Where are you and what's the best way you've advanced?

2009-10-18T17:21:19+00:00

I just started a month ago my journey in the PUA world. I can say that I already lost the fear to go and talk to a woman, almost anywhere. I can get phone numbers easily, and in the worst case, get an email. In all the time I've been doing this, I only got rejected once: an italian girl didn't want to give me her phone number or her email, although we spent a lot of time talking (strange).

The next thing I need to master is the Kino. That is the thing that I couldn't understand fully until I started reading about it, so I have to learn when to touch a girl and how. I've learned an excellent way to get a girl to start touching me: I always carry my camera with me, and if I feel that she's already comfortable with me, I tell her to get some pictures together. First, one of both looking to the camera; then, a picture of me giving her a kiss in the cheek; if she laughed and enjoyed the situation, then I tell her to make the same, to give me a kiss in the cheek; if I feel confident enough, I tell her that the picture wasn't ok and that I will take another one, so when she tries to give me the kiss in the cheek, I turn my head and kiss her.

Still working on the rest of the stuff, I'm being patient and try to read all I can. A few days ago I found two posts here in reddit that I liked a lot because they said three very important things: 1) you have to make yourself believe that trying to become a PUA is a job, so you take it seriously; 2) you have to stop asking for advice for what to do next, because you're already caring too much for a girl that you barely know (do you think she is doing the same thing as you, asking for advice to her friends about you? no, so don't do it either) 3) Analize what you've already done and see what you've done right or wrong, so you don't do it again (instead of being asking for advice). Experience is the best teacher.

frigginAman · 2009-10-01T06:55:04+00:00

Ok to try taking this post seriously. Other than a current and inexplicable trouble even finding women (I think it may just be bad luck), I am having a sticking point at attracting women and trying to escalate with kino. I am good approaching for the most part, but I am having trouble closing.

RomanticStark · 2009-10-06T05:05:43+00:00

1) I'm currently very inconsistent. Realized there was some stuff ( changes in my life), that messed me up internally and really effected my ability to handle rejection/stay positive. I have pulled (imo a high quality girl) from a bar along with some other success stories... But, still have issues with reducing flakes and building attraction reliably.

allowing myself to act in ways that i was not comfortable - ie having a "playful" frame, even though if my friends saw me, they'd probably think I was a flaming idiot. Not caring what others think, staying positive and being nice.

the-illuminator · 2009-09-27T06:52:36+00:00

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Title	Where are you and what's the best way you've advanced?
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Upvotes	6
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Date	September 26, 2009 2:49 PM UTC (16 years ago)
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