So your at the club and theres a bunch of groups dancing on the floor, standing around or whatever but no single random girls or pairs you can talk to (like there ever are anyway), what do you do?

I have started using this technique I picked up a while back and have found it works great for me, so here it is in steps.

  1. Make sure you are in state, having fun, hyped up, ect. Just a formality but nothing works without this along with making it obvious.

  2. Find a group with a few girls you like the look of that has a few guys (lower number of guys to lower odds of all the girls having bf's) in the mix aswell, they can be dancing or standing around whatever.

  3. Once you have chosen your base group dive in with whatever method is appropriate, for a club dance floor just start dancing randomly then jump in the middle (gets a laugh) and continue dancing, ase bump one of the girls, or if they are standing around just introduce yourself. You COULD try this with a complete group of girls but it will be harder, but possibly more rewarding, im yet to try.

  4. Next is to just get comfortable with group along with getting them comfortable with you, which is done by talking to EVERYONE not just the girls, then gradually upping the energy with jokes, buying a drink for a guy (will make intention obvious if a girl, which MAY be bad this soon in), dancing with a couple of girls for a few seconds, whatever you really want. It just has to build up energy in the group from a reasonably happy/friendly point, not just straight in arms waving like one of those tube men used for promotions.

  5. Now your comfortable in the group, everyone is talking, you are PART of the group its time to have some fun! Start flirting abit with all the girls in the group individually but dont hide it from eachother, and dont do any more than flirt. Just ABIT of flirting, doesnt have to be alot, some light kino and dancing with eachother but thats it and dont focus on one for more than thirty seconds as you have to rotate.

  6. MOAR FUN! This is were the strategy gets VERY effective, you will now have shown to everyone around the group you are 1. social proof. 2. fun. 3. confident 4. abit flirtatious 5. dont give a shit, basicly a "Top Bloke". So use this by diving off to other groups, but choose groups (or pairs) of girls you think are cute and quickly start dancing with them, talking to them, just having abit of fun with them, but MAINLY flirting with them abit just like the girls in the first group. After abit ask them to join your group and increase the size of your group, the guys will probably love you for bringing in girls and its going to help the key ingredient of this technique work.

By doing this it makes all the girls jealous as you have flirted with them but not done anything, along with the girls besides her and they all know your are atleast abit interested but also wondering "why her?". So from here on in its easy as you just repeat steps 5 and 6, increasing how jealous they all are of you then they will start seducing you!

Its very effective plus it shows up girls who are available, are interested without having to judge or ask yourself and if you really want you can just play along(but turn down eventually in a very gentle manor, as in "not yet ;)") with the first ones till the one you want has a go at it and if she doesnt, go back to one of the others from before you liked or keep fishing!