How can I get over the fact that I won’t lose my virginity anytime soon and stop being envious of sexually active teenagers?

grrinchas · 2020-01-18T10:14:45+00:00

I know that sex may sound like really fun think to do. Truth is, your expectations and reality almost never goes hand in hand. Here are some pitfalls:

1) It requires physical fitness. It is no surprise that a man has to do most of the job, so even if you have small girl holding her and moving hips is very physical demanding. You get tired fast, it’s like doing deadlifts. And if you tired your dick goes down as well. But you can solve this problem by carefully choosing positions and controlling your tempo.

2) Fear of finishing too soon. It’s a problem for most of guys. If u ever seen animals mating, you would notice that all action last no more than 30s - 1min. And no women will be satisfied with this. So you have to do pauses or, by solving maths problems while having sex. But in this case you don’t enjoy yourself.

3) Bad hygiene. It’s very rare, but sometimes you get not very nice smell down there. Although little bit of piss is better than licking a soup, but shit smell if present kills all the attraction for you.

4) dirty talking requires mental thinking. You can go without talking during sex, but if you want to make yourself standout from other guys, then you have to learn this stuff. And if you are talking then you have to think what to say, this requires mental focus and prevents you of really enjoying it.

5) fear of pregnancy and STD, you can prevent this using condom but that removes half of pleasure, or you can try without and pray to god that you didn’t get HIV.

My point is that don’t think about sex as something magical. Cause you will grow expectations which won’t meet reality.

Insaneflirt_max · 2020-01-18T09:55:10+00:00

Start talking to women maybe?

quinnmcd · 2020-01-18T13:51:13+00:00

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wawakaka · 2020-01-18T06:40:05+00:00

use your jealousy to make you a better man. most guys your age lift weights. unless you are very unattractive all you have to do is fix yourself up a bit. talking is over rated. if women like they will come up to you. infact for a guy talking to much can sometimes sing his prospects.

Insaneflirt_max · 2020-01-19T11:08:29+00:00

I strongly disagree and anyone successful with women does too but sure man

Title	How can I get over the fact that I won’t lose my virginity anytime soon and stop being envious of sexually active teenagers?
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Date	January 18, 2020 6:19 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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