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[–]HeroesKnow 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What is "quite romantic" ? that sounds a bit cringy
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[–]sink_flower432 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
What do you want out of this? People to validate your experiences and make you feel less alone or a solution to a problem you have?
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[–]sink_flower432 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Well this reads different to your original post. I got the impression you wanted a girlfriend now it seems you just want some banging. Which one do you want in the next month? To have one girlfriend? Or several one night stands/ a few casual fuckbuddies?
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[–]sink_flower432 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Gf = long term banging with one girl only
Single = short and long term banging whoever and however many girls you want
If my goals were primarily banging I would stay single. But whatever your goal is, write it down for yourself and then you need to approach women.
To approach women start by going to areas where there are many women. E.g bars, clubs, shopping centres, college campuses etc.
Then start saying hi to different girls and not putting any pressure on yourself to do more than that.
Then when you're comfortable saying hi to random girls, start saying hi and also continuing the conversation in a sexual direction since your goal is sex. Be honest and upfront. And let them know what you want and ask them when they are free to do this. Get an answer, if they are a no move on, if they are a yes exchange details and fuck later on.
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[–]sink_flower432 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Read Ooh Say it Again by Alan Roger Currie to learn about how to smooth talk and how to turn women on with your words.
The line between smooth talk and inappropriate talk doesn't exist. They are the same thing. Talking about sex is smooth and it's also inappropriate. The thing you need to keep in check Is who are you talking dirty to. If you're with a woman who allows you in her space and is smiling in an mischievous way while you whisper dirty things in her ear, she will enjoy it even if she playfully says "you're so bad!" "That's inappropriate .." now if you say the same things to a girl who moves or leans back a bit from you and instead of whispering in her ear you are saying it loudly, it will not go well and you will come across as someone who is harassing her. So physical space is the big one sign. If she lets you speak into her ear, you probably can get away with talking about sex.
Time spent together doesn't matter. You can do this in 5 min of meeting a girl (and you should) if she lets you in her ear. Don't wait, girls get turned on by confidence not hesitance.
Being bold, honest and sexual while you are sober is different. Almost no guys have the balls to do this and it turns women on.
If you need examples again refer to the book I suggested above. And read and learn more from Alan Roger Currie, he is the boss at this stuff.
[–]Frya 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you are not talking to 5-10 new girls a week, nothing is going to change or happen.
[–]TheTownOfSharonMA 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My suggestion tinder.
[–]thomas-delusional1 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I suggest going to events where your interests lie in. If you like music to to music events, or do something like volunteering. Just try to get out there and in time you will meet someone. If you meet someone that you like, text them and keep in touch. My mistake was always that I met a lot of girls but not engaging in conversations and spending time after meeting them. Mind you I’m also 22 and a virgin but kissed a fair amount of girls and had opportunities. Some of them by going out, some I met during the day and some because mutual friends.
I don’t really think about the virgin stuff because even though it would be nice, thinking about that stuff fucks up your mental and you lose focus of what is more important in life.
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