Happy New Years to everyone! I'm sure we'll be seeing a lot of FRs today but I just wanted to get this up early.
My night is very hazy because while girls were on my mind, it was really my first night home from college that I drank with my old friends and my goal was to get really drunk.
I show up to my friends house relatively early, no girls are there. Not a prob. I originally planned on coming later and walking in like I owned the place, but like I said, I would have rather spent time hanging with my friends.
I brought a bottle of Patron Cafe. It's espresso flavored Patron. It's very good and recommended because the girls love it as well. I play some beer pong while waiting for people to arrive. The people start flowing in and I'm being social, talking to everyone. I spot a girl, HB8, and engage in conversation with her. I don't remember how it started, but we talked about where she went to school (she's a freshman), etc. I gave her shit about being the typical freshman, how she probably "misses his betches" and can't wait to go back to school. I'm DHV the whole time because people keep walking in saying hi to me and I have 2 years of college experience on her. We talk about Greek life, etc.
During the conversation, I'm not giving her my full attention, but I am listening to everything she says. Typically, I laugh at a lot of things girls say because I don't want them to feel uncomfortable talking to me, but last night I really played the alpha role. I called her on her bullshit (in a joking manner) and had a good conversation. I offered her a shot of Patron, rounded up the group and did a round, and then ejected from the set to talk to other people, knowing I had planted a good seed in her head.
I engaged with a lot of other people. Most of the girls there were "taken" per say, as friends had invited them hoping to hook up with them. I respected their boundaries but this didn't stop me from talking to them, negging them, and dancing with them. I look like the AMOG and was getting a lot of attention from everyone.
Knowing how seduction works, I almost feel bad my friends because they display typical AFC qualities. One friend was too nice to the girl he was with and she wasn't responding well to it. She looked like she needed a guy to push her up against a wall and make out with her. My other friend though was an AMOG like me. It was his house, but it looked like me and him ran the place. We were unintentionally winging each other, DHV each other, etc, without even discussing it. We looked like we really didn't give a fuck.
At around 11:45, I decide to re-engage with HB8. She's in the kitchen. I go up to her and grab her hand and say "come here for a minute." I pull her into the living room where no one is and say to her "So you're going to be my New Years Kiss." I pause and say "But we have to practice" and then immediately go in for the kiss. I'm the first one to pull away and make her come back for more. We continue hooking up until the ball drops, celebrate for a minute, and then go back at it. I wanted to take her to a bedroom, but they were all taken. I told her to come back to my car with me. I had a pillow and blanket in there because I knew I was sleeping out. She LMR'd and I DQ'd her by telling her "it's okay, you're not really my type." This got her going and she straddled me and continued kissing me, telling me "You know I usually don't do this."
I didn't push the "let's go to the car" issue as I was honestly very drunk at this point, but we kissed for the rest of the night. I still didn't give her my full attention. She threw some lines out there that I didn't know how to handle like "You seem like you do this all the time." I've gotten that before and don't know how to respond to it, so I re-framed and changed the subject.
Sometime during this, I gave her my phone and told her to put her number in it.
When her friends were leaving and she was walking out the door, I grabbed her and said to her friends, "Hold on I need to borrow her for a minute" and started kissing her again. We stopped and she went on her way. As she was leaving, I jokingly said something mean to her (I was smiling but she wasn't looking) and a few people went "Ohhhh." I guess I crossed the line, but I honestly didn't care because I knew that if she liked what she got tonight, it wouldn't really matter what I said.
She texted me a few min later "fuck you" but the way I took it, she was not really mad and instead looking for a little attention. I looked at my phone, laughed, and put it away, thinking "I'll make her wait and text her tomorrow."
Today, I sent her the text "Happy New Years lady. What up" and she responded almost instantly with a good response.
Successful night. Here are some things I learned: -Don't be afraid to be "Aggressive" -- Girls want you to take control. -It's the little things that count.
By changing little aspects of my actions (not agreeing/laughing at everything a girl says, throwing an occasional neg, escalating kino), I was able to K-Close a girl so easily. I didn't even think about openers, lines, etc. I used the basics of seduction and built it into my personality. I seemed and felt natural.
It was a good night and since we're both on our college breaks now, we'll see if I can F-close before we go back.
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