Girls use sexy body language like swinging their hips, biting lips, etc, to seduce. What should guys do?

browsci · 2012-12-03T07:30:36+00:00

You might want to try r/askmen.

I'm a straight man and no expert on this, but I think the sexiest thing a man can do is to be a man. He shouldn't jokingly do effeminate things and he should be physically built like a man- muscular (nothing crazy, he just shouldn't look too skinny or squishy). If a man has these attributes, I don't think there are any acts he can perform to appear any sexier. I know women can do all the things you mentioned, but it seems non-masculine for a man to try and act sexy like that. If he is exuding masculinity in his physique, words, and actions, then he is likely to seem sexy to women. Women, on the other hand, are typically viewed as having to go out of their way to dress sexy or wear makeup, etc... A "real man" doesn't do these things, and that's precisely what makes him sexy.

That said, maybe he would be sexier if he also acted a little more aggressive. Not in a violent way of course, but in a way where he seems powerful and in control of what you two are doing sexually. This, again, exudes masculinity and should seem pretty sexy.

Drvibe · 2012-12-03T13:16:28+00:00

yeahh I agree just be a man,

Anon59538327 · 2012-12-03T13:46:41+00:00

I think the mans way to radiate this kind of sex appeal would be confidence (posture!), strong eye contact paired with an aggressive confrontational attitude. Like he knows what he wants and he knows how to get it and he wants you, now. Just look at male strippers, they are experts.

Nexdominus · 2012-12-03T15:15:41+00:00

To seduce guys should project the perception of alpha male.

Women use those visual queue's because men respond to visual stimuli. Women respond much more to emotional stimuli than visual.

I would find a way to direct him to this seddit without him knowing you did then he can feel like he discovered it on his own and maybe he'll surprise you with some new behavior.

Camshaft115 · 2012-12-03T16:22:22+00:00

Pelvic thrusts, PELVIC THRUSTS ALL DAY LONG.

kitsune02 · 2012-12-03T16:30:58+00:00

Man here, I also seem to do these things. Any help would be appreciated.

puaCurveBall · 2012-12-03T16:39:56+00:00

Removing this post since it isn't really about helping guys get better with women.

This advice is better suited for another sub, perhaps /r/sex.

2012-12-03T21:55:44+00:00

To impress a chick, do the helicopter dick.

2012-12-03T09:38:09+00:00

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destinys_parent · 2012-12-03T11:53:01+00:00

Stand up tall,shoulder blades back, in a wide stance.

sucking_furious · 2012-12-03T15:37:54+00:00

Have him piss on you to establish alpha dominance

Title	Girls use sexy body language like swinging their hips, biting lips, etc, to seduce. What should guys do?
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Date	December 3, 2012 7:11 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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