Where exactly can you find that "perfect girl"?

recyclablebantha · 2014-10-13T07:52:35+00:00

Graduating from high school this year. You might say I'm not mature enough to know what I like yet...but I dunno, I feel like I know exactly what type of girl I want.

You need to be prepared to realize that you most likely do NOT know exactly what type of girl you really want. Or at least, you don't know really realize what things are truly deal breakers and which things are bonuses.

It does sound like you have a good idea and maybe this won't be an issue. But I haven't known anyone who graduated from HS knowing exactly what they wanted. What they wanted always changed as they dated.

I'm going to college next year. Is that generally a good place to find this type of girl whom you can have the best, everlasting relationship with?

I'm a little confused why you're asking this. I'm sure you've heard that college is just the sort of place to find smart, good people, with a mindset towards improving themselves. So yeah, it's a good place.

But in the larger sense, you NEVER know where you'll meet someone who'll be significant in your life. But some good places to go are definitely what people have mentioned: places where you pursue your interests or where people with the right attitude, tend to gather.

ambrosiris · 2014-10-13T13:04:57+00:00

ya don't

rmbarnes · 2014-10-14T12:45:14+00:00

You probably don't know what you like yet. Date lots of different types of women, till you find one you really like.

There's no such thing as perfect. You need to drop the whole disneyesque view of romance and happy ever after. The real world doesn't work like that so you'll be setting yourself up for disappointment.

red_owl_ · 2014-10-13T07:00:14+00:00

College is a place to start. Join clubs or do what you can to be involved in things you are interested in so you can find a girl with similar interests and have things to talk about or bring up to try to get to know her. There are a lot of different types of people out there and it's hard to tell the difference between good and bad. Some of their intentions won't be good or maybe they only think of you as a friend that's okay be friends with them and network maybe they have another friend who they think you would be good for. Also a good place is work. If you are a cashier flirt with girls ask them for their number the worse they can say is no and if you don't ask they can't say yes. Finally don't rush anything be careful and truly get to know someone, maybe date around and find the type of girl you want.

destiny24 · 2014-10-13T07:12:22+00:00

I'm not looking for any girl just extremely smart, or just extremely sexy. I just want a girl who is just overall good. Good-looking, somewhat intelligible, mature, has a talent of sorts. Someone I would be proud of introducing to my parents.

So basically, what every human being on Earth wants in a SO? lol. Well, if you want a "perfect" girl you are going to have to likely find her in a place you also like. Life isn't a romantic comedy, she's probably not going to just bump into you. In general, finding the perfect girl isn't exactly an easy task. But if you must...the best way to start would be to join a club that you imagine this perfect girl in. If you want a fitness girl, expect her to be in the gym a lot. If you want a swimmer, expect her to be swimming laps at the pool. If you want a singer, expect her to be a part of woman's choir. If you want her to be into bugs, expect her to be in the entomology department. You get the idea. College is the perfect time to meet your girl because there are literally hundreds of clubs/organizations to divide people up that have similar interests.

As for the other characteristics, you can't really go find someone who is "some-what intelligible" "has talent of sorts". There isn't a sign over a girls head that says what inner qualities she has haha. Those are things you learn after meeting them. So join your clubs, socialize with the women there, and work from there. Obviously you can meet women pretty much anywhere, but the clubs show you already have some similar hobbies.

lasagnaman · 2014-10-13T09:14:39+00:00

Everywhere. Keep meeting people and go figure out exactly what's out there.

rawisshawn · 2014-10-13T09:24:49+00:00

Wherever your idea of a perfect girl would hang out. If you think the girl for you plays chess or some shit then chess tournaments or something, if your idea of a perfect girl is a fit chick then the gym

Title	Where exactly can you find that "perfect girl"?
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Date	October 13, 2014 6:10 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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