any help on text game

HurricaneDallas · 2019-08-02T01:27:57+00:00

Hey buddy,

Trust me, I've been where you are lol, and I know it sucks. But here's what I've learned over the years, talking to 100's of women:

I feel like most of the men whose text conversations I see have a very slipshod approach toward texting: they text girls without really knowing what their objectives are, oftentimes without any discernable objectives at all. I’m not sure how they expect directionless, objective-free texting to lead to anything productive, but well, I remember the days when I was a lot less effective with texting and it felt like this big black question mark of an area, so I commiserate.

We’ll shine a little light on texting then, and get you pointed in the right direction. You will only ever have two (2) objectives for texting, and they should never overlap. Here are your objectives in texting girls:

Build rapport and comfort, or
Set up a meet.

That’s it. I think when most men are texting women they rather have this pseudo-objective instead, which is:

Keep texting her and fishing around hoping to somehow set up a date.

And that’s probably the most abominable lack of direction in texting known to man. That horrible, atrocious non-objective leads to men sending all kinds of random, half-baked, lame text messages that leave a woman staring at them thinking, “Why is he texting me this?” and only accomplish sinking the guy’s efforts to win this new girl over.

Thumbs down for the pseudo-objective. If you do that, stop immediately.

Back to our real objectives. When you are sending text messages, a woman should know immediately what your objective is – to build rapport or to ask her out. There should be no question in her mind; this is how to text a girl properly. The reason I say not to have any overlap is because the instant you start trying to overlap setting up meets with building rapport, it gets messy. That’s when you have a guy fishing around as he builds rapport, hoping for / looking for / trying to find some way to ask the girl out. Don’t fall into this trap; keep your objectives separate. Either you’re building rapport, or you’re setting up a meet.

Some dos and do nots:

Don’t

Beat around the bush.
Text without having an objective.
Send lots and lots of texts.
Get wordy or longwinded.

Do

Be direct and straightforward.
Text with your objective in mind.
Send a handful of well-planned texts.
Be precise and concise.

You will always be trying either to build rapport and comfort, or set up a meet. That’s all; those are your text messaging objectives when it comes to contacting women.

I hope that helps man... If you're looking for more help with this or have any other questions, feel free to message me.

Cheers,

Jax

Ice666White · 2019-08-03T10:01:18+00:00

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Title	any help on text game
Author	LGTEGETEGE
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Date	August 2, 2019 1:05 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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