If you haven't read my original thread I posted 2 weeks ago, here it is http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/smqgz/i_finally_did_it/

Anyways, things didn't work out. We were both busy with exams and she lost interest. I wasted 6 months constantly trying to pursue her, when there were other girls out there. For instance, there was one who is arguably cuter who my friend told me had a crush on me. I kind of knew that because whenever I would look at her, she would smile and blush. I never approached because in my head, the other girl was perfect. I put her higher than everyone else where in reality she is no better than anyone. I missed a chance with a cute girl who was actually interested in me for some girl I WANTED to be interested in me.

The lesson is this: While there may be that one girl who think is perfect, you should still meet other girls. Chances aren't great that she's your soulmate. You SHOULD approach her, but don't let the idea of her being better than everyone prevent you from approaching other people who have the potential to be what you're looking for.

I hope I see that girl again because this feeling sucks.