I ask this question because meeting and seducing women seems very difficult to me. I'm not complaining because nothing in life that is worthwhile is easy. That said, I am complaining because to this day the results I want continues to elude me.
So a little background, I am 23 and I have slept with 12 girls. The past six months I have lived in Atlanta. I met a guy from the 'pick up artist forum' and for these last six months we have went out at least once per week to a very popular bar and club area in this city.
I had previous experience with pickup but I was from a small city so there were few opportunities to practice it. I have read all the great authors and have taken information from everyone's ideas to create a style of game that I like and I am comfortable with.
So we have been going out once per week and I have only ever had success one time and by that I mean a lay where I leave with the girl. The past six months I have probably talked to several hundred new girls, yet only one lay. And she was not even that hot.
Now, as far as my game, I dress very well and I am stylish. The times I have asked girls how they would rate me, I usually get an 8 or 9. I am very relaxed and comfortable and I even had one night where I made out with seven different girls in the same night. So i know that I can get girls to like me. I pretty much like to have fun, I don't say anything overly sexual but I do ask for what I want. I don't even walk up to girls, I let them walk by then I lightly touch their arm and pull them over to me (which works way better, try it!). So that said, the lays just aren't coming. It's very frustrating. I think I could get laid with the uglier ones but I don't want to, I just want to sleep with the hot ones.
Does anyone have any suggestions or empathy for me?
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