I went out on two dates with a girl and had solid game the entire time. She gave me a major IOI at the very end when she asked if I had a girlfriend. Two days after our second I called her Sunday for some ice cream but she said she was going to be busy that day, she didn't try reschedule. I called her again today but got voicemail, I left a playful message. She hasn't called or texted me back yet.

At this point I wanted to get semi-serious with this girl so I stopped gaming all other girls I've met since our second date. I'm going to stop all phone contact with this girl to prevent me from coming across as needy but there is a decent chance I will see her again later this week at my university by chance. I am strongly strongly considering saying something extremely similar to these words next time I see her:

After beginning intro, DHV through crazy story from yesterday, mention how busy I am, interject my plans for Spring Break

  • Me: "Do you want to go out again before Spring Break? I know this really cool place you have to see before you go back to Korea, just make sure you have a nice camera."

  • Her (possibly): some bullshit excuse about being too busy & she does not attempt to reschedule

  • Me: "Alright that's cool, I just thought you'd be interested in another date. This will be a great story you can take back to Korea about how you met an awesome American but things didn't work out. But hey, I loved flirting with you those times we hung out, it will be fun finding someone else that laughs at my jokes like you did."

wait a moment & lock eyes

  • "Alright gimme a kiss on the cheek and I'll leave you alone." point at cheek when she comes in for the kiss turn my head quickly for the trick kiss.

Tease her & bid farewell.