Supermarket model number close story. And need some advice on dealing with age difference

VMikeL · 2012-05-24T08:32:07+00:00

The easy answer to both your questions about age AND her profession is to not give it value. If you go around letting it bug you, then why shouldn't she feel the same way? To a lot of people age is just a number. If she does ask your age, be honest and forthright about it, and just continue your conversation. The moment where you hesitate and go "uhh... yeah..." that's when she knows you have a problem with it, and now she has reason to as well.

Same goes with her profession. I used to date a model, we'd talk about it, much in the same way we'd talk about my passions, interests and jobs. Seriously, don't give it value, to these things and you'll be fine.

Catmanly · 2012-05-24T15:23:35+00:00

I hit on and went out with this gorgeous Colombian woman who worked at the front desk of my dentist. I'm 27 and she's defintely mid 30s. When she called me back, she's like "there's an age difference I think you should know.." as if I would have a problem that she is older.

I just calmly said "Oh I know, is that going to be a problem for you?" diffused the situation immediately. My last girlfriend was 35 (and looked nothing like it) but I figured it was not a good idea to share this fact up front with the other woman, haha.

2012-05-24T15:22:41+00:00

I'm often way older than the girls I'm meeting. Age comes up and I never like to say. My best defense when asked how old I am is, "You mean you can't tell? ...I guess that's just one more mystery for you to unravel." They usually like the mysterious angle and leave it alone. I'll tell them eventually, but I don't like doing it until they're hooked.

2012-05-24T17:43:43+00:00

AGE: don't mention. If it comes out say that she looks 23-24, and that your previous girlfriend was 28 and age was never an issue
Model are insecure (they do live in a world where looks is everything) and actresses are very much in touch with their emotions (that's the secret to acting), just downplay the model/acting, they get those questions all the time, and it's not that big deal for them; ask them questions about themselves about who they truly are, make a deep personal connection.

2012-05-24T19:52:50+00:00

Did the facts that she was a model or age difference distract you when you had the courage to talk to her the first time? No. There is no reason why it should bother you now. You did the hard part, the rest is just like any other girl. Forgive the shitty wording but my point still stands.

Title	Supermarket model number close story. And need some advice on dealing with age difference
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Date	May 24, 2012 7:44 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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