For me, forums are still the best resource for information on self improvement and getting girls, and are probably where beginners here should start out. What are your favorites?

nocking · 2010-06-12T21:04:05+00:00

The best resource - bar none - is experience interacting with people.

The only personal challenge people have with pickup is overcoming issues with confidence. Everything else (fashon, lifestyle, interest) is technical and can be learned.

My recommendations would be to join a number of clubs where you are forced to socialise with others - team sports, discussion/reading groups (face to face!), dancing, etc.

There is a reason that jocks are "naturally" good at picking up girls, and it is solely down to their experience at interacting with others. If you perfect that skill and combine it with basic PUA techniques, you will be a god among men when it comes to picking up women.

djadvance22 · 2010-06-12T02:47:40+00:00

Currently, my main community resources are seddit and mASF. mASF was my introduction to the community and still remains my foundation. However, I started drifting away after a while when I found a lot of the advice given on there wasn't of the best quality. I've since learned to focus on specific members rather than reading whole threads . . . I find ijji to be the best member on there to learn from, and I'm disappointed that he's mainly posting just about fitness these days. I've also promised myself not to post on there until I actually have some significant field experience, in order to avoid being just another AFC clogging the forums. The main things I read these days are the Masterminds subforum and ijji's new posts.

arrrque · 2010-06-12T04:17:02+00:00

I heartily endorse Pavlina. His stuff is great, especially as you get into personal development and inner game stuff.

Interestingly enough, I discovered pick-up through Steve Pavlina > polyphasic sleep > Tynan (Herbal) > Pick-up. Funny.

djadvance22 · 2010-06-12T04:22:40+00:00

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