Is it safe to assume that "signs" that a girl likes you are bogus and you should just go for it every time?

ThrowawayPUA · 2017-10-09T01:57:39+00:00

Always assume attraction.

There are only two basic outcomes if you assume she's attracted:

You escalate and she rejects you: she's not really attracted.
You escalate and she accepts you: she's attracted.

In either case, you only find out by escalating and trying to become more intimate. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

DebonairD · 2017-10-09T01:43:13+00:00

The only real way to get better at approaching is confidence and repetition. You'll learn from mistakes and learn to not care about rejection. You'll also get much better at being able to tell when a girl likes you( even without common body language).

ethical_pa · 2017-10-09T02:27:27+00:00

Learning to hone in on the girls that are attracted to you will definitely help your results. But going for it every time and increasing your numbers is always the best strategy. You'll learn from rejection more so than when a girl actually likes you and makes it easy for you. (Although you should always take that, of course :)

yellowidiot314 · 2017-10-09T06:10:54+00:00

You'll probably do better if you are able to tell if someone is open to being approached, rather than stand-offish. Approach 10 women, if all are in a hurry and rushing, and look bitter you're going to get rejected. Seddit not going to work for you. Approach 10 women, who are relaxed and smiling, who might be open to flirting this will go better for you. Marrying the first woman you see and then having it ruined in 10 years because the whole religious marriage thing was oppression and chains from the get-go is just going to leave you alone and trying to attract women again.

Title	Is it safe to assume that "signs" that a girl likes you are bogus and you should just go for it every time?
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Date	October 9, 2017 12:02 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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