Okay I'm not advocating being a A**hole but does taking on this personality mean you are more attractive? I see bad boys act like this all the time.

etherhot · 2014-05-20T21:07:28+00:00

I see a lot of bad boys who act like this get girls and it's confusing?? like how do they get away with this. They blow off girls or ignore them or whatever and then the same girls chase them. Not straight away but they are definitely interested.

Man girls are confusing lol so my question is I guess is how do you act like a bad boy without being a total douche and does anyone have experience with this sort of stuff, any stories? I'd love to know

Thanks guys

etherhot · 2014-05-20T21:24:11+00:00

ah okay I think non neediness is a pretty big one but its hard to do without seeming to be a little up your own ass and I'm sure you'll get hate for that.

Alexbass96 what do/have you done that makes you into a Machiavellian/ Narcissist?

ciao2point0 · 2014-05-20T22:01:09+00:00

Emotions cause attraction. Bad boys cause negative emotions. You can strive to cause positive emotions.

scenny · 2014-05-20T21:17:20+00:00

I think it's mostly the idea that these guys don't seem to care what other people think of them, which is attractive. It prevents them from seeming clingy/needy/seeking approval, etc. They don't filter what they say. They take lead in situations. Aren't willing to do shit to make someone happy, etc.

You can achieve these things without being an asshole. It's the qualities that asshole's have that can be attractive, not the part of being an asshole.

TL;DR don't be an asshole. Improve yourself.

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