One of the biggest mistakes that you can make which hinders your success, is having the misunderstanding that you should be perfect and flawless.

For instance, when it comes to interpersonal relationships with girls/ladies, we misunderstand the criteria for attraction. They actually find little quirks and qualities that suggest risks, fun and excitement attractive. They find fun and hotness attractive, not perfection or flawlessness.

So allow yourself to be a quirky and dangerous guy, rather than trying to be a perfectionist.