Hey guys,

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Recently I went on multiple tinder/bumble dates without texting much before. Literally, my opener, if response, regardless of what she says, I propose drinks in the evening one day and if she agrees I ask for a number. That's it what I do online.

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On one hand, that's convenient cause I don't waste much time texting but on the other hand, it's a really hit or miss with a girl. Especially, I quiet often get a total energy mismatch. I'm rather stoic/low energy and some girls behave like if they just snorted 2 lines of coke.

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How does it work for you guys without texting much before? What are the usual issues with girls and how do you filter them out after?