So I went out on a date last night with this girl I've been seeing most recently. Third date, we went to a jungle/dnb show. She's a big dancer, I am not. Despite my best intentions, I slipped into an awkward/self-conscious frame on the dancefloor. It was all I could manage to bob my head and writhe around a little bit to the rhythms. This morning on facebook she posts on her own wall, most likely directed at me, "if you want a date with her name, you better put your dancing shoes on!"

So it's not looking too good. Normally I wouldn't give this girl another thought, and would move on. The problem is that I've developed a bad case of oneitis at her, she's unlike any other girl I've known. I want to at least give a shot at recovering this, because I do like her quite a bit.

I'm thinking about texting her something like, "No fair! How do you expect me to dance without chemical assistance?" (we're both big stoners). And then maybe following up with something like, "next time we go out I'm dancing you under the damn table lady!" Totally beta I know, but like I said, I want to at least give recovery a try.

Background info that may be pertinent: she's a total hippie, really into energies and vibes and such; I initially attracted her with confidence and straight-talking; we have slept together.

Any suggestion on how I should handle it?

TL;DR: most likely lost a girl due to losing my frame on the dancefloor, DANCE WITH YOUR GIRLS FELLAS, DONT GIVE A FUCK ALL WHO MIGHT BE WATCHING!