How do I work up the confidence to text a 9. Im used to hooking up with 5/10s and ive had sex only twice. Last night i hooked up with a 9/10 at a dark frat party without any talking beforehand. I got her number right when she was about to leave. She said she had to find her friends but told me to hit her up later. I did and she didnt answer, probably asleep but she texted me in the afternoon and i want to text her to grab lunch but i feel like shes way out of my league. How do i build up the confidence to do this and why does it feel so wierd. People say the battle is won before the fight even starts, and i feel like ive already lost.