For example, was at a bar HB7 was making huge IOI at me, so I approach spit the shit, tell her to come find me later. We talked some more I’m in her friend group then her friend HB5 tells me that she has a boyfriend and she’s not drinking. Now the friend is showing interest and I bail. By this time it’s closing time and the night was wasted on a girl that could of been weened out. What can I say to begin with so she’ll know my intentions?