The standards I'm selecting for aren't particularly physical, they're mostly character traits. I look for a girl who's grounded/stable, trustworthy, and loyal, one that sticks to her values. the issue is all these girls are already in stable relationships.

Anyway, is there a way screen women very quickly for these specific traits that I'm looking for?

I'm guessing you'd do this by..maybe qualifying and other things I hope someone will tell me about.

What sorts of qualifying questions would you guys ask for these traits?