Hi, I'm not new to reddit (though this is a new username) or seduction, but new to seddit and am very happy to have found it thanks to one of the posts that made it to the frontpage.

Would like to ask if anyone has any particular tips on gaming a girl that is quite likely a player herself. She's obviously entertaining a few options at the moment, and I'm looking to close...we've been out a few times, simple kino, etc but I have yet to get her comfortable enough to the point of even a kiss close.

Asking her out is relatively difficult...we've been out many times however it's quite hard to get her to commit to dates. I seem to have better luck if I ask her on the same day rather than planning in future (any idea on why this could be? keeping options open for the day?).

And yes, I am currently pursuing other options which have resulted in much more closes. This one though, frustrates me endlessly.