Ok Seddit, I'm not going to get too emotional here, but I'm feeling kind of stuck on my journey through life, which happens to involve studying seduction and the art of interpersonal relationships.

I'm been on and off seddit for over a year, and this is a throwaway. I'm doing well with the women. Being "alpha" has become super internalized for me. I routinely guide and direct conversations with multiple girls and mixed sets and tell stories that DHV, all without coming off as a try hard. I comfortably initiate conversations with strangers. And I am getting laid very frequently. I laid three new girls, HB 6.5, HB8 and HB8.5 last week alone! Two were in one night in an impromptu orgy type situation that probably deserves its own FR. I have a pretty busy and fulfilling social life. My job is going well. On the surface all is well..

But, I feel kind of shitty. Kind of stuck. One thing that I know is bothering me is that there are a few other girls who I'm interested in who are floating around One's I haven't closed yet. Those are always the buggers aren't they? One girl, who I'm not suuuuper interested in, is playing hard to get. She's very attractive, but our personalities don't jive that well. I would have sex with her, but I would not pursue a longer relationship. So, I'm left wondering what to do. I question myself on whether the time I'm spending texting and hanging out with her is even worth it when all I want is to "hit it and quit it?" It's not like she's a repugnant person, I just know we could never date. And an F-close is not super forthcoming. I'm thinking of just friendzoning her for the time being a la TofuTofu's entourage game.

But I think I need a new strategy for dealing with potential girls. My thinking now is: I generally just don't drop a girl and move on if a) I'm attracted to her b) she is showing interest and c) I haven't F-closed. What are your philosophies sedditors?

I am encountering issues that they don't discuss in pick up ideology. They don't tell you what to do once you ARE sleeping with women. Perhaps my problem is I'm barking up the wrong tree thinking Mystery and Roissy are going to be able to give me advice on how to live a fulfilling life. But, after a preliminary glance I sure as fuck don't want to follow the advice on r/dating_advice.

I am confident in my skillls, but one night stands, emotionally empty FWB's and attraction for the sake of attraction feel somewhat empty now. I feel like I need to set out on a new foot and start engaging with women in a way that is more conducive to finding a happier balance in my life. I have girls that are my good friends. And girls that I fuck. I guess I'm searching for the girl that can be both. What is your take seddit? Do I just need to be tied down for a while for me to appreciate the freedom to sex who I want when I want?

I am not suggesting throwing away seduction theory and becoming a beta bitch. Seddit has been here for me and I'm not gonna turn my back on you guys. But, I am feeling that I need a change. Have any of you guys been through this?

This is where I'm stuck right now with "game." I have the fishing rod and I know how to fish. i'm catching them, but I don't know what to do with them. Catch and release? Eat every fish I catch? Mount them on my wall and create a trophy collection? Or find that one fish, who I can make sweet sweet love to, talk about my problems with, so I don't ever want to fuck another fish again? Wait, what the fuck? I screwed that last metaphor up........

Anyways you get the point!