So Hooked up with a girl I had a crush on growing up. What Now?

Sublomino · 2010-06-23T07:28:49+00:00

Ah yes, we've entered the crippling don't want to fuck it up phase. It's always a shame when that happens, we get a great success and then we fuck it up by just looking ahead to the next goal, when instead you can just stop, and appreciate what you've got. It's time to accept success my friend. Be here, be in the moment. Appreciate this gift, the present. Appreciate means to grow, like how money appreciates in value, when you appreciate this experience you make it grow even bigger. Which is what you want, right? If you don't stop and appreciate it, thats when it withers away and dies.

Fleabiscuit · 2010-06-23T17:05:15+00:00

Well, I agree with your buddy. You did have her alone, naked, on your bed and you didn't fuck her? Really? She's obviously diggin you as evidenced by her going that far with you in the first place and then qualifying her continued interest by saying the things like "yeah good funny." But, that moment is in the past, forget about it and look toward the future. Why are you waiting until the 4th to see her again? I wouldn't hit her up right away again but maybe try to get something going for this weekend? Do you have her number? Stop with facebook and move to something more private between the two of you - i.e. start up some flirty texts and move toward closing something for THIS weekend. But honestly, I don't think you fucked anything up. You just didn't close when you could have - don't worry about it. Plan your next move.

pooflinga · 2010-06-23T18:52:17+00:00

Honestly, you probably could have fucked her, but you didnt screw anything up by not doing it. As far as the 4th is concerned I wouldnt 'wait' till the end of the night to try to make anything happen. Flirt/kino/escilate with her all night (along with other girls!). And quit thinking too much about the future. You got what you did partially becasue you wernt thinking you were gonna hook up with her, and therefor you were detached from the outcome! As Sublomino said, appreciate what you already got, and just enjoy the rest as it happens!

Oh, and for the love of god stop asking "Good funny/weird?"

Title	So Hooked up with a girl I had a crush on growing up. What Now?
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Date	June 23, 2010 6:07 AM UTC (16 years ago)
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