Chinese girl, not a girl I'm attracted to but I want to "seduce"(1) her mentally.

Met her before and swiped her lunch for convenience but made sure she knows she owes me a dinner. We go to a small place and grab some food. We talk about philosophy, music, piano, high school experience, ice skating, etc. Then we moved onto a frozen yogurt place, where we continued our conversation on an even greater array of topics. I did a lot of teasing which worked really well. Since she paid for the dinner, I paid for her yogurt. But thankfully for me she asked, so this means I owe you again? To which I smiled and said, "of course!"

The only problem was that after the yogurt, I wanted to part but I couldn't bring myself to bring it clear. And she started walking with me to my residence, which is towards the opposite direction for her to take to get to her home. I brought this up, and she said, it's ok I'll walk this way. So after a few steps I said, let's turn, we'll walk the other way. Basically instead of parting to show time constraint/make myself scarce I ended up "providing" for her a little by walking her maybe halfway to her home. She pointed out I should head back before I did, which I didn't like; I wanted to be the one to bring up that I'm heading back.

Some questions:

  1. I found an advice here useful that advocated going to multiple places to distort sense of time and making the encounter more exciting. I remembered to change the location, but I only had one idea: frozen yogurt or ice cream. What are some things I could do in pretty urban(?) setting (Westwood)? There are convenience stores, and I remembered Wygant's shop with a limited budget activity but I didn't think that was the best idea to pull off spontaneously with a person who might not be totally comfortable with me. There are bars, but she's not the type to really drink (doesn't even drink coffee). There are dessert place (diddy reese) which wouldn't have been a bad idea but we got yogurt already. Starbuck's and Boba places exist, but I think they are in the same after-dinner category as yogurt. So what are some activities in an urban setting that I can arrange to put some spice on a normal dinner? It doesn't have to be to this specific picky girl (who doesn't drink alcohol, boba, or coffee); I'd like general ideas.

  2. I found that we ended up having conversations on a broad range of topics. But it was just that: a very long, albeit interesting, conversation on multiple different topics. With teasing, it was definitely engaging, but I want something to really excite her. What would be a good transition from conversations to really make an experience memorable (nonsexual physical activities/actions included)? When would be a good time? We were both excited talking to each other, but I want to really enrich the experience with more than talk (but not sexual closes)

  3. What are some topics to avoid? And some that solidify a person's view of a seducer as a "seducer?" The topics mentioned include preference of skin colors, girls entering 30s without getting married, asian boy/girl groups. But I feel like some of the more "feminine" or less "masculine" topics change the status of a seducer more into a friend.

  4. What do you feel about showing some cockiness? For example,

    I've only had frozen yogurt once 4 years ago.

    so you only eat frozen yogurt with handsome guys huh? smile just kidding haha."

  5. What do you about my having paid for her frozen yogurt here? Shouldn't have done?

(1) By "seduce" I mean to make her attracted to me.