I'm a god awful boring person. Tips on being more interesting?

moronometer · 2010-12-26T02:56:49+00:00

What are you interested in?

In the immortal words of Harvey Danger: "if you're bored than you're boring".

Some things I enjoy that ladies think of as "cool"- surfing, playing bass, camping/hiking, skydiving- just to name a few off the top of my head.

However, simply imitating me isn't going to help you develop a personality. If you don't want to meet cute surfer chicks, surfing is all wrong. If you don't like pretentious music-nerd hipster girls, a good jam band won't help you. If you aren't into the tomboys, hiking has little to offer you sex-wise.

See what I mean? The key to genuine friendships is finding common ground. I'd like to think seduction is all about getting the most from our relationships, and not just bullshitting people.

More importantly- getting good at stuff like sports and hobbies is a good confidence booster, amazingly fun, and a constant source of new, interesting people.

advicemcadvice · 2010-12-26T03:17:17+00:00

Travel! Get a neat hobby - anything that you really love. Also, read. And watch more than what is playing at the big megoplex. Watch documentaries and old movies and foreign films as well as mainstream movies. Get a different perspective on life.

Invisiblechimp · 2010-12-26T03:39:47+00:00

If you think you're boring, you are. If you think you're interesting then you are. If you're passionate about you interests then it shows.

DJ_Timelord13 · 2010-12-26T13:22:30+00:00

Watch the quiz show QI and tell some "did you know facts".

beacon_ · 2010-12-26T03:39:36+00:00

Do more stuff.

Title	I'm a god awful boring person. Tips on being more interesting?
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Date	December 26, 2010 2:46 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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