So I met this 7/10 20yo in 2017 while I was 25yo and traveling to Mexico City. We hit it off and after a day or two of chatting we meet up. She gives me a blowjob on the first date. Next day we meet again and have sex, and keep going out and having sex for the rest of the 10 days I'm in town. She tells me she likes rough sex and that she used to have a boyfriend who was 40yo.

Clearly a slut, aka a fun girl to hang out with, but one you could never have a relationship with. We all know that. A while back I tell her I'm gonna be in town again and she agrees to meet me at the airport.

We meet today and go straight to my hotel. In the uber she mentions she has a boyfriend who lives in France and she'll go live with him next year. In our hotel we're both in bed and she's giving serious IOIs. Touching my head; calling me the same cute nicknames from 2 years ago; talking about how we could have been together if I hadn't left Mexico City; letting me keep my hand on her thigh without any resistance. But when I move in for the kiss she says "nooo" and moves away, and says something that I understood as "I'm afraid for my soul" (her english is good but it might still have gotten lost in translation). I changed the subject and we went out to eat. More IOIs follow, like making plans to see me tomorrow and Monday and telling me she's gonna ask for Thursday and Friday off to spend the whole day with me.

But now, the worst part, get this, she told her boyfriend in France that she was meeting me. And then told me he's jealous. Also, later that day I got her Whatsapp and she does in fact have the profile picture as her kissing some beta.

I mean, don't get me wrong, I know what to do. Hit up tinder and look for new leads (already underway). In the meantime I'll meet her tomorrow even if it's just to use her as a local tour guide and translator. Though I'll still try to take her to my hotel and throw some hardcore anti-LMR moves, basically tell her I remember how much she liked my fingers, shit like that. Maybe she just needed time to rationalize an excuse or plausible deniability or something.

Anyway, I'm really just looking for some sort of explanation of the female mind here, because I have no idea what to think. I get that half the responses here will be "she's crazy, run barry run," but I'm hoping for something a little deeper than that.

I understand that women aren't rational, far from it, but this still seems so much worse than their typical irrationality. To me, she basically has two clear options with nothing in-between:

1) Prove AWALT and get fucked all week long while not telling her boyfriend a word about it. Get your exotic alpha fucks but keep your beta bucks.

2) Be a unicorn and stay loyal to her shitty LDR and tell her ex-fling to fuck off and don't meet him (i.e. me) at all, as a good loyal girlfriend would do, let alone share his hotel bed.

Like, again, I get that women aren't rational, but this looks like absolutely the worst of both worlds. You don't get that alpha fucks that women crave, but you also threaten that beta fucks by implying to him that you may be getting alpha fucks. Can anyone make any sense outta this??