F Buddy or Relationship?

alexryane · 2010-08-11T14:40:14+00:00

First thing I notice is size and height - perfect height is about 4-8 inches shorter and I love petite girls! Then there's various other attributes: cute face, cute ass, etc.,

If she throws me some signs that definitely gets my attention and makes her more attractive. Smiling, glancing, trying to carry on the conversation etc. but subtly. There's a thrill in the chase but it should be a short and fun chase.

Sleeping with me on the first night, if she's into me, is a massive win because it shows me she's fun, open-minded, comfortable with herself and doesn't have any hang-ups or cultural issues with doing that. Lots of girls seem to think that if you sleep with a guy too soon, he'll lose interest and won't call you. This is kinda like the "girls don't like nice-guys" fallacy: its not that he lost interest because you slept with him, he lost interest because he wasn't really interested in the first place. He wasn't quite attracted but wanted to sleep with you once or twice. Stringing a guy along if he's not really attracted to you isn't gonna get anywhere. It will just hurt even more when you sleep with him after a couple of weeks and he leaves.

Personality is important if you're going to get along with a girl outside sex. If you have the same interests and get along in a friendly way that's perfect. Guys don't like moods, bitchiness, nagging, being told what to do and being screamed at. Guys love being happy, making girls happy, girls who let them make them happy and girls who like them. I know, its hard to believe! :P

The real relationship test is: after you've had sex, do you just want to get out of there / get her out of there as soon as possible and go and hang out with your friends, or do you think "hey, I could definitely spend some more time with this girl tonight". When I feel like that with a girl it's amazing, it's scary!

RedErin · 2010-08-11T14:14:19+00:00

Strange questions for this subreddit. I like fun loving people, the more uninhibited a person is the more attractive they are to me.

A lot of people don't really know how to make a relationship work. It takes a person who knows how to compromise and who isn't an asshole when they need to work out their problems. Very rare traits.

2010-08-12T03:49:46+00:00

1) When she's a terrible match for me 2) When she doesn't want to see me any more

Title	F Buddy or Relationship?
Author	venusrising
Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	August 10, 2010 10:02 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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