Pushaway framing?

donit · 2013-09-29T22:14:04+00:00

The example that brought this up was we were talking about a tease, joking to a girl who is very loud that she should try to meet a guy who is hard of hearing.

Whenever you tell a girl to go do something without you, you're pushing her away. By suggesting a type of guy for her to meet, you're framing her into meeting someone, and pushing her away by telling her to go meet someone else. Hence the term pushaway framing: the strategy of push-away framing a girl so she will rebound back towards you.

The strategy behind it is it basically has the effect of tossing her outside of your life and telling her to fend for herself. She's going to feel abandoned and left outside in the cold and she'll want to come back inside your world where it's warm so she can be next to you. The idea is the more you try to push her away, the more she pushes back. It's based on the the push aspects of the Mystery Method, and Mystery's balance theory, which states a girl tries to maintain a state of equalibrium in relation to you. So, if you try to pull her towards you, she will often resist and try to get away. And if you try to push her away, she will resist and try to move towards you. This is an extremely effective method when using a kino ladder, and has been proven many times in the field by Mystery and followers of the Mystery Method.

Using the same push methods verbally is a much newer concept- I guess I am the origin of that idea and so as far as being proven, the verbal idea of using pushaways is basically piggy-backing the same logic of the physical version, which has been thoroughly proven. Pushaway framing is a new branch of this that I thought up today, which seems like it would work. But it's all theoretical: We need to try these things out in the field before we can say that they are proven.

Title	Pushaway framing?
Author	rusty84
Upvotes	1
Comments	1
Date	September 29, 2013 8:49 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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