This will pretty much be a field report and question in one but I am curious how some of the more experienced RP guys handle women of this type or have any theories on her behaviour.
I recently went on a trip with the boys to a vacation town near my city. Went out the first night to a bar and spotted a girl that I knew was going to be my target (she is one of the hottest girls I've been with and I'm not saying that for no reason but its important to know that context paired with her behaviour). The place we went to is more of a sit down place earlier in the night but then turns into a club later on. I didn't see her again until the end of the night when we were leaving so I make the approach, my friend approaches her friend and right away she is super cold, dumb as nails too or playing that act. I play the amused game with her and get her number and snap, since we were all leaving I told her come out to the place we're staying at for a hot tub party in the next few days and she said I don't believe thats where you're staying so to that I said if I prove it you have to come. Basically left it at that. I honestly didn't think this would go anywhere at this point but the next day I decided to snap her a pic of the place anyways and said I wasn't lying. Fast forward to the next day after and she is coming over and bringing 4 friends, they drove over in two cars, one was hers and the other her friends. There was 5 of us in total so that worked out well. They come over and she's again very cold, doesn't seem interested, etc. I have a few plates back home so at this point I'm like well I'll let the boys have fun with the other girls and I'm just gonna do my thing for the night, basically just decided to give her sporadic attention and enjoy myself with everyone else. At the end of the night when they are getting a cab to leave something weird happened that I've never experienced and I just locked eyes with her didn't break and she said something like "well I don't have to leave yet" I said okay and then she starting saying "finally didn't you see all the signs I was giving you?". Now I don't want to say I'm an RP master by any means but I can usually tell if a girl is into me and there were maybe a few things I picked up on but tbh I was clueless of what signs she was showing. Anyways we go directly to my room and I f close. She says she enjoyed it blah blah and I respond with yeah that was fun to which she says "thats it, you can't think of anything more romantic" again just all around bitchy behaviour. She's leaving at this point and tells me to let her know when I'm back in town I said I will.
Fast forward to now and whenever I shoot her the odd soft touch snap or whatever she's basically impossible to talk to, I've just never had this experience before with any other girl; especially after an f close where a girl is so closed off, usually colder girls warm up after that occurs but this one is still the exact same as when I first met her. Basically my goal here is to set her up as a plate in that town since I am there quite often but keeping the rapport built with her is giving me quite the struggle.
I'm not looking to have some super long convo with her or anything like that but if this was another girl I'd instantly assume she wasn't interested based off her behaviour but I was wrong about that to begin with. At this point I'm thinking all I can really do is just hit her up when I'm back in town and if she doesn't come through then it was just a fun experience but I'll be honest since she was one of the best I've been with I am motivated to try to keep her around somehow.
Any suggestions or thoughts on her behaviour? Thanks in advance.
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