Am I fucked?

recyclablebantha · 2013-03-24T03:55:01+00:00

Im a 19 year old male, in college,

First of all, you're in fucking college. And you're waaaay overthinking this and squandering your opportunities. No one is expected to have it all together at this time. What's more you have so MUCH potential ahead of you. This is the time when every one is talking about where they're going but less pressure is there to show accomplishments yet. Why? Because you're still in college.

Secondly, STOP focusing on all these things that you think will get in the way. To the extent that seduction is like sales, by constantly thinking about all these things you just listed, you're defeating yourself before you can even get out of the gate. You're killing your sales pitch before you can even make it. And if YOU wouldn't buy something, no one else is going to. If you don't like yourself, no one else is going to show interest in you.

.....should i wait to talk to a girl that has showed interest in me or should i still go for it?

The first option of these two is a shit option and is bundled with a bad assumption. With your mindset, girls won't be showing any interest in you, at least girls who are worth knowing. What's worse, with your mindset as it currently is, you're likely to attract girls that would be detrimental to your life and drag it down, not improve it.

The second option is a little better, but you need to change your mindset before you "go for it". As you are now, you'll be fighting yourself as much as anything else.

Your homework is to start working on yourself. If something bothers you about yourself, you're fucking YOUNG, go fix it. You're in fucking college, man. Take some damn electives that will improve you as a person.

blackula001 · 2013-03-24T04:36:07+00:00

i'm 21 in university, live with my extremely conservative christian parents (who would murder me if they knew i've had girls over before). there's hope for you. right now i'm seeing this girl and we've already fucked at my place once. and more in the future.

don't give up. go meet girls. etc. just say whatever you say with confidence and conviction. if it comes up that you live at home, make a joke about it being affordable or something...

SingAlong_Original · 2013-03-24T05:18:10+00:00

Believe you can, and then actually do it.

jap-a-negro · 2013-03-24T04:53:35+00:00

I've learned that gaming in school should be taken slowly. It's hard to kino and flirt sexually in class, especially in college.

I would suggest that you talk to her whenever you can. Be her friend at first, but get your car and other logistics in check ASAP. Keep her on a leash until you get your shit together. If she's the one staring, I don't think the attraction is gonna fizzle out to quickly.

Title	Am I fucked?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	March 24, 2013 3:19 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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