat 3. Blows my mind. He would always talk about my girls I'd send him pics of saying they looked fat. I just don't understand. How can anyone marry an unattractive person?
/r/askTRP02/05/21 01:38 AM
1

They can remove their adam's apple surgically.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 01:27 AM
2

You might get in trouble with the mods if you upload it here. Feel free to PM me the "masculine" pictures, but I'm telling you, extremely unlikely a 5'1" girl is trans. Double if you're in the US.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 01:26 AM
1

I'd find it gross to kiss a trans woman, honestly. That said, OP is an idiot.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 01:24 AM
1

Extremely unlikely that someone who's 5'1" is a trans woman. Is this in the US? Even more unlikely.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 01:23 AM
3

Anyone who thinks an 8" is better than a 6" is an idiot porn-addict.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 01:19 AM
1

Not that I know of.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 04:19 AM
4

I would assume the reason it's bad for Indian guys because there's half a billion of you out there bombarding girls' instagrams with creepy, clingy messages in poor english. It creates a stereotype. Some Indian guys smell terrible, and that also creates a stereotype.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 04:18 AM
1

I'm assuming it's also tough. Money helps if you can travel places. If you can't, gotta hit the gym hard, read the sidebar, and practice game like the rest of us.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 04:16 AM
4

To quote another comment. OK Cupid did a study. The hardest group to find dates were Asian men and Black women. It was a few years ago, but I bet it still holds true. If it works for you that's great, keep doing your thing man. But don't pretend it holds true for other indian guys.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 04:15 AM
1

OP claimed he made a lot of money. I told him to take that money and travel to Dominican, Mexico, Brazil. All of those should be okay. If someone is a poor indian guy there's no shortcut. Gotta hit the gym, read the sidebar, and practice game like the rest of us.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 04:13 AM
21

Because dating as an Indian guy in the US is not easy. I already told you all you need to know in order to have a better life.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 08:29 PM
1

shows that you still have some beta tendencies. Don't disagree here, but it's interesting, and it doesn't take any time at all. Maybe I can get to 100 one day, that would be cool. I'll be sure to write "30+" next time so as not to raise any eyebrows lol.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 06:02 PM
2

If you follow DevilPutD's method of showcasing lifestyle Got a link?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:58 PM
1

The odds of that are usually extremely small. Anyway, the OP can make a more informed decision than either of us as to whether that's a realistic concern.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:39 PM
3

Just lifting. That word gets thrown around here so much it's honestly a bit of a meme. Four years ago I was lurking this sub a lot and would constantly read that advice and just ignore it. I'd just be like "naahh, how good can it really do?" Now I see that everyone else was right and I was an idiot. It's never too late to change, but would have been much better if I started doing it 4 years ago.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 06:01 AM
3

They're generally less attractive, more stuck-up and seem like they would make worse wives. Though the hottest girl I've ever fucked was american and had a pretty good personality, so there are exceptions (albeit american to indian parents).
/r/askTRP27/04/21 05:58 AM
1

It wasn't meant as a cheap insult, it was meant to show that your life is in your hands. The advice is all here. You can follow it, or you can ignore it. I was in your shoes 4 years ago. I read goof advice on the TRP subs and I ignored it. I regret it to this day.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:21 AM
2

Difficult question. Have you heard that old adage: a relationship works best when both people are trying to be the one who puts in 60% of the effort? First and foremost, I'd look for a girl who's trying to put in 60% of the effort. It's very easy to tell, vs a girl who barely puts in 40%. Secondly, I'd look for someone who I wouldn't be bored out of my mind with. Someone with a cool personality. A shared hobby you can do together is great, and inside jokes are nice too. Thirdly I'd look geograph…
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:19 AM
1

Yup, working remote. Covid fucked me over pretty bad, but hopefully borders will start to open again in August and September.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:07 AM
7

I don't, that's my point. If I did I would go after her, but spinning plates is the way to go for me. At least for anothee 10 years. When I'm 40, maybe I'll reevaluate. Though she'll be 38, so I'd probably need to find someone else even if I do decide to switch gears.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:42 AM
8

Very very similar personality to mine. Noticeably super in love with me. Not naggy at all. And was a virgin (insofar as you can believe women about that), dating me since she was 18.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:34 AM
1

Dating as an Indian man in the US is probably not easy. Probably even more so in Texas. If you want to stop being miserable, you need to start putting all that money to good use. 1) move to a cheap 1 bedroom apartment away from your parents. 2) take 10, 20, 30 days of vacation, as much as you possibly can. Use them exclusively to travel abroad to places like Dominican, Mexico, Brazil, and game women there. 3) see if you can't work remotely and become a digital nomad and live in other countries. …
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:30 AM
8

Do you just start flirting with girls again? Get back on dating apps? Hm yeah, what the hell else were you expecting? Making a facebook post to let the world know you're ready to fuck again? My social skills with girls are at an all time high right now and my biggest concern is that they will greatly degrees while in monk mode. It's not unreasonable to assume that the counter to "practice makes perfect" is "lack of practice makes you imperfect." Still, if you're lucky, it will be like riding a b…
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:25 AM
26

Sort of. I was a beta fuck in a 4-year long-distance relationship with a fantastic girl. I broke her heart simply because I wanted to chase the alpha fantasy. Fast-forward to now and I've been moderately successful at chasing the alpha fantasy, but with an N-count of 32, I still haven't met a girl who's better marriage material than the one I dated when I was a beta fuck. Still, I don't regret doing what I did. I'm not cut out for marriage. Spinning plates and dying alone is the way to go.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:19 AM
1

The irony is I had an answer, but the idiot deleted his post.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:14 AM
1

I feel like I might be able to answer this question, but I don't even understand wtf you're trying to ask. My answer is: keep fucking her until you get bored, ignore the marriage topic, and never upgrade her to LTR.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:14 AM
2

You can't use logic on humor. It's too abstract. It depends on the content, the delivery, the audience, etc. Hell, some humorists even claim that humor can't be learned, you have to be born with it. Point is, for all we know, he could just be funnier than you. What are you trying to get out of these friendships? If the answer is "not much," you can easily cut them loose. Who cares. Go lift.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:11 AM
5

Feels like you're overselling the shit out of it, and I say that as someone from Brazil LOL. Still cool though. If I wasn't such a nomad I might give it a try.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:08 AM
3

That's a better answer than obsessing over your parterns' N-counts. Buena suerte parce, ojalá esa pandemia termine pronto y yo pueda visitar tu lindo país algun dia.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:06 AM
8

Personal answer: I would even make moves on someone from work, so hell yeah. TRP answer: hell no. Unless you don't value your job too much or don't expect to stay there for a long time. Your coworkers can make your work environment hell.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:04 AM
47

The catching up doesn't matter, your bigger problem is your last sentence. If you're questioning yourself, it sounds like the relationship is already over. Breakup with her and go fail at chasing your TRP fantasy of having a revolving door of hot chicks (or be one of the 10% who succeed, good luck!) If you continue in this relationship, you're just wasting your time and will grow to resent her because you'll never stop wondering "what if?" I was in the exact same shoes as you 5 years ago.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:02 AM
7

1) Never compliment their appearance in the first place. 2) Ignore her comment, don't acknowledge it. 3) If you can't handle girls who are downers, either plate them with minimal interaction or just next them. Or if you wanna go next level, change her behavior by rewarding positivity and punishing negativity.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 02:59 AM
5

So never get married again? Or learn to read green flags and red flags. Search this sub for both of those. But obsessing over N count is gonna lead you into even more ruin than your first wife did.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 02:56 AM
1

I do both. Sometimes I just stay 3-4 days in one city/country, like Cambodia/Siem Reap. But Vietnam and Philippines I stayed 2 months each. Colombia 3 months. I don't really have a "back home" haha. I'm basically a nomad at this point in my life. I do alright when traveling. For instance, in Brazil I could get 6s and 7s for days. 9s were pretty much impossible though. Depends on the country too, Asia was easier, Colombia was harder. Mexico and Dominican were alright.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 01:50 AM
11

Also why the fuck are you living with your parents when you earn 200k
/r/askTRP27/04/21 01:27 AM
0

Then you can have your pick of the litter as soon as you get your shit together.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 01:27 AM
4

Then who's out there arranging your marriage in Texas?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 01:26 AM
6

There is no way you can tell if your wife is a virgin or not - nor that she doesn't cheat on you while you're together.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 01:26 AM
5

I've fucked 3 Venezuelan women. One was a great girl with a great personality, but she was a single mom. The other two were godawful, some of the worst women I've ever had the displeasure of being with.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 01:12 AM
4

How the fuck is anyone ever gonna know the girl he's with fucked a murderer? If that thought keeps you up at night, you need therapy. If you want a wife with a low N count, there are ways to work toward that goal. And the first step is to stop worrying about it in the first place.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 01:09 AM
2

What does that even mean? I think the answer depends on who the person is and what you want out of them. If it's a girl you want to bang, and they're being chatty with you, escalate as normal and drop her and move on to the next one if she puts up too much resistance.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 01:00 AM
2

Guitars I get it. Bikes, ehh, debatable. But photography?? Girls really care about photographers?? Why?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 12:56 AM
1

Why BJJ? How is that any better than just plain lifting?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 12:55 AM
1

I don't ride motorcycles (yet), but I travel a bunch. I've been to 27 countries and lived (six weeks or more) in 7. And honestly, it doesn't feel like girls really care that much about dudes who travel. I really can't tell. Like, maybe I'm doing something wrong and don't know how to pivot those experiences into something attractive. Or maybe girls do like my instagram full of travel pics and I just don't notice it. Even when I'm in a place like Brazil, where girls have a reputation for going cra…
/r/askTRP27/04/21 12:54 AM
2

You need to get your shit together. Do you live in India or something? Step 1) learn an useful skill and look for a good job. Step 2) for god's sucking fucking lift like your life depends on it. Step 3) forget about LDRs with fatties or marrying a girl you've been on 3 dates with.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 12:45 AM
17

You're in the TRP sphere and you're in a long distance relationship? What the FUCK are you doing with your life?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 12:43 AM
20

1) you can't know. 2) that girl with an N count of 5 can fuck you up just as much as if her N count was 50. 3) that girl with an N count of 50 can be your best plate. If you don't care about that and only want LTR/marriage, you're already starting off on the wrong foot by freaking out over N count.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 12:40 AM
1

Women also don't like to date younger guys This might be a big part of it. I'm 29, so if a 32yo woman sees me she might be put-off, even if I would otherwise be a great candidate in her mind. Whereas if I was 35, or if she was 26, that same woman would actually put in effort and actively want to try (and fail) to date me. I've only fucked five girls older than me, and I've only fucked two 30+ girls (32 and 33). But as I grow older, the first number is gonna stay mostly the same, while the second…
/r/askTRP23/04/21 09:53 PM
3

These articles straight from the horse's mouth are great. Thank you for that.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 09:45 PM
4

Seems like a lot of the TRP answers are "Why do you care? Shut up and go lift." Lifting is great, but understanding the world around you is cool too. I'm not about to ditch all 20yo's and exclusively go after 30yo's, but I'm still really curious. It's just a contradiction in my head. It makes zero logical sense. And yes, I know women aren't logical at all, but this is like some next level shit. It's absurd. And like, I'm not gonna lose sleep over it, but it's still worth writing a TRP post seein…
/r/askTRP23/04/21 09:25 PM
2

Meh, I can still pull cute younger girls, so I'm not bothered. Maybe you come across as a potential provider/LTR, while I don't give off those vibes? I don't mean that to be demeaning, just curious really.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 09:19 PM
2

I believe /u/itiswr1tten stated this in a post, "most women will have to settle for something less" which is true. I agree with this, but like, when does that happen? When do they finally "decide" to lower their standards? Because if there's one thing that's very clear in my experience, it's that 30-33 year old women are much more stuck-up than their younger counterparts. Far more than they have any right to be.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 07:18 PM
1

bill burrs joke is spot on Can you link me? I love Bill Burr but have never seen the one you're talking about. Only seen his legendary golddigger and philly rants.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 06:00 PM
4

In what universe is a breakup a shit test? Shit test implies you want to pass it and keep seeing her. Any girl breaks up with you and you shouldn't keep seeing her. At most, plate her if she's very hot or great in bed, but even then, you're probably better off just hard nexting.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:42 AM
4

What country is that? I'm from Brazil and rich guys there have an extremely easy route to a 9/10's panties. Dudes who offer them a ride to their penthouse on their porsche are miles and miles and miles ahead than dudes who drive a hyundai to a motel. Now, I'm not saying rich guys should go to Brazil and do this. They can do whatever the fuck they want. But it is something that does happen. And I also agree with you that if someone is looking for an average-looking wife with a good personality, i…
/r/askTRP30/03/21 01:46 AM
8

Internet porn is miles and miles more harmful than porn magazines. Like, they're not even in the same ballpark. You can consume porn in moderation, I won't judge you. But I wouldn't do it if I were you.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 10:29 PM
3

One thing you can start doing now is lifting like your life depends on it. Get a hot chiseled body regardless of anything else you read. I used to think it was just a meme, I used to think it wasn't worth it. How wrong I was.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 05:22 PM
1

If you’re in the Philippines or Thailand, sure, just use a fake name. Why do you need a fake name? It's not like random girls are asking for your last names. Besides, even if they were, how the hell are they supposed to track down Lucas Davidson?
/r/askTRP25/02/21 04:29 PM
1

Guess I misspoke. I meant how likely it was to get a 2nd date and/or fuck, not how fun the date was. But you could be right that it makes very little difference.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 05:49 PM
1

Sweet, thanks. Why do you go with algae oil instead of regular fish oil? Is there a benefit?
/r/askTRP07/01/21 04:56 AM
2

Hey man, can I pick your brain? A while back I saved your comment, and now it's time to actually go and buy the supplements. I know that shady companies can do a lot of funky shit with supplements, so hopefully you can help me make sure I'm buying the right stuff. 1) What exactly is wrong with jumping straight into 50mg zing gluconate? I see on amazon that it's a lot cheaper than 22mg for some reason. 2) I'm assuming that the "right" way to take zinc and mag is once a day, 22mg for zinc (couldn'…
/r/askTRP07/01/21 01:48 AM
1

User VasiliyZaitzev would probably have good advice for you, but you would need to divulge the actual country to him, not just say "something like ukraine or bulgaria". Even if you don't ask him, it would be a good idea to go to his profile and read his posts.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 04:39 AM
1

Super informative, thanks! ♂ careers in languages (if you can find one) tend to pay very well. What are those? Teaching English I guess, but that's not really for polyglots. The only one I can think of where knowing 4+ languages helps is the diplomat career, but that seems like a challenging career to break into and knowing 4+ languages doesn't seem as attractive as whatever other soft skills and experience are important. I made some poetic statement about the fact that it’s a passion of mine to…
/r/askTRP02/02/20 01:12 PM
1

It's obviously not Japanese, did you even read the post lol Baka
/r/askTRP02/02/20 03:29 AM
1

trust me, it’s worth it if you use it in the right way What do you mean? How do you use it the right way? And what's the wrong way?
/r/askTRP02/02/20 12:25 AM
1

Yeah
/r/askTRP02/02/20 12:25 AM
1

1 or two months, no. One or two years, yes. What do you mean here?
/r/askTRP02/02/20 12:24 AM
1

Hmm in the book that TRP puts one's time in a pedestal. Learning a new language is a maaassive time investment and doesn't always have obvious benefits.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 12:24 AM
1

What works great for me (a heavy introvert) is daygame. Both Roosh-style indirect daygame in stores and London-style direct daygame on the streets. What's London-style direct daygame? Can you point me to where I can read more about that?
/r/askTRP24/01/20 02:46 PM
2

Saving this comment because for the first time in my TRP life I went on 4 dates without fucking. All other ~25 girls I banged in 3 dates or less. And it was with an Asian Christian chick with 8 tattoos. Hardcore Christian, goes to church often and literally prays before we eat. To be fair, there were some severe logistical issues with dates 3 and 4, so it wasn't her fault. But next week I'll invite her to cook at my place, and if we don't fuck at that point, I will seriously be like "wtf?"
/r/askTRP24/01/20 02:38 PM
1

She's hot and OP is currently getting all he wants from her with little to no investment. You can tell him never to marry her, you can tell him to spin other plates concurrently, but nexting her would be fucking stupid. I swear, some people on TRP say "next" over anything.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 02:19 PM
-4

Nah roids are cool, I've never done them but I would if I was younger. If you care more about the results than the side-effects, then you should do them. Why not?
/r/askTRP24/01/20 01:48 PM
6

mewing Is that even a real thing? I just googled it lol
/r/askTRP21/01/20 04:21 AM
54

Bluepill isn't "woe is me", bluepill is working hard at your job to raise your family, buying flowers to your 6, proposing to her in Paris, then after a few years of marriage you finally find out her N-count is 50 and she's fucking some gym bro behind your back.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 04:17 AM
1

I would still prefer someone with a previous n count of 0 instead of 1 like my LTR. This isn't a realistic standard nowadays. You're only setting yourself up for failure if you try to find a 0-count woman you like. It's doable, but it will require immense effort in your part and there's a high chance you'll be worse off in the end than you would be with your current LTR. Anyone from other countries where women arent as corrupted by its culture/media? Unless you divulge what your home country is,…
/r/askTRP20/01/20 12:41 PM
16

I'll never understand how insurance for products is so cheap, and I say this as someone who worked in insurance for years. Like, it seems so ridiculously easy to commit insurance fraud. What's stopping me from "losing" my Rolex on a road trip and then doubling up?
/r/askTRP20/01/20 10:02 AM
4

You always pay for women one way or another. Whether it's with money or with time.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 09:47 AM
1

I was expecting the most upvoted replies to be "are you retarded?", but I'm glad there were a couple answers saying "go for it". And yeah, I would much much rather live in the new location than the current one.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 02:37 AM
1

From what you've posted it seems the only positive would be how it looks on your resume What? I don't really care too much how it looks on my resume. The location is the huge positive. And honestly, it seems worth the risk.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 02:33 AM
1

Great fucking answer, I need to watch it again.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 07:25 PM
1

Just curious, what was the incel shit people were actually spouting? Lol
/r/askTRP17/12/19 05:05 PM
3

My gut is telling me, my dads not a safe person. Jealousy is real, I ain’t tryna die. What does this even mean? Anyway, my dad is hyper-beta too. It's fine. Just let him be. Unless you have reason to believe he's depressed or something, don't worry about it.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 06:05 AM
8

Because you don't know how to apply dread
/r/askTRP27/11/19 01:24 AM
1

True, I hate hostels but I had to stay in one in Singapore. I paid more for the hostel in SG than I did for a hotel in Kuala Lumpur or Airbnb in Jakarta.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 09:44 AM
1

Fair enough. For reference, I'm from Brazil and I consider myself and my family upper middle class for Brazilian standards, and even my grandfather would balk at spending that much money on a hotel. I suppose my mom could do it if she wanted to, but she would rather save for retirement instead. And thanks!
/r/askTRP25/11/19 05:27 AM
1

Sure, I can agree with that, but the key phrase of your post is "among the rich".
/r/askTRP25/11/19 04:25 AM
1

This was in Kuala Lumpur not Singapore. But I'm not gonna live in KL, just visiting, so I'm not worried.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 04:23 AM
1

Of course, richness is a spectrum, and the person you're describing is certainly richer than the family of the girl I went out to. But most people would consider spending a week at Marina Bay, having 5 private drivers, or owning 3 different business being rich. I know, Marina Bay looked amazing, I would love to stay there one night, but I can't burn 350 USD like that right now. One day at Marina Bay is the equivalent of one plane ticket + 7 days budget traveling somewhere new. I'll take the latt…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 04:22 AM
1

Even though Japan is #2 in my list of countries I wanna visit the most, I still haven't been there yet. So try again.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 02:25 AM
1

Damn son, you have some high standards for richness.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 02:24 AM
2

If she is from China, it might be due to the Communist ideology. Her dad is from China, while her mom is Indonesian. She grew up in Indonesia in an international school. Says that her Indonesian is not the best and that she speaks english better than any other language, but you can tell she has an accent and makes a few mistakes nonnative speakers typically make. No big deal, but it's interesting that apparently she doesn't speak any language at a native level. Anyway, I wish I could be in your …
/r/askTRP25/11/19 02:23 AM
2

Lol, fair point, but there's a very little chance her social circle includes future girls I'll game (she lives in a different country), so I'm not too worried about that aspect. I certainly disable that tagging shit as far as my own personal media is concerned.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 05:03 PM
3

Why is that something to be careful about? How could it come back to bite me?
/r/askTRP24/11/19 04:52 PM
2

Whereabouts did you live? I lived in Porto Alegre for quite some time. I see in your profile that you seem to be Colombian. Are they not that casual about sex and relationships over there? To be honest, Colombia is one of the places that I want to visit the most. Specially since I heard they like blond white Americans over there lmao. People talk about Brazilian women, but to me Colombian women are the most beautiful in the world. One time I changed my Tinder location to Medellin just for fun, a…
/r/askTRP18/11/19 07:16 AM
1

Oh I do already. Well, not religiously. But I do OMAD pretty often, so much more convenient than eating 2-3 times a day like other people. But right now I'm traveling, so eating 2-3 times a day helps me try as much of the local food as possible.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 04:32 PM
1

I agree with your overall sentiment that he shouldn't ditch the great woman he found, but I strongly disagree with this part: If he hasn't fucked 50 hot chicks by now, guess what, he won't. That ship has likely sailed, he's not in college anymore. He can look forward to being 30 and dating post-wall girls. Men age like wine, and he's still young at 27. Specially since apparently has insane SMV according to the comments, he could easily spend the foreseeable future fucking hot girls if he wants t…
/r/askTRP15/11/19 07:31 AM
2

Or maybe he's just from a different developing country than yours? I've been to several developing countries and there are both types of girls in many of them. Asia tends to have many "date to marry" girls, while Latin American and specially Brazil has an overwhelming hookup/cheating culture.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 06:37 AM
1

Actually there is a mantra that gets repeated here in TRP that every man should fuck 25 women before he considers getting married, so that he can know exactly what he wants. Still fucking hilarious that OP would flat out say something like that lol.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 06:34 AM
1

What part of EE? Kiev? Moscow? St. Petersburg?
/r/askTRP15/11/19 05:33 AM
1

Pretty disheartening that I've spent a combined years at the gym, including lifting and dieting seriously for much of that time, and after all that work some schmuck on reddit comes and writes "you obviously haven't lifted a weight in your fucking life."
/r/askTRP15/11/19 03:04 AM
1

Philippines at the moment, but I'm hoping to find a job in Vietnam.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 07:21 AM
1

Nothing. In these 2 years I've had shitty situations before, but this is the first time it's been this bad. I'm in Southeast Asia right now, so I don't know anything about getting medical treatment here. I'm gonna try to have natural sex with a couple more girls and hope it works. If it doesn't, then I don't know man. Guess I'll have to find a way to get cialis and start taking it, or some shit like that. I have no idea.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 07:44 AM
1

Drink only on occasion. Mental health is fine, or at least, I have no mental illnesses if that's what you mean. What do you mean by diet? Is there a particular nutrient that would help with this, or you're asking just in general? But diet has been bad and working out nonexistent because I've been living the nomad lifestyle lately. Currently looking for a job and a place (read: country) to live.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 01:05 AM
1

Befofe 2.5 years, what were your porn and masturbation habits like? Massive. I was the biggest porn addict you can think of. Masturbated to it at least once a day every day at night watching videos on my phone just before going to bed. On weekends I would often get up at 8am, sit on my computer, and play porn games until 1pm or god knows when. 5 hours just masturbating without cumming. Do you still watch porn now, in some form? Nope, not anymore. Though I did for a while without masturbating to …
/r/askTRP19/10/19 01:02 AM
0

That's funny, this hasn't been the case for me at all. Most of the women who were happy to swallow were hot 18 to 21 year olds. Of the three 27-28 year olds I remember getting with, only one of them swallowed, even though the other two were longer-term plates. The oldest girl I've been with, 33, didn't even bother to give me a blowjob, so I doubt she would have swallowed.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 12:42 AM
17

Uhh, you just answered your own question. You just do it. I had a girl like you described. Not very talkative, little eye contact. I subtly brought her back to my place. We're sitting on the couch and I go in for the kiss, she turns her face away. What is this dumb bitch doing at my place anyway if she's not interested? I have nothing to lose so I talk a little more then go for the kiss again. Rejected, talk a little more, go for the kiss again. An hour later her mouth is in my cock. Turns out s…
/r/askTRP12/09/19 08:13 AM
1

Yes exactly. I think you just got lucky with your specific location. I definitely wouldn't generalize your experience to the whole US. Whereas I would for basically all of Brazil.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 03:30 PM
1

Also in Brazil I would straight up make out with girls anywhere. Literally anywhere. At the airport, at the park, at the mall, outside the pizza place, or just out on the street. Though to be fair to your original point, when I went to the Dominican Republic I got shot down by two girls when I moved in for the kiss, with them basically saying "not here."
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:27 AM
1

Bruh what parts of latin america have you been to. Brazil has a 10x more liberal kissing culture than the US. Like it's not even comparable.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:24 AM
1

Any updates? You still dating her? What happened
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:15 AM
1

Fuck that, I'll happily do it. I have almost like a fetish for pleasing women, and my dick doesn't work very well. What are the odds I'll get some random STD from licking pussy anyway? Gotta be super fucking low. And yeah maybe there's a risk I'm eating someone's dried cum, but I like to think the girls I pick off tinder aren't complete heartless sluts like in that SSC sub lol.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 12:30 AM
1

Source?
/r/askTRP30/08/19 06:04 AM
2

Nah, that one I'm not afraid of. It's extremely hard to get if you're a heterosexual male and don't do unprotected anal.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 06:43 AM
10

You can't run away from herpes my man lol
/r/askTRP03/07/19 06:29 PM
10

Then what is? I'm only 27 and haven't masturbated at all in the last 2 years. Either way, they're an issue even if not the issue. Condoms suck.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 03:20 PM
2

Uhh, the south? Midwest ends at kansas/missouri.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 03:51 AM
1

Okay, fair enough. Exactly the type of response I was looking for when I made this post. I did ignore the boyfriend comment at the time though I was a little confused, but you're probably right, I should have been way more aggressive when we got to the hotel.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 11:13 PM
2

Good answer. Basically her needs not being met is making her 90% dirty to the point of meeting some guy and sharing a bed, but the LDR is still causing LMR and preventing her from going to 100%. Makes sense.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:40 AM
0

Because the kind of boyfriend that allows his LDR girlfriend to go out with her ex fling without breaking up automatically falls into beta bux territory. Like, there's no leeway here.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:37 AM
3

I'm only here touristing for 10 days. Don't give a fuck if I get laid here or not. Just trying to learn how the female mind works, for future reference.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 05:06 AM
1

I said that because TRP logic is that girls will lie to secure their beta bucks while trying to sneak in those alpha fucks when nobody is watching. Not admit to their beta bucks that they're seeing another guy while simultaneously rejecting sex with that other guy. Also, TRP logic is that women don't change and women's nature is almighty, as opposed to a slut turning into a loyal LDR girlfriend 2 years later.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 05:01 AM
3

I heard some girls out there think kissing is too intimate but are fine with having sex. It would be hilarious if that's what's happening here. Like if I had pulled my cock out she'd start sucking, but since I tried to kiss her instead that's way too intimate, can't be doing that with someone who's not my boyfriend.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 03:55 AM
1

Before you say I need to lift more - I've been working out for a long time, 6'3'', about 205 lbs. Pic: https://i.imgur.com/zDKblrq.png Jesus. Why did I take so long to start lifting...
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:36 PM
1

You only need 6, at most 10 hours per week of investment to lift and build muscle. Then you need to do that for over a year. But the point is, you have another 102 waking hours every week to spend making money and managing your girls. Making money is important too, you just shouldn't spend it on fancy dinners and flower bouquets for your girlfriend, of course.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 12:12 PM
77

You invest in yourself, and you reap the rewards in those relationships. Be them with plates, your LTR, your boss, your clients.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/19 09:23 PM
12

Figure of speech mate. By all means give up on women if you want. But if you don't want to, well you only have one other choice.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/19 09:06 PM
2

Wtf, so it hasn't gone up at all since the end of the recession? That's fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/19 06:12 PM
1

Cool, I'm doing a modified reddit PPL. I'm not sure what I would run as intermediate. Not even sure when the transition to intermediate happens to be honest...
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 10:28 AM
0

Ignore the difference. TRP is better. Stick around. Read the sidebar. Asktrp first, main sub (theredpill) second. Or don't. You do you bud.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 12:35 AM
1

Jesus, how much hand-holding do you guys need? Doesn't matter, either of your options is fine. The key here is that you have to gauge her interest to see if you actually have a shot at meeting up. Like, if this is a tinder girl, there's a serious chance you would just be wasting your time. Since she didn't offer a different time, maybe soft next her for 3+ days... or even just hard next her, who cares.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 09:02 PM
1

Interesting. I've read the first part several times (competing for top 20% of men) but never seen the second part attached to it (rating themselves as top 20%).
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 09:00 PM
4

If you've done something, and it worked, maybe you should... I don't know... keep doing it?? Why are you asking us? Anyway, you've described a girl who isn't really into you. Doing anything else other than nexting them is a waste of time, in my experience.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 08:59 PM
13

That's a PUA thing, you're in the wrong subreddit bro. Anyways, it's a good excuse for early kino so if you can do it without looking like a retard, why not? Then again, does anyone not look like a retard when they do that?
/r/askTRP31/03/19 08:57 PM
2

Be a high SMV sonovabitch. Push pull and tease so that she isn't sure you're into her
/r/askTRP31/03/19 08:56 PM
2

He probably meant don't get fat. With lifting people need to make sure they get a crapton of protein, and it helps to get enough of every micronutrient (which means eating lots of vegetables and things like black beans, sweet potatoes, etc). But besides all that you're right, it's easier to get the rest of your calories off of junk than clean food. IIFYM and all that. It's healthy to minimize sugar and minimize trans fat, but that's all, it's just healthy. Won't matter much aesthetically as long…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 08:39 PM
1

This 100% What's gonna get upvoted next? "Watch porn every week so you save both time and money"?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 08:31 PM
1

If you lift 3x a week and diet well you will be too 20% Yah, after a year maybe. Even with a good diet and routine and everything, lifting is slow as fuck. Almost makes me wanna pin test.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 08:20 PM
1

but put more emphasis on volume. What do you mean? What's your routine? How many sets do you do.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 08:16 PM
3

You must look like a top 10% male on your tinder photos. No way your advice is good for most men. Even a top 30% male wouldn't find any luck with okay-looking women using your advice.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 08:14 PM
2

This was actually confirmed by tinder (I think) 80% of women rated themselves in the top 20% of women for looks. Source? I've never heard of this and I'm pretty well-informed about random dating app studies.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 07:46 PM
3

You picked a really weird percentage lol. 1/3 of americans women are obese and another 1/3 of americans women are overweight. So I guess you're saying women who are very overweight but not clinically obese aren't worth dating, but women who are moderately overweight but not too much are still acceptable.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 07:40 PM
23

Seduction depends on time, it depends on what the men around you are doing. When tons of beta male are complimenting attractive women based on any trait whatsoever, all of a sudden complimenting doesn't work so well anymore. The dynamics of a monogamical period like 1880s were very different from the dynamics of 2019 when women are flooded by an endless stream of beta orbiters delivered right to their phones via dating apps and social media.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 03:42 PM
7

This is a stupid idea for a number of reasons. If you read the sidebar you'll come to understand why. First of all, you're in a race against time. You shouldn't think about getting married until you've had 25+ notches in your belt (women, including short-term and long-term relationships), because that the experience will let you know what you actually like and don't like. How the hell are you gonna get that much experience over the next 6 years? Second of all, the number one advantage a man has …
/r/askTRP29/03/19 12:42 PM
2

This one is up to you. If it bugs you that much then you can make it a boundary and punish them / next them for the disrespect. If you don't care that much about "what ifs" then you can just A&A... e.g. "he sounds great, can you give me his number??"
/r/askTRP28/03/19 10:04 PM
1

No. Stop giving her attention, stop talking to her for no reason. Soft next her, if she reaches out again ask her out, if she flakes soft/hard next her depending on the excuse.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 10:57 AM
1

If you want to plate her, plate her, if you don't, don't. You have to decide for yourself, no one here can do it for you. You can always try plating her and then simply break it off if you decide you don't like it.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 11:29 PM
4

Because you risk missing your chance. Women these days have ADD. They have other things going on and 10 beta orbiters bugging her. Just because you're not on her mind, doesn't mean she's not into you. This is specially true after a 2-week vacation. The only time you should wait for a girl to initiate is when she did something bad to earn herself a soft next.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 09:30 PM
2

Dibs on that tombstone phrase
/r/askTRP27/03/19 08:36 PM
7

"I'm currently kicking a ball around with a couple friends, how fun is it to play in the premier league?"
/r/askTRP27/03/19 08:35 PM
5

I immediately regretted not saying something like "keep it safe til' we meet next time". You're overthinking it. Do I ask her to hook up again You reach out, yes, though no need to be so blunt. Ask her about her holiday. Invite her to something (either to go out somewhere or to come over to tell you all about her trip while you cook dinner). or "wait" for her to initiate? Definitely not. I'm having trouble reaching out asking for a meet-up again, after we've already had sex. Why?
/r/askTRP27/03/19 08:33 PM
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It's not decent to pay for half if she wants to pay for the whole thing. Sounds like she thinks you're such a baller she needs to do these sorts of things for you to keep you interested. Sounds like you're doing everything right. Keep it up. Enjoy the savings. I'm sure feminists would be thrilled about this too. Equal rights means equal amount of beta women throwing money at alpha men.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 08:30 PM
3

Thanks bruh. It was very difficult for me. In fact, I couldn't actually do it by myself. But porn (as well as me being an idiot) ruined the best I've ever heard (inb4 oneitis), and that was the extra push. Since then I swore never to let porn do that to me ever again. Maybe it was overkill to quit masturbating for good as opposed to just porn, but whatever, here we are.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 12:31 AM
2

Yeah bud, it was the right move. Some girls are gonna be a waste of your time, but that's a risk you have to take if you want to find a girl who isn't a waste of your time. Don't focus on this girl, focus on yourself, and game other women.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 12:28 AM
3

Literally. I used to be a porn addict and it took me several tries, but I finally managed to quit for good. Now I'm surviving off of sex alone.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 12:26 AM
2

Yup, shit happens. You win some, you lose some. Plates break, it's what you sign up for when you choose the TRP lifestyle. Soft next her and move on to other women. Don't reach out to her on your own, and if she reaches out to you, text for logistics and do the same thing you did today: meet up, escalate, and send her home again if she doesn't reciprocate again.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 11:31 PM
3

Low T because of age, medical or lifestyle? If for anything else than lifestyle reasons would not T injections be a good fix? Beats me. I'm 27. I stopped masturbating 2 years ago. Sleep is as good as it can be given that I have mild insomnia sometimes. I lift now though to be fair I didn't lift when I did the blood test, so it might have gone up since then. I tested 420ng/dL. I can’t really see any downsides of it except the occasional needle in your ass. Ruining your natural testosterone for li…
/r/askTRP25/03/19 11:26 PM
3

Remind me never to pin. It's already difficult enough for me to get/stay hard as it is. And I'm only 27. And I quit fapping literally 2 years ago. Supposed to have gotten better by now, shit sucks.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 11:18 PM
2

Don't
/r/askTRP25/03/19 07:56 PM
9

By the way, this part of the story is extremely poignant. I asked: when are you planning to settle down? They said: “It depends” and “probably around 27, 28” or “maybe sooner it depends”. I really put the girls on the spot. During our exchange they saw I was upset. They told me I should be happy because “nice guys finish first in the end”. I told them you cannot have your cake and eat it to. Then I was told by Kaylene (a young thin super sexy blonde with curves in all the right places (who BTW r…
/r/askTRP25/03/19 07:02 PM
5

It's an amalgation of everything that TRP likes to be angry at regarding the current state of the dating world. It illustrates AF/BB - the tatted up band 'losers' the author describes are the alphas, while back in college the author was described as 'husband material' but couldn't get any dates. It illustrates WhereAreAllTheGoodMen (that's a subreddit) - the women in the story are throwing away their most valuable asset (their hot young bodies) at random band losers, which meant they missed thei…
/r/askTRP25/03/19 06:45 PM
3

but every two weeks she gets very stressed out during exam week (med school) and I just couldn't handle it. I don't understand what this means. Does it mean 2 weeks of good times followed by 1 week of bad? Sounds like there were much better ways of handling it than a breakup. But what's done is done. Focus on yourself. (Re)Read the sidebar. Game new women.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 06:29 PM
1

Well I mean, that's the main reason why I wouldn't do it, so if you disagree that it's a valid reason then you should go ahead and approach them. Like you said, it always feels weird to approach.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 06:27 PM
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Ignore what she says, watch what she does. Escalate as normal. If "close the door and start making out" worked in the past, do it again. If it doesn't work this time, pay attention to her excuse, play it by ear. If you get the feeling she's being dumb and won't have sex with you tonight, specially if she has no good reason for it, don't be afraid to send her home. If that happens, soft next her and do your own thing.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 06:25 PM
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Who knew being low T had its advantages. That's a problem I'm never ever gonna have.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 06:21 PM
4

Is this college? If the answer is yes that makes it tough. "Don't shit where you eat" and all that. You don't want to get a reputation for being 'that guy' at your school. So I'm gonna lean towards no. If you have a good innocent excuse to open them, then by all means. If you just wanna sit down and start gaming, then no. Wait for a better time, preferably when she's alone.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 06:20 PM
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TRP advises you to be 70% alpha 30% beta, and the latter part is much more important in an LTR than with a plate. You seem to have failed to take that advice to heart. If you're 100% alpha 0% beta you'll have a bad time. Don't try to ressurrect this relationship though. Learn from it, soft next your girl, and move on.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 06:17 PM
1

How did you find your condo, or do you just legit live there? I'll be spending a month or so in the Philippines toward the end of the year, not sure what to do for lodging. Probably just book an AirBnb for a month. Either Manila or Cebu. Or both.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 09:16 PM
1

You need to do 6 days, yes. Or be like me and do 4 days, push and pull, and throw some squats and leg presses on the push day. There are many routines that only have you in the gym 3 days a week, but PPL is definitely not one of them, that would be a terrible idea. For those 3 days a week routine, you generally want to be doing the same exercises and targetting the same muscles each workout session.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 01:56 PM
3

Ok you realize you fucked up. A lot. Read the sidebar to make sure it doesn't happen again. Soft next this girl and text her for logistics only.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 10:13 PM
2

Yesterday I told a new one I was spending the weekend at the beach. Lol.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 10:09 PM
1

You're not wrong. Talking's never been my forte. Before or after TRP.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 11:24 AM
1

I’ve seen The “not compatible” shit test a lot, agreeing and amplifying it is good How would you do that? "Yeah you're definitely right, you're a Scorpio and I'm a Leo" ?
/r/askTRP20/03/19 11:22 AM
2

Strange question. Treat her nice? Lots of comfort. Be gentle and try to ensure a positive experience.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 11:17 AM
8

Exactly what I think. Even smart women (she's a lawyer) are so stupid when it comes to dating.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 06:44 PM
1

Would it make a difference that I'm a very young looking 27 year old? People think I look 18-20 at most. Whether that's relevant or not, I don't know. If it means you'll be a young looking 40yo, sure it might help a bit. You'll just have to try and avoid telling them your real age, I guess. like high blood pressure, diabetes and heart problems. I feel like steroids could impact these in a very bad way. If you stick to 600mg of testosterone or less per week, and never do harsher steroids like tre…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:47 PM
1

Lift hard , eat like hell, take tren, do pct. If you're older than 25 just start juicing its not worth lifting and eating perfect for 7 years to look like what you could have in 1. It'll be too late. Yah. And then you fuck up your hormones forever and have to be on TRT for life. All so you could enjoy 10 years or less of quality pussy. Because regardless of what TRP likes to say, a 40yo cannot get with a 23yo hottie. Not unless he's absolutely elite. I don't mean above average, I mean elite. Not…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:56 PM
1

Post-cycle therapy, where you try stop taking steroids do pct to try to retain as many gains as possible and minimize negative side effects. More information on the steroids and their wiki.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:55 PM
2

If you go on the steroids sub, most people will tell you it's a commitment for life. There's no one cycle and you're done. It's more one cycle and you're hooked. Not because it's physically addictive, but because you won't want to feel like you felt before you took steroids. You'll want to keep feeling like you do when you're pinning. ww w.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJM199607043350101 Up to 600mg of testosterone enanthate per week has been considered acceptable enough to approve a study about it…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:55 PM
1

Interesting. Thanks for the answer. How about sex on the first date? Would most Filipinas be willing to do it if they're attracted to you? Or would you generally need to wait until the second or even third date, regardless of how attractive you are?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:55 AM
14

Herpes on your lips. Okay, so no giving oral sex to random hoes. Ever. Seems easy enough. Super gonorrhea. Didn't even know that was a thing. Thankfully there seem to be very few cases at the moment.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 08:08 PM
8

It's actually called freeuse, there's a few porn subreddits about it, the main one being called freeuse.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 07:26 PM
6

some of them are life-enders. Like what? Other than AIDS, obviously.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 07:15 PM
-2

Ohhh, my bad. I hang out on asktrp much more often than the main sub. Aaawkward.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 06:45 PM
1

Mine is 420 ng/dL lol. Fuck my life.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 06:37 PM
1

So? Did she book the trip?
/r/askTRP13/03/19 05:30 PM
1

Soo how would the Philippines be (dating or otherwise) for a white blond American? I'm actually spending a month in Cebu at the end of this year to take a class. And I plan on spending a few weeks in Manila and maybe other cities as well to get to know them. Never been to Asia. Not sure what to expect. /u/kraken9911
/r/askTRP13/03/19 02:24 PM
1

in larger non-touristy cities. What are those?
/r/askTRP13/02/19 12:52 AM
1

Why's that?
/r/askTRP09/02/19 12:38 AM
1

Not Cuba? I figured Puerto Rico wouldn't be it since everyone is already a US citizen there, so it's not that cool. DR makes sense though, you're probably right.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 11:19 PM
1

Foda que porto alegre não é uma cidade internacional. Daí eu divulgo meu nome, que em tese é mais qualificado que os outros professores (cidadão americano com uma década de vivência nos EUA), cobro relativamente barato, e mesmo assim é uma luta pra conseguir aluno. Pronúncia de pessoas de países asiáticos também tende a ser bem bosta.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 02:19 PM
1

Classes baixas tem meninas bonitas também, e ainda assim não consigo nada realmente interessante aqui no sul haha. São Paulo não deve ser ruim de morar. Deve ter uma boa demanda por professores de inglês, então não faltaria trabalho pra mim, dando aulas particular. Mas na real acho que vou me mudar pra fora do país mesmo.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 10:51 AM
1

Cara, me fala qual parte do Brasil que tu mora que eu vou agora mesmo fazer as malas e me mudar praí. Pelamor de deus. Aqui em porto alegre tá foooda. Fazer gurias bonitinhas no tinder aceitar sair comigo é um sacrifício. E daí mesmo as mais ou menos querem esperar até o terceiro encontro pra fazer sexo, por mais que eu tente não querem nem saber de fazer antes. Tá certo que eu não sou lá alpha igual outros desse subreddit, mas também não sou tão feio assim. Caralho mano.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 08:09 PM
3

Should probably ask on the iwantout subreddit, except for the part about women. Have a look around the geotrp subreddit, though you may not find much, sadly. Avoid Toronto. It's infamous for having an absolutely miserable dating scene for men.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 02:48 PM
1

you dont want to widen/thicken your waistline. They like the V taper look - broad shoulders and tiny waist look. Great point. That magic chest-to-waist ratio.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 07:29 PM
1

See the rest of this thread, you don't ask for a blowjob, you guide her toward one. But yes, I agree with you, I would never be in an LTR without frequent blowjobs. Then again, I wouldn't be in an exclusive LTR anyway, I'd rather just fuck multiple plates.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 08:03 PM
3

Wish I could do a pullup lol
/r/askTRP23/01/19 08:19 PM
1

huge hands & feet (bigger than yours) Great tips, and this one in particular is a good excuse for kino. "Hey, let me see your hands." My hands are kinda big so it's funny when a girl's hands are particularly small. I didn't think a real girl would be offended if you ask "were you born a girl?" but I can see how they would be. You can probably play it off like you're new here and you heard there were lots of transgenders. They robbed him of all his money, but spared his virginity (or so he says).…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 12:51 PM
1

(currently on TRT and feeling the best I've ever felt. No depression, mood swings, high libido, good recovery at the gym, massive appetite again.) Yeah but what about when you stop TRT? Wouldn't you feel like shit? My testosterone is low but I'm "in range" like you said lol. Reading this thread I wish I had asked the doctor for a D3 test as well but whatever, I feel like I spend enough time in the sun every day. Total test: 420.3 ng/dL Free test: 8.65 ng/dL (according to the lab the reference ra…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/18 01:43 PM
1

Plus, you have to filter out all the ladyboys and transgender (there are a lot! Feels like at least 30-40%), unless you are into that. And a lot of them look much better than the average girl here. Did you go day game or meet girls at night clubs? How do you filter them out in real life? I'd be so afraid of hooking up with one of those haha, you're right some of them look better than the average girl. I'm planning to go to the Philippines next year and there's tons of trans women just like in Th…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 01:06 PM
1

Good, I think. Lots of vegetables with olive oil, then black beans and either chicken or beef. Sometimes eggs. Though I do have a cheat day about once a week, where I eat lots of carbs or whatever. Usually pizza.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 12:00 PM
1

Erectile disorder Yes Lowered muscle mass Probably Belly fat Maybe. I did have it measured at 10%, but I feel like I have some belly fat anyway as opposed to having it stored in other areas. I don't have visible abs or anything. Tiredness Only when I had 7 hours of sleep or less instead of 8 Insomnia Yes, to some extent, though I've always had it. Then again, maybe I've always had low T. Depression Not really Do you have elevated stress levels? I don't think so, not more than most people anyway.…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 10:40 AM
1

Fuck, you're right. According to this table I found on quora, I'm at the 9th percentile of men my age, even though I'm doing everything right. That's godawful. What should I do?
/r/askTRP18/12/18 05:21 PM
6

Means you don't tell her anything similar to OP's "chronic health problems recently, which due to the financial hardship made me move in with family, and I'm just trying to get my career back on track." At least not until you trust her.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 04:25 PM
2

Great answer, thanks. I guess it's just a fine line between not hiding your SMV, but also not going over the top and sounding arrogant. I like the "I've been really lucky" qualifier you used. Funnily enough I also have had a lot of success on my tinder dates. And I get a lot of matches as well. It's turning matches into a date that I reeeeaally struggle with for some reason.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 08:11 PM
1

I legitimately don't even know how to get hair like that.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 05:22 PM
2

Being intelligent/articulate, well traveled Never worked for me. Most of my tinder convos go something like this when the subject comes up: Her: "I've been to Uruguay" Me: "I've been to like 15 countries" Her: "Cool, cya" Obviously that's not literally how it goes, but the point is I have a hard time translating being intelligent/articulate, being well-traveled, and being well-paid into high SMV. And I live in a sort of 3rd world country where many people don't have those opportunities, and it's…
/r/askTRP13/11/18 05:21 PM
0

That reminds me I need to replace the batteries on my Bulova. I have a few nice watches but that one is my favorite. It just stopped moving after having it for a couple years, so I'm pretty sure it's just the battery. I hardly ever wear watches, don't do it on my day-to-day, but it's nice for a date or something.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 01:19 AM
1

Stop making me want to take steroids, you're a bad influence
/r/askTRP13/11/18 12:02 AM
4

I could definitely see that. My last LTR wasn't keen on doing either at first. Then accepted swallowing after the first few times. And then after several months she warmed up to the idea of taking it on the face. What's weird though is that my last few girls, they weren't very attractive, definitely less than attractive than my LTRs, and yet they wouldn't do it at all. I would have expected that the less attractive a girl is, the further they'd go to please you.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 11:15 PM
1

Hey off-topic but did you ever have any really bad side-effects from tren? I would probably mainly be concerned about hair loss, man boobs, and bad acne.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 08:56 PM
1

Make sure you have a competent doctor who is focused on your health rather than just attacking your symptoms. Could you be more specific? How do you tell one from the other?
/r/askTRP12/11/18 12:46 PM
1

Can we combine powers?? I'm pretty good at getting and maintaining relationships with attractive girls. Never had a one-night stand in all my 27 years. Wish I would.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 02:10 AM
2

Yeah, it's easy to say we miss geotrp but the problem is that by nature, there just can't exist that much content.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 06:15 PM
1

I started lifting weights with a focus on the 5 big compounds Bench press, squats, deadlifts, and... overhead press? And... eh?
/r/askTRP06/11/18 06:12 PM
1

Which country was this? Philippines? PM me if you're afraid of disclosing info.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 05:50 PM
1

Fuck, I need to take steroids
/r/askTRP30/10/18 05:49 PM
1

Caveat is that self-qualifying is the death of value Fuck, really? I need to stop saying anything that might vaguely imply I have money then. I'm always telling chicks about how I love to travel, live in a condo, work in finance, that kinda thing. Not in an arrogant way, just in a matter-of-fact way. Still, probably need to change it up.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:22 PM
1

Bro listen, no one, literally no one on here or /r/fitness or /r/loseit or /r/bb is gonna recommend a 200-calorie deficit, specially to a guy. That's ridiculously slow. You don't "gain your weight right back", that's a pipe dream. I mean, you do, but only if your eating habits are shit. But then that's a problem of your current eating habits, not of your previous deficit.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 08:54 PM
1

Next time I stop by I’ll prob take him and have him watch me spin a few plates I think this is a great idea. Afterwards you'll have more credibility and can tell him it's a set of skills yada yada. Also tell him it gets better. At his age up until 19 I was practically an incel. Afterwards I got into shitty LDRs. It wasn't until 25 that I finally achieved a respectable sex life.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 08:40 PM
1

While I'm inclined to agree with never getting married, the statistic you quoted is very misleading because it includes marriages of who are already divorced. IIRC the odds of a marriage ending in divorce between two people who were never married is 30%. Don't have a source for it though.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 06:11 PM
6

Who cares. Go talk to her and escalate if you're into her. Or put your head down and do your work if you're not.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 05:17 PM
6

Yeah, change the subject to something less boring, talk for a bit longer, and then either go for her phone number or start hanging out with her right then and there.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 05:16 PM
1

It depends on who you ask. Most people here will say text for logistics only, lest you make a mistake and turn her off. Other posters will say text game is an useful tool in their arsenal, but that it's an art and takes tons of practice to master. Me personally, there is no way to pull girls off Tinder without some amount of text game where I live. But I can't tell you how text game works. I just say shit I think is a good idea and try to pay attention to what works and what doesn't work. Genera…
/r/askTRP03/10/18 05:13 PM
2

meta
/r/askTRP03/10/18 05:04 PM
1

Brb moving to thailand
/r/askTRP03/10/18 05:03 PM
1

Meh. I'm in Brazil and it's not much better.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 05:02 PM
2

"You look like the kinda girl that chews with her mouth open" Lmao dear lord. I wish I was half as clever as the people in this sub.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:56 PM
1

You need to heavily withdraw attention and/or dread. Or just keep being her bitch, your call.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:52 PM
2

Bro, it's definitely about being desperate, are you high? Plate one all you want but dating a woman 10 years older is blue pill as fuck. There's just no future.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:05 PM
2

Please, don't hesitate to ask questions, I really hope it was all clear. Yes it was indeed very clear. Thank you for the detailed response.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 05:58 PM
7

They found that females were slightly sexually aroused by violence towards males, very aroused by violence towards other females, and negatively aroused by violence towards kids or infants So forget netflix and chill, from now on it's all about slasher movie and chill.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 05:52 PM
1

The best way to get rid of it is to keep your sugar levels low for a long periods of time. How much is a long time?
/r/askTRP02/10/18 03:38 PM
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If you want more details, specially why they fantasize about other women too, just ask I'll take one, please. Shaken, not stirred.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 03:31 PM
1

Great reply, just one question though... You do lots of kino while walking and talking (always do herding, never hold hands) Wtf is herding?
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 05:49 PM
7

You said she barely speaks any English. I'm assuming you don't speak her mother language. This is unchartered territory, most TRP men haven't experienced it I bet, you'll have to come back here and let me know how it went. Maybe you'll have kickass body language. Maybe you'll make hilarious signs or gestures while trying to communicate. Maybe you'll whip out your phone mid-date and use google translator. Sounds fun. I need to travel abroad and experience a date like that one day.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 05:05 PM
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Would I have any chance of fucking her because I’m younger? Of course? No advice, just treat it like normal, deploy your TRP arsenal. I’m starting to go to a real gym after not getting huge results at planet fitness I'm not sure why you think which gym you go to would make much difference, as long as it has the equipment you need.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 05:02 PM
1

Funny. I lived in the US half my life and moved back to Brazil.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 04:28 PM
4

Pics or it didn't happen. Dead serious. There's literally 0% chance any guy who follows TRP tenets fails at getting women. There's literally 0% chance any guy who has a hot buff V-taper body, dresses well, and has a nice haircut, fails at getting women. I'm starting to think you're a troll.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 04:17 PM
1

Lol no. Now you're just actively being silly for no reason. Either way, the majority of males are beta, and the majority of males will settle for that type of women if they have to.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 04:02 PM
6

Don't get oneitis. Forget lunch, invite her to do something fun. Escalate escalate escalate. She doesn't say yes to your invite and doesn't suggest a different time, or she doesn't let you escalate, ditch her and game other women.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 07:57 PM
2

Should i explicitly ask her our Yes. Ask her to hang out. Say "I'm going to X, meet me there at Y if you want." If she says she can't do it twice, drop her like hot potayto. Once you're at the date, escalate escalate escalate. If you read that she's not into intimacy with you, drop her like hot potahto. or leave her to chase me? This is a misinterpretation of TRP theory.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 06:05 PM
2

It felt ok
/r/askTRP28/09/18 06:01 PM
2

https://www.forums.red/i/theredpill https://www.trp.red/feed/
/r/askTRP28/09/18 06:00 PM
2

First of all, as has been said a million types in the other million similar threads, it's not a ban, it's a quarantine, you can still access the site just fine. Go on a web browser. Second of all, if it ever does get banned, go on the two other TRP-hosted websites.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 05:59 PM
1

Do you believe government should use taxes to subsidize or pay for everyone's healthcare and higher education? Do you believe government should provide some form of assistance to less fortunate families (below the poverty line)? Do you believe richer people should pay a higher proportion (percentage) of taxes than the middle-class, which in turn should pay a higher proportion than the poor? These are some of the main ideals that separate left-wing politics from libertarian politics.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 02:38 PM
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The documents in the sidebar are saved here and here. So consider browsing the actual posts on the actual subs (this main one as well as asktrp) while you still can, and leave the sidebar material for when you get bored of regular posts. I'm not sure the asktrp sidebar is saved in those documents though, so if it isn't, be sure to read that one. It's just as important as the main sub's sidebar, if not more.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 12:07 PM
1

All of them. Even Gaming and Chess have women. Maybe, but being a really good top 5% Magic: the Gathering player isn't enough to impress any girls. Only the absolute top pros had groupies. I swear, not even like 10% of that hobby is female (and for a good, unfortunate reason). That being said, your point seems like it would be very good for hobbies like rock climbing, surfing, and obviously music.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 08:06 PM
1

Something that you're so good at that you're in the top 5% of the crowd doing said hobbie so that the 95% guys doing that hobbie look up to you, and the girls who hold said hobbie in high regard see that "local hierarchy" dynamic with you at the top of it... and then you approach them with your honed Game. Like what kind of hobbies are we talking here? It's very very difficult to get in the top 5% of any hobby. I've done it in the past, but sadly only for hobbies girls don't give two shits about…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 07:56 PM
2

Lol at this. I've gone without sex or masturbating for a month. Hell, I haven't masturbated in 16 months. Didn't unlock shit. I do recommend it though, porn addiction is terrible.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 07:52 PM
2

And condoms. Which must not be allowed to expired. Wait, condoms expire? Wtf? Do they have an expiration date on them or something? I think mine expired. Now you have me paranoid.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 07:46 PM
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Right? And I only just became active here two months ago. Sorry guys, this is my fault.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 07:32 PM
1

I'm not a good example in terms of capacity to keep your gains/leanness, as I had a really bad injury right after I came off which set me out from the gym for around 13 months now You're actually a great example! I've always wondered exactly how much gains people lose if they stop lifting completely. Was never able to find that information. Would you mind PMing pics of what your body looks like right now? to currently leaner 12% at 185 (slightly visible top 4 abs) Even having been out of the gym…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 06:44 PM
1

What's an FFMI? I calculated 19.6, or 19.2 "normalized", with 68kg fat free mass. Is that bad?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 06:36 PM
1

Do you still look shredded as fuck?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 06:27 PM
1

What do you mean by a REALLY good first cycle? What would that be?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 06:19 PM
1

I was just trying to say it circumvents the traditional requirement of acting alpha, being good-looking, spitting game, etc.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 05:07 PM
1

Is it really a scam when she knows she's trading sex in exchange for some professional photos? Though granted, I don't know what these dudes say to these women. I suppose any bozo with a DSLR can convince a girl he's a professional photographer if he's smart enough.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 04:28 PM
1

For free.... you seem like a noob. I did use quotation marks in the body of the text lol. What other word would you use? Either way, you get the point.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 03:55 PM
1

Too skinny may mean you don't look good enough to pull that shit off. I don't know. Point being, if the other guy is getting left and right and establishing a hangout at his place, that doesn't mean you would too. I'm an average guy and I have to talk with them for a couple days before starting to set up first dates at a neutral location. I ditch the ones that seem flakey/uninterested (which, to be fair, is the vast majority of them). I've tried the escalate immediately approach and get a date q…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 12:19 PM
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I'm guessing you look like an average guy while /u/Andgelyo looks like damn near a male model. Tinder is just a completely different ballgame depending what you look like.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 05:28 PM
1

But the looks & height are #1 factor, because it's really one of the main ways to get a phone number or a date. That's just wrong. All three are very important. No way to say which is 'more' important. But usually, you can't be great at one but terrible at the other two.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 11:41 AM
1

I was under the impression Japanese women also had a weird culture around sex, or were against casual sex, or something like that.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 11:40 AM
3

Packing my bags as we speak
/r/askTRP26/09/18 11:38 AM
1

I wanna be your dad when I grow up
/r/askTRP26/09/18 12:32 AM
1

In theory that would imply foreigners/tourists would have a banquet of horny women to choose from. I wonder why that is not the case.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 07:39 PM
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I get matched w high HB but can’t pull through. Same. You won't find a guide that helps you with that, because really it's an art. It's a crapshot. Mallardcove's guide helps you get matches in my opinion, not so much turn them into dates. If you look like Chad it's easier, just make sexual innuendos and escalate (but don't be aggressive). If you just look like an average or above average dude, then I don't know. Be funny. Make conversation. Try to connect with them, as hard as that may be when y…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 07:37 PM
6

You're both wrong. Looks is very helpful, yes, if you have average looks you'll be invisible to women. If you look like a male model you're a billion steps ahead. That said, if you have average looks but solid game and/or status, you'll be pulling women left and right. Just like looks, game and status are also very very helpful. If all you have is looks and no game no nothing, you can easily get cucked, and you can easily strike out with most of those hot girls you're pining for. Like I’m a mino…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 07:31 PM
2

Correct, if you want to live an active TRP-style sex life with multiple plates, you need to constantly be cold approaching girls, constantly be day gaming, constantly be improving your Tinder game. Figure out what works for you and do that. And of course, constantly be improving yourself (lifting, reading the literature, getting good grades, etc).
/r/askTRP25/09/18 07:14 PM
2

Outcome independence just means that you don't care about tonight's date with Stacy, because you're meeting Jenny on Thursday anyway. And even if it doesn't work out with Stacy and Jenny, you can just strike up a conversation with Martha and schedule a date with her. You said yourself, you called college a 'pussy utopia'. That's how you can rationalize your outcome independence. By realizing that there are so many decent looking women that you don't care if you strike out with any single one of …
/r/askTRP25/09/18 07:08 PM
1

Isn't Japanese sex/relationship culture already thoroughly fucked, with or without sex dolls?
/r/askTRP25/09/18 07:04 PM
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At some point you've had/seen it all, you just get bored. I wonder if after a while you'd get bored of your monogamous life, and revert back to your old ways.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 06:58 PM
2

(I hate Mercedes-Benz) Why's that?
/r/askTRP25/09/18 06:56 PM
1

You answered the question yourself right here. It's blue-pill behavioral-castration. RP is about making real men and fucking real women. I get it, you're missing my point. Obviously I'm not saying it belongs in TRP, nor am I advocating TRP men use it. But we can't expect most men to be TRP men, can we? And for those lazy fuckers that can't be bothered to self-improve, or men who have otherwise decided to give up women, it will be an improvement in their quality of life. And if something improves…
/r/askTRP25/09/18 06:47 PM
1

Why only 3x a week?
/r/askTRP25/09/18 06:40 PM
1

Your back needs a lot of work too. What exercises?
/r/askTRP25/09/18 06:39 PM
1

Are there side-effects to TRT? Like acne, man boobs, idk.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 06:35 PM
1

He's also wrong, since this guy who's supposedly a researcher on the topic says it won't happen for another 22 to 32 years. http://archive.is/aErjS
/r/askTRP25/09/18 06:30 PM
1

A blue ocean event means a complete absence of Arctic sea ice, allowing the heat of the sun to fully penetrate the open waters of the Arctic, which would then dramatically accelerate the rate of warming in the Arctic. Not sure what that has to do with anything
/r/askTRP25/09/18 06:27 PM
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First and foremost, sex dolls and VR porn are stupid as fuck. How is it stupid as fuck? Beta porn addict me would have loved to enjoy high-tech versions of all of that. I'm sure plenty of incels and betas will find improvements in those technologies to improve their lives as well. Heck, 25 years from now when I'm past 50, if I'm still single and can no longer pull reasonably attractive real women, I'll be glad those technologies exist. They certainly sound better than fucking hookers.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 06:24 PM
1

I’ve seen the sex doll craze in Japan. Elaborate
/r/askTRP25/09/18 06:18 PM
4

Obviously. Just hoping we can speculate using our TRP lenses. Technically, a man's biological imperative is to spread his seed, correct? So shouldn't 90-95% of men who have an endless supply of young fertile women do so? Is that what we find in real life?
/r/askTRP25/09/18 06:02 PM
2

Yes it is
/r/askTRP25/09/18 05:52 PM
2

You hit her up once. Talk/invite her out like normal. If it didn't go well the first time, or you get the feeling she's not interested, bail. Don't chase her. Don't catch oneitis.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 09:13 PM
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What country he's from doesn't matter. I suspect whatever HR moron was in charge of /u/manwithoutwire's training was allowed to make up whatever definition they wanted. You are correct that if you ask any lawyer, one key component of harassment is the harassee asking the harasser to stop, and the latter failing to do so. Bottom line is, don't shit where you eat.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 08:51 PM
1

I'll say. 3 weeks in, 50 matches, and finally just got my first date out of it this Saturday. Dear lord.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 06:57 PM
1

That's it? Here I was afraid of hair loss and man boobs and shit.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:54 PM
1

It's exactly by getting these easy hookups with reasonably attractive chicks that you allow yourself to develop an abundance mentality in the first place.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:25 PM
1

Isn't your body fat percentage much more accurate than BMI? Since BMI doesn't take into account how much of your weight comes from muscle vs fat. I have been doing keto, although not as religiously as people on /r/keto, since I still have a cheat day and eat a lot of carbs once every one or two weeks. I agree with you though, it's great.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:24 PM
4

Sexual Market Value. Basically how attractive someone is to the opposite sex. Sex is transactional. Your SMV is relative to the other SMVs in your area, that's why we call it a marketplace.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:17 PM
1

The girl was legit a slut. She had banged a dude 10 minutes before she came to my house, it was disgusting, no way I was hitting that. How... how did you find that out?
/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:09 PM
1

Look up RSD infield videos for inspiration. I can't remember the name of the Austrian guy but he's very short as well. I think it's RSDMax, short for Maximillian.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:01 PM
1

There's not really such a thing as 'doing something creepy', there's only 'doing something while not being attractive enough'.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:59 PM
1

I (mistakenly) texted her apologizing because I felt I was coming on too hard and wasn't trying to scare her off Yeah, don't do that.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:58 PM
1

Trim down till where? 12% BF? 10%?
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:49 PM
1

Side effects are crazy, but so worth it for just 8 weeks. What were the side effects? And did they really only last 8 weeks?
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:27 PM
1

I will give you another cute girls' number (USA) to compensate. Deal? Now go. Now I wanna watch a RomCom where a TRP user gives another TRP user a random girl's number who lives across the country, and they end up getting married and starting a family.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:26 PM
2

I hate comments like these because they're so clever but I game women in another language and they never translate well.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 03:09 PM
1

Other than depression? Not really sure. I guess one of them was struggling with gender identity too.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 01:34 AM
1

But then I didn't have sex again until I was 19 -- and that was with a fatty. After that I had two very long distance relationships with girls I met through online games. Not because I loved them or anything, but because I couldn't attract anyone who lived near me. At all. It wasn't until last year that I finally started to slowly figure out to attract girls on tinder or in real life. It's still tough though. Girls are idiots. Hope therapy works out for you.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 11:52 PM
1

Oh my bad. Yeah I think I've mostly fixed it but to be sure I'll have to find a new girl to have sex with while wearing a condom. Fingers crossed. Glad to hear she stopped you. I've had two people very dear to me attempt suicide. Thankfully neither one went through with it.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 11:48 PM
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but the other problem is I almost know that she will realize how boring I am and will send me away And what happens if she realizes this? Nothing. Literally nothing. Your life doesn't change in any way. What happens on the 5% chance that she thinks you're a cool dude? Well, you have a shot at a cool girl you find attractive. Now go approach 20 girls and statistically speaking, on average 1 will think you're a cool dude. Then go approach 200 girls, and you'll be starting to get toward the life yo…
/r/askTRP21/09/18 07:21 PM
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Approach Anxiety
/r/askTRP21/09/18 07:04 PM
1

No idea bro. From what I remember reading about this, pills like viagra allow you to maintain an erection you already have (i.e. restricts blood flow so that the blood doesn't leave your penis). PIED is psychological so it prevents the blood from rushing into your penis in the first place (because you no longer associate real sex with arousal). This is why in theory viagra wouldn't work for PIED. SO, it could be that it's working as a placebo, and you're conditioned to associate the viagra with …
/r/askTRP21/09/18 06:56 PM
2

It just sucks because that’s such a low percentage. Welcome to the sexual marketplace. The bottom 80% of men are invisible to women. There are actual studies that show this. There are a few silver linings though, so it's not all terrible.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 05:36 PM
3

He's saying you're not the #1 alpha in her life that she's pining for. Chad = the top 10% of men who girls are hopelessly attracted to.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 05:28 PM
1

I'm planning on visiting Southeast Asia when I get vacation next year, but maybe I should give Russia and Ukraine a shot instead...
/r/askTRP21/09/18 05:24 PM
1

so I do not see how I can be addicted if I take every few months. Because every time you successfully have sex, your body will be associating it with the viagra that is in your system. I don't know man, I would be afraid of it, but if you're not that's cool, you do you.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 05:23 PM
1

I do not understand what "my penis stays out" means. I fuck the girl and I feel like I'm about to cum. I lift her off me and lick her nipples or whatever. 20-30 seconds later, either she puts my dick back in, or I do so myself, and the urge passed and I can go a little while longer. You say i have pied in one sentence then in the next you say I dont? I meant to make a distinction because you said when you stop fucking a girl you lose your boner eventually. That sounds like PIED. What I meant whe…
/r/askTRP21/09/18 03:39 PM
1

It's not for most people in the sense that it's a lot of food and a bit expensive, since you're paying for the burrito as well as the large quesadilla. But dear lord it tastes so so good. I like queso but that glorious molten cheese around your burrito more than makes up for it.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 03:29 PM
1

I respect your skill at pulling women off Tinder but you are completely misguided when it comes to generic mexican food chain restaurants. Chipotle is the shit, their quesarito is god's gift to men, and thinking about that place makes me miss living in the US.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 03:02 PM
3

Damn. I should have called my girlfriend fat too.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 02:42 PM
1

Yeah 45 matches and 0 dates so far after a few weeks. Shit's rough. But I still have a handful of phone numbers so hopefully one or two will pan out.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 02:40 PM
1

but most guys have never done a proper bulk and girls seem really into it. How do you do a "proper" bulk?
/r/askTRP21/09/18 02:20 PM
1

Luckyyy. Getting a girl to agree to go on a date with me from Tinder is definitely the issue. I get a healthy number of matches but turning them into dates is rocket science.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 02:16 PM
1

What shoulders exercises you recommend?
/r/askTRP21/09/18 02:13 PM
1

Nope. You have porn-induced erectile dysfunction. Also, what do you mean by "eventually"? For me my penis just stays out for a couple dozen seconds... not for minutes and minutes on end. Good news is, if you don't have true PIED, then you're fine, just fuck a girl like normal. Unless you have PIED and premature ejaculation at the same time, in which case that's just... rough. Premature ejaculation is better (less bad) than erectile dysfunction.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 12:10 PM
1

Move back to Russia. I'll go with you. We'll feast on those easy HB9s.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 12:07 PM
1

I was on the same boat as you. I'm pretty sure I tried literally 5 times to quit porn. Relapsed 4 times and went back to doing it. What sealed the deal for me is the girl that I loved broke up with me, and porn was somewhat to blame. I was so disgusted with the way porn decided the course of my life, that I quit and never masturbated to it again since 4/12/2017. TRP calls it oneitis, that's fine, But that oneitis had a positive effect on me after all. I don't know what to tell you. I'm sorry but…
/r/askTRP21/09/18 12:05 PM
1

No. I don't personally masturbate because I used to be a porn addict. But masturbating to your imagination is far better than masturbating to porn. So if you can't wait a month, do that, I think it should be fine. Just make sure you don't have ED.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 12:02 PM
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The plan is just to try and dump my dna on her chest You realize if she wants to she can just transfer your cum to her pussy using her finger? to be careful with this one. Use a condom, cum in it, and render the semen unusable.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 09:07 PM
1

Ahh I gotcha. I've been having premature *wanting to cum* the last few times. But then I would just stop fucking her and do other stuff that didn't involve my penis, until she felt like putting him back in. Thankfully that's been working for me. Last time though when my girl gave a quick blowjob with no intention of fucking, so that there was no reason for me to delay cumming, I'm pretty sure I came in less than 2 minutes.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 05:31 PM
15

That's not true. It's a sub about male sexual strategy, which includes fucking random chicks, but also includes what you call "romance".
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 03:26 PM
8

Incels I guess
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 03:00 PM
1

Outside of the first world, everyone knows this stuff, right? Lol definitely not
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:32 PM
2

IDGAF/OI OI?
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:29 PM
1

As a result I had a bunch of matches and three dates lined up before I even landed. I got laid that weekend. Just curious, how did you do this? Did you set up 3 dates for 3 different times? Did you set up more than one date for the same time, just in case one of them flaked? Did you have to do a second date or you managed a one night stand that weekend? Or one time there was a film festival going on so I pretended I was an actor in a movie. That's a great idea. They didn't do much checking, goog…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:25 PM
1

It's a paid feature off Tinder Plus. I agree though, it's a great feature to pay for.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:23 PM
1

Most people are clueless betas. This is TRP. We're not most people, nor should we strive to do what most people do.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:07 PM
6

we don't know? Correct. You find out by escalating.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:04 PM
11

The way I understand it, soft next means you cut communication unless she reaches out.... hard next means you cut communication and ignore her if she reaches out.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:03 PM
1

Brother, I suffered from ED as well as PE Aren't they polar opposites? Haha. I've suffered from PIED as well (PI means porn induced). It's been a long long time since I've masturbated to porn so I'm hoping it's gone, but I guess I won't find out until I have sex with a new girl.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:00 PM
1

Yessir
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:59 PM
1

If I intrepret your response correctly, you believe my sister in law is indeed after the money(a golddigger) but I should not ban her for the sake of my brothers relationship with the family? You: *bans her from the estate* SIL: *tries to visit the estate and gets kicked out* SIL: *tells your brother about it* Bro: "hey why is my beloved immaculate wife banned from the estate?" You: "..." This is how I envision that situation unfolding. What do you envision happening? My banning her a practical …
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:53 PM
2

Also, even if the estate is signed over to your mom, what will happen when she dies? It sounds like that just delays the inevitable.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 08:19 PM
2

I suggest you post your situation to /r/LegalAdvice. Bear in mind you will need to divulge your country and state. If you do not wish to do so for fear of doxxing, that's fine, but know that you'll be at the mercy of your lawyers' competence and vision... or lack thereof. Either way, please answer (not to me, but to yourself) what "banning your sister-in-law from the building" actually accomplishes. What practical purpose does it serve? Because if it doesn't have a practical purpose and just ser…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 08:17 PM
4

TL;DR: stop chasing unicorns and go have fun
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 07:20 PM
2

Lol well then explain to me how they work then. If inheritors sign away rights to inheritance to someone and that someone puts the money in a trust, do they inheritors still have a right to use the money? Maybe I missed something. Unless your brother declares "I abdicate from my share of the inheritance", your sister-in-law will get his share of the inheritance either way. How do you plan on getting your brother to say that? If a property owner refuses to allow a person in a building isnt it tha…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 06:40 PM
1

Would you do me a favor and detail your tinder and text conversation? I've matched with quite a few "in town for a few days" chicks, but I've never gotten anywhere close to meeting up, let alone a one-night stand. Wish I'd learn that skill.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 06:24 PM
1

How do you tell nervous vs uninterested body language?
/r/askTRP18/09/18 06:18 PM
1

Yeah, when I said tourists I meant gringos in general. There seems to be far fewer down here than in other more touristy cities. I speak Portuguese too. I agree it would be much more difficult to date (and just overall live) in Brazil if someone didn't speak any Portuguese.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 12:28 PM
1

Also, don't kiss women in public. I did it in a bar once when I first got here and got so many death states. I learnt quickly it's just not done. People don't even do it in the seediest and darkest bars. Meanwhile here in Brazil you'll be the weird one if you don't kiss women in public. Funny how things work. As a rule I don't parlay with those women because I've known too many men get burned. How do they get burned? When you say hypergamous and gold diggerish it just makes me think they're fine…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 12:24 PM
1

Porto Alegre is hard mode, very similar to the USA. Well... fuck. Wish I knew this before I went and got myself a job down here lol. I went to we <3 POA a few years ago and I found the women to be incredibly cold/difficult. I wonder why that is. Like how can it be so insanely different one region to another. I would have thought Porto Alegre would be easier, because it has fewer tourists than places like Salvador up in the Northeast, so you're more of a scarce commodity.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 07:31 PM
1

slept with me on the first date Out of curiosity what date number would you find acceptable? And what's the maximum you would be willing to wait?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 06:49 PM
2

It's a sub in the manosphere too. Look at the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 06:36 PM
2

Fuck man, I'm down in Porto Alegre and in the exact same situation as you. Sort of. But unlike you I haven't been able to crack the code. Certainly more successful than I was in the US. But still not doing too well. At first I thought Brazil just wasn't as good as I initially thought... but reading your comment maybe I'm the one who's doing something massively wrong. My approach is the total opposite from local men, who are hyper aggressive and borderline harass women. What do you mean? What's y…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 06:13 PM
5

What were the clegane sized red flags?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 06:06 PM
1

Indonesia is still very Conservative, mostly due to Islam but also just because of their culture. There's a lot of gold diggers and women are very aware of hitting the wall so they're more keen to tie men down but the mess that is the western woman is decades away from appearing here. Does this mean you'll need to go on a lot of dates before you have sex? Or do you usually sleep with them on the 1st/2nd date? I've been wanting to spend a month or two in Asia next year, and Jakarta and the Philip…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 06:04 PM
3

If you venture forth into Central or Eastern Europe Hey just to be clear, what do these things mean, specifically? Eastern Europe is obviously Russia and Ukraine, and then I'm guessing the small Baltic countries and maybe Finland. I'm assuming Central Europe is Poland, Romenia, Czechia, Hungary, and the Balkans. Then Western Europe starts with Germany and Austria, and consists of everything else west of that, along with Scandinavia. Is that the gist of it?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 05:54 PM
2

How old are/were you? Were you usually fucking on the first date, or did you more often have to wait until the 2nd/3rd? I'm assuming you were most successful with day game in the Ukraine than any other kind.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 05:46 PM
3

Right but I don't understand in what way. Are you trying to say TRP claims old men have high SMV, while you're saying they have low SMV?
/r/askTRP17/09/18 03:25 PM
3

Red Pill and Rollos smv chart does not seem to even be half true, real life is complete opposite to the bullshit circulated here. What do you mean? In what way
/r/askTRP17/09/18 02:45 PM
6

Lol that's definitely not RP's most valuable piece of knowledge. TRP is basically a collaboration between men like you (and perhaps like me, haven't decided yet) who will never marry.... and men who say marriage can work, as long as you are RedPill, do you work, vet your woman properly, and understand what you're getting into.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 02:44 PM
1

What was the mistake?
/r/askTRP17/09/18 02:27 PM
1

Was that the OP? What the fuck is he doing
/r/askTRP17/09/18 02:09 PM
1

Oh my sweet summer child. http://www.rooshv.com/15-reasons-why-toronto-is-the-worst-city-in-north-america-for-men
/r/askTRP17/09/18 01:21 PM
5

How attractive the girl is. To me: 4 and below - not attractive. I'd have to be very drunk or desperate. 5 - not too attractive, but no reason why not if she's easy. I'll plate one if I don't have more attractive candidates. 6 - slightly attractive. I'll gladly fuck her, but wouldn't spend too much effort 7 - definitely attractive. No doubt about it. I'd be happy to fuck her and plate her. I'll put in a fair amount of effort. 8 - here we're getting on the realm of very attractive. These girls ge…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 01:46 PM
17

Being raised with a single mom, even if I'm not the alphaest Chad out there, this thread makes me proud that I can even land a few women at all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/18 07:39 PM
39

HB5 quite fat Pick one. You have a lot of work to do. Good luck out there.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 06:38 PM
1

I've used Coffee Meets Bagel, it was kinda shit.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 04:09 PM
1

I can confirm what he said. Bumble was a godawful waste of time for me. 30 matches on tinder, a few of them good matches. Literally 0 matches o bumble, didn't even get to that lovely "matched but she didn't text within 24h" part.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 04:08 PM
2

Where are you in Canada? God forbid you answer Toronto
/r/askTRP14/09/18 03:57 PM
2

Did you even read your own post? Sounds like your problem is Russia was good and Canada sucks, not your language. This is in line with other things I've read.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 03:56 PM
1

A lot of people here saying hard next, but I've been thinking about this recently and I agree with you. It's best to hit her up in a week. It's a numbers game, and while there may be only a small probability she's into it, it's not much effort on your part to send a few texts and attempt. Has this happened much with you? A girl seems visibly uninterested but you try again in a week and lo and behold you fuck her?
/r/askTRP14/09/18 03:45 PM
8

Also make sure to buy her flowers and apologize for being so inconsiderate.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 06:27 PM
1

Thank you. I was about to comment "why is there a maximum? what happens if instead of 500 I eat 1500 calories less than my TDEE?" Guess I can keep doing what I'm doing.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 03:26 PM
3

One HB5 I know even took $2000 to fuck a guy. Jesus christ. You can fuck 8s for cheaper than that. Though I suppose it might be a fetish thing to convince a normal non-hooker girl to accept money for sex.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:27 PM
1

What do you consider third base? Seems like everyone has a different definition.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:21 PM
1

Never on the 3rd date?
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:20 PM
1

That's a hard next not a soft next.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:18 PM
1

How do you look at the deleted replies?
/r/askTRP13/09/18 01:46 PM
8

I'm not sure ordinary men get more attention than ugly women nowadays. Though it depends on your definitions of "ugly" and "attention".
/r/askTRP13/09/18 01:42 PM
3

Same, except I'm not sure if it's because he doesn't appreciate his SMV. I think it's more because guys are invisible to women unless his SMV is in the top 20%, and that guy you saw isn't actively trying to get to that top 20% like we are.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 01:34 PM
1

(more common than you think) Is it really more common than I think? Tell me about it.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 01:32 PM
1

What's that for? Treating steroids side effects?
/r/askTRP13/09/18 01:25 PM
1

Yes they are....until they hit 28-30. Jesus!! Isn't that true everywhere? Except Asia...
/r/askTRP11/09/18 10:11 PM
1

I'm not german, I'm brazilian-american. I just guessed Germany because I know the drinking age is 16 over there too. I like Heidevolk, do you know that band? It's one of my favorites.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 10:11 PM
1

PM me those crazy stories also
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 07:42 PM
2

Even the dorkiest exchange students at my high school were tripping over slick panties. I must have been the peak of betaness in high school because I was a 15yo in Iowa of all places, fresh off the boat from Brazil, and still couldn't pick up a girl to save my life. Thank god sex gets easier for men as we get older haha.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 07:25 PM
3

Dutch women are some of the most beautiful in the world. And they're tall too, I love that. Been to Amsterdam twice, hopefully one day I'll get to go to other places in the Netherlands. In the meantime I'll keep listening to dutch music on my phone haha. Keep up the good work.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 07:21 PM
1

Where in Latin American are you? I'm down here also and I'm struggling to become that mythical 8. And I have all three characteristics you listed too.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 07:19 PM
1

(and not American-Asian god forbid) What do you mean god forbid? What's wrong with them?
/r/askTRP11/09/18 06:43 PM
3

Germany? Wish I had gone to an 80% women school, maybe then beta me would have been thrown a bone in college.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 06:39 PM
1

monday through friday 8am to 4pm, i.e. your typical office job.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 06:06 PM
3

(HB2 or 3 sth like https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTzYQYVkRLXqQ2Yj4uZwo9Djbgfn1-4EaFqS9cgQI-n6c8fmkQR), over the wall 30sth woman but damn! that Body was wow! I don't get your ratings. You say she's a 2 or 3 and right after you imply she's hot. Hot is like a 7. A 2 would be like someone obese or with some other physical deformity.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:44 PM
1

Does anyone know if i post my old pics from my banned tinder account that they will find me and re-ban me? Many thanks!** Nah I don't see how they would. As far as I know the most common way of getting banned on tinder is being reported 3 times.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 06:35 PM
1

Do you seriously wanna beat yourself up the rest of your life? Do you really want go on reddit when you're 30 years old, read a "if you could go back to any point in your life, what would you change?" -- and answer "I would have kissed Joanne when I had the chance." Is that what you want? You want to feel this miserable for the foreseeable future all for the sake of your friendship? Get the fuck outta here. Learn to make friends with men so this shit doesn't happen again. In the meantime, decide…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 06:00 PM
1

She's probably not that into you. Soft next and game other women. Keep lifting, better luck next time.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:59 PM
16

Cool, you have three options. 1) demote her to plate status and game other women. 2) break up with her and game other women. 3) be the cuck in an LDR, go online, and read about better men than you gaming women.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 07:50 PM
11

Being 24 myself I wonder sometime's whether I've missed the boat. There's a lot of young RP'ers on here who seem to be way further ahead in their journey than I am Same, except I just turned 27. As always, it would have been better to have swallowed the pill at 18, but doing it now is still much better than doing it at 36.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 07:01 PM
2

A more general problem is that you often may need to go to a 3rd world to find one, since girls in western culture are having more and more sex at an earlier age than ever before.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 06:26 PM
3

I was in an LTR with a girl who was a virgin before she met me. HB7 and great in bed once she figured out how things worked. We had a lot of common interests too. That said, she had depression and wasn't doing anything with her life at the time (no school or work).
/r/askTRP06/09/18 06:25 PM
2

Sure. We call them unicorns. They usually come with their own host of problems.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:26 PM
3

There must be two kinds of men. I have a friend like that, he's an entrepreneur, actually quit his decent job while our country was in the middle of a recession to start his business. That takes massive balls. He has a business and still doesn't stop thinking about new business ideas. Also think Elon Musk, even after becoming massively rich the dude doesn't stop creating shit. Not me though. Literally the only interest I have in creating stuff would be for the money it would make. As soon as I m…
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:10 PM
5

Why do you need his permission. It's just two words. It's not like he came up with a quote that will be quoted by entrepreneurial books for years to come.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 01:43 PM
1

You have no interest in turning that into passive income and then stop working for good? Just do whatever you want for the rest of your life? That would be my dream. Get to $1 million and then just live off of the investments and travel the world and never work again. But maybe that sort of attitude is why I'm not an entrepreneur.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 01:42 PM
4

I wish. It hasn't been easy for me to join in on this whole culture of pumping and dumping.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 08:10 PM
3

Herpes isn't really a big a deal (and it's way more common than people realize), and AIDS is very rare from heterossexual PIV sex. Not trying to promote unprotected sex, but those just seem like bad examples.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 06:50 PM
104

But my girlfriend told me she doesn't like muscle and I'm fine just the way I am??? /s
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 06:42 PM
3

The biggest problem is the stigma associated with it. Yup. I tried to explain to my friends that herpes isn't really a big deal and their response was basically "so, wait, you have herpes?"
/r/askTRP04/09/18 06:09 PM
1

Any good general ones you recommend?
/r/askTRP04/09/18 02:03 PM
1

No. Don't do it. There's no reason to. If you could do it, fine, but obviously you can't do it, since you feel like shit. Just quit porn altogether and improve yourself. I did it. It took me quite a few tries, but I finally succeeded, and I haven't masturbated to porn in 16 months.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:53 PM
3

Right? OP is moving away anyway.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 12:38 PM
1

What does groom yourself mean? I thought that was the same thing as dressing well.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 12:27 PM
1

The fact that you need to put significant effort in the first place implies it's not easy. Noobie gains aren't enough to have a Chad body. You need to invest a significant amount of your time. There's nothing "quick" about it. I'm not trying to say the investment isn't worth it, nor am I trying to say people shouldn't do it. I'm just saying there's no reason to sugarcoat it. It's a big investment.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 09:35 PM
1

Yeah, like I said on my original comment I agree with you that fake muscle implants are dumb. It's just that it's misleading to call becoming muscular easy. If it was easy everyone would do it.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 04:48 PM
8

English is not his first language, settle down.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 04:32 PM
1

I was losing weight at the time, so maybe that was the problem. Or I should have gotten my testosterone levels checked out. Either way, the mere fact that you're required to check all these boxes proves my point. It's not easy.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 04:28 PM
1

I honestly have no idea why any man would elect to have fake muscle implants when building muscle is so easy. It's not easy, at least not for everyone -- it's a massive time investment. I can definitely attest to that. I spent one year going to the gym 3x a week religiously, using structured lifting programs, and after a year came out looking DYEL as fuck. That being said, I agree with you that fake muscle implants are dumb.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 04:16 PM
1

Even if he's not a doctor, couldn't he just look that up?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 03:43 PM
1

Do you agree with not being honest about the reason why it didn't work out? I don't know what I would say instead though.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 12:06 PM
1

Just can’t be autistic What do you mean by that, specifically?
/r/askTRP01/09/18 05:32 PM
4

Tell her you were super busy at work or had family matters or something? For 9 months? Lol. BTW how did you bait her? I had a dream about you last night.
/r/askTRP01/09/18 03:14 PM
6

Too bad you got downvoted when you didn't really say anything bad.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 06:00 PM
16

It's quite simple, really, but I realize that you're in Alabama (although no doubt one of the brighter lights). You're right, but I think he was asking about the evolutionary reason for preselection, and not general confidence/assholishness. I bet it's because back in the old days, it paid cavewomen to think "I bet that other cavewoman knows something I don't, I should try to get with cavechad also." Then it turns out cavechad is the tribe chief's son and she just hadn't realized it.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 05:59 PM
13

If you still want to keep her as a plate/fwb, then doing what the others suggest will make you more attractive in her eyes, since you keep frame, etc. However, if you don't give a shit about keeping her as a plate/fwb, and you were kinda looking forward to this trip, then might as well enjoy the free trip. No reason not to.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 05:40 PM
1

What's "stopping her" is that people forget these things man. It's normal. Specially dumb girls. It's perfectly easy to just uninstall the app. An easy way to check this is to fake a model's tinder and try to match with her.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 05:36 PM
1

Did you find the 3rd girl? That seems very difficult to do on tinder.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 05:32 PM
1

What's your story?
/r/askTRP31/08/18 05:31 PM
2

Of course it's an excuse. It doesn't tell you what you said at all. That said, since as the other guy said inactive profiles aren't shown... in that case then yeah she's up to no good.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 05:25 PM
6

Because it's a load of nonsense
/r/askTRP31/08/18 05:22 PM
1

What the hell country is that?? Haha. Great expression.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 05:20 PM
1

Yes and no. They're just very closely related. Kino means touching her, be it her shoulders, arms, back, neck... Escalating means turning a <?> encounter into a <sexual> encounter. The traditional and perhaps easiest way of doing that is kino. But it's not the only way. You could also escalate by going from asking "what's your favorite color?" to asking "what's your favorite sexual position?" You could also talk about escalating within the kino ladder. This would mean something like going from t…
/r/askTRP30/08/18 06:06 PM
2

https://www.removeddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9bgi0w/what_to_do_when_you_reject_a_girl_and_she_talks/ /u/expatriate77 /u/mikeyp_88 /u/TheBunk_TB
/r/askTRP30/08/18 05:39 PM
9

I don't know about your country, but here in Germany we even have them walking down the streets. Really?? That's so cool! Down here in Brazil we live in the jungle and they just swing branches from one tree to another.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 05:35 PM
1

Broke frame and it only made you look more guilty. I'm curious, how do you actually hold frame in that situation? Ignore her tantrum? Say "believe whatever you wanna believe?" A&A?
/r/askTRP30/08/18 05:27 PM
1

You shave your whole neck, interesting. I have a beard up to right around the top of my adam's apple, and then shave all the hair below that line. I do trim my whole beard, but maybe I should shave my whole neck too. Don't know, worth a thought. Thanks for the tips. Maybe I'll dress up for a date one of these days and pm you a pic for a critique.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 03:54 PM
4

That's always the hard part, right? It's great to learn these gems like "women want to have fun", but they don't really help that much, since they don't teach you what you're actually supposed to do instead.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 02:40 PM
6

Oh man. That's rough. I'm sorry to hear that. Thanks for sharing. I had two people close to me attempt suicide - my cousin (for a very similar reason as your student) and my ex, my longest LTR that went for 4 years. Thankfully neither of them went through with it. I'm sorry to hear you blame yourself. I hope you can find peace somehow. Glad to know the school was understanding at least, or that would have just been salt in the wounds.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 02:28 PM
1

Just travel, man. Do you get a lot of vacation time in your job? Travel to Southeast Asia. Or Latin America. Don't let the stigma of sex tourism bother you. I did it. I traveled and then moved abroad because of women. And you know what? It fixed my life. I'm not telling you to move abroad. Just travel. Get Tinder Plus and start swiping in your location a week or two in advance. Watch your SMV skyrocket. PM me if you'd like more detailed advice.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 01:28 PM
1

What do you do at the barber? Just get a haircut every 2-3 weeks? Or does he trim your beard too? A haircut every 2-3 weeks seems too frequent but maybe that's a good idea. I don't mind spending money on clothes, the problem is I have no idea what I'm supposed to buy. I've tried reading a lot of the MaleFashionAdvice sub in the past, but I don't know, fashion just doesn't click for me. I don't really know what I'm doing.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 01:23 PM
1

My barber did it for me, he used a comb and scissors. I have no idea how OP does it by himself, I don't think I would.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 01:22 PM
1

Indonesia and Vietnam sound interesting too. Man $20/hr is actually a great wage, specially with a tiny cost of living. Why do you find Thailand to be the holy grail? What do you mean by the Philippines being too rough?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 01:19 PM
1

I like your pet name, Trouble. Sadly I game girls in Brazil, and that word doesn't translate well haha. Different connotation.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 12:26 PM
1

Sure, it's the best starting hand, I just meant 1/160 isn't outrageously rare. It should happen once every two nights, on average.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 12:25 PM
1

I'm actually seriously flirting with that idea. Although I wouldn't go to Thailand. Maybe the Philippines? What do you do, teach England?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 08:51 PM
1

This is an easy problem to solve. Just game girls in situations where your friends are not present. Introduce her to your friends, or show her pictures of you with your friends, to get that SMV boost. But do so after she got to know you, and don't let her linger with your friends for too long.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 08:46 PM
1

How did you learn massage as a hobby? I've always being told by my girls that my massages feel good, but they're just simple neck/back rubs. Nowhere near something that would require a massage table.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 08:26 PM
2

Here's a "useful summary." https://www.forums.red/p/TheRedPill/270/game_cheat_sheet
/r/askTRP29/08/18 06:53 PM
1

I'm not a photographer but I've always thought I was pretty decent at taking photos. I had a cool $300 camera for a long time, but I lost it while moving. Kicking myself right now. Not sure it's worth buying a new one, I live in Brazil so it might not be wise to walk around the street showing off an expensive camera.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 06:52 PM
2

This isn't even MurderedByWords. This is something else. This is art.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 06:47 PM
18

You don't have to make a full post, just write the funniest and then the saddest in here as a comment.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 06:36 PM
29

Or instead of jumping through all these hoops you could just lose weight.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 06:32 PM
6

What do you mean reiteration of core TRP principles? The sidebar has your reiterations. Focus on the articles about kino escalation, shit testing, and push-pull.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 06:26 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8ykwpg/how_to_really_succeed_at_tinder_20_add_onsupdate/
/r/askTRP29/08/18 06:26 PM
1

Me personally, I do photo dates. You don’t have to be a photographer ( although I am) to have this go well They love it, it’s almost free if you got a camera, and you got super easy plausible deniability ( You want to go back to my place to sort through these photos). Wait, what? Shit, tell me more. You just say "hey, meet me at X to take some cool photos?" Shit, I need to invest in a good amateur's camera. This may or may not be a great idea.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 06:18 PM
1

I think tonality is critical to this. What do you mean by that? What tone do you use and what tone should one NOT use?
/r/askTRP29/08/18 06:16 PM
1

God how I wish I could have discovered this place or otherwise learned these things when I was 17 instead of 27.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 06:11 PM
4

It's somewhat of a catch-22 right? If someone is your friend, it is absolutely safe to share that info. If you share that info and someone isn't accepting of it, they are not your friend at all, and you should delete them from your life.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 09:20 PM
2

Is it inevitable to get oneitis? No. Do you think its built into us? Into women? Sure. Into men? Not so much. And if it is then is the only way to deal with it to avoid LTRs and all that altogether? I think the standard treatment for oneitis that people spout around these parts is fucking other women. There may be reasons to avoid LTRs, but oneitis is not one of them.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 09:17 PM
-4

Be comfortable with silence. Try to make conversation every now and then but if she's not into it, that's perfectly okay. Ask her out on a real date. Where you do an activity together. This seems like a good time for a movie date. Kino escalate. Look up the escalation ladder. You don't need to talk to kino escalate. How does she react when you hold her hand? How does she react when you go in for the kiss?
/r/askTRP28/08/18 02:21 PM
1

You're right, this TRP chick sounds like a bitch. You should next her.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 01:43 PM
1

It always depends on the state.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 01:42 PM
1

Agree with the other comment. Be direct, be specific, ask her on a date. If her answer is either "no" or "I don't know", hard next her. Quit giving her attention. Drop all contact. If she asks what's wrong, say "I have enough friends, I was hoping we could be something more, but if that's not what you're looking for then that's okay." Then, again, drop all contact unless she changes her mind about going on a date with you.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 01:20 PM
2

Start here. Continue here.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 09:02 PM
1

She may be into you, since you said she's always initiating the conversation. Isolate her. Either go out as a group then find some excuse to be alone with her... or specifically text her that you want to hang out just the two of you to get to know each other better. Even say it's a date if you want to. Then proceed to do the regular kino escalation. Once you explicitly invite her on a date and she says no, next her.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 09:00 PM
1

You already kissed. Escalate into tongue/making out. Then escalate into grabbing her butt/breasts. If at any point she resists, deescalate 10%, build more attraction/comfort, then try again. At some point the sex conversation may come up. Be prepared for it, and know what you want beforehand. Is she no sex before marriage? Does she want sex only after 2 months? Does she want sex tonight? Find out how you would react to each of those scenarios, and be prepared for that conversation.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 08:04 PM
3

Standard TRP game can't really help you with that. Traditional TRP is meant for Slut Stacy who fucks Chad on the first date. It's meant to turn you into Chad. Shy conservative asian virgins are a different ball game. It would help if you could give examples of what you mean by her being "stoic". Honestly I'm just guessing here, but I think you should go 50% alpha 50% beta. Use innocent kino (the first few steps of the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder), and hold her hand towards the end of the night. Pa…
/r/askTRP27/08/18 07:42 PM
5

Okay, as long as you understand it's a steep hill to climb, it's all good. You know how this sub advocates guys act 80% alpha 20% beta in relationships? I suspect in your case it's more like 50-50. You don't want to scare her away, or make her think your personalities are too different. You do need to escalate, but slowly. Forget about shit tests, get ready to answer some comfort tests. Read up on them.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 07:30 PM
3

Notice how OP said "local"
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 07:00 PM
29

only the next guy's stats. ...and how they compare to yours.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 07:00 PM
1

and that she loves pretty guys As opposed to all those other women who are really into ugly men.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 06:57 PM
9

This is one for the long haul. It will take a lot of effort, are you willing to devote that much time? If you're into having fun NSA sex with plates, stay away from this girl. If you're into having a committed LTR who is unlikely to cheat on you, this is your best bet. I'm not sure the sex would be any fun though.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 06:55 PM
1

You're absolutely right. I don't understand all these comments. It's like posters here read "abundance mentality is good" and then dial it up to 11. Yes, if what OP wrote is true, the most likely answer is that that girl currently likes him. There's not really any way to argue that she doesn't.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 02:16 PM
1

27 checking in. Wish I was here 5 years ago. Sadly I actually knew about TRP back then, just chose not to partake in it. Silly me.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 03:55 PM
1

They were weekly threads? I can only find the one called "Shit Test Buster Round 1"
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:39 PM
24

That would be hilarious. *girl shit-tests* "Hold on let me check my phone real quick." *alpha response*
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:05 PM
1

Maybe you landed your dream job in Iowa, in which case your only two options are living in a small town or moving 20 miles to a slightly less small town.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 12:10 PM
1

Shitting where you eat = going after coworkers. It doesn't mean "going after girls in your own city." There's no reason why you wouldn't do that. Why bother driving 20 miles for a girl when you could try the one 2 miles away?
/r/askTRP22/08/18 08:49 PM
1

Doesn't matter. You're overthinking it. Like he said, don't waste your time on a girl who isn't interested, move on to other girls. Pick one of the two and forget about her.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 06:12 PM
1

I'm just saying that no one on TRP would ever tell you: “just tell her you Want to be friends and then get to her slowly”. You never tell a girl the f-word. You never hint that's what you wanna do. Lest you end up in the f-word zone.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 06:09 PM
1

Just more intense. More personal, and/or more outrageous. Do you have any examples off the top of your head?
/r/askTRP22/08/18 06:05 PM
1

Inb4 “just tell her you Want to be friends and then get to her slowly”. What? Do you even know what sub you're in?
/r/askTRP22/08/18 06:04 PM
1

just slide your hand across hers and see how she responds. Do you say anything? Stare at her in silence? Pretend you didn't do anything and continue/restart the conversation?
/r/askTRP22/08/18 02:12 PM
1

Meanwhile I'm Brazilian but people expect me to be American or German or something.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 02:04 PM
1

If that's true, you're underestimating your attractiveness.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 02:00 PM
2

Granted I have a "script" that I'll use on girls that guarantees success with the ones who aren't just seeking validation. And what would that be? For me I usually say their first name as an opener, or comment something on her profile. After that the conversation can go anywhere... sometimes to a good place, sometimes to a bad one.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 01:54 PM
2

What kinda discrepancy are we talking about, percentage-wise?
/r/askTRP22/08/18 01:52 PM
1

Drop huge shit tests right off the bat (legitimately; for their safety, and to make sure they don't waste time with a dud, etc), and next guys with ease. What huge shit tests are those?
/r/askTRP22/08/18 01:42 PM
7

Chill out. Read the sidebar. Decide if you're willing to put in the massive effort it takes to become a high-quality man... or if you're just gonna let those people keep thinking shit about you. Then come back to us once you've made that decision. It's your life. Choose how you wanna live it.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 01:18 PM
2

1) Make a tinder profile. Take good pictures that suggest you're 6'8. Write that you're 6'8 in your bio, or better yet, if you're funny, make a joke about it somehow. Send your profile to me for review, or if you prefer post it on the relevant /r/tinder thread. 2) If you're not funny, try reading the book called Comedy Writing Secrets. I haven't read it, but I've seen it recommended. Report back and let me know if you found it helpful or not. 3) Read the sidebars if you haven't already. Both the…
/r/askTRP21/08/18 01:14 PM
2

Well. There are. But they come with their own host of problems.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 12:49 PM
2

If she doesn't reach out to you, then yes, you're the one who "needs" to reach out. Otherwise you're just throwing away prospective plates.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 12:41 PM
2

How does travel experience add to your SMV? I don't see how it would realistically do that. Should I just start forcing my travel stories into conversation? Go like "where is a place you would love to go?" -- "France" -- "Oh yeah I've been to Paris twice, there was one time when blah blah blah"
/r/askTRP21/08/18 12:38 PM
1

There's nothing enjoyable about the journey. If there was, every man would be an alpha with chiseled abs and great social skills. The journey is a long boring grind and the only men that undertake it are the ones who are willing to put in the effort and sacrifice in order to later reap the rewards of a better life. The men who are willing to put in the work rather than sitting on the couch passively waiting for life to go by.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 05:11 PM
2

Lol it's not outrageously rare. It's like a 1/160. Outrageously rare would be straight flushes.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 03:50 PM
1

As someone who lives in Brazil, the idea of someone calling a place in Brussels dangerous is hilarious.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:29 PM
1

To be fair to him, the time cost to improving your SMV is immense in and of itself.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:22 PM
4

I feel like the people commenting these things have hot accents or were traveling. I can tell you that, as a local who knows other locals, the dating life in a large suburb of a very large city was miserable. Absolutely miserable. Meanwhile, if you're a stereotypical 6'1" blond white American, there are many countries on Earth that if you travel to you'll be a god among men. It's just silly.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:17 PM
1

Lol nope
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:12 PM
6

At the very least it wouldn't give you erectile dysfunction like porn does.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:11 PM
6

I don't buy your comment. The fact that you stepped out of your comfort in a way 90% of men don't, and cold approached an attractive girl, already signals you're not a lonely creep.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 03:07 PM
1

Same for learning a language. Many people take classes 1x or 2x a week, when ideally it's recommended you study 30-60 minutes every day.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 03:05 PM
1

He could be a 7 after lifting, dressing well, etc.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 03:04 PM
7

I get getting jacked but how do you "make your jaw strong"?
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 03:04 PM
1

Your post is all over the place. I want to get more plates but do not want be used to listen to their problems You "listen to their problems" when you build too much comfort but no attraction. If that's your problem, build attraction, forget about comfort, and escalate.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:58 PM
1

What does TRAD mean? Traditional?
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 02:35 PM
2

It could be, I'm just saying different people have different definitions. There is no standard. One guy told me home run is marriage lmao.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:21 PM
2

You do realize people can't agree on what "third base" means either, lol
/r/askTRP17/08/18 03:51 PM
4

Might as well try to find a genie in a lamp.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 03:49 PM
1

What's the pickup artist post on trp? I missed it.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 03:41 PM
2

Very situation dependent. Often times for some people it's clearly a good reason though.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 03:38 PM
1

Impossible to know without a lot context. They could been fucking with you. They could just been playing hard to get. They could even have been genuinely attracted to you, but then you fucked up the kiss close somehow. Here's a TRP guide on kissing Here are the original popular PUA methods And here is a forum thread where guys discuss kiss closes
/r/askTRP17/08/18 12:05 PM
7

Here's the original kino escalation ladder. Here's a TRP guide to escalation which I don't know if it's in the sidebar. Learn to read IOIs and IODs. Whenever you escalate (e.g. touch her somewhere), try to read if she's into it. If not, calibrate. That is, deescalate 10%, build more attraction/comfort, then keep going. How did they reject you? Threaten to leave. Remember, punish bad behavior, reward good behavior. How you reward her is through attention. Threaten to leave. If you built attractio…
/r/askTRP16/08/18 11:15 PM
3

It comes from this poem? There's no man who can't lead [1540] his wife astray with this kind of behaviour; she can be ill-treated so often that she resolves to satisfy her own needs. God knows, she can't help it if she makes him a cuckold. [1545] For it happens time and time again that the wife is very refined and gentle, good-looking and well-dressed; so it's all the more unfair that he gives his love to a woman [1550] who isn't worth one of her hairs. And there are plenty of men like this, who…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 08:56 PM
7

That's not what cuck means bro. It just means the person has a fetish for watching their partner having sex with someone else.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 08:07 PM
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I think it's interesting that no one here mentioned what I'm pretty sure is your #1 downfall. Being funny is great, it's a great attraction builder and a great comfort builder. I agree with /u/master_beta89, don't only be funny, mix it in with natural conversation. Though don't ask too many questions, you don't want it to be an interrogation. And do keep working on yourself and keep lifting like /u/Big_Daddy_PDX mentioned. Though I don't think you should listen to him about the leagues stuff. Ye…
/r/askTRP16/08/18 07:33 PM
1

I wonder why that is
/r/askTRP16/08/18 07:18 PM
2

What's your height? Assuming you're fat, it's more important to lose weight first. You lose weight in the kitchen not in the gym. I'm not saying you shouldn't lift, but please do not burn out and get frustrated from your lack of muscle gain. It will be hard for you to actually gain muscles until you go down to a skinny figure and are able to then bulk back up.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 07:17 PM
6

I think this sub needs to enter the guiness world records for "highest concentration of metaphors about fucking exes."
/r/askTRP16/08/18 07:14 PM
2

Yes. You're not trying to become a world-class bodybuilder. You're trying to get a hotter body than 90% of men out there. Small wrists won't stop you from accomplishing that. The important part is at the bottom. You don't have a huge amount of muscle on your wrists and hands, so it is difficult to build them up, but with the right training you can still improve their size. Exercises such as wrist curls and extensions, along with grip work can increase the size of your wrist and hand muscles. Cha…
/r/askTRP16/08/18 07:13 PM
2

Good stuff man, keep it up
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:44 PM
2

That's cool man, let's talk again when you're 30.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:43 PM
3

I noticed you're still a young adult. I can promise you, 10 years from now your tune will change. 20 years from now, you'll be wondering what you were thinking.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 02:18 PM
2

I'm not at all exaggerating when I say this is the easiest shit in the world to fix. Make yourself a budget. Track every single one of your expenditures for one month. 30 days from now look at your budget (ideally in an Excel spreadsheet) and decide what significant expenditures are the least useful. Then stop spending your money on that stuff. If you want you can show me your budget and I'll give you my opinion. Or just go on /r/personalfinance and ask. But I promise you man, spending a lot of …
/r/askTRP16/08/18 02:12 PM
3

Are you kidding? This stuff is at the very heart of TRP.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 01:53 PM
3

As a girl who randomly found this sub... you're a dick dude. Whelp, you're in for a wild ride.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 01:52 PM
3

and that from day 1 Ive been honest with her and never strung her along. What do you mean you have been honest with her and never strung her along? Like, what are some examples of what you said or how you've otherwise accomplished that?
/r/askTRP16/08/18 01:23 PM
1

Well, do you know of a guide or something to help you build attraction over the first few texts? I've perused this sub and never found something like that, even mallardcove's guide focuses more on getting matches and stuff than the texting part. In my experience sometimes the initial convo flows well and you can make them laugh and all that. But other times (specially for the hotter girls), it's like you're talking to a doormat.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 12:51 PM
1

Well if this isn't working for you, try building either more attraction or more comfort because asking them out. Preferably attraction, but that one is harder.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 12:43 PM
1

Well, do you know of a guide or something to help you build attraction over the first few texts? I've perused this sub and never found something like that, even mallardcove's guide focuses more on getting matches and stuff than the texting part. In my experience sometimes the initial convo flows well and you can make them laugh and all that. But other times (specially for the hotter girls), it's like you're talking to a doormat.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 12:42 PM
1

Same boat. Where do you live? Decent chance of being culture dependent.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 09:39 PM
3

BJ with a condom on sounds miserable, and there are some STDs that still have a significant chance of passing to you even with a condom.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 09:36 PM
3

See also: theory of gravity, theory of evolution
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 07:49 PM
2

I second that. /u/bathroom_touch you don't have to write a full blown field report, just tell us here in the comments.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 03:59 PM
5

Any advice for how to avoid that? Like a maximum limit on the number of sets / how often you should do it?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 03:37 PM
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There's a Law & Order SVU episodes that opens with a guy and a girl making out and about to have sex. She asks his politics and bitches at him for being R. So he says "you know what they say, if you're under 30 and not liberal you have no heart; if you're over 30 and not a conservative you have no brains." Then she stops making out and says "I'm 33." Then they find a dead body. Pretty hilarious. It's just a TV show but the sad thing is, guys cockblock themselves like that all the time. Dumbasses…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 03:24 PM
1

Contradictions aren't an IOD or a lie. It's just dumb girls being bad communicators. Translation: "I just moved into a hotel/friend's couch in the city, I'm waiting to be ready to move into my actual house"
/r/askTRP15/08/18 02:29 PM
1

Google translate sucks for large bodies of text, specially ones with unique niche language like TRP and game. One of the main TRP tenets is self-improvement. Only we can improve ourselves, no one else is gonna do that for us. I can hand him the harness, it's up to him if he wants to actually climb the hill.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 02:26 PM
1

Existe esses materiais (red pill) em português? Eu tento guiar meu primo pro bom caminho mas é difícil quando ele se recusa a estudar inglês.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:58 PM
2

Great point
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:53 PM
2

Out of curiosity, where are you?
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:30 PM
1

Out of curiosity, what are the four times she expressed disinterest? I count two at most. One being the obvious "busy for the next 2 weeks," the other being rejecting the city tour without suggesting a different activity.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:26 PM
1

What do you think about Agree & Amplify as a response to that? I was thinking like, "he sounds hot, you should give me his number!"
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:16 PM
2

Can't confirm. Used to be addicted to porn. Had interest in (then unattainable) sex even if I fapped 3 times a day.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:11 PM
1

but I'm still unsure whether to do it as she refused sex at the beginning It's fine. You act on the last behavior exhibited. Refused first -> Into it later = good... into it first -> refused later = bad. prevent her from telling me "you never even texted me once" Then you answer "been busy" and let her wonder what that means, while in reality you were just punishing her bad behavior. That being said, if there is no bad behavior, then just text her the picture, it's fine.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 12:52 PM
1

If you're white, blonde, and American, Spain should be okay. Not great but not bad. If you have dark hair or dark skin it shouldn't be good, but of course, that's no reason to quit. Keep trying! If the club thing isn't working, try something else. Tinder (100% do this), day game (how's your Spanish?), bars (not that different from clubs but at least you don't have to be a good dancer).
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:25 AM
1

She texted me out of the blue a few times, but I'm always the one telling her to come over. She rarely refuses though Oh, that's fine then. Initiating IS texting out of the blue. If she does that, it's cool. Don't worry about her not asking to come over, as long as she keeps rarely refusing. Are you against the idea of sending her a pic of me doing something cool? If she has been initiating, then yeah, sending a pic is fine. If it has been a while since she initiated, I would go the radio silenc…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:23 AM
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Very culture and context dependent.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 08:12 PM
1

What do you mean will? What is this will shit? Do it now. Right fucking now. Where are you vacationing? If it's Toronto or some shit it's fine, you don't have to approach girls. But if it's Asia or Latin America some shit, do it now, right fucking now, you're wasting your goddamn time!!!
/r/askTRP14/08/18 07:28 PM
1

I am always the one initiating. Huge red flag. Don't initiate for at least two weeks, maybe even a month. If she doesn't initiate either, this is very likely a lost cause. If you still want to try to salvage the lost cause (hint: you shouldn't), text her after 2-4 weeks. Play it very cool, act very alpha, if possible apply dread. If she does initiate in that time, this is a better sign, but not necessarily a good sign. Read her tone, is she initiating because she's bored (bad) or because she mis…
/r/askTRP14/08/18 07:26 PM
1

I gave you 3 choices, pick one, live with it, and work toward it. How old are you? What are your hobbies?
/r/askTRP14/08/18 06:48 PM
1

I find it very interesting how we can have people like you saying tinder is better than clubs, and then we have other people like /u/martianartisan saying clubs (or rather, night game) are better than tinder. I wonder why that is. I wonder if it has to do with location or something.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 06:46 PM
1

Dude, the game sucks when you're an introvert. I know it because I am one too. But it's always gonna suck, you can either learn the game or stop playing it. That's it. There's no other way around it. There's no magic pill to magically make it easier for introverts.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 06:44 PM
2

Look man, you have 3 options here. 1) Keep using tinder like you have been 2) Drop the bitch excuses and start cold approaching girls 3) Go your own way, monk mode, whatever you wanna call it, and stop caring about girls. Pick your poison, then we can go from there. And remember, if you choose not to decide you still have made a choice.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 06:41 PM
2

You give her a lay first and then you break up with her? That's some cold shit lmao.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 06:37 PM
1

I had no interest or knowledge in computer science. I was good at Econ and Math. So I studied those and got into a career related to them. It's one of the biggest regrets of my life. It's a decent job with a good salary, but I absolutely despise it. I really really really really wish I could have studied Computer Science. The knowledge you get from that is just so flexible and rewarding.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 06:34 PM
1

Ok I can't resist. Explain to me how spending creates a great economy and what IR changes you are talking about. It seems like OP didn't deliver, but can you give your thoughts on the matter anyway? I have a degree in Econ as well, although I haven't worked with or studied it in quite a few years. We don't even have to get into a debate if you don't want to, I'm just curious about your thoughts on the matter.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 06:29 PM
3

Reddit is definitely considered social media "officially," but you're right in that the anonimity makes it immensely different than facebook/instagram/twitter, and we shouldn't treat it as social media for the purposes of this discussion.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 06:24 PM
1

Reddit is not social media. I mean, it is, but not really. And certainly not as pertaining to this discussion.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 06:22 PM
1

I did read the link and most of the accompanying discussion, but it's cool.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:24 PM
1

What do you mean by mental masturbation? What do you mean by teasing her about the lowest common denominator?
/r/askTRP14/08/18 03:26 PM
2

Why avoid it?
/r/askTRP14/08/18 03:20 PM
4

Did you ever get a pm? Who am I kidding, of course you didn't.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 02:29 PM
2

"Popular" doesn't mean "not lame". Of course there are girls who watch anime out there. There are even girls that you can turn into watching anime. Even still, for the majority of women out there, it's lame, I promise you that.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 02:23 PM
1

What does pineapple juice have to do with the pill? That whole dialogue you shared is just nonsensical. It's not necessarily a shit test, could just be true. See what she's gonna do and react accordingly.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 08:20 PM
1

Well, there is something wrong with apologizing. But I agree, in this case the fuckup was big enough that it definitely warrants an apology.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 01:30 PM
2

Even if she's searching for BB, she's still searching for a man. Things like financial struggle, insecurity, crying are always unattractive for any man.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 01:00 PM
6

Nah, I agree with those other comments. If you break up with her without first killing attraction, there's a high risk she'll turn into a crazy stalker. There's a much greater backfiring chance if you break up without killing attraction (like you suggest) than if you try to kill attraction by being a huge beta. I do agree with documenting proof of consent though.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 12:58 PM
2

Bro 95% of women would think you're into weird children cartoons.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 12:53 PM
30

Move to singapore
/r/askTRP13/08/18 12:51 PM
1

Why do you say to never eat below 1600 calories a day? What's the harm if you do?
/r/askTRP13/08/18 12:48 PM
1

why is that
/r/askTRP10/08/18 03:23 PM
1

holy fuck
/r/askTRP10/08/18 03:22 PM
1

Girlfriend finding is a sales funnel. What do you mean by that
/r/askTRP10/08/18 03:09 PM
1

Sorry man, I just mean that 5'8 would be considered short by the vast majority of girls nowadays. It sucks, but it is what it is.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 03:04 PM
1

Yeah, Japan seems like an awesome place to visit because of that. Where were the women easier / more into you? I'm assuming Philippines or Thailand. I imagine Japan was hardest and you had to have better game for them.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 03:01 PM
5

5'8 is definitely short though. But yeah obviously not as bad as men who are even shorter.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 09:02 PM
7

Why even agree to have a bachelor/bachelorette party at that point. Like, wtf.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 08:58 PM
1

I'm debating between Colombia and Asia for my next trip. Never been to either. Where did you go in Asia? Where do you recommend over there?
/r/askTRP09/08/18 08:38 PM
1

I'd need a source on that. Just pullout before cumming if you're that paranoid. Chances of pregnancy go from 0.1% to 0.0001%.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 08:33 PM
1

I'll bet, I too can't wait to get some PTO and travel abroad again.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 08:31 PM
2

Where did you live at the time?
/r/askTRP09/08/18 08:29 PM
2

and my boss is a meaniehead I almost burst out laughing right in the middle of work. Good thing I didn't, or boss would have turned into a meaniehead.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 08:28 PM
1

Short for kinesthetic. /u/OhDeer10
/r/askTRP09/08/18 07:51 PM
2

>tfw you live in brazil and can't buy a purple bed
/r/askTRP09/08/18 07:44 PM
1

You don't need to "improve condom effectivity," you just need to relax. Just make sure you always use your own condoms not hers, buy good brands, and use one everytime. Besides that, just relax, if the 0.1% chance of pregnancy happens, there was nothing you could have done about it.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 07:10 PM
2

Since that guy didn't say anything... I read somewhere "what's your favorite shape and why?" So maybe give that one a shot.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 01:34 PM
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That's an odd way to move the goalpost. Insanely attractive = looks like a model. Insanely attractive = 3% of dudes. It wouldn't make any sense to refer to a random 31 BMI below-average American as "insanely attractive." I agree that not speaking the same language barrier is bad. It doesn't help attraction and it definitely hurts logistics. That being said, it's not too big a deal, and the exotic element (e.g. looking like an American in a place where people look like... not American) more than …
/r/askTRP07/08/18 03:41 PM
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You'd have to be insanely attractive for a girl to leap the language barrier. That's just not going to happen for a normal dude. I don't really agree with that. There are many countries in Asia and Latin America that look up to white/western people. Girls over there will fawn over you compared to white/western girls. Exotic element and all that. Not speaking the local language won't dry them up. Of course, that is not to say they want to start a relationship with you, but you know.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 03:34 PM
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Where are you from? Social skills is very very difficult. It will come with practice. Let the guiding principles of TRP help you. Read up on social skills materials.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 01:46 PM
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Do it. If anything, it would be funny. What's the worst that could happen?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 07:05 PM
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IOIs: She touches you, specially if she goes out of her way to do so When the conversation dies out, she restarts it She texts you out of the blue She plays with her hair She laughs at your dumb jokes -- the dumber the better She licks/bites her lips in a sensual way, or stares at your lips like she wants you to kiss her Obviously, one IOI isn't necessarily enough, the more the merrier. To be honest, IOIs aren't an important part of game. It's better to learn how to get those IOIs in the first p…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 06:52 PM
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Specifically though, where do you live? It may be that you need to keep building attraction+comfort through text. Which is contrary to the advice we tend to read on TRP about texting. But it may be necessary so that she stops being afraid you're a serial killer. Could be a cultural thing even.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 05:08 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8ykwpg/how_to_really_succeed_at_tinder_20_add_onsupdate/
/r/askTRP03/08/18 05:06 PM
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I think you replied to the wrong comment
/r/askTRP03/08/18 04:56 PM
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Why do you say that
/r/askTRP03/08/18 02:23 AM
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Fair enough
/r/askTRP02/08/18 06:20 PM
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The idea isn't to become a PUA, the idea is to get better at the topic of the book -- be it daygame, or texting, or brazilian women, or whatever. But if you believe these paid materials are a bunch of nonsense and TRP and free resources similar to TRP are enough, then that's fair, I accept your opinion.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 06:11 PM
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I've seen this kind of shit like this go for $600. Hell, you know PUA seminars or bootcamps or whatever that last like 3 days? People literally pay U$3000 for those. $10 though, $10 is nothing. And I haven't bought any, just asking if there's any value in them.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 06:08 PM
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Cool beans, I'll save this thread for the future. Thanks for all the help!
/r/GEOTRP02/08/18 05:43 PM
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Yes and somewhat No. Reason for that is on many low caste is they're prostitutes, but you can still find good people in the low caste with a 8/10 attitude, face and body, though much harder. How about other women in other castes? Are they generally open to sex on the first date? Or is the Philippines similar to the West where there is a stigma against sex on the first date? Good places are mostly in the southern areas (Cagayan de Oro, Camiguin, Leyte, Bicol Region) and somewhat safe. And yeah th…
/r/GEOTRP01/08/18 03:25 PM
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It's funny that even MTG pros have groupies. Like when you go to a GP and see Joel Larsson or whatever with one groupie on each side. Used to make me jealous.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/18 03:22 PM
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Low level are those from the poor. They will glorify you for your race and face. Genes for them is everything and they will work for it if it means having offsprings that will be able to be celebrities one day. Does that mean girls from low castes are very willing to have one night stands and go to your hotel room on the first date? For the killing part, you have to show or at least tell them what you have or who you are if it's a LTR, cuz some of the families here (whether rich or poor t, both …
/r/GEOTRP31/07/18 03:42 PM
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But when an ex-slut locks down a 30-year-old man into faux-monogamy that she probably won't even honor, she's robbing him of his best years. You mean the best years for a guy are in his 30s rather than in his 20s? Why do you think that?
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:29 PM
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Great answer, thanks! (HB 6-8 in lower caste society) Can you explain castes? I've heard of castes in Indian society, but I didn't know it was also a thing in Filipino society. How do I know what caste a Filipino woman belongs to? Is it basically lower caste = low/middle class? Upper caste = wealthy family? (or if you can fake it, hide it really well, some of the families here will really do a background check and will kill for it) What do you mean they will kill for it? remember to ask a Filipi…
/r/GEOTRP30/07/18 03:28 PM
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Lame. Oh well, keep on truckin'
/r/askTRP27/07/18 05:12 PM
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How did this go? Any updates?
/r/askTRP26/07/18 08:20 PM
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if you are outgoing Philippines it is for me then lmao
/r/askTRP26/07/18 05:13 PM
1

Phnom Pehn? Why do you say that? I read some people saying it was a shithole. Is it better than the Philippines?
/r/askTRP26/07/18 05:08 PM
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Why do you say that? I'm looking to travel somewhere new.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 05:03 PM
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What do you think about starting a side hustle? I actually have one. I teach English on the side. It pays double what my regular job pays, on a per-hour basis. I'm just not sure how many hours per week I should devote to teaching, because I still need my free time outside of work, you know? Money is not the problem, the problem is getting the vacation time. That's why you did good starting your own business, you can take vacation time whenever you want.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 05:22 PM
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Good job dude! Best of luck to you. I am working that 9-5, saving money, next year when I get vacation time I plan to travel the world, spend a month in Asia. If I like it, maybe I quit my job, get a teaching certification, and move abroad to teach English. It's a big risk, but it might be worth it.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 05:00 PM
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How have you been doing? Any progress? I'm the same age as you and have been feeling the same way as you.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 04:47 PM
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What parts of Latin American have you been to my man? How do you suggest gaming women down there? I'm living there right now.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 04:46 PM
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I know, it's just that I should have my only release by through interactions with women, not by myself if you know what I mean I understand that, my point is you don't think that is a strong enough incentive. That's why you haven't been able to quit. Do you understand that? As someone else said here, 21 days to break a habit. I'm sorry man but you have a long road ahead. Do not think that you'll be cured on day 22. You need to stay vigilant after 6 months, you need to stay vigilant after a year.…
/r/askTRP25/07/18 04:44 PM
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I think you have it the other way around. You don't build willpower. You either have it and use it to prevent yourself from masturbating... or you don't have it and relapse. and have incentive to seek real women Apparently this isn't a strong enough incentive for you, since you're relapsing. It wasn't a strong enough incentive for me, back in the day.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 04:19 PM
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I think I had 3 or 4 unsuccessful attempts at breaking the habit. I just couldn't do it. Then one time my porn addiction ended a relationship I valued. Even though it was short, it was still the only relationship I have ever been upset about ending. Since then, I have gone 15 months without masturbating. So to answer your question: 1) have enough willpower and stop fapping already. 2) find a strong incentive, like I did.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 03:40 PM
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Text game is a skill and the more you text girls the better you get at it. I wish this was true, I've texted girls a lot over my life, specially during my beta years, and I'm still not very good at it haha. But I'll work on it, research around, gotta get good at it eventually one way or another. Thanks for the tips. And you're right, if she doesn't like you, another girl will.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 08:58 PM
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You just have to know how to do it properly. Any tips for that? A guide you'd recommend, or something?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 07:49 PM
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Swagger and presence (Shows that you're the fucking man. That you would wrestle a wild pig or barbarian invader and not run off like a screaming bitch. That you will do what is necessary without asking permission.) But I would argue that actively being like this is earning your IOIs. The only way this wouldn't be considered earning your IOIs is if the man was lucky enough to be born with the swagger and presence genetics.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 12:03 PM
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Anyways, you may ask "But lifetopic, why tf is she still single?!". Simple, she is friends with the - how do i put it, the bottom feeders of the social hierarchy "nerds" basically. All of whom are too scared to make a move and literally shake at sight of rejection. This isn't a real thing. Having low status friends hurts men. It doesn't hurt women. She's single because A) she wants to; or B) her standards are too high. and she will try to make it an LTR. So? Are you currently spinning a bunch of…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 08:21 PM
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Being able to recognize and act on IOIs is the pinnacle of game. Minor point but I'd argue acquiring said IOIs in the first place is the pinnacle of game.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 07:01 PM
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Quit porn, try again in 6 months.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 06:59 PM
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It varies a ton, there are just so many factors. I did an incredible number of beta shit with my girlfriend from last year. HB8 and we had to go on 4 whole dates before I finally grew the balls to kiss her. Then things went well from therefor about two months, until she sadly broke up with me, partly because of my former porn addiction, partly because I was still talking with my ex a lot. Or maybe it's not "sadly", maybe things turned out for the best.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 06:54 PM
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Oh ok, I thought you meant added random women on facebook. I never get any random facebook friend requests like that, so lucky you haha. I've had success with dating apps, but I tried randomly adding girls on facebook and it didn't work. To be fair, it makes since that that doesn't work. You're probably just one of a hundred other dudes who are all adding her and then acting creepy.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 03:38 PM
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Eh? How do you even use facebook for this? I tried it once but it seems fuckin' miserable. Seems like you come off way more like a creep than you would on a dating app.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 03:21 PM
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