I've heard people say it's all about genetics. While I've also heard that incels are just whiny bitches that don't do anything about their sitation.

I haven't been laid in 3 years. I attribute that to my balding getting worse and me hitting the male wall (I used to be a cute skinny guy. Now I am skinny fat. I am 140lbs at 5'6" but not in the best shape).

I don't want to waste my time working out and trying if it is going to be in vein.